FabSwingers.com forum: The appeal of swinging clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do you go to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the fetishes under one roof!

People actually turn up, have fun, find further connections for future escapades!!

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We go because we dont have a big enough house to have our own playroom/dungeon, but when we do we probably go far less, we love the social aspect too.

Mr Hayes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great people and great fun plus I’m an exhibitionist so like being watched!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Atmosphere people sex everywhere.

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By *alwholikes2watchWoman
over a year ago

solihull

Where else can you have a dance in your lingerie without the worry of someone touching your ass without asking like in straight clubs.

I love swingers clubs and wouldn’t go anywhere else now.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

For us- it's the hot tub mainly, but also socialising with like-minded people.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

The freedom of being able to act out sexual fantasies in a safe place. Being surrounded by like minded people and the smell.. I love the warmth and scent of bodies playing with each other.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why do you go to them?"

To have sex with lots of people

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We love that we can go, have a drink, escape the outside world, be ourselves and just do what takes our fancy. Also if it's open all day and has good catering that's a great plus.

As for the actual swinging we find mischief as and when it presents it's self. But we can generally be found at the bar, having a great time. The only plan we go with is to have a great time together and the rest flows naturally. Be it just a night of having a great time in each others company, a night of socialising with new and old freinds or a night of complete filth. We always have a great time wherever the road leads. Part of the fun is not knowing who we'll meet and where the night will go. We're not for agenda's, ticking boxes or adding notches to the bed post.

We find online life a bit rubbish for meeting new people. You never really get a feel for chemistry until you meet people in real life. Some people you may fancy online and in real life turn out to be meh. Some people you may not like their profile etc but when you come across them in a club they turn out to be awesome. But clubs are great because you get to meet people face to face and if the chemistry is right you have the opportunity to take it further then and there. Likewise if its not the night is not wasted or an awkward captive situation like an arranged meet. You can simply move on and see who else is around and they can too.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I want to go, see what it is like, prance about in my nice things, get some fun for us, mix and try to connect, see where it goes, could find a reg fun few people

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I went on Friday night for my first time as a single woman since my partner died. We loved the social side of swinging and I wanted to see if I could still do it on my own. Turns out I can! And having gone thinking I absolutely wouldn’t play, I met a really nice guy who wasn’t pushy and ended up having a really good time

So for me it’s the social element and being able to get dressed up - anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the social side too, have friends on the scene and it's a great way to catch up. And tbh I quite like sitting about in my undies or a towel...it is liberating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is there for the same thing so no dramas

Love the body confidence, sexiness, and chilled atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to one, but very curious to try one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been to one, but very curious to try one day!"

I'm the same... Hopefully the townhouse forum trip will get organised at some point in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons I used to go to my local one was, The social side making friends and connections

Great for meeting new people!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Serious answer now..... I enjoy the freedom of a dress down club/wet club. I like being able to be naked or semi dressed around people and (for the most part) not be judged.

I enjoy meeting people, chatting to friends and just having fun.

I also enjoy the jacuzzi and my jet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the reasons I used to go to my local one was, The social side making friends and connections

Great for meeting new people!"

LC??

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A few reasons. I love stripping down to my boxers and feeling free. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist I guess, so I have enjoyed having fun in front of others. Im not a massive watcher, but having a passing glance at what others are doing around me is a turn on.

I’m also nosey so I love chatting to new people. Finding out about them and their story. I’ve really missed clubs for that.

I love going to new ones. Ive tried 18 at the last count lol. I’ve a few to tick off my list this next few months.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool from

We can go to club with a nightclub vibe, have a dance and not feel old.

They're full of like minded people.

Every night is different.

We may indulge in fun with others, or just with each other and we can make some noise which we can't at home.

Take your own drinks, so it's no more expensive than a night in a pub.

We love people watching

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We go as a couple, beacuse it's easier to meet people there than here, as a couple.

You can see both people, chat and have a drink and see if anything comes of it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie. "

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool from

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?"

You can wear what you like, we've seen Women in Jeans and Top.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?

You can wear what you like, we've seen Women in Jeans and Top."

Depends on the club though. Some are dress down clubs and you can't wear 'outside' clothes, especially wet clubs such as chams. Women can wear lingerie or towels etc and men shorts or towels n

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool from

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?

You can wear what you like, we've seen Women in Jeans and Top.

Depends on the club though. Some are dress down clubs and you can't wear 'outside' clothes, especially wet clubs such as chams. Women can wear lingerie or towels etc and men shorts or towels n"

Good point. We don't go to dress down clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go for the social side and for the dungeon

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?"

No not at all, it's up to you, that's just one of the things I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice to watch.

Nice to be watched.

You see sights you don't see in everyday life.

More relaxed than meeting one on one.

Never know who you're going to meet.

You're judged as you, instead of some statistics entered into a profile.

Like minded people everywhere.

They have 'equipment' you don't have at home.

You can play with multiple people.

Women walk around in lingerie.

Do women have to walk around in lingerie?"

Not always and the clubs where they do then the men also have to be in theirs, or a towel. Not everyone is a fan of dress down clubs, it's a personal choice. Most clubs set a 'dress how you dare' and men must be smart and make as equal of an effort as the women. There are always locker/changing rooms if you fancy dressing down a little more later on.

Some clubs allow normal going out smart clothes in the public/bar/front of house area; but to ensure those in the play rooms don't feel like a zoo exhibit, everyone must be dressed down in this area.

Then there are the club/party events where age, dress etc are more strictly directed but that's a different thread all together

Elle x

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Why do you go to them?"

Better chance of finding someone who wants to fuck me than in a conventional club.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

You make make as much grunt and groan as you like without setting off the neighbourhood dogs barking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side plus we have young choldren at home.

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