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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk

It’s time to accept that a friend here on fab just no longer wants to stay in touch, I’ve tried to message a few times but I’m not going to pester. It’s a shame but it’s the way the cookie crumbles, at least it’s Friday and it’s the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, and the purpose of this? Do you feel better now you've publicly voiced it?

Was that a dig at her, is she going to see this?

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Ok, and the purpose of this? Do you feel better now you've publicly voiced it?

Was that a dig at her, is she going to see this?"

No it’s not a dig, I didn’t realise that you are the forum police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come and go. That is not necessarily failure. That is life.

One door closes another opens. Stay positive, my dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, and the purpose of this? Do you feel better now you've publicly voiced it?

Was that a dig at her, is she going to see this?

No it’s not a dig, I didn’t realise that you are the forum police "

If I were my jails would be full!

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


"People come and go. That is not necessarily failure. That is life.

One door closes another opens. Stay positive, my dude! "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Make new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s difficult not knowing the circumstances but we have to accept and respect someone’s decision however hard and difficult that maybe. In time they will either come back or you’ll move on

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

You know what it’s like here. Christ I’m shit at keeping in contact with anyone.. even those I adore and have known years. Sometimes people just can’t or don’t want to talk.. it’s not necessarily personal.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

This may or might not apply but I saw a meme a while ago that raised a smile.

"All those bf's women made during lockdown on zoom.. won't be ever seen". There's comedy dust from a roadrunner cartoon.

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


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Thanks Yas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Count your rainbows not your thunder storms

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


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Count your rainbows not your thunder storms "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m awful go for remembering to reply!

And then the message who I want to reply to has disappeared!

Sometimes I don’t log in for months

So apologies to all when I’ve ghosted

I didn’t mean too

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also who knows , they might be back eventually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget.

Move on .

People do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m terrible at keeping conversation going, I always feel like I have nothing interesting going on in my life and I bore them. X

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I’m terrible at keeping conversation going, I always feel like I have nothing interesting going on in my life and I bore them. X "

I’m sure you don’t x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *.R.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Norfolk


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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


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Your lovely

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think its hard not having closure on something, especially if you have had a good connection in more ways than one!

I agree

Hopefully you will meet new friends soon lovely

Take care

Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concentrate on the friends that do keep in touch ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess your point is, it wouldn’t take much just to say sorry but I?

A) don’t have time for this

B) don’t think this is going to work

C) don’t bother me any more

D) or something completely different

At least you would know one way or the other and wouldn’t waste any more time on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m terrible at keeping conversation going, I always feel like I have nothing interesting going on in my life and I bore them. X

I’m sure you don’t x"

Thanks. Though everyone hasn’t much going on this past 2 years x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Genuine question.

Is this friend someone you’ve met? Someone you’ve had a meal with? Someone you’ve been to the pub with? For a walk? Someone you chat to on the phone?

Or is it someone you just messaged on Fab?

I knew a lady who used to talk about this friend and that friend. When I asked her, these were people she had never met, never actually spoken to, in real life. It turned out she didn’t have any friends at all. Just “virtual” people on various Facebook groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have to accept things .... when it’s time it’s time ...

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