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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up …….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up ……."

Did they not even bother to cancel ???

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

They are just the Walter Mitty types.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up ……."

That's just plain bad manners!

It would be nice to have meets arranged though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up …….

Did they not even bother to cancel ??? "

Not a sausage now blocked wtaf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are just the Walter Mitty types."

Just infuriating

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Nfk/Sfk/Cam

Some people are just arses

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up ……."

So fucking annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are just arses "

I’m starting to learn that the hard way ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up …….

Did they not even bother to cancel ???

Not a sausage now blocked wtaf"

Plain rude. to be fair, probably you are better off as they have showed 0 respect

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"They are just the Walter Mitty types.

Just infuriating "

Damn right. I never qrrange unless they're verified.

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By *axine500Woman
over a year ago

Dawlish

Ha, tell me about it!! Really fed up of guys not bothering to tell me they are not coming or pretending that it was me that didn't turn up. So frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha, tell me about it!! Really fed up of guys not bothering to tell me they are not coming or pretending that it was me that didn't turn up. So frustrating!"

If I hear one more bloke moan that no one meets I’m gonna lose my shit !!!!!

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up ……."

I pulled out of the first meet i arranged. Id never just no show. I pulled out because i was nervous but that was because we hadnt reslly chatted much and she hadnt sent a face pic. There csn be lots of reasons for csncelling but a no show is rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up …….

I pulled out of the first meet i arranged. Id never just no show. I pulled out because i was nervous but that was because we hadnt reslly chatted much and she hadnt sent a face pic. There csn be lots of reasons for csncelling but a no show is rude "

Which is fair enough but I think cancelling is the minimum respect we can all agree

I totally understand if someone is nervous and don’t feel comfortable anymore. Actually it’s admirable to admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha, tell me about it!! Really fed up of guys not bothering to tell me they are not coming or pretending that it was me that didn't turn up. So frustrating!

If I hear one more bloke moan that no one meets I’m gonna lose my shit !!!!!"

You have a very recent verification so your not doing too badly.

While no shows are a frustration, this happens to everyone not exclusively to you. Although it's hard to take these are the risks in doing this.

Good luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha, tell me about it!! Really fed up of guys not bothering to tell me they are not coming or pretending that it was me that didn't turn up. So frustrating!

If I hear one more bloke moan that no one meets I’m gonna lose my shit !!!!!

You have a very recent verification so your not doing too badly.

Not sure how that is relevant

But you’re right I won’t be so trusting next time

While no shows are a frustration, this happens to everyone not exclusively to you. Although it's hard to take these are the risks in doing this.

Good luck in the future"

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"What really goes through peoples heads when plans are arranged and they just don’t turn up …….

I pulled out of the first meet i arranged. Id never just no show. I pulled out because i was nervous but that was because we hadnt reslly chatted much and she hadnt sent a face pic. There csn be lots of reasons for csncelling but a no show is rude

Which is fair enough but I think cancelling is the minimum respect we can all agree

I totally understand if someone is nervous and don’t feel comfortable anymore. Actually it’s admirable to admit it "

Thanks. I messaged her and said i wanted to postpone and perhaps estsblish a social only first meet to take pressure off but she blocked me after that. Oh well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok let's leave it there before people start getting banned.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't do extensive sex chat or pic swap on here as that's all some people are after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do extensive sex chat or pic swap on here as that's all some people are after.

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I like to get to meeting even if it’s just a coffee see if there a connection

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Haven't had it happen yet but no doubt it will at some point. I've only ever had to cancel once but I let him know in plenty of time.

Some people are just a waste of oxygen. Sorry it happened to you OP x

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By *enji 100Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

Its happened to me tonight, was supposed to meet, person just no showed, no replies to my messages now just nothing!! Ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't had it happen yet but no doubt it will at some point. I've only ever had to cancel once but I let him know in plenty of time.

Some people are just a waste of oxygen. Sorry it happened to you OP x"

Thank you I’ll pull my big girl knickers up and crack on to the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its happened to me tonight, was supposed to meet, person just no showed, no replies to my messages now just nothing!! Ridiculous"

Such bad manners and wasted time

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"Haven't had it happen yet but no doubt it will at some point. I've only ever had to cancel once but I let him know in plenty of time.

Some people are just a waste of oxygen. Sorry it happened to you OP x

Thank you I’ll pull my big girl knickers up and crack on to the next "

Pick yourself up, dust yourself down..... it's their loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy has felt he had to come on to this thread to defend himself.

He also said he offered a social first which in my experience a lot of women on this forum insist on.

Adding comments like 'a waste of oxygen' is provoking trouble and not helpful.

There are always two sides to a story. He has felt the need to come in here and defend himself.

Instead of implying guilt try to be fair and balanced.

That's being an adult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The guy has felt he had to come on to this thread to defend himself.

He also said he offered a social first which in my experience a lot of women on this forum insist on.

Adding comments like 'a waste of oxygen' is provoking trouble and not helpful.

There are always two sides to a story. He has felt the need to come in here and defend himself.

Instead of implying guilt try to be fair and balanced.

That's being an adult. "

I don’t know this man and that’s his experience nothing to do with my no show !!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"The guy has felt he had to come on to this thread to defend himself.

He also said he offered a social first which in my experience a lot of women on this forum insist on.

Adding comments like 'a waste of oxygen' is provoking trouble and not helpful.

There are always two sides to a story. He has felt the need to come in here and defend himself.

Instead of implying guilt try to be fair and balanced.

That's being an adult. "

You read his posts wrong, he wasn't talking about the OP.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

To the Op, the forum is not to ait dirty washing, block and report if needed instead please

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