FabSwingers.com forum: Would you feel

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered??

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Yes

Have you had yours x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "
I wouldn't consider meeting someone who wasn't

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes

Have you had yours x

Yes all done months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Yes

Have you had yours x

Yes all done months ago

Same here and I've got my card to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Have you had yours x

Yes all done months ago

Same here and I've got my card to prove it

And me

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not particularly concerned about vaccination status (unless they believe the whole tracker thing).

I tend to have quite a lot of conversation with someone before I meet them anyway so I'd probably gauge their attitude towards risk from that more than from their vaccination status.

I wouldn't be in any way offended if someone I was meeting asked the question of me or asked when I'd last taken a test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing more profiles stating they have had both jabs.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m not bothered, COVID has never concerned me. I had both my vaccines primarily for travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely open been asked too on my profile plus card and nhs passport I’m prepared, tested this morning so grateful still negative x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't, during lock down and no meeting I got blocked because I wouldn't meet for a definite play meet so I wouldn't find it embarrassing or unacceptable to ask.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Yes I would happily ask. I think at the moment covid comes into conversation naturally with people sharing experiences. A lot talk about the issues with the vaccination as in how it made them ill.

So you'd get a pretty good idea anyway without asking outright.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Definitely open been asked too on my profile plus card and nhs passport I’m prepared, tested this morning so grateful still negative x"

All boxes ticked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't ask. We've both been double vaccinated, we've protected ourselves as much as we can, if the people we play with haven't had theirs then that's up to them

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d not have an issues asking or being asked. My libido would have the final say though

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Quite honestly I haven’t really thought of it. so I don’t think I would really bother asking.

On the other hand I would be more bothered about safe sex to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both parties safety comes 1st , protect each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely as I work in the hospital and jeopardise alot. X

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It wouldn’t be a deal killer

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't ask. We've both had ours and that's all we're interested in as far as fab meets are concerned

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We won’t meet anyone who hasn’t had both vaccines. Got to protect T x

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would defo ask... Whether they'll be truthful is something different and also don't forget they (and you) could still transmit /have /catch have the virus

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We won’t meet anyone who hasn’t had both vaccines. Got to protect T x

J x"

I won't either for a few reasons

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I think by now it's one those things you can mention in casual conversation. If they go full conspiracy mode on me though, that might make me a little uncomfortable

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would defo ask... Whether they'll be truthful is something different and also don't forget they (and you) could still transmit /have /catch have the virus

Could always ask to see their covid passport. But yes a lot of people don't realise that it can still be transmitted or caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had both, happy to be asked and comfortable asking...

After all, safety comes first..

And currently safe sex extends further than condoms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily show my double jabbed card

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I don't really see what difference it makes, people can still catch it, carry it and transmit it once vaccinated...but if you're jabbed and believe it protects you, then logic, to me anyway, dictates that it shouldn't matter if the other person is jabbed or not because you're protected.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "
its one of the reasons I will only be attending clubs asking for proof of either vaccine status and more importantly a recent negative test.

To be honest It I were meeting privately I'd be wanting them to have proof of the test more than proof of both vaccines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt ask. I’m more interested in the the person being overall healthy: no cough or cold, no sti’s, hydrated etc. I get people would want to know especially if they cannot be vaccinated themselves.

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

I've had both of mine. Tbh I don't think I'd ask now but I would've done before I was vaccinated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I’m more concerned that they are STD free as double vaccinated doesn’t mean the person can’t still be infected or pass on covid.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I think it's normal 2 ask if people av ad their jabs . We all av 2 b safe goin 4ward x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s rude to ask.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not too bothered. I’ve had mine.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I would - I don't think it's too personal to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked last week on Facebook by a friend who I've known years they deleted me when I said yes I've had both

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Not too bothered. I’ve had mine. "

Get ya coat - you've pulled.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think it’s rude to ask. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask, but would hope they’d volunteer. No interest in meeting vax deniers.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Not bothered, I wouldn't ask but would answer if asked.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Maybe it should be a mandatory question asked when doing your Fab Profile.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I saw on some program earlier that a guy who had set up a date with a woman both did LFT half an hour before meeting... I personally wouldn't trust those unless I actually saw them stick the swab in their throat and up their nose

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We don't really expect people to have it their choice

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"I got asked last week on Facebook by a friend who I've known years they deleted me when I said yes I've had both

Is her name Kate Shemirani?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"I think it’s rude to ask. "
totally agree up to you to tell you or not mrs m #

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "

Personal responsibility is key.

