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"I was pretty much ok all through my youth. Never in major trouble. Used to have small gatherings of mates when my parents went away.. nothing crazy. Only reason I got found out was a mate called one of those premium chat lines and never hung up properly. Showed up on out itemised phone bill.. " Morning my friend how unlucky was you  | |||
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"I grew up before my time. I was a carer from the age of 12 and was never influenced by my peers. As a result i didn't live my teenage years. Had my first kiss just before turning 20 and still a virgin at 24. I don't drink and never have done so i was always too busy being the designated driver and looking after my friends to get into trouble." nice chap all good now for you I hope | |||
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"I was pretty much ok all through my youth. Never in major trouble. Used to have small gatherings of mates when my parents went away.. nothing crazy. Only reason I got found out was a mate called one of those premium chat lines and never hung up properly. Showed up on out itemised phone bill.. Morning my friend how unlucky was you "Even more so that it took 4 Saturday shifts at the butxhers to pay them back. God this lines were expensive | |||
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"Complete and utter ass hole I was, fighting all the time, spent 4 consecutive birthdays in police custody. Just didn't give a flying fuck for anyone or anything. Wasn't until I was 30 before I woke up to what an idiot and general waste of space I was. Thankfully never got a custodial sentence ( mainly due to solicitors saying how much potential I had ) clocked up thousands of hours of community service though. So glad I got my life on track in the end, God knows if I would be here now if I hadn't." good on you mate sure you are a decent chap | |||
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"No. I had the worst attendance record of the whole school during my final year (I could see the school gates from my kitchen window) I broke the law. Constantly. I did things that were detrimental to my health and others around me. I got in fights and was generally horrible. My poor mum tried her best, but I was so far off the rails I needed a life jacket. I left school at 16 with no qualifications. Fell into a job that changed my life and paid for my first house. Moved to Devon and life changed, I changed. I now have a number of academic qualifications, I have worked in numerous countries, trying to do good and have slowed my life down. After an intense career of 15 or so years I am now semi-retired. The child that I was, I do not connect with at all. But it was me and I don’t forget. " wow great testimonial life turned around sounds like things are good now  | |||
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"Complete and utter ass hole I was, fighting all the time, spent 4 consecutive birthdays in police custody. Just didn't give a flying fuck for anyone or anything. Wasn't until I was 30 before I woke up to what an idiot and general waste of space I was. Thankfully never got a custodial sentence ( mainly due to solicitors saying how much potential I had ) clocked up thousands of hours of community service though. So glad I got my life on track in the end, God knows if I would be here now if I hadn't." Glad to see you managed to flip your life around for the good before it was too late - you're kne of the fortunate ones. X | |||
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"No. I had the worst attendance record of the whole school during my final year (I could see the school gates from my kitchen window) I broke the law. Constantly. I did things that were detrimental to my health and others around me. I got in fights and was generally horrible. My poor mum tried her best, but I was so far off the rails I needed a life jacket. I left school at 16 with no qualifications. Fell into a job that changed my life and paid for my first house. Moved to Devon and life changed, I changed. I now have a number of academic qualifications, I have worked in numerous countries, trying to do good and have slowed my life down. After an intense career of 15 or so years I am now semi-retired. The child that I was, I do not connect with at all. But it was me and I don’t forget. wow great testimonial life turned around sounds like things are good now "Yes, I agree, another great testimonial of having turned life around.  | |||
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"Ad a great childhood with great bunch of m8 ..we never got into trouble or gave our parents any grief .we respected wot we ad around us .so yes was goody two shoes .. x " are you still a goody 2 shoes | |||
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"I was ok never skipped school, always grafted to earn some cash. got into mischief but never got caught generally my younger years were filled with blowing up phone boxes, making explosives & making deadly mower engined gokarts. "standard goody 2 shoes in my eyes | |||
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"I was pretty well behaved at school not a rebel but equally not a swot." love that word swot xx | |||
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"I was a good girl still am "Morning my friend have you got any testimonials to prove this xx | |||
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"Depends who it is Mr duo are Mrs duo lol Mr duo was good boy no issues really Mrs duo I was bad girl but not with police just loved having fun and naughty fun x" part of growing up xx | |||
