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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I think some are and some are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think some are and some are not"

Do you talk about sex with people from outside fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve told a couple of friends about things I’ve got up to, like when we visited the dungeon, and they were shocked but also intrigued.

I guess I’m more on the kinky side of things, does that make it more shocking?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve told a couple of friends about things I’ve got up to, like when we visited the dungeon, and they were shocked but also intrigued.

I guess I’m more on the kinky side of things, does that make it more shocking?"

I don't know about shock. I don't raise it often. When they usually do, I usually surprise them. My bestie asked to see some of my lingerie pics and was very positive in her feedback so that's a relief. You can be kinky or not. Friends will understand.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

mmm, I doubt any of my non fab friends are as... adventurous... as I am lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing "

Please elaborate on narrow mindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing "

I'm not a swinger but this is the impression I get from FAB. My friends are all dirty buggers so nothing surprises them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are people outside fab????

Like overseers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell nobody - they wouldn't be interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t. "

I've been thinking about it recently for a while, hence the post. I wonder if being on fab adds a bit of "I think I'm the sex expert badge" now to our ego sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

What was the certain toy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are people outside fab????

Like overseers?

Yes. It's all like a Big Brother really. Or Truman Show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are allegedly other forums/websites that cater for this hobby/lifestyle - So a not everyone outside fab might be as innocent as they seem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

mmm, I doubt any of my non fab friends are as... adventurous... as I am lol

How do you know though? Some of look perfectly innocent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*us

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

Please elaborate on narrow mindness.

The "our way or the highway" attitude displayed by some people, the use of the "proper swinger" phrase. The attitude displayed towards young, single guys who ask naive questions, the insistence that if you don't do certain things you're odd. Some people and I emphasise *some* have the impression that swinger's have better sex than peopy who don't swing.

well, you did ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are allegedly other forums/websites that cater for this hobby/lifestyle - So a not everyone outside fab might be as innocent as they seem

Sshhhh The Ones The Names you don't speak of .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

I'm not a swinger but this is the impression I get from FAB. My friends are all dirty buggers so nothing surprises them

good taste in friends then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tell nobody - they wouldn't be interested

Oh.. Well you can tell "us".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just a bit different anyway so people who don't know don't tend to be surprised when they find out.

Totally different with Sir, he keeps his cards very close to his chest and no one would ever suspect he is a Dom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

What was the certain toy?

Satisfyer and also we ventured into butt plugs.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

Please elaborate on narrow mindness.

well, you did ask

I thought it was just me who saw this. I started a thread about it last year about long term members being jaded and having a "we've always done it this way attitude". Those who believe only experienced people should be here and have no time for those on a journey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

Please elaborate on narrow mindness.

well, you did ask

I did.

and I'm glad you explained. This was part of my thought process. The potential risk of developing smugness.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

My best mate has known me since I was 3 and has been my wingwoman through my crazy years. She knows all about my life and skims over everything she doesn’t like. We are very different and my preferences were never hers but we laugh about how opposite we are in that department

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

My best friend recommended this site to me!

She's not on here now, and I am kinkier in general, but we discuss everything sexual!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im just a bit different anyway so people who don't know don't tend to be surprised when they find out.

Totally different with Sir, he keeps his cards very close to his chest and no one would ever suspect he is a Dom "

As in your fashion style and persona? I love your style BTW

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I'm like your Dom most of the time. With very few exceptions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes I do think they are, probably in some ways more so.

I've noticed a lot of swingers are extremely set in their ways and are quite narrow minded far more so than a lot of people who don't swing

Please elaborate on narrow mindness.

well, you did ask

I did.

and I'm glad you explained. This was part of my thought process. The potential risk of developing smugness."

I think if you're aware of the potential smugness you're unlikely to develop it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did.

and I'm glad you explained. This was part of my thought process. The potential risk of developing smugness.

I think if you're aware of the potential smugness you're unlikely to develop it

Phew

my risk has significantly lowered then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t.

I've been thinking about it recently for a while, hence the post. I wonder if being on fab adds a bit of "I think I'm the sex expert badge" now to our ego sometimes.

Sexpert Badge - what do you need to do to earn it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t.

I've been thinking about it recently for a while, hence the post. I wonder if being on fab adds a bit of "I think I'm the sex expert badge" now to our ego sometimes.

Sexpert Badge - what do you need to do to earn it?

Follow your heart

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t.

I've been thinking about it recently for a while, hence the post. I wonder if being on fab adds a bit of "I think I'm the sex expert badge" now to our ego sometimes.

I certainly don’t feel like an expert although some of the messages I get from younger men on here seem to imply that I have expertise because of my age. I’m not an expert in anything but I do enjoy exploring and learning what works for myself and the person I’m with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some may be. Some may not. I have kink friends, ex colleagues who are friends etc. A wide variety. Some use social media and some don’t.

I've been thinking about it recently for a while, hence the post. I wonder if being on fab adds a bit of "I think I'm the sex expert badge" now to our ego sometimes.

Me neither. Still so much to learn left I believe.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Some of my friends won't blow their SO so yes i think they would be shocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of my friends won't blow their SO so yes i think they would be shocked. "

I think there are some on here who don't like it either. But I guess it would be more rare ?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

In my experience, people I know outside are somewhat less familiar (or not at all) with much of the terminology that frequently pops up here: Pegging, felching, munging…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab folk didn't invent adventurous sex, so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm more experienced, but I do know I love sex way more than most of my friends do. They can't understand why I love it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think being on here opens more doors and opportunities to have more sex and with more than your partner, so it does feel like the sex is more adventurous.

My friends talk about wanting another girl to join them, when I’m smiling inside having flashbacks of a party

But really who knows what goes on behind some closed doors - they could be keeping quiet like I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

I'm on Fab so I must be well versed in all things sexual, pfft, chance'd be a fine thing!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I don't know to be honest. Used to talk about sex a lot more when younger, now it's how the kids talk, did you see the football etc. So I'm not privy to their sexual life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

Almost definitely getting more laid than me and in more interesting ways for sure. Well, some of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with a team of cleaners, all women aged 18-70. I don't think any of them have heard of Fab but the details of their sex lives would get them banned here within a week !

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"The people outside fab. Do you think your non fab friends are as sexually educated or experienced as you ?

This thread is inspired by a chat with a friend who I had to explain to a purpose of certain toy.

Depends on the person I guess but in my experiance, no. A lot of people seem to be shy about the subject of sex and all ot encompasses .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's mixed but I generally have the edge with most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really all depends on what your in to and define as kinky and such and quantity’s off those time

Ie spit roasts and 3 sums are pretty much the norm these day most if not all the none swingeing woman I know hafe at least been spit roasted ones two times

Or took a group off people they meet at a club home and let them have they way with them

But they not actively seeking such things more or less happens ones or twice been there got the t shirt type thing

Whare is in the swingers world we are pretty much actually seeking such things not speaking for all

Also most aren’t in to shareing and stuff not in less it’s a random they picked up at a club or such

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