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"Please don't take the opening question the wrong way?? I am just curious " i didnt, i was just twatting about | |||
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"Please don't take the opening question the wrong way?? I am just curious i didnt, i was just twatting about " Lol, I wasn't worried about you!! | |||
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"how dare they be??? they should just be grateful of a meet " exactly! | |||
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"Personally I am fussy who I meet ,there needs to be an attraction and a connection for anything further ,but generally speaking on here I believe many men on here think any hole is a goal." | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online?" Not implying that you would lower your standards!! Just interested to see if men are as fussy as us women folk | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " The sole reason we have not met a couple is that I, the male, am extremely fussy. I have always been fussy even when I was single and I don't understand men who aren't. Maybe they lack self esteem and self confidence, or maybe they are desperate, or just a bit basic. | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? Not implying that you would lower your standards!! Just interested to see if men are as fussy as us women folk " Well i can't speak for all only myself, but i'd say the one thing i find here is a like mind & the ability to find those who are both attractive and exciting/open minded. I mean you can hardly go up to a woman you find attractive in a pub & start by asking her what her sexual kinks are, you'd probably get a hefty slap if that was the case. Here however you can read and learn before so if the attraction is there & you know what they like, you can guess you might be able to have some fun | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " Guys i know are fussy....not all guys are any hole a goal | |||
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"i am to some extent but even i (as a man) have to admit that in general "us" men are less fuss " Oi...!!! You speak fer yaself... Too bloody fussy fer me own good me... | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online?" I like you | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " Well everyone is lookin for enjoyment i have had some good times by both curvy and large ladies for me looks are unemportent | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? I like you" Nice to know But Leeds is terribly far away you know! | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? I like you Nice to know But Leeds is terribly far away you know!" Its all for the best I will be able to retain my unsullied image of you for all eternity! | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? I like you Nice to know But Leeds is terribly far away you know!" 2 hours on the train. You just need to try harder. And we're more fun up here. | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? I like you Nice to know But Leeds is terribly far away you know! Its all for the best I will be able to retain my unsullied image of you for all eternity!" Oh i don't know i quite like the idea of being sullied, it's up there with taken & teased for me | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " 1 word answer for you.... abso-bloody-lutely!!! | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " 1 word answer for you.... abso-bloody-lutely!!! | |||
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"Upset couple this week by turning them down some people think single men will automatically say yes " Ahh yes, where someone takes 'umbridge' because you don't want to play with them yet they believe that they are 'throwing you a bone' (so to speak) and you should be honoured they are even acknowledging you because you're a single guy. That's a huge turn off right there, but sadly they rarely see it. | |||
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"I need to know........ Is Bussy fussy? Oh yes ! " Had visions of the churchill dog then lol (That's me upset u) no meet for me then lol | |||
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"Yes, I'm very fussy. As a previous poster mentioned, I too have standards, morals and dignity. " And why not i am too xx its a good thing ... as you can always bend down and pick up nothing ... everyone can .. | |||
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"I need to know........ Is Bussy fussy? Oh yes ! Had visions of the churchill dog then lol (That's me upset u) no meet for me then lol " I'll let you off ! Just this once mind | |||
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"I need to know........ Is Bussy fussy? Oh yes ! Had visions of the churchill dog then lol (That's me upset u) no meet for me then lol I'll let you off ! Just this once mind " Oh n here was me looking forward to being put over ur knee.... | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging." Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. " But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. " That may be the case, but is that based purely on their looks alone ? Surely you have also seen men who are extremely attractive also disappear into private rooms with people you may think were well below their 'pulling capability' ? | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. " I'd agree with that. Have been to clubs where some guys have taken any offer. It's easy to be fussy if you can afford to be. Most guys on here bang out loads of emails and get very few responses at all, let alone positive ones. So they're more likely to take any offer. | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. That may be the case, but is that based purely on their looks alone ? Surely you have also seen men who are extremely attractive also disappear into private rooms with people you may think were well below their 'pulling capability' ?" Yep you do,but you don't see so many unattractive men going into private rooms with really stunning woman or couples. | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. I'd agree with that. Have been to clubs where some guys have taken any offer. It's easy to be fussy if you can afford to be. Most guys on here bang out loads of emails and get very few responses at all, let alone positive ones. So they're more likely to take any offer." Thankyou so to a large degree a good looking lad can afford to be more fussy than a not so good looking bloke... In our opinion most blokes will shag anything they can get simply because they can't afford to be fussy.. | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. That may be the case, but is that based purely on their looks alone ? Surely you have also seen men who are extremely attractive also disappear into private rooms with people you may think were well below their 'pulling capability' ? Yep you do,but you don't see so many unattractive men going into private rooms with really stunning woman or couples. " Is it because they are often made to feel more comfortable by someone who they feel is in 'their league' ? Is it because a woman is less likely to compromise than a man ? I honestly don't know the answer (if indeed there is one) and can only speak personally, but the original statement still stands, that I disagree with the comment that just because of how a guy looks, he can't afford to be picky. We all have the right to be picky. How we choose to exercise that right is the only variable ! | |||
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"Yup of course i am, everyone has tastes; standards; dignity. It's hardly difficult to go out on the pull and pick someone up so why would i lower my standards just because it's online? I like you Nice to know But Leeds is terribly far away you know! 2 hours on the train. You just need to try harder. And we're more fun up here. " Oiii some of us southerners are good fun I'll have you know | |||
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"Personally I am fussy who I meet ,there needs to be an attraction and a connection for anything further ,but generally speaking on here I believe many men on here think any hole is a goal." +1 | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. That may be the case, but is that based purely on their looks alone ? Surely you have also seen men who are extremely attractive also disappear into private rooms with people you may think were well below their 'pulling capability' ? Yep you do,but you don't see so many unattractive men going into private rooms with really stunning woman or couples. Is it because they are often made to feel more comfortable by someone who they feel is in 'their league' ? Is it because a woman is less likely to compromise than a man ? I honestly don't know the answer (if indeed there is one) and can only speak personally, but the original statement still stands, that I disagree with the comment that just because of how a guy looks, he can't afford to be picky. We all have the right to be picky. How we choose to exercise that right is the only variable !" Thats fine i don't agree with your comments either.like i said our opinion is based on what we see or have seen. Don't disagree that some guys are fussy but on the whole most guys will shag anything they can get..You see threads on here all the time from guys that can't get meets,maybe you are the exception and get so much mail you can turn people down... | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " I guess it depends on the guy in question. If you are a Jude Law look-alike you are likely to get a lot of interest from woman, so you are going to be fussy. Whereas If you are that ugly fat bloke from down the road, with a thimble for a cock, you are likely to get little or no interest so you have to take what you can get. Sad but true. | |||
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" maybe you are the exception and get so much mail you can turn people down... " not at all i rarely get mail in volume and of the ones i do get i would say only about 5% of them are of interest to me physically. in here, it is also rare that i go and trawl for prospective playmates. i take the rare male step of letting them come find me if they are interested. that's not to say i don't get meets if i was more pro-active or lowered my standards or opened up the times i can play, i could meet many more but we all have to do what we are comfy with. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? I guess it depends on the guy in question. If you are a Jude Law look-alike you are likely to get a lot of interest from woman, so you are going to be fussy. Whereas If you are that ugly fat bloke from down the road, with a thimble for a cock, you are likely to get little or no interest so you have to take what you can get. Sad but true." I just don't get the whole 'have to take what you can get' argument!! Sure, fab is a sex site - but if all you are seeking is any form of release - have a wank ffs!! No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered - and if you can't apply the same set of standards to life on here as you would in any other aspect of life - setting yourself boundaries, aspirations, needs and wants - and sticking to them - then you really do fall into that 'will fuck anything with a pulse' category that so many on site rightly avoid!! And that then creates a vicious circle you'll never escape from! | |||
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" No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered " No, but if you offered am sure there would be many willing to obi-lige See what I did there ? Clever eh ? | |||
