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"Probably not wasting their valuable time on the forum " Oh, I don't know. It passes the time | |||
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"What's a genuine dominant? " Its one who isn't just one on Tuesday afternoons, or something. | |||
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"There are some on here, but it’s luck if the draw, finding someone who matches you and your preferences. I found mine on here " It’s sure is luck! I’m out | |||
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"Exactly, and that’s one way to you can figure out they're fake! It’s probably a long shot finding genuine Dom’s on here. Fem or Male! " Same finding subs. | |||
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"Exactly, and that’s one way to you can figure out they're fake! It’s probably a long shot finding genuine Dom’s on here. Fem or Male! Same finding subs. " I would of thought that’s easier, as it seems a lot of women want to be submissive. Or maybe it’s more difficult to find a sub for a Mistress | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? " Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! | |||
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"Exactly, and that’s one way to you can figure out they're fake! It’s probably a long shot finding genuine Dom’s on here. Fem or Male! Same finding subs. I would of thought that’s easier, as it seems a lot of women want to be submissive. Or maybe it’s more difficult to find a sub for a Mistress" It didn't use to be. I have a totally unproven theory: men were dominant in the workplace. All my subs were over 50, high fliers who just wanted to relinquish a part of their life to someone else. Nowadays, with remote working, equality in the workplace, life in general there's no need. That sounded clearer in my head, but I trust you get what I mean. | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! " Insightful lol Each sub likes to be treated differently though, so what you need may be different to what I need in terms of scenes, aftercare, communication etc. Doesn't make the Dom's I play with or the Dom's you play with any less genuine, does it? I agree that that there are too many on here that offer Dominant type profiles but think it's just about rough sex or barking orders at you. But then this isn't a BDSM specific site | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! " How do they know these things? | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! " What is real. Something that's real. Someone who knows they are real. Someone who knows how to treat those that are unreal. Either you are real or you are not. that's my take on it anyhoooo. | |||
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"Don’t they all think they are genuine?" They think therefore they are | |||
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"Don’t they all think they are genuine?" In my opinion they are if they consider themselves to be. It's up to the individuals within a relationship to define what's "genuine" for them | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! How do they know these things?" Sigh ...... here I go again. Someone who is strong will know what it is to be strong. They will know how to treat the 'not strong'. Either you are strong or you are not! That's my take on it any hooooooo. | |||
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"Exactly, and that’s one way to you can figure out they're fake! It’s probably a long shot finding genuine Dom’s on here. Fem or Male! Same finding subs. " Too many male and fem subs on this site As for Dom men yes they are very special rare talent Just like the Dom women | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse." Also just to be clear, I cringed inside typing that last paragraph. I hate labels. I believe Ds are just like other relationships, with a few sprinkles on top | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse." Yep. In my opinion | |||
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"It will be interesting to see how many post publicly to say they are doms. I guess the very dominant ones are out dominating " Conquer and dominate | |||
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"There was a very goid dim. On here a while back called the Friendly Dom. He was fantastic. Taught my fuck buddy how to be sub and dom towards me. Mind fucking games. Texts. Phone calls. Correct lighting. Correct music. All these things were very important. And then when all 3vof us met for the first tk e it was electric. We all knew how to make it special for all of us with very little effort. He had been the guy we had been looking for for 3 years. Shame he is off the site niw. Can't get out anymore due to the suspicions of his wife. Shame though. " Yeah ..... Those fucking suspicious wives..... something should be done. | |||
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"If you play me at Risk you will be destroyed! " I've never played risk. Never been destroyed. Vine ...... am I alive ? | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse. Also just to be clear, I cringed inside typing that last paragraph. I hate labels. I believe Ds are just like other relationships, with a few sprinkles on top" What if someone wants their pussy grabbing and their throat slapping ..... does that work for you? | |||
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"If you play me at Risk you will be destroyed! I've never played risk. Never been destroyed. Vine ...... am I alive ? " You are very much alive Granny! | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse. Also just to be clear, I cringed inside typing that last paragraph. I hate labels. I believe Ds are just like other relationships, with a few sprinkles on top What if someone wants their pussy grabbing and their throat slapping ..... does that work for you?" sorry GC. Your kink isn't my kink. But I hope you don't feel judged. Also you are probably the best and funniest forumite. Please don't change | |||
