FabSwingers.com forum: Did you expect

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I had no expectations but i love fab. Way way too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had no expectations but i love fab. Way way too much. "

Haha! Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No expectations, stumbled in here during lockdown, but have had made fantastic connections with huge range of people. Definitely a positive experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the friendships surprised me actually, I really wasn't expecting it, but there are so many lovely people who genuinely care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t expect anything, but have met some great friends and had lots of support from lovely people x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

The first time I joined, to be honest, I didn't expect to actually make proper friends, in truth, that is what has kept me coming back time after time, the fact that I get sex is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't sure what to expect tbh but there are some genuinely nice people. Its quite liberating just being able to be yourself with no judgement.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Absolutely not. I’ve had a few false ones over the years who befriended me for their own benefit but hell I have found some of my best friends on here. In fact more friends than anything else. Some that are way way beyond anything fab now

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I didn't expect anything. Hubby signed us up while I was away on a hen do, (we had talked about it previously). There are so many lovely people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree. Especially during Covid times, I can’t explain how much I appreciate the close friends and connections I’ve made on here.

People will always tell you “it’s a sex site” but it’s more than that and I am thankful and grateful for the friends I’ve made.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Always expect the unexpected…having had previous profiles on here before using the forums this time around I didn’t think finding friendships would be something this site had to offer.

Since using the forums I have connected with some amazing people, both males and females, those who check in each day and ask how you are, those who you can rant with and those who I enjoy some harmless flirtation with, it’s a great distraction to what’s going on in the world and restores faith that there are good people out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No expectations, stumbled in here during lockdown, but have had made fantastic connections with huge range of people. Definitely a positive experience.

And you make the forum a brighter place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes the friendships surprised me actually, I really wasn't expecting it, but there are so many lovely people who genuinely care."

You’re one of those lovely people

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Well, it was hard to get through the initial restrictions on being new.. and trying not to compare experiences with my partners experiences which you can imagine is insanely busy compared to mine. Girl compared to guy....

But I've started to get to know one or two people. Green shoots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Mr"

Love your story

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I didn't have any preconceived notions about what I'd find on here, minus an eager penis or two.

I found my fiancé, some brilliant friends who transpose Fab and mean the world to me, even if we do occasionally bicker. I'm incredibly lucky to have them in my life and it would be considerably duller without them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. I’ve had a few false ones over the years who befriended me for their own benefit but hell I have found some of my best friends on here. In fact more friends than anything else. Some that are way way beyond anything fab now

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, it was hard to get through the initial restrictions on being new.. and trying not to compare experiences with my partners experiences which you can imagine is insanely busy compared to mine. Girl compared to guy....

But I've started to get to know one or two people. Green shoots."

Especially with it being that fabulous awesome woman of yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't have any preconceived notions about what I'd find on here, minus an eager penis or two.

Lovely

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Mr"

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not in my life, especially in the forums as the first time I was here it seemed a closed group. But I ventured in and I’m glad I did. There’s lots of lovely and genuinely caring people on here. And a few I’d call friends that know about my life

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Didn't use forums until I became single .amazed by how many stunning women and great blokes on here . Always nice 2 av a sexy lady say hello 2 u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on here is to be expected at worst the most I can hope for is one night stands

And at best find someone who excepteds me for me and when I say me for me I mean the real me ie natalie and the other hafe off me

Also serves as a grate purpose if I am ever on a vanilla date I can look closely at the person

I not trying to get just sex or mmmm the dates not going well but I want sex type thing

As I can get that realtivle easy here so it alows me to set that aside and look at the person as a whole person if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd had a previous profile and got back into it during the first lockdown. I'd never used the forums before then and my anxiety was through the roof RE putting myself out there. But once I found my feet and gained some confidence I'm glad I took the plunge. I've spoken to/still speak to some beautiful people and I'm content with my little corner of fab

Everyone's on their own journey and if I can be a part of it (however fleeting) by making someone smile or squirt along the way then that will do for me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've been bowled over by the support I've had from people this last year. I've been lucky enough so far to meet one of the lovely ladies of the forum, despite covid. And there are more I can't wait to meet for the first time.

They've really got me through this last year, and I appreciate them all

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Didn't use forums until I became single .amazed by how many stunning women and great blokes on here . Always nice 2 av a sexy lady say hello 2 u x "

Hello

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Mr"

And a rehab clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some great conversations, not met anyone as yet, always time though, sometimes it's good to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find here great friends We got few nice meetings on here but as we’ll lots haters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahhh, lots of lovely experiences. I never expected to find what I did either, the amazing friends

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Despite being on fab now for 304 years , the last year or so has been an amazing journey .

I've made some truly amazing and hopefully life long friends , and each of them in their own way , have helped me in some way or another, and I them I hope.

Some have now left fab but are still great friends .

So to everyone here who I've made connections with and can call friends, thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cold, hard heart was melted by one member....

Wouldn't of changed a thing - we had some amazing moments

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end

Mr"

How the heck do you get away with that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end

Mr"

I didn't expect to find you either gorgeous man but so glad I did.... thank you Fab.

I have met some absolutely fantastic people over the years, and have some wonderful friends on here who I can't wait to see again.

I have only used the forums for the past 3 or 4 years and I also didn't expect to become so addicted to it. You are all so much fun, so enticing and wonderfully different.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end

How the heck do you get away with that!!! "

I told him you would be working out my nicknames...

they are so ridiculous that I love them

NBVN x

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "

The same as you my dear. Thank you to those of you who understand and tolerate me, you’re lovely to me.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Especially with it being that fabulous awesome woman of yours

You're not wrong. She's a bit special

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I didn't expect to find her ladyship. This place should have a warning notice

Love how you call her her ladyship. Does she make you call her that

She gets called lots of things tbh, most are variations of her actual name so I keep them off of here. I can reveal that her name works just fine with "ita" "ostomy" and "roony" added to the end

How the heck do you get away with that!!!

