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By *erroca OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Morning fabbers...

So, whilst sitting here, enjoying a coffee and deciding what to wear today, it made me think.

What do you wear to a play meet.

do you dress casual and then change when you arrive, do you pull out all the stops and get all dolled up, dress up and then dress down?

Do you change attire during the evening?

What do ladies like a man to wear for a meet and same to guys, what's your ideal outfit, for the lovely lady you're meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I turn up and she ain't in a clown costume, I'm leaving.

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By *erroca OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"If I turn up and she ain't in a clown costume, I'm leaving. "

Do you have a discussion on attire before a meet, or do you just get disappointed if no clown costume is on show?

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Generally will be smart casual for me. Nice shirt (cufflinks if long sleeves), jeans or maybe chinos. Nice shoes.

Always fresh and smelling nice with hair done too.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m usually wearing a business suit. I can do casual though and either works for me and hopefully works for the woman I’m meeting

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Smart casual unless on bike. Then sometimes I rock up with 501 jeans sans undies, and a smart top under motorcycle jacket.....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I usually dress casual especially for a first meet for any that follow it all depends I usually have nice lingerie on underneath anyhow .

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Morning fabbers...

So, whilst sitting here, enjoying a coffee and deciding what to wear today, it made me think.

What do you wear to a play meet.

do you dress casual and then change when you arrive, do you pull out all the stops and get all dolled up, dress up and then dress down?

Do you change attire during the evening?

What do ladies like a man to wear for a meet and same to guys, what's your ideal outfit, for the lovely lady you're meeting?"

I have never expected anyone to do anything special. Smart casual in clothes that suit complement them. I would meet a person for who they are and not how they dress.

Those that turn up like Wayne and Waynetta (there have been a few over the years) or turn up like they have just walked off a low quality porn set, would walk away

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

always look smart with shirt, jeans and shoes as first impressions mean a lot and always smelling fresh and good is also important on a first meet I feel

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Just arrive looking smart. I would be happy to wear something fetishy if it had been discussed.

Perhaps not while checking into a hotel unless under a long coat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wear anything any differently to any other time I go out to meet people. I prefer those I meet to do the same. There is really very little need for overcomplicated clothing as it's coming off within minutes of meeting so what's the point??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they turn up it’s a good start :p

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

What about you op? What do you wear and what would you like your meet to wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a day time meet I will probably turn up in a summer dress and high sandles.

Night time meet would probably be the standard black dress and high heels type thing.

Both would always have the sexy/naughty lingerie on underneath if I knew it was a play meet though.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Smart casual unless on bike. Then sometimes I rock up with 501 jeans sans undies, and a smart top under motorcycle jacket....."

I'll PM you my address.....

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Smart casual unless it's really hot then shorts will be on

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"If its a day time meet I will probably turn up in a summer dress and high sandles.

Night time meet would probably be the standard black dress and high heels type thing.

Both would always have the sexy/naughty lingerie on underneath if I knew it was a play meet though. "

Wanna get naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a day time meet I will probably turn up in a summer dress and high sandles.

Night time meet would probably be the standard black dress and high heels type thing.

Both would always have the sexy/naughty lingerie on underneath if I knew it was a play meet though.

Wanna get naked "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Whatever is top in my chest of drawers.

I don't dress to impress as I'm here for great sex, not as eye candy.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Although I'm not attracted to men wearing grubby trainers and years old tracksuits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same kind of thing I wear everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally will be smart casual for me. Nice shirt (cufflinks if long sleeves), jeans or maybe chinos. Nice shoes.

Always fresh and smelling nice with hair done too.

"

Oooft - hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually wearing a business suit. I can do casual though and either works for me and hopefully works for the woman I’m meeting "

A man in a suit - also hot

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping


"I don't wear anything any differently to any other time I go out to meet people. I prefer those I meet to do the same. There is really very little need for overcomplicated clothing as it's coming off within minutes of meeting so what's the point?? "
yes ,this ,sometimes I have hike and picnic outdoor meets sometimes,best to wear something with easy access and doesn't matter if you get a bit mucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just a polo top and jeans or chinos… smart casual

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By *erroca OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"What about you op? What do you wear and what would you like your meet to wear? "

For a first initial social meet, I'd wear something casual, shorts or a skirt, normally Dr Martens*other boots are available.

For a play meet, I like to get dressed up a bit more, can't go wrong with a little black dress and I like to get changed through the evening, freshen up a bit, quick outfit change.. Can have lots of fun, with or without clothes.

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

First impressions are very important. I arrive dressed smart casual and smelling nice. My fingernails are cut and filed I do my best to put my playmate/s at ease from the moment I meet them.

It's about having pride in myself and respect for those I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused why people are having to specify basic hygiene.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

After last night I don’t think I’ll bother anymore

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I dress how I'm feeling on the day! Meets on a nudist beach are my favourite because I don't have to think about clothes at all!

I'm most comfortable naked or in rope, outfits for clubs rather than the bedroom, they never stay on long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"What about you op? What do you wear and what would you like your meet to wear?

For a first initial social meet, I'd wear something casual, shorts or a skirt, normally Dr Martens*other boots are available.

For a play meet, I like to get dressed up a bit more, can't go wrong with a little black dress and I like to get changed through the evening, freshen up a bit, quick outfit change.. Can have lots of fun, with or without clothes. "

Sounds perfect. I love the outfit changes! It is not so easy for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning fabbers...

So, whilst sitting here, enjoying a coffee and deciding what to wear today, it made me think.

What do you wear to a play meet.

do you dress casual and then change when you arrive, do you pull out all the stops and get all dolled up, dress up and then dress down?

Do you change attire during the evening?

What do ladies like a man to wear for a meet and same to guys, what's your ideal outfit, for the lovely lady you're meeting?"

A nice low top, bra, leggings, heels is my usual meet attire. If he asks for something specific then I change there. I've come home with just a bra on with heels a couple if times, with a coat on though! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wear a dress with some pretty lingerie on underneath just incase we decided to fuck. It's my go to outfit every day anyway but most of the time my underwear doesn't match and isn't sexy enough.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I wear something that I feel happy in, something that I feel makes me look nice

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Casual for social meet.

I don’t really do sexy clothing tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a nice dress normally, natural make up, and depending on the weather, boots or sandals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual but tidy !!

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