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" No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered No, but if you offered am sure there would be many willing to obi-lige See what I did there ? Clever eh ? " your on the ball today bussy | |||
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"I, too, wonder what fussy means for different people - is it fussy as in standards of appearance, attractiveness, hygiene or fussy in terms of the "history", perceived or otherwise of a potential meet? Just a thought..." in my case, all of the above | |||
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"I, too, wonder what fussy means for different people - is it fussy as in standards of appearance, attractiveness, hygiene or fussy in terms of the "history", perceived or otherwise of a potential meet? Just a thought... in my case, all of the above " Just realised I got no chance then | |||
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"I, too, wonder what fussy means for different people - is it fussy as in standards of appearance, attractiveness, hygiene or fussy in terms of the "history", perceived or otherwise of a potential meet? Just a thought... in my case, all of the above Just realised I got no chance then " Oh I wouldn't be too sure I like the fact your posts often make me think Oh and plus the fact my intrigue'ometer does go ding a ling quite a bit when I see a certain b&w pic | |||
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" Sure, fab is a sex site - but if all you are seeking is any form of release - have a wank ffs!! No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered - and if you can't apply the same set of standards to life on here as you would in any other aspect of life - setting yourself boundaries, aspirations, needs and wants - and sticking to them - then you really do fall into that 'will fuck anything with a pulse' category that so many on site rightly avoid!! " Why do you say 'rightly'? | |||
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"I, too, wonder what fussy means for different people - is it fussy as in standards of appearance, attractiveness, hygiene or fussy in terms of the "history", perceived or otherwise of a potential meet? Just a thought... in my case, all of the above Just realised I got no chance then Oh I wouldn't be too sure I like the fact your posts often make me think Oh and plus the fact my intrigue'ometer does go ding a ling quite a bit when I see a certain b&w pic " That's funny as my posts make ME think sometimes, sadly as some would say, too late ie once they have been posted... | |||
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"how do you ladies feel if the last guy you met has told all and sundry on here that he isn't fussy " You could take that either way... I d probably think that he did not appreciate me as a person. Having said that, I would probably not meet him in the first place. | |||
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"how dare they be??? they should just be grateful of a meet " NO | |||
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"how dare they be??? they should just be grateful of a meet exactly!" ditto | |||
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" Sure, fab is a sex site - but if all you are seeking is any form of release - have a wank ffs!! No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered - and if you can't apply the same set of standards to life on here as you would in any other aspect of life - setting yourself boundaries, aspirations, needs and wants - and sticking to them - then you really do fall into that 'will fuck anything with a pulse' category that so many on site rightly avoid!! Why do you say 'rightly'?" IMHO there's a lot more to this 'lifestyle' or whatever you choose to call it (or yourself) than racking up numbers and hooking up with the first person that will have you out of desperation, the need for a 'quick fix' - or just because you really believe any holes a goal! I'd never dream of dictating to people who they meet, or how often - but the first thing that puts me off a profile is the sense that they don't give a toss about who they play with and that the 'end justifies the means'. That's why in my view - profiles such as that are 'rightly avoided' - but of course it's just my own opinion and we're all entitled to have different viewpoints!! | |||
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"how dare they be??? they should just be grateful of a meet " how did you mange to say that down there with your mouth full | |||
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" Sure, fab is a sex site - but if all you are seeking is any form of release - have a wank ffs!! No-one should think they are 'obliged' to say yes just because it's offered - and if you can't apply the same set of standards to life on here as you would in any other aspect of life - setting yourself boundaries, aspirations, needs and wants - and sticking to them - then you really do fall into that 'will fuck anything with a pulse' category that so many on site rightly avoid!! Why do you say 'rightly'? IMHO there's a lot more to this 'lifestyle' or whatever you choose to call it (or yourself) than racking up numbers and hooking up with the first person that will have you out of desperation, the need for a 'quick fix' - or just because you really believe any holes a goal! I'd never dream of dictating to people who they meet, or how often - but the first thing that puts me off a profile is the sense that they don't give a toss about who they play with and that the 'end justifies the means'. That's why in my view - profiles such as that are 'rightly avoided' - but of course it's just my own opinion and we're all entitled to have different viewpoints!!" I was just curious about your insertion of the word. In many threads the reply of “looks are not really important to me, it is more about the personality” are seen as an admirable stance against the shallower response of “it’s all about the looks for me”. I sometimes wonder where the line is between the admirable “looks are not the most important thing” and the less admirable ”I don’t really give a shit what they look like, I can fuck it”. I know people will say ‘personality’…. but when you read what they mean by personality they are not really looking for anything exceptional. Someone they can happily chat with, have a laugh, hold a conversation and so on. Do we really think people who can fuck damn near anyone must all be rude morons? Is another way to look at it that they are capable of seeing all people as sexual beings regardless of the package and capable of sharing a fun and enjoyable session of pleasure? Are all ‘any hole is a goal’ crap quick shags, who grunt when you open the car door and zip up as soon as they cum? I wonder. | |||
