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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking for help on securing that first meet profile help and more really keen on the whole scene and want more! Please help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a state to help anyone this morning

However.. warm welcome !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's CNC & DDLG?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG? "

I think they're aftershaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want advice on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

I think they're aftershaves

Knock offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want advice on your profile?"

Here comes the guru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG? "

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome op

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche"

Bit weird too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche"

Thanks Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

Bit weird too

Depends what you're into, I try to avoid kink shaming personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

Bit weird too

It might not be your thing, but coming on a newbies thread and kink shaming is hardly welcoming

You could have just kept that thought in your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

Bit weird too

Best to keep that to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

????yeh help advise would be great

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I'm not in a state to help anyone this morning

However.. warm welcome !

too many jaffa cakes?

Welcome op

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"????yeh help advise would be great "

Professional guy into chemistry. Are you a scientist ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

Bit weird too

Depends what you're into, I try to avoid kink shaming personally"

My thoughts exactly. They are not my thing but they are popular with plenty of people. We are all weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's CNC & DDLG?

CNC - consensual non consent

DDLG - daddy Dom/ little girl

Both quite niche

Bit weird too

Well, that makes us wierd...kink shaming... Really?

Welcome op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not in a state to help anyone this morning

However.. warm welcome !

too many jaffa cakes?

Welcome op"

How did you know.

I should have watched my intake.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Welcome OP

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I'm not in a state to help anyone this morning

However.. warm welcome !

too many jaffa cakes?

Welcome op

How did you know.

I should have watched my intake. "

I did offer to watch

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

One mans weird is another mans wonderful. Those that live in glass houses should not throw stones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Op welcome to the wire wonderful world of fab forums

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I'm not in a state to help anyone this morning

However.. warm welcome !

One too many Jaffa cakes last night Rose?

And welcome OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"????yeh help advise would be great "

Robbie I think your profile picture is great but would look even better if you cropped off the black borders.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Good morning OP.. Welcome. Your profile is a nice start. More photos would be good.. everyone likes something different to look at in a profile so be yourself and get creative.

In your blurb, put your personality across, use good grammar and say what you like as well as what you have to offer.. I like 'chatty' profiles, warm and positive. Negatives and demanding put me off.

Don't forget you can edit and re edit until you get it how you want it.

Enjoy, it's a nice process of expressing yourself.

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Apologies all , meant weird as "strange" in the context of not heard of it before wrong choice of words my bad cnc in my world is Computer Numerical Control lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome OP only advice I can give is be yourself, read profiles and be patient when it comes finding meets

Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks and thanks to all the stunners who took the time to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also what’s OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also what’s OP? "

The person who starts a thread, so you in this case!

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Also what’s OP? "

Original post or original poster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks and thanks to all the stunners who took the time to help "

Here's another thing...

Engage with guys as well as women, certainly in the forums

No one is gonna jump your bones

'Established' men can be as helpful as the women, cos most will have made the mistakes and faux pa's that you might

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why state your age and where you're from in your profile text?

That info is already available elsewhere on your profile.

I'd also lose the bit about having had the prifile a while but not having been on much - it's pointless.

Other than that, thete's not really much to go on.

If you ask me, it looks like something that you knocked up in a couple of minutes and didn't put any thought into.

Anyone looking at it will assume you'll put the sane lack of effort into a meet.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you ask me, it looks like something that you knocked up in a couple of minutes and didn't put any thought into.

Anyone looking at it will assume you'll put the sane lack of effort into a meet."

Especially as you have had the profile for over a year. Have you considered deleting it and starting a brand new one ?

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