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"Was always getting into trouble when I was a kid lol" goody 2 shoes now ? | |||
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"Was always getting into trouble when I was a kid lolgoody 2 shoes now ? "so so lol | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. " but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx | |||
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"Have done some very very stupid things when I and my friends where younger. Not hugely proud of some of the things I was involved with as a teenager. Ranging from petty vandalism/pranks to stuff a bit more serious. Had a scare around the age of 19/20 which kinda made me think about my decisions going forward " all good now Chloe ? | |||
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"I was the worst. When I think about the stuff I was getting up to at the same age of some of my younger relatives now it makes me cringe! " in the past now my friend | |||
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"Have a guess "goody 2 shoes all day long but are you chatting from your prison cell | |||
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"I generally behaved, but had a few moments where I got into too much trouble." now look at you an upstanding citizen | |||
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"Have a guess goody 2 shoes all day long but are you chatting from your prison cell "Was a mixture of both but loved getting upto mischief | |||
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"Have done some very very stupid things when I and my friends where younger. Not hugely proud of some of the things I was involved with as a teenager. Ranging from petty vandalism/pranks to stuff a bit more serious. Had a scare around the age of 19/20 which kinda made me think about my decisions going forward all good now Chloe ? "I'm a good girl now lol! Dont involve myself in any of that anymore | |||
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"No. I had the worst attendance record of the whole school during my final year (I could see the school gates from my kitchen window) I broke the law. Constantly. I did things that were detrimental to my health and others around me. I got in fights and was generally horrible. My poor mum tried her best, but I was so far off the rails I needed a life jacket. I left school at 16 with no qualifications. Fell into a job that changed my life and paid for my first house. Moved to Devon and life changed, I changed. I now have a number of academic qualifications, I have worked in numerous countries, trying to do good and have slowed my life down. After an intense career of 15 or so years I am now semi-retired. The child that I was, I do not connect with at all. But it was me and I don’t forget. wow great testimonial life turned around sounds like things are good now
Yes, I agree, another great testimonial of having turned life around. "Things are good now but the guilt never goes away, my siblings and I are all grown up and nothing is said but the pain I caused my family whilst “finding myself” is pain that lies deep. I can never make amends, I cannot balance the scales, for many years I took jobs in the most dangerous of places, to “die a hero” but the fates never give you what you want, they give you what you need and what I needed then, as now, was humility. Now I live a quiet life I stay single and I focus on my family, making up for the years that I did not. | |||
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"I was great at school. Loved it and loved learning… however… I found clubs and music at a very early age and blew several years living it up, I don’t regret a thing, it was magical. But I was a handful for my poor parents!! " which school did you go to in Manchester Saffron if that is where you was schooled x | |||
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"I was a good boy in school, worst I did was forgot to wear my tie, I’m even better now still don’t wear a tie but get away with it" you rebel | |||
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"Head girl of an all girls Catholic convent school...making up for that now "are you still a head girl | |||
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"I was a good girl still am Morning my friend have you got any testimonials to prove this xx "Yes I met one of my old school teachers recently and she told me about how good a student I was I was a prefect and everything  | |||
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"I was a bit of a rebel. In those days I had a crazy perm, wore blue eyeliner, had big boobs and smoked. Caused my mum and dad much stress when I was 16, 17,18 and 19 but calmed down by 20." your mum and dad told me all about you xx | |||
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"No. I had the worst attendance record of the whole school during my final year (I could see the school gates from my kitchen window) I broke the law. Constantly. I did things that were detrimental to my health and others around me. I got in fights and was generally horrible. My poor mum tried her best, but I was so far off the rails I needed a life jacket. I left school at 16 with no qualifications. Fell into a job that changed my life and paid for my first house. Moved to Devon and life changed, I changed. I now have a number of academic qualifications, I have worked in numerous countries, trying to do good and have slowed my life down. After an intense career of 15 or so years I am now semi-retired. The child that I was, I do not connect with at all. But it was me and I don’t forget. wow great testimonial life turned around sounds like things are good now
Yes, I agree, another great testimonial of having turned life around.