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" Is another way to look at it that they are capable of seeing all people as sexual beings regardless of the package and capable of sharing a fun and enjoyable session of pleasure? " This Willingness to do this and just enjoy the moment should be the most attractive thing in the scene, not the most shunned and avoided. Otherwise the lunatics really have taken over the asylum. Wolf | |||
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"how dare they be??? they should just be grateful of a meet " We should have a revolution and loose our interest in women for a month or two, if you girls would spend some money on batteries in that time you might stop thinkin that we should be greatfull for your attention lol But yea, some of us r fusy and some r only looking for a hole lol | |||
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"Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. " That they've paid £50 or £60 to get in may have a bearing on how fussy they are in a club. Just a thought. | |||
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"Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. That they've paid £50 or £60 to get in may have a bearing on how fussy they are in a club. Just a thought." Never been a sex club ,if guys are paying that much to get through the door then I'd agree . | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " Mr B is very fussy, he says no to far more than I do. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? Mr B is very fussy, he says no to far more than I do. " But do they get all the creases out?? | |||
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" Is another way to look at it that they are capable of seeing all people as sexual beings regardless of the package and capable of sharing a fun and enjoyable session of pleasure? This Willingness to do this and just enjoy the moment should be the most attractive thing in the scene, not the most shunned and avoided. Otherwise the lunatics really have taken over the asylum. Wolf " Wwwwibble...!!! | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x" With respect to the lovelly ladies on this site... Are they prepared to lower their standards to accommodate you...?;-) | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x With respect to the lovelly ladies on this site... Are they prepared to lower their standards to accommodate you...?;-)" | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " I would say I am selective and don't drop standards as it wouldn't be any fun for me if I did. | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x With respect to the lovelly ladies on this site... Are they prepared to lower their standards to accommodate you...?;-)" Not all of them can accommodate can they? | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x" I can't imagine why you're having problems meeting women. | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x I can't imagine why you're having problems meeting women. " Me neither | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " One has standards | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? One has standards" And one is not necessarily referring to the National colours...;-) | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x" If you had phrased that as.... "I have grown out of my shallow need to focus on an unrealistic aesthetic ideal and learnt to appreciate all women are sexual creatures. Sex is great because of what you both put into it not because of how someone looks".... they'd be queuing up to suck you off.... instead of snearing. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? One has standardsAnd one is not necessarily referring to the National colours...;-)" I'm not a standard bearer! | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x" This site is full of hotties cant see you getting much now lol | |||
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"I used to be fussy. Being on this site a few times soon diasbused me of that being a good idea. I have lowered my standards significantly x" Aren't you just charming.... | |||
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" Are they prepared to lower their standards to accommodate you...?;-) Not all of them can accommodate can they?" I wouldn't like to commit one way or the other. When it comes to accommodating I can be fickle and changeable. I am far too whimsical, changeable, fickle or even capricious. So what I think about accommodating today is changeable depending on whether I am being predictable or unpredictable whilst being impulsive or not. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " Am I fussy? Hmm, I don't think so. That doesn't mean that I'll hit on anyone with a pulse ... I mean I look for characteristics that excite, challenge or intrigue me. | |||
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"lol at the brown nosing knights in shining Armour, and the oh so lovely sneering women. Yes, I would fuck women from here I wouldn't usually go for, but what is wrong with that? We live and we learn do we not." Nothing wrong with that at all mate. If more guys were honest it might level the playing field a bit. | |||
