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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? " This is why God created the gimp mask ;-p | |||
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"Ah there’s nothing like the deafening silence after I send a face pic Damn my mush " Dare you.... | |||
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"Not sure how to answer this without appearing rude about the opposite sex " Yep, you're probably right | |||
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. " WTF Meli!? | |||
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. " Yep I agree with this too! Although they can all see my face | |||
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"Not sure how to answer this without appearing rude about the opposite sex Yep, you're probably right " I really don't want people to think I am being horrible, but no matter how I phrase it, it will sound awful. | |||
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. WTF Meli!?" I'm sorry NSP, I don't know what came over me! Ignore my ramblings, they don't contain any truth. You are the hottest woman on here. | |||
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are " Nah, they probably knew you and did the decent thing and left you in peace. | |||
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are " Oh no, unfortunate coincidence I'm sure | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? " To be fair if your face is a tenth of the pretty easy of your body, I’m sure it’s still lush, this has got me intrigued as to what you look like. But fully understand what you mean. | |||
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"Ah there’s nothing like the deafening silence after I send a face pic Damn my mush Dare you.... " be kind | |||
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"It's when you get chatting to a hot sexy newbie and she sends her facepic and he hasn't even shaved. " Lol funny | |||
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"Loads of times....... Lost count of the amount of men who always assume I have long dark hair too....instead of short and blonde " But any pic showing your neck doesn't show hair. | |||
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are " | |||
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"Loads of times....... Lost count of the amount of men who always assume I have long dark hair too....instead of short and blonde But any pic showing your neck doesn't show hair. " Exactly!!! They can't even pick up on that massive clue ha ha ha | |||
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"It's always disappointing when the face doesn't match the body at all. This is why we ask to exchange face pics early on as I'd feel awful if we were chatting for a while then found I wasn't attracted to them " Us too...if we are not attracted to the face it goes no further. | |||
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are Nah, they probably knew you and did the decent thing and left you in peace." Yeah but that doesn't make for such a good story | |||
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"We sent face pics to someone once and they immediately deleted their profile. That's how bad we are Oh no, unfortunate coincidence I'm sure " As said above they probably knew us. We weren't upset by it, we found it funny | |||
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"I get the total opposite! I’m told all the blooming time “ you’ve got a nice face I don’t know why you can’t find a nice man” When I say “thanks”! They say “no you have your quite pretty really” " they don't follow it up with "you're too pretty to be on here" do they? It's as if people really believe looks define personality and sexual preference | |||
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"Um, they want to fuck you, not gaze into your eyes. They arent bothered as long as they get to empty their balls. Not all men think this way xx" How many do you think think this way ? I’ll take the person, then definitely a bit of eye gazing, ball emptyings quite low on my list ! | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? " Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies. | |||
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"Ah there’s nothing like the deafening silence after I send a face pic Damn my mush Dare you.... be kind " Kindness not needed | |||
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. WTF Meli!? I'm sorry NSP, I don't know what came over me! Ignore my ramblings, they don't contain any truth. You are the hottest woman on here. " Go have a lie down Meli. I mean REALLY! | |||
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"Ah this drives me mad! I always want to send them a pic of my face to scare them off. I think the truth is, most men on here wouldn't give a fuck about your face as long as your body was banging. I don't know how people do it. " Halloween is my favourite time, feel free to give me an early fright. | |||
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"Ah this drives me mad! I always want to send them a pic of my face to scare them off. I think the truth is, most men on here wouldn't give a fuck about your face as long as your body was banging. I don't know how people do it. Halloween is my favourite time, feel free to give me an early fright. " You'll regret it! | |||
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"Ah there’s nothing like the deafening silence after I send a face pic Damn my mush " I feel your pain | |||
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"Um, they want to fuck you, not gaze into your eyes. They arent bothered as long as they get to empty their balls. Not all men think this way xx How many do you think think this way ? I’ll take the person, then definitely a bit of eye gazing, ball emptyings quite low on my list ! " I don't know, I try not to meet them! | |||
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" I really don't want people to think I am being horrible, but no matter how I phrase it, it will sound awful." Do it! Come on, you've commented twice now without saying what it is you are thinking. Let it out, you'll feel better for it. Gbat | |||
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch! " I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC | |||
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch! I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC" Should not laugh but | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? " The exact reason I have a few face pics on my profile.. could not bare the wait after sending a face picture, would rather get this mug out in the open from the get go | |||
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch! I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC" or a Prawn, tasty body, shame about the head | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? The exact reason I have a few face pics on my profile.. could not bare the wait after sending a face picture, would rather get this mug out in the open from the get go " I like your style | |||
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"One of the fab curses! Body from bay watch! Face from crime watch! I was waiting for someone to mention BOBFOC or a Prawn, tasty body, shame about the head " Hahha not heard that one before! Love it | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? " I don’t. If I don’t see the face in the early message exchanges then I just move on. | |||
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" This is why God created the gimp mask ;-p " And beards | |||
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"I must admit that messages telling me I'm gorgeous or beautiful do make me chuckle. How do they know? I don't have public face photos." Are you saying these messages aren't genuine?!?! Fuck!!! | |||
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"I must admit that messages telling me I'm gorgeous or beautiful do make me chuckle. How do they know? I don't have public face photos. Are you saying these messages aren't genuine?!?! Fuck!!! " Yes it's very amusing. I sometimes want to reverse catfish and send them a picture of someone truly ugly. | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face? I get messages talking my how how I am or your the hottest on here. It genuinely baffles me as I could have a face like an ass. Am I the only one who thinks this way ? Have you ever been swapping pics with someone and then when you get around to seeing each others face, the face doesn't match the body? I don’t. If I don’t see the face in the early message exchanges then I just move on. " Me either I generally prefer to see faces early on, there needs to be some attraction there | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?... Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies." And maybe beyond this, we assume that a pretty face/body means a pretty mind and personality, and that those who are less good looking have ugly personalities and minds! However, the opposite is often the case! Therefore should we not try to connect mentally first, and then maybe the physical will be less important! | |||
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"Why do people assume that just because you've got a good body that it means you'll have a good face?... Because we are conditioned to believe that physical beauty is a complete package (body and face) and that only ugly people have ugly bodies. And maybe beyond this, we assume that a pretty face/body means a pretty mind and personality, and that those who are less good looking have ugly personalities and minds! However, the opposite is often the case! Therefore should we not try to connect mentally first, and then maybe the physical will be less important! " Isn't this the conundrum of attraction? I knew a girl who was, at the time, the best looking girl I had known but we didn't click so it never went any further then friends. Personality can add or subtract from attraction more than physical characteristics for me. | |||
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"Ah there’s nothing like the deafening silence after I send a face pic Damn my mush " I feel your pain | |||
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"Tbf, a female could have no pics up and still be told she is super hot, so ya know " Yes totally! | |||
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" This is why God created the gimp mask ;-p And beards" That hurts alot | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces " So true | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces " I must be the exception. | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces I must be the exception. " would that be a FOBBOC | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces " I must be the other way round, I think my face is much better than my body haha | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces I must be the exception. would that be a FOBBOC " I think FUBAR is closer, but yes. | |||
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"I see it as just being a chat up line. Nothing more. It doesn't mean they think that a woman is the hottest ever (I've cried many nights over this realisation) but it sounds nice, is relatively harmless and is meant to be flattering. Yep I agree with this too! Although they can all see my face " What a pretty face it is too | |||
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"Quite often the bodies are so much better than the faces I must be the exception. would that be a FOBBOC I think FUBAR is closer, but yes. " xxx | |||
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