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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics are sexy. I put lewder pics (and face pics) in friends only, so people can see that there's something hidden away as a reward for engaging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people would like to see that sort of stuff and it's a turn off for others.

I'll be the first to say you'll never please everyone on here so do whatever you feel comfortable.

It sounds like a cliché and a shit answer to your question but it's the only real answer I could give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got a good set of pics though, in my opinion Shows you, your face, your personality. If anyone wants to see more then I'm sure they won't be shy in asking.

After all, we all have one common interest otherwise we wouldn't be here...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your pics are sexy. I put lewder pics (and face pics) in friends only, so people can see that there's something hidden away as a reward for engaging lol"

Thanks, nice to get feed back glad I dont look it a troll.

Yeah that mystery surprise gift reward is the kind of angle I look at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?"

I got a message from someone who had 9 almost identical dick pics and no other photos.

I don't have any "money shot" photos on my profile as that's not who I am. I think its handy to have at least one on a males profile as it might be a bit awkward after chatting to say "do u wanna see my cock" or "can I see your cock"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not. "

So what do you look for before you chat to some one?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont have any on my profile and it makes not difference.

Show what you are comfortable with showing x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm not.

So what do you look for before you chat to some one?"

Usually humour, effort put into their profile to say who they are and what they are looking for and if that aligns with my own wants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I got a message from someone who had 9 almost identical dick pics and no other photos.

I don't have any "money shot" photos on my profile as that's not who I am. I think its handy to have at least one on a males profile as it might be a bit awkward after chatting to say "do u wanna see my cock" or "can I see your cock" "

I totally understand that direction.

But let's be honest most dicks are ugly lol mine looks like a a dead chicken been plucked

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I wouldn't show mine in public photos.

They very rarely make it to my friends photos.

But I'm quite shy.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Your profile is just fine and pics are lovely.

My personal choice would be to see a dic pic before I’ll agree to a social. Lessons learnt from previous experiences where the whole surprise part has just been a massive disappointment. Forewarned is forearmed so to speak!

Mrs J x

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

Show me the person, not the penis.

E

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is just fine and pics are lovely.

My personal choice would be to see a dic pic before I’ll agree to a social. Lessons learnt from previous experiences where the whole surprise part has just been a massive disappointment. Forewarned is forearmed so to speak!

Mrs J x"

Noted Mrs J and thank you

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?"

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis! "

I've got to say you have a very tasteful profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As an 'anything' I don't have this problem.

I guess if I was 'tits' i'd get messages from tit people.

And if I was a vulva i'd get messages asking me how many miles to the gallon

I don't want to hang out my genitals in photographs or on social media thanks.

People who are naked in clubs don't show as much as people do here and if you think about it , how much vulva can you see when you are in it ? same applies to cock .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ok as the fact I have a personality and my picture doesn’t define who I am or what I’m about as a person it’s just simply a picture I chose to have as a profile picture on here, maybe even a private joke between myself and another member. I completely understand some people hate them and I’m completely ok with that. Seems some guys don’t like guys revealing profile pictures but don’t complain about the ladies or couples revealing pictures, for me personally it makes no difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even show my boobs generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an 'anything' I don't have this problem.

I guess if I was 'tits' i'd get messages from tit people.

And if I was a vulva i'd get messages asking me how many miles to the gallon

I don't want to hang out my genitals in photographs or on social media thanks.

People who are naked in clubs don't show as much as people do here and if you think about it , how much vulva can you see when you are in it ? same applies to cock ....... "

"...how many miles to the gallon"

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?"

I had a couple of cock pics set to private in case anyone asked to see one.

In roughly 8 years I've not had one person ask to see a cock pic.

That tells me all I need to know about having them public.

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis!

I've got to say you have a very tasteful profile."

Why thank you so much!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I don't even show my boobs generally "

That's because you need blue bras.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis!

I've got to say you have a very tasteful profile.

Why thank you so much! "

Dont need to thank me. You putting the creative effort on your bio and profile give credit where credit is due.

I may have to do a few more checky naked ones.

Got to get this creative flow going.

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis!

I've got to say you have a very tasteful profile.

Why thank you so much!

Dont need to thank me. You putting the creative effort on your bio and profile give credit where credit is due.

I may have to do a few more checky naked ones.

Got to get this creative flow going."

I just like putting enough pics of myself and my body without filters and plenty of info so that people know what they'd be 'getting'. Two people who have met me irl have said that I look just like my pics (one even said I was prettier in person, aww). I'd hate for anyone to think I was 'catfishing' them!

I met someone off here back when I was green, and his picture was at least 15 yrs old and he looked nothing like it, it was honestly like a completely different person and it was a bit of a shock tbf. No wonder he kept swerving me asking for more pics!

I know better now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people more inclined to talk with you, if you have your genitals out?

I dont have any on my profile it is something that I should consider doing?

I personally much much prefer a face pic on profiles and various pics of the person than pic after pic of a penis in different angles. Of course the odd penis pic is great, I have pics of my boobs and butt and sexy pics too, after all we are all trying to attract people sexually, but I personally am more attracted to a face than a penis!

I've got to say you have a very tasteful profile.

Why thank you so much!

Dont need to thank me. You putting the creative effort on your bio and profile give credit where credit is due.

I may have to do a few more checky naked ones.

Got to get this creative flow going.

I just like putting enough pics of myself and my body without filters and plenty of info so that people know what they'd be 'getting'. Two people who have met me irl have said that I look just like my pics (one even said I was prettier in person, aww). I'd hate for anyone to think I was 'catfishing' them!

I met someone off here back when I was green, and his picture was at least 15 yrs old and he looked nothing like it, it was honestly like a completely different person and it was a bit of a shock tbf. No wonder he kept swerving me asking for more pics!

I know better now! "

One thing I detest is people deceiving others. Im very black and white what you see is what you get.

I can see the players a mile off when it comes to men (which is not my thing) women on the other hand I have to be more analytic. As most us men sometimes use our second brain and not necessarily first brain.

So Im just taking my time not rush it's only frustrating when the conversation just stops. Or its short 3 or 4 words.

Pics are nice to look at but the mind is more stimulating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok cock pics get more engagement. After 30sec upload people jump on it. Semi and full are up

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, puts me right off being confronted by cock pics, followed by pics of dicks in multiple women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is every flavour for every taste here. Just be the flavour you are and someone will find you to be to their taste.

I barely even show skin in my profile but it’s what I’m comfortable with.

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