I told him you would be working out my nicknames...

they are so ridiculous that I love them

NBVN x"

He's a brave man fair play, you two are too cute mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

The same as you my dear. Thank you to those of you who understand and tolerate me, you’re lovely to me.

I don’t tolerate you at all, I actively like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Especially with it being that fabulous awesome woman of yours

You're not wrong. She's a bit special

She really is

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No I didn’t expect it at all especially as I’m all the way across the Irish Sea I never would of had the chance to build relationships with such amazing people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "

We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.

When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I didn’t expect it at all especially as I’m all the way across the Irish Sea I never would of had the chance to build relationships with such amazing people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.

When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.

I’ve found a lot of support too, it’s lovely isn’t it

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Absolutely not. Got a lot more than I bargained for. There are many people here I adore. Several I call close friends. They are the reason I come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.

When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.

I guess being a mod will inevitably affect the way you interact with others on the forums, but just wanted to say that I for one like your contributions, always thoughtful well balanced and kind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

We had no expectations other than to meet people we got along with and have sex with them. It's pretty much lived up to that.

When I asked for help about my situation with my parents people were very kind on the forum. Two people messaged privately.

I guess being a mod will inevitably affect the way you interact with others on the forums, but just wanted to say that I for one like your contributions, always thoughtful well balanced and kind.

Mr"

Yes it's only natural and thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. Got a lot more than I bargained for. There are many people here I adore. Several I call close friends. They are the reason I come back

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I have found more friendship than anything else. Some genuine, beautiful people. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a hand full of people on here only meet one person and she has come off here for a bit. The other I know before I come on here.

Most of my mates are in the music industry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one extreme to another really OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From one extreme to another really OP

I wasn’t expecting to find a community, but I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found some amazing friends and one in particular who is now part of my daily life and I would struggle without her!

There are a few men who I chat to a lot as friends now and are there when I need them.

Have to take the rough with the smooth, as many horrors as there are goodies

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Absolutely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one extreme to another really OP

I wasn’t expecting to find a community, but I did

Jolly hockey sticks for you

I have fab friends now, and I am now aware of the warning signs, I guess you have to learn the ‘in written rules’ of the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No expectations, stumbled in here during lockdown, but have had made fantastic connections with huge range of people. Definitely a positive experience.

And you make the forum a brighter place

Ah, thank you so much !

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

I expected to feel like a blob fish out of water but had some lovely chats on here, a fantastic meet recently that I've kept in touch with and advice for my first club night visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had no expectations but i love fab. Way way too much.

Haha! Me too

I love it, too. I didn’t expect to meet so many like minded, genuine and honest people! I didn’t know this site existed until March this year. I’m glad a fwb recommended it to me xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Found some wonderful friends on here, which I did not expect at all.

I'd have been lost without you during lockdown. The support & understanding has been overwhelming.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality? "

I had no expectations

Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed

Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To find so many amazing and lovely friends on here?

I’ve had so much love and support from the amazing people on here

What did you expect to find? Did the expectation match the reality?

I had no expectations

Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed

Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me.

LOVE this 3

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've met 3 of the loveliest men from here, they are true life friends. Over the last 2.5 years, they've been super supportive and been there for me, when I've been at some low points and we've also shared some amazing times.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Yh i've met some great people that have become good friends. But I want to be more than just friends with almost all of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s some great stories

. I love it

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Did the expectation match the reality?

I had no expectations

Just came to see how it might change things for me when I was widowed

Fab bought me love, and marriage once more, and a couple of friends so it's been good for me.

LOVE this 3 "

Thank you x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Didnt expect to really like some people of here but I do xx

Love the way the humour unfolds xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didnt expect to really like some people of here but I do xx

Love the way the humour unfolds xxx"

You’re lovely, you get out what you put in

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Didnt expect to really like some people of here but I do xx

Love the way the humour unfolds xxx

You’re lovely, you get out what you put in

As are you xxx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Fab has been brilliant to us, but our best friend we made from here is devoting herself to the vanilla life for the time being...she’s sorely missed.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I found some great new friends here and stayed in touch with some that are no longer on the site

There are some very handsome, sexy guys here when you look for them.

It’s a great mix of personalities too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanted to find myself. Sexually. I think I did. In theory at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wanted to find myself. Sexually. I think I did. In theory at least.

Me too, found myself, and the hidden little slutbag inside me too

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We wanted to find people who would let us explore our desires together.

Its worked out well for us so far.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I've been very lucky to meet some amazing people and built some amazing friendships. I'd like to thank them all and hopefully I'll continue to make more x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’ve met some genuinely lovely people from here. As someone else said when you approach with no expectations, you can’t help but be taken back by the sincerity and loveliness of some of the people on here.

I often get told that I’m a bit of a closed book which is probably somewhat true, but I’ve definitely met some people on here I can talk to, and vent to, when needed and it’s very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve met some genuinely lovely people from here. As someone else said when you approach with no expectations, you can’t help but be taken back by the sincerity and loveliness of some of the people on here.

I agree, lots of lovely people, who genuinely care

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We didn’t. But were so grateful for a few who really helped through the toughest time

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t expect it at all but I’m so grateful for the friends I’ve made on here, worth their weight in gold

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I did expect anything … especially when I first joined!

I am well and truly happy though with the friends I’ve made & met… very special people

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