Things are good now but the guilt never goes away, my siblings and I are all grown up and nothing is said but the pain I caused my family whilst “finding myself” is pain that lies deep.
I can never make amends, I cannot balance the scales, for many years I took jobs in the most dangerous of places, to “die a hero” but the fates never give you what you want, they give you what you need and what I needed then, as now, was humility. Now I live a quiet life I stay single and I focus on my family, making up for the years that I did not. " | |||
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"I wasn’t the nicest of kids and I imagine my teachers didn’t like me much. More anti social than criminal, with a streak of truancy thrown in and some very minor vandalism. My dad was fairly prominent locally so I thought I was obliged to be a bit of an anti establishment rebel. All changed when I started my career at 19 though. The follies of youth! Gbat. " True my friend as they live and learn | |||
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"Head girl of an all girls Catholic convent school...making up for that now are you still a head girl"Naturally | |||
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"No. I had the worst attendance record of the whole school during my final year (I could see the school gates from my kitchen window) I broke the law. Constantly. I did things that were detrimental to my health and others around me. I got in fights and was generally horrible. My poor mum tried her best, but I was so far off the rails I needed a life jacket. I left school at 16 with no qualifications. Fell into a job that changed my life and paid for my first house. Moved to Devon and life changed, I changed. I now have a number of academic qualifications, I have worked in numerous countries, trying to do good and have slowed my life down. After an intense career of 15 or so years I am now semi-retired. The child that I was, I do not connect with at all. But it was me and I don’t forget. " Good for you. I am glad things turned out well.x | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx "How did you know?! | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
How did you know?! "intuition xx | |||
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"Ye I was always pretty good never really rebelled and was working durning holidays from the age of 12 I was in full time work from the age of 17. " You my friend are the ultimate goody 2 shoes xx | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
How did you know?! "My dad was an alcoholic bully who used to come home from the club and wake me and my brother up ( aged 10 and 11 ) to proper fist fight with us, had 6 police pull him off me at one point as he had a knife to my throat ( aged 12 ) I attribute none of this to my behaviour as I was just a complete prick and responsible for my own actions. I know everyone has their own views and opinions but I was a waste of time because thats how i chose to be, not moulded or steered that way , I chose that for myself just like I chose to get myself together. | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
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My dad was an alcoholic bully who used to come home from the club and wake me and my brother up ( aged 10 and 11 ) to proper fist fight with us, had 6 police pull him off me at one point as he had a knife to my throat ( aged 12 ) I attribute none of this to my behaviour as I was just a complete prick and responsible for my own actions. I know everyone has their own views and opinions but I was a waste of time because thats how i chose to be, not moulded or steered that way , I chose that for myself just like I chose to get myself together."I am sure you are a good chap now | |||
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Tabitha x"say no more but having fun I hope | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
How did you know?!