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"If you play me at Risk you will be destroyed! I've never played risk. Never been destroyed. Vine ...... am I alive ? You are very much alive Granny! " Knew i could rely on you Dr. Vine | |||
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" What if someone wants their pussy grabbing and their throat slapping ..... does that work for you?" And I'm just a fat dude who got lucky 25 years ago and found a woman who liked to do the things he liked. There are lots and lots of people much better at bdsm and sex on here than I am. | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse. Also just to be clear, I cringed inside typing that last paragraph. I hate labels. I believe Ds are just like other relationships, with a few sprinkles on top What if someone wants their pussy grabbing and their throat slapping ..... does that work for you?sorry GC. Your kink isn't my kink. But I hope you don't feel judged. Also you are probably the best and funniest forumite. Please don't change" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! | |||
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"What makes someone a genuine dominant? Someone who is a genuine Dominant will know what it is to be a Dom. Know how to treat his/her sub. Either you are or you’re not! How do they know these things?" True, last thing to discover water would be fish. Well unless the fish have been watching Nemo does Darwin. | |||
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"That's sounds a bit porny. Let's just call it finding Charlie" Too druggy ? Finding Darwie. | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year!" But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!! | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!!" That’s not a Dom , that’s not what would work for me anyway (I know it’s jokes) | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!!" Remember that everyone. I am the Dom ! All I need now is a grey and sepia photo with an Oxfam leather belt around my fist and everyone will know im genuine...... | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!! That’s not a Dom , that’s not what would work for me anyway (I know it’s jokes)" Stop it F.A. ! I have a silicon toilet brush that gets everywhere! Remember that | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!! That’s not a Dom , that’s not what would work for me anyway (I know it’s jokes) Stop it F.A. ! I have a silicon toilet brush that gets everywhere! Remember that " Ive seen those. Look dreadfully hygenic. | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!! That’s not a Dom , that’s not what would work for me anyway (I know it’s jokes) Stop it F.A. ! I have a silicon toilet brush that gets everywhere! Remember that " all joking aside that sounds like a useful toy. | |||
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" Thanks but you spoiled it now! I wanted you to say YEP I can do that....... then i'd be the dom. You have passed the 'genuine' test. Full marks..... go up one year! But I feel bad that I spoiled it!! So I succeed and pass the test but still end up feeling bad ... you ARE the dom!!! That’s not a Dom , that’s not what would work for me anyway (I know it’s jokes) Stop it F.A. ! I have a silicon toilet brush that gets everywhere! Remember that " I don’t know whether to be excited, horrified or disgusted | |||
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"Fake dom here, but don’t tell anyone!" We can be bought of for an exorbitant amount of money ...... or a read of your book........ you choose fake dom! | |||
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"Do they not have to go to Dom School and get certified genuine?? Then and only then can they can use the letters DOM before their name " And add the word 'Professional ' in their profile bio | |||
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"I'm a female Domme, I also find it hard to find true submissives, they say this they say that..but all they want is to fuck I think it might be better going to a club or munch for the fetish lifestyle than finding someone on here " That's logical and correct but people active in the scene will also tell you how difficult it is to find someone there. Bdsm is hard. Finding the right connections can be difficult | |||
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"Don’t they all think they are genuine?" I start with the words they use in messages. Messages that say they want to "use and abuse" me in the first message, pretty much makes me realise that they don't understand that it's based on respect and trust. | |||
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"When I read the title of your thread I groaned a little inside. The genuine/true dom tag is a tricky one to pin on people. Or to claim. I'm very suspicious of anyone who claims a title in their name for example. It just doesn't sit right with me. And we all sit on a spectrum. So Domly dom might measure 100 on the scale and part time dom might only measure 25. But if part time dom finds someone who gives him control of an aspect of their lives then he is just as much a dominant. You might find Mr A quite dominant. He might be your ideal dom. But he might not be suitable for another submissive woman. So what's genuine to you might be a "fake" to another. I am a Dominant in my relationship. But if you want someone who will tickle you to tears and call you princess then I'm not the Dominant for you. But if you want your throat grabbed and pussy slapped then I'm more your type. D/s is complicated and quite diverse." The male that gets to hold my throat wouldn't class himself as a "Dom" nor would I want him to. Conversely I wouldn't deem myself as dominant but in the wrong mood and an unsuspecting female generally in group situations with consent. I can be wicked but these are few and far between. Each to their beautiful own | |||
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