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"lol at the brown nosing knights in shining Armour, and the oh so lovely sneering women. Yes, I would fuck women from here I wouldn't usually go for, but what is wrong with that? We live and we learn do we not." I agree with you 100% guys will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag on here and the women play on it...but many won't admit it,at least your honest | |||
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" But then also to an extent it depends what the guy looks like to how fussy he can afford to be with swinging. Don't agree with that part of your statement at all. I know I am not the most attractive proposition for many people out there, but no way would I play with someone I didn't fancy just because it was offered up. I interact with people I fancy. If they fancy me back, then sorted, let's play. If they don't fancy me, then it is very much c'est la vie. I wouldn't get arsey with them or let it affect my self esteem, just accept that on that occasion they weren't attracted to me. But we're not just talking about you ? Our opinion is based on what we have seen in clubs in uk and europe over many years...and the fact is most guys would shag anything they can get. I'd agree with that. Have been to clubs where some guys have taken any offer. It's easy to be fussy if you can afford to be. Most guys on here bang out loads of emails and get very few responses at all, let alone positive ones. So they're more likely to take any offer." And that's why they're so unsuccessful IMHO. I either meet mostly with the people who message me first, as I know they're already attracted to me in some form or carefully select who I message. I don't have the time to bash out loads of emails so I'll put effort into the ones I do send. I get a reply from most of these and if things proceed nicely then we have fun, simple really. Whereas the chaps who scattergun message hundreds can't put any thought into their messages so end up looking like idiots. I have to be attracted to something in a person I fuck, and also refuse to have sex with stupid, unhygienic or unimaginative folk. I don't think that makes me fussy, just not prepared to shag anything that moves for the mere sake of it. I do however think that there are many men that do fuck absolutely anything as they actively seek sex more than women so women are more in demand. The opposite is true of dating and relationships. More women seek this than men, which is why its more often you see an attractive woman in a relationship with a man who isn't conventionally attractive. A lot of women lower their standards for relationships when they reach a certain age and compromise due to their hunger for relationships and the biological clock whereas a man can afford to be fussy as he isn't as bothered by the need to have a life partner. | |||
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"lol at the brown nosing knights in shining Armour, and the oh so lovely sneering women. Yes, I would fuck women from here I wouldn't usually go for, but what is wrong with that? We live and we learn do we not. I agree with you 100% guys will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag on here and the women play on it...but many won't admit it,at least your honest" This is true these forums are often more like a popularity competition, few will say what they really think for fear of getting blocked | |||
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"lol at the brown nosing knights in shining Armour, and the oh so lovely sneering women. Yes, I would fuck women from here I wouldn't usually go for, but what is wrong with that? We live and we learn do we not. I agree with you 100% guys will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag on here and the women play on it...but many won't admit it,at least your honest This is true these forums are often more like a popularity competition, few will say what they really think for fear of getting blocked " Alternatively... There could be a lot of people who just happen to think the same on any given subject...;-) | |||
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"lol at the brown nosing knights in shining Armour, and the oh so lovely sneering women. Yes, I would fuck women from here I wouldn't usually go for, but what is wrong with that? We live and we learn do we not. I agree with you 100% guys will say anything a women wants to hear to get a shag on here and the women play on it...but many won't admit it,at least your honest This is true these forums are often more like a popularity competition, few will say what they really think for fear of getting blocked Alternatively... There could be a lot of people who just happen to think the same on any given subject...;-)" you could be right | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? " I am very fussy if I'm honest, I don't just wanna put my knob in anything. I do have standards | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? I am very fussy if I'm honest, I don't just wanna put my knob in anything. I do have standards " It's a fairly common reply... "I am fussy, I have standards" But what does that really mean? Someone who looks for people with tits and their own teeth has set themselves some standards. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? I am very fussy if I'm honest, I don't just wanna put my knob in anything. I do have standards It's a fairly common reply... "I am fussy, I have standards" But what does that really mean? Someone who looks for people with tits and their own teeth has set themselves some standards. " I think fussy for some means must have a pulse.. | |||
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