FabSwingers.com forum: Being outed to your parents.

By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

So I’ve just got off the phone to my mum. Apparently some complete dick has told my parents I’m on here. They’ve screenshot my pics and printed them off, along with my profile and posted them through my parents door.

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally out of order! What a complete knob jokey!

No you shouldn’t be ashamed there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Nobody wants their parents knowing about their sex life though, I hope things are ok for you

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh that is right shitty behaviour. Sorry it's happened to you OP. Hopefully it doesn't cause you too much grief.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Was it stamped and posted by mail or hand delivered?

If it was hand delivered and your parents have CCTV I'd go down the find the cunt and get them done for revenge porn avenue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve just got off the phone to my mum. Apparently some complete dick has told my parents I’m on here. They’ve screenshot my pics and printed them off, along with my profile and posted them through my parents door.

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

Rant over.

Bloody ell, you are 40 years young... Sod the sad bastards, who've done that...

Own it love, with your head held high xxx

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Despicable and cowardly behaviour. I hope poetic justice is served.

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By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Was it stamped and posted by mail or hand delivered?

If it was hand delivered and your parents have CCTV I'd go down the find the cunt and get them done for revenge porn avenue "

Hand delivered, no stamp.

And unfortunately they don’t have CCTV.

I’m just so angry.

I really enjoy my time on here. But now just feel violated, which I know is stupid.

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By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Oh that is right shitty behaviour. Sorry it's happened to you OP. Hopefully it doesn't cause you too much grief. "

Thank you.

Not d sad o much grief, I’m just concerned as my dads not long home from hospital after a stroke and this has upset him... he’s 78.

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By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Totally out of order! What a complete knob jokey!

No you shouldn’t be ashamed there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Nobody wants their parents knowing about their sex life though, I hope things are ok for you

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so messed up. I am so sorry. I will never be able to figure some people out. What a very strange person. I hope you're OK. X

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Oh that is right shitty behaviour. Sorry it's happened to you OP. Hopefully it doesn't cause you too much grief.

Thank you.

Not d sad o much grief, I’m just concerned as my dads not long home from hospital after a stroke and this has upset him... he’s 78. "

Oh bless I hope he has a speedy recovery. What a blinking idiot of a person to do this to you. Just no need it's teenager level of childishness.

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By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

Rant over.

Bloody ell, you are 40 years young... Sod the sad bastards, who've done that...

Own it love, with your head held high xxx

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it stamped and posted by mail or hand delivered?

If it was hand delivered and your parents have CCTV I'd go down the find the cunt and get them done for revenge porn avenue

Hand delivered, no stamp.

And unfortunately they don’t have CCTV.

I’m just so angry.

I really enjoy my time on here. But now just feel violated, which I know is stupid. "

Not stupid at all!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Was it stamped and posted by mail or hand delivered?

If it was hand delivered and your parents have CCTV I'd go down the find the cunt and get them done for revenge porn avenue

Hand delivered, no stamp.

And unfortunately they don’t have CCTV.

I’m just so angry.

I really enjoy my time on here. But now just feel violated, which I know is stupid. "

It isn't stupid to feel that way, I promise.

It IS a violation.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Sorry to hear about this. Right crappy behaviour. Hold your head high, like you said, fab has helped you move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

Rant over.

Bloody ell, you are 40 years young... Sod the sad bastards, who've done that...

Own it love, with your head held high xxx

Thank you.

x "

..That's really vindictive.

-Sending positive vibes.

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By *ayjay218Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Just a reptile and I don’t see what gain or pleasure that the person gets from doing that!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Sending massive hugs OP. Although I know that doesn't help.

It's utter scum that would do something like that. I've had similar in the past and it's horrendous. I hope you, your mum and especially your dad are ok and this doesn't have a negative effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact the police. This is harassment. There are several things they can possibly access. First is the ability to check if anywhere else around may have any camera footage. Second, they can request the server access log from the site owners. The access logs are nothing to do with the who looked at you list and it is quite trivial to "reverse engineer" how any unique person has interacted with the site. It also means you have it documented if anything further happens.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

What a dreadful thing to do

I’m so sorry this happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to be reading this OP, what an absolute vile thing to do.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Wow there is no need for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a nice thing to do, hope all goes well.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

That’s a horrible thing for someone to do. I can’t understand what someone would hope to gain from that. I hope it only strengthens the relationship between you and your parents.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just wow, why the hell would someone do that?

I'm sorry you've had this op

Hope you're ok and your parents too

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh that is right shitty behaviour. Sorry it's happened to you OP. Hopefully it doesn't cause you too much grief.

Thank you.

Not d sad o much grief, I’m just concerned as my dads not long home from hospital after a stroke and this has upset him... he’s 78. "

Sorry about your Father - hopefully he can see it for the hateful, vindictive person who's done that - rather than you being on a site like this.

