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By *ic_khan2341 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It always surprises me, that during swinging some people may not want to kiss, yet they happily do oral.

Why is that they don't kiss?

To intimate? To romantic? Disease risk? Man too ugly?

Vic

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Intimacy I think

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By *ainsb1Man
over a year ago

North Lincs/S.Yorks

I just think it changes it to a romantic feel for some and that isn't what it's about. I can't say I'm keen on kissing someone I am not romantically linked to. It's just a preference that has to be made clear before any meet.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Some people consider it to intimate & save kissing for a partner if married

I enjoy kissing but I just admit it's harder to fake enjoyment of a bad kiss than it is bad sex

I also personally wouldn't kiss someone with a beard but I'd also generally turn down a meet with someone with facial hair (or any body hair for that matter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me kissing is a big part of sex, I couldn't really imagine doing it without kissing. Having said that, if I was swinging with a partner, I can understand why some couples reserve that as a way of keeping it special for them.

I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss though, it would feel very clinical I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss for me is like a handshake but I also understand why some find it very personal.

I can separate pleasure from lover.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It always surprises me, that during swinging some people may not want to kiss, yet they happily do oral.

Why is that they don't kiss?

To intimate? To romantic? Disease risk? Man too ugly?

Vic "

We just don't want to. It's a preference like all the other preferences

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