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"No, I trust no one " Animals over humans all day! | |||
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"Which people? What trust ? Our choices, always. " Bit broad. | |||
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"No, I trust no one Animals over humans all day! " Agreed | |||
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"Sadly life has taught me not to trust " Me too I don't think I'll ever be able to trust again | |||
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances. I have my circle who i trust with my life. Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. " Basically this. But with some latitude on 2nd chances. We all make mistakes sometimes. Only human. Impossible to go through life trusting absolutely nobody. A healthy dose of scepticism never dies any harm, and we all learn from experience as we ago. | |||
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"Yes I do. I just don’t let many folks near enough to give them an opportunity. " | |||
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances. I have my circle who i trust with my life. Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. " | |||
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe! You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people " | |||
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe! You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people " This is a lovely way of putting it. I'm a very private person and compartmentalise most on here, only a handful know anything about me, even fewer anything more. I don't and won't stop trusting people though. It's nice when you have confirmation of that trust. | |||
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"No, I trust no one " Same, it makes me sad. Although I do trust my best friend the most. Trust is earned over years for me x | |||
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"Living just comes with a bit of heartache. Heartache comes with a bit of young faith. Faith stays young till your heart get broken. Hope grows up to become someday. I never hurt no one and no one will ever hurt me, I believe I believe I believe I believe! So true You'll never get anywhere if you stop trusting in people This is a lovely way of putting it. I'm a very private person and compartmentalise most on here, only a handful know anything about me, even fewer anything more. I don't and won't stop trusting people though. It's nice when you have confirmation of that trust." | |||
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"I find it hard to trust now due to some bad experiences. I have to get to know the person first. " Like I said trust needs to be earned! Just because you don't say anything ..that doesn't mean you're stupid and you don't say anything! | |||
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"I trust people to act in what they believe to be their own best interest. Sometimes that aligns with mine, sometimes it acts in opposition." Sometimes I get that with following their own interests! But there are some people wich theill step on dead bodies to reach were they want! | |||
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"No, I trust no one Animals over humans all day! " I hear this a lot, like there's no such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners etc. Personally I don't agree. I have shared my life with 5 dogs now and every single one had an utterly different personality- just like people do which is hardly surprising given that we are animals. Of course being treated badly, a bad upbringing and traumatic events affect animals - exactly as they do humans but I'm sure that just like humans some are nasty little shits for no other reason than that is the genes they have. I trust people to be people. We all make mistakes and all screw up, we're also good at some things and not others. My best mate is a guy I'd trust with my life holding my ropes while I climb (a trust well earned). This is a job I would only trust her ladyship with to a very slight degree, not because I think she wants me dead but because I know her level of expertise. On the other hand, I trust her with my heart. I guess trusting others ultimately comes down to trusting yourself. If you don't trust your own assessment of another person you don't know whether you can trust them, whether that's your assessment of their ability to do a particular job or your assessment of their ability to deserve your trust. Mr | |||
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"Trust is earned, and there's a wide spectrum of things within "trust". I give people basic trust initially - then as I get to know them, I might give them more, or less. For example, after a social meet in a public place, I might trust someone not to murder me on the next meet, so I'd go somewhere private with them. But would I trust them with my most intimate life details? Definitely not." But if you choose to give a second chance to a meet wich you're not entirely sure is worth it! Would you be able to go more private? For example a girl give me a chance after six months lol ! She said you're crazy And now we are like best friends ! Noo I still think trust needs to be earned! | |||
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"I trust my gut " | |||
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"Very few, but those I trust I would die for." This. | |||
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"I do trust people, but you have to earn it. And once you break my trust, we will never be the same. " This. And very very few people. | |||
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"I will continue to trust people even though sometimes i get stomped on because i would rather cope with that then let the fuckers change me. " | |||
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"I trust Babs, in Babs I trust." Oh you | |||
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"I've never trusted people generally until I've got to know them and done my due diligence. I would probably never take anything at face value" Just to say i think my distrust comes from growing up with an alcoholic... I'm not a superbitch | |||
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"I trust people until they show me they can’t be trusted. I don’t listen to other people’s opinions of people either, people can be different depending on how you treat them, generally most people are decent " | |||
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances. I have my circle who i trust with my life. Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. " Totally agree with Gatsby ... I treat everyone as I like to be treated. That means I trust everyone who I meet, and like, to a point equally ... trust can be built on in time or can be taken away where necessary. But you have to have a starting point! | |||
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"I don’t believe most of the people on this thread " You need to trust | |||
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"Yeh i do until they give me reason not too then theyre dropped asif ive never known them, no second chances. I have my circle who i trust with my life. Theres no point in paranoid suspicions i havent got time for that nonesence. " Exactly this | |||
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