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"So glad to see positive responses... I just want to make new friends for life who you could trust, rely and be available to them in need without or with naughty fun (that would be a bonus)! " good luck | |||
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"I'm fairly new, and yet I can already see that truly happening. There are some genuine lovely positive people here, I'd be honoured to call a real friend." Aww that’s so cute | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how "For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions. If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile. Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought "Food for thought | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought"Thanks, Has your next adventure begun? | |||
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"Yes, I found a best friend from here, that was 8 years ago and I can’t get rid of her lol " Lucky one! | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how "Maybe people have even strict criteria for meeting publicly, too... | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
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Has your next adventure begun? "That's classified | |||
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"@ladybird! That's very practical approach! Thank you. Xxx" Don't know what to say to that, your welcome?  | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
Thanks,
Has your next adventure begun?
That's classified "Well last week it wasn't! | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
Thanks,
Has your next adventure begun?
That's classified
Well last week it wasn't! "Starts Monday. So if I'm told to leave here you can celebrate then | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
Thanks,
Has your next adventure begun?
That's classified
Well last week it wasn't!
Starts Monday. So if I'm told to leave here you can celebrate then "Why would i celebrate? | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
Thanks,
Has your next adventure begun?
That's classified
Well last week it wasn't!
Starts Monday. So if I'm told to leave here you can celebrate then
Why would i celebrate? "Well not you anyway | |||
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"Is it even possible to make friends from fab like real friends and also have a naughty fun occasionally when the desire arrives?" Hell yes it is! I’ve done it, and so have many others x | |||
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"Just last week I sent a few messages out to people near me taking about going for a drink/coffee and to get to know eachother. I think it would be good to chat about fab things in person with someone that can't judge too much. Didn't get any real positive responses. Got a few sort of replies, then the unread and deletes. It's frustrating when people put on their profile they insist on a social etc. Then when it's offered don't accept. I even tell them there's no expectations, doesn't have to lead to anything blah blah.. still nothing. Maybe I'm just sending them to the shaggers that don't really want a social, they just don't want to seem too easily available in their profile. Who knows. Hope you find it, and if you do, tell me how
For me sex needs to be off the table, otherwise I'd question the authenticity of the actions.
If it's a pre sex posibilty meet and greet, bit like a coffee date before a date date, some people call them socials on here the I'd be less likely to be coming from a friend stance. Also unless your in the forums someones profile isnt going to tell you the stuff where you yhink hey lets meet up we could be friends for how ever long it lasts. I've learnt more about people through their postings then the profile.
Like i said take that off the table, no pressure, then just go with the flow. Just a thought
Food for thought
Thanks,
Has your next adventure begun?
That's classified
Well last week it wasn't!
Starts Monday. So if I'm told to leave here you can celebrate then
Why would i celebrate?
Well not you anyway " | |||
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"Yes, I had this, friends before knew she was on fab, used to chat a lot, flirt, like to think something might have happened, but it wasn't all about that, we were mates. I kinda fucked that up and now can't get it back and lost a mate. " That sucks. Maybe just let her know you miss her as a friend if it's not way past that. Never too late to say sorry in my book. | |||
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"@ladybird! That's very practical approach! Thank you. Xxx Don't know what to say to that, your welcome? "Pleasure! Xxx | |||
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"Cheers Ladybird, you've got your head screwed on!" One of the best mate. | |||
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"Is it even possible to make friends from fab like real friends and also have a naughty fun occasionally when the desire arrives?" it is, we have! | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles." It will for you. Your a woman so the world is yours on here | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles. It will for you. Your a woman so the world is yours on here" That hasn't been the case do far, but we'll see xx | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles. It will for you. Your a woman so the world is yours on here That hasn't been the case do far, but we'll see xx" Go forth and fight for your right | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles. It will for you. Your a woman so the world is yours on here That hasn't been the case do far, but we'll see xx Go forth and fight for your right "I will... Tomorrow perhaps. It's bed time now | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles. It will for you. Your a woman so the world is yours on here That hasn't been the case do far, but we'll see xx Go forth and fight for your right "To paaaaaarty! | |||
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Our personal lives are now mingled with our naughty lives and there is true friendship with trust.
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"Is it even possible to make friends from fab like real friends and also have a naughty fun occasionally when the desire arrives?" most of my best friends I have met through fab or clubs x to be fair we rarely play if ever these days but that's more down to me not meeting than anything else | |||
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"Oh yes! From socials came friendships and we now have an ever growing circle of fabby friends. We try and get together once a month… even going on holiday soon (that will be a test)
Our personal lives are now mingled with our naughty lives and there is true friendship with trust.
Love them all "This is exactly what I was suggesting and actually want that... | |||
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"I've made some very good friends on here, purely platonic. I'd love to be friends with people I play with as well because I think sex gets better as you get to know each other. It hasn't happened yet, but I joined just before the pandemic so hopefully things will fall into place as the world settles." I joined fairly recently too... Met a few amazing people, too. But I just to be friends with those amazing people for life. Even make friends from.far away and only meet physically when we visit or plan. But something more meaningful. Not just f*** and go!!! | |||
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"100 % I’ve met a few long term friends "Lucky you are!!! | |||
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"We have made some very genuine friends through this site "Very lucky. Xxx | |||
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"From experience... absolutely "Lucky aren't you! Xxx | |||
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"Isn't that the definition of friends with benefits lol" I beg to differ!!!! | |||
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"Isn't that the definition of friends with benefits lol I beg to differ!!!! "Lol | |||
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