My dad was an alcoholic bully who used to come home from the club and wake me and my brother up ( aged 10 and 11 ) to proper fist fight with us, had 6 police pull him off me at one point as he had a knife to my throat ( aged 12 ) I attribute none of this to my behaviour as I was just a complete prick and responsible for my own actions. I know everyone has their own views and opinions but I was a waste of time because thats how i chose to be, not moulded or steered that way , I chose that for myself just like I chose to get myself together."That’s how we grow isn’t it chap? By accepting responsibility, I know how easy it is to blame circumstances for our behaviour and in many cases (like yours) there’s justification, but to pull yourself out of it you have to take ownership of your life. When you do. You become someone “in spite of” not someone “because of” and the power that gives you is immense. | |||
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"A good boy but with a cheeky charm. I got away with murder with the teachers due to a quick wit and my smile." quick wit and a cheeky smile has got me through these 60 years | |||
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"A good boy but with a cheeky charm. I got away with murder with the teachers due to a quick wit and my smile.quick wit and a cheeky smile has got me through these 60 years "Being Irish also helps although I've nearly lost my accent unless around fellow Irish. | |||
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"A good boy but with a cheeky charm. I got away with murder with the teachers due to a quick wit and my smile.quick wit and a cheeky smile has got me through these 60 years
Being Irish also helps although I've nearly lost my accent unless around fellow Irish. "are you a mi duck person now | |||
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"Yes. Grew up in a little village where everyone knew everyone. Saying that I was a proper tomboy when I was younger x" goody 2 shoes in my eyes Sparkle xx | |||
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"Morning all thinking back to your schooldays up to present day if you like we're you a rebel or goody 2 shoes I played truant probably as bad as it gets how about you "I was a nightmare then and I'm probably still a nightmare now to be honest some days. I blame it on the Full Moons.    | |||
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"Yes. Grew up in a little village where everyone knew everyone. Saying that I was a proper tomboy when I was younger xgoody 2 shoes in my eyes Sparkle xx "I'm more than good now I'm older | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
How did you know?!
My dad was an alcoholic bully who used to come home from the club and wake me and my brother up ( aged 10 and 11 ) to proper fist fight with us, had 6 police pull him off me at one point as he had a knife to my throat ( aged 12 ) I attribute none of this to my behaviour as I was just a complete prick and responsible for my own actions. I know everyone has their own views and opinions but I was a waste of time because thats how i chose to be, not moulded or steered that way , I chose that for myself just like I chose to get myself together.
That’s how we grow isn’t it chap? By accepting responsibility, I know how easy it is to blame circumstances for our behaviour and in many cases (like yours) there’s justification, but to pull yourself out of it you have to take ownership of your life. When you do. You become someone “in spite of” not someone “because of” and the power that gives you is immense. "That's the point I was making, some people will make correlation between my past experience and go " oh thats why " not the case though, to reiterate i was an asshole because I chose to be an asshole. And I am who I am today because I chose to no longer be an asshole and make a positive impact to society and my life instead. | |||
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"Ad a great childhood with great bunch of m8 ..we never got into trouble or gave our parents any grief .we respected wot we ad around us .so yes was goody two shoes .. x are you still a goody 2 shoes "Yes I'm still good .but iv got a darker side lol x | |||
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"I was an absolute pain in the arse. I don't like to make excuses but I did have an incredibly dysfunctional upbringing which contributed to my behaviour. but are you a goody 2 shoes now xx
How did you know?!
My dad was an alcoholic bully who used to come home from the club and wake me and my brother up ( aged 10 and 11 ) to proper fist fight with us, had 6 police pull him off me at one point as he had a knife to my throat ( aged 12 ) I attribute none of this to my behaviour as I was just a complete prick and responsible for my own actions. I know everyone has their own views and opinions but I was a waste of time because thats how i chose to be, not moulded or steered that way , I chose that for myself just like I chose to get myself together.
That’s how we grow isn’t it chap? By accepting responsibility, I know how easy it is to blame circumstances for our behaviour and in many cases (like yours) there’s justification, but to pull yourself out of it you have to take ownership of your life. When you do. You become someone “in spite of” not someone “because of” and the power that gives you is immense.
That's the point I was making, some people will make correlation between my past experience and go " oh thats why " not the case though, to reiterate i was an asshole because I chose to be an asshole. And I am who I am today because I chose to no longer be an asshole and make a positive impact to society and my life instead." | |||
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"Morning all thinking back to your schooldays up to present day if you like we're you a rebel or goody 2 shoes I played truant probably as bad as it gets how about you "In school I was a saint. Polite, well behaved, well spoken. College onwards is a very different story!
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Never lost a race on the track team and always the first to put my hand up.
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"Won a whole school award for perfect attendance never rolled my skirt up
Never lost a race on the track team and always the first to put my hand up.
So now I’m making up for it
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