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"ok have a missed something?? why would a straight man want to play with two men? " | |||
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"And the name too srt8 hunter " dont see the issue, he's a gay guy who likes 'str8' guys.. probably not into camp or effeminate guys.. each to their own.. | |||
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"INDEED lots of guys r very curious thx 4 decnt comments to the opionators get a life" bang on curious NOT straight | |||
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"I missed something too, I thought this was going to be telling me about a new not to be missed comedy show on TV..." Same lol! | |||
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"ok have a missed something?? why would a straight man want to play with two men? " | |||
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"If this TS girl has completed her op, then she's physically female, and would have female gender, could have female passport etc. We don't get much detail in the post, apart from knowing she has breasts, but there's be a ton of bandwagon jumping - myself included. Why the determination to question other's sexuality? Some stray, some never go back etc, it's life." Reason i asked what i did was because he mentioned 'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight | |||
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"If this TS girl has completed her op, then she's physically female, and would have female gender, could have female passport etc. We don't get much detail in the post, apart from knowing she has breasts, but there's be a ton of bandwagon jumping - myself included. Why the determination to question other's sexuality? Some stray, some never go back etc, it's life. Reason i asked what i did was because he mentioned 'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight" He has a thrill of meeting straight guys I guess its the thrill of the chase. He goes for men that are rough and ready and seen as a man's man.. | |||
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"'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight" I'd jumped in without paying lots of attention to what they were offering, as I was surprised at the amount of 'they're not str8' type comments - I was another bandwagon/forum post commenter, and I apologise for not paying enough attention - my comments weren't targeted at you btw. | |||
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"If this TS girl has completed her op, then she's physically female, and would have female gender, could have female passport etc. We don't get much detail in the post, apart from knowing she has breasts, but there's be a ton of bandwagon jumping - myself included. Why the determination to question other's sexuality? Some stray, some never go back etc, it's life. Reason i asked what i did was because he mentioned 'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight He has a thrill of meeting straight guys I guess its the thrill of the chase. He goes for men that are rough and ready and seen as a man's man.. " It is all 'mind games' though (in that the OP likes to believe they are straight,as do the guys he meets) as any man who was totally straight would not be interested in sexual contact with another male. No curiosity would exist. In my experience once they have taken that leap, it is rare they go back to women and forget it never happened. At best he is going to meet a bi sexual male, at worst a bi curious guy or a 'straight' man in denial about his overall sexuality. My preference in men is also very much the rough n ready type or the cheeky lad type (even better if it's both) but if I met them, I wouldn't consider them to be straight, irregardless of whatever label they chose. It is irrelevant to me. What is relevant is that they turn up and are at the stage where they want to explore their sexuality as opposed to talk about it. | |||
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"If this TS girl has completed her op, then she's physically female, and would have female gender, could have female passport etc. We don't get much detail in the post, apart from knowing she has breasts, but there's be a ton of bandwagon jumping - myself included. Why the determination to question other's sexuality? Some stray, some never go back etc, it's life. Reason i asked what i did was because he mentioned 'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight He has a thrill of meeting straight guys I guess its the thrill of the chase. He goes for men that are rough and ready and seen as a man's man.. It is all 'mind games' though (in that the OP likes to believe they are straight,as do the guys he meets) as any man who was totally straight would not be interested in sexual contact with another male. No curiosity would exist. In my experience once they have taken that leap, it is rare they go back to women and forget it never happened. At best he is going to meet a bi sexual male, at worst a bi curious guy or a 'straight' man in denial about his overall sexuality. My preference in men is also very much the rough n ready type or the cheeky lad type (even better if it's both) but if I met them, I wouldn't consider them to be straight, irregardless of whatever label they chose. It is irrelevant to me. What is relevant is that they turn up and are at the stage where they want to explore their sexuality as opposed to talk about it." I get what you are saying and was trying to get to the same point but failed.. I was trying to get at the you are getting someone you would not normally get as you correctly said that there are men in denial about their sexuality and almost make sure they don't come across as gay etc.. I guess a good example is the man onl the first episode of the accused.. was a man's man and was out with the lads etc... | |||
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"'she has nice tits and a lovely cock'.. surely he would be better off asking for bi curious/bi sexual or gay men rather than men who are straight I'd jumped in without paying lots of attention to what they were offering, as I was surprised at the amount of 'they're not str8' type comments - I was another bandwagon/forum post commenter, and I apologise for not paying enough attention - my comments weren't targeted at you btw." I realize it wasn't personal just wanted to clarify my point a little bit. If a man in his heart is straight there would be no way he would ever consider the idea so in theory its a wasted request. the OP would only ever meet curious/bi or gay men. | |||
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"ok have a missed something?? why would a straight man want to play with two men? " i think he means straight acting, alfa type man, you know the ones who dont admit they are bi and put straight on their profile, i think lots of gay guys get off on playing with guys who like to class themselves as staright, maybe it feels a bit naughty thinking they have 'converted' them | |||
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"Its all well and good having an open mind,,,, I’ve nothing against it….!. But the thing is, we’re on a profile based contact sites that relies on a selection of honest definitions presented to us by the site owners which give all members a fair chance to use the site effectively….!. Otherwise it would just become a time-wasting free-for-all, where successful engagement would be down to pot luck rather than selective matching ……... Oh.well.... carry-on..... I'm just stirring the pot! " You're quite right though Wolf | |||
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"ok have a missed something?? why would a straight man want to play with two men? i think he means straight acting, alfa type man, you know the ones who dont admit they are bi and put straight on their profile, i think lots of gay guys get off on playing with guys who like to class themselves as staright, maybe it feels a bit naughty thinking they have 'converted' them " that's pretty much bang on the nail NN there is something special about being the person a guy chooses to be his first MM experience, but at no point do i kid myself that they are straight. it is nice that they have the confidence in you and to be comfortable enough in your company to allow them to get over the hump or just to purely satisfy their curiosity. as for the conversion bit, that has never intrigued me, because if they weren't curious in the first place, they wouldn't be there. it does nark me a bit though that some gay guys treat 'straight' lads as some sort of golden goose and take kudos for being their first. to a degree that demeans the position the guy is in. taking the step from being mentally curious to physically curious is a huge one and should be treated with respect, not as point scoring. i'm not saying that is the case in the ops position, but i have witnessed enough conversations between gay men to know that this definately does go on. | |||
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