All the best sweet xxx

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

Rant over.

Some people are just VILE. Hold your head up

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Unbelievably cruel and immature. Sorry to hear this OP. Hope you are feeling the love and support from everyone above. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just shitty. But know that we all support you on here. And if you ever find out who did it...just let us know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry this happened to you. That’s truly terrible. I hope your family, and especially your dad are all ok.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Something similar happened to us. People sharing pictures etc. It was my own fault for putting my face on public pics but like you I felt violated, felt I couldn’t trust anyone had to completley change everything and that I couldn’t be myself any more. You think everyone’s on this for the same reason but it only takes one dick to ruin ya x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Not stupid to feel the way you do OP.

A similar thing happened to me with printed pictures shared with people who knew me. I wanted to curl into a ball and hide away for good. Took me a few week to pluck up courage to brazen it out.

Some nasty fuckers out there. I often wondered who did it to me but I still don’t know for sure.

V x

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By *lueeyedboy1818Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Omg how wrong I'm angry for you hope you get hold of whom ever thought they could do such a vile thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like it is getting more and more common from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing it’s someone local to me that I’ve turned down.

I’m not embarrassed to be on here. I spent years in a shitty, abusive relationship and Fab has helped me regain most of the confidence I lost during those years.

But this is MY private life.

Whoever you are... you are a complete dick!

Rant over.

My god, literally seem like people have nothing better to do! What the heck… I’m so sorry that you have to deal with dicks like that x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

What the hell! What is wrong with some people? This is just awful, so sorry, really hope you’re ok xx

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Totally out of order why anyone would do that is way too much even if its someone you turned down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, how awful and I'm sorry to hear this happened to you and you parents. Elle x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Outing people is fucking scummy, and just shows the mentality of the person that did it.

They aren’t happy so want to ruin yours

I would contact the police, its revenge porn and harassment. The purpose of this was to cause distress and upset and whoever it was deserves to be prosecuted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no understanding why some people do these things. How sad their life must be to think they get a kick out of doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s horrible. Cowardly. So sorry that’s happened to you. Had a similar thing happen years ago. Wasn’t as bad as this sounds though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge huge hugs. I know that won't help in any way, other than you'll know that I, like everyone else here , feels that what's happened is just disgusting.

Some people are just utter arseholes x

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Really feel for you OP. I had similar few years back. Someone from company I worked for then before I retired . Saw me in one of chat rooms ( none directing ) Told others in workforce . So being smallish company less than 100 . Most heard about this. I found out who started this and made official complaint. He left company. Proved to management that he also was a member etc. Only way he could see my cam. Until I retired couple years later , some still made comments etc.

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman
over a year ago

wigan

Positively vile! I had a strange incident at one point with someone accusing me of being his ex! It really freaked me out and made me aware of backgrounds in my photos etc.

Can’t even begin how awful you must feel.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP I am so sorry that some idiot did that to you.

I hope that you and your parents are all Ok.

It's up to you, but you most certainly could report this to the police. There's ways to trace the culprit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear this, it is a behaviour of a boy in a man's body. All I can offer is a large hug. And hope your parents are ok about this invasion into there life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents knowing wouldn’t bother me. I’d just put them in the picture and just tell them what a lovelly community there is on here and that I’m very happy to be on here. And I don’t take any risks and I’m very sensible. I would be very cautious if I got to a point in my career where I was a director or manager of a company, that would be different. Sorry you had to deal with such nonesence.

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By *elisandre300 OP Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Thank you everyone for the kind words and offers of support on here and in DM.

I’ve had a sit down, a cuppa and a conversation with my mum about my lifestyle choice and safety.

Whilst she doesn’t completely understand it she can see how happy I am and that’s all she’s concerned with.

So again, thank you

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Thank you everyone for the kind words and offers of support on here and in DM.

I’ve had a sit down, a cuppa and a conversation with my mum about my lifestyle choice and safety.

Whilst she doesn’t completely understand it she can see how happy I am and that’s all she’s concerned with.

So again, thank you

What a shitty situation to be put in. I'm glad you've found a resolution and you and your mum have been able to talk it through.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

What an absolute dick.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Sorry this happened to you, some people really are absolute cock wombles

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Thank you everyone for the kind words and offers of support on here and in DM.

I’ve had a sit down, a cuppa and a conversation with my mum about my lifestyle choice and safety.

Whilst she doesn’t completely understand it she can see how happy I am and that’s all she’s concerned with.

So again, thank you

Oh this is good to hear. I'm glad this idiot hasn't had the reaction they wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some really fucking strange people around.

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

I'd go to the cops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is awful, I'm so sorry xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a proper cunts trick, I’m sorry you have to go through this. But at the end of the day you are single and it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. It’s just a stigma people have about those that enjoy sex. It’s not right but hopefully the mind set will change one day

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