Even if you ask they could lie, so just take what precautions you feel are appropriate.

I wouldn’t ask, but I wouldn’t be bothered if someone asked.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Not too bothered. I’ve had mine. "

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered??

Personal responsibility is key.

Even if you ask they could lie, so just take what precautions you feel are appropriate.

I wouldn’t ask, but I wouldn’t be bothered if someone asked."

I suppose if you have no-one else to worry about apart from yourself then all good. Unfortunately in my job I do have to be careful fully knowing that even though I have had both I could still catch and pass it on.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Absolutely would ask, and confirm a negative lateral flow test before meeting. Yes, it's not foolproof but neither are condoms, abd those are a must for me too

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

No. It makes no difference to transmission. It's not my business if they have or haven't chosen to vaccinate against anything.

I'm more interested in sexual health transparency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got asked last week on Facebook by a friend who I've known years they deleted me when I said yes I've had both

Is her name Kate Shemirani?"
no it was a lad I went to school with

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"No. It makes no difference to transmission. It's not my business if they have or haven't chosen to vaccinate against anything.

I'm more interested in sexual health transparency.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. It's an everyday aspect of our lives, so I've no hesitation in discussion of it. I'm fully vaxed and prefer to be around others who have been, where they can be

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm not bothered, but might ask them to take a test.

I've had both mine but still want to be kind of careful.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

I dont see it makes a difference as someone with double vaccine can get it and pass it on just the same. Its personal protection at the end of the day.

Ps. Youd soon find out if you go to a club or bar and they cant get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I wouldn’t ask, none of my business what medical intervention they choose to take. I’d be more interested in a conversation around sexual health and a lft test, if I thought it necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more concerned with a LFT than their vaccination status. They can still carry it but I’m double jabbed so it would be them at risk more than me if they are not jabbed.

However I’ve asked friends to do a LFT - I have friends visiting Sunday (non swingers) and have asked that they do one as I’m having my baby next week and want to be as careful as possible

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I would want the conversation before meeting. For me it's not primarily about the specifics of what type of jabs when, and not being vaccinated would not be a deal breaker. It's more about the social attitude and understanding of the situation.

If there was somebody that had not been vaccinated and had good rational reasons for that, and we found a mutual attraction, then of course I would still meet up. However I'm sure that (being of similar mind) we would be careful in other ways to minimise any danger to either of us.

Conversely, if it transpired that we had very different attitudes towards vaccination and covid, the conversation would help prevent a disastrous meeting. I'm sure that any anti-vax or covid-denying person would want to avoid me, as much as I would want to avoid them, purely on the grounds of emotional incompatibility.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't think i could bear to have sex with anyone who spouted any conspiracy theories.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't ask directly.

The pandemic has changed how I think about who I want to meet and I'll apply that logic to my vetting process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not bothered. It makes zero difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nae bothered

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've been double jabbed ... can't see how I'd be a carrier

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I don't think i could bear to have sex with anyone who spouted any conspiracy theories.

Depends what the theory was. If someone told me the moon was made out of Wensleydale cheese, I'm sure we could have a good natter about Wallace and Gromit...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Would you feel comfortable asking if a potential meet has had both vaccines or are you not bothered?? "

If it bothered us then we would ask but we work on the principle that there is a risk regardless of whether we are vaccinated or not. We know the risk and if meeting clearly prepared to run them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had both and take vitamin d, so sorted. I’m sure to some people I’m Natas spelt backwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the hypocritical world that swinging is i but a man would be asked for more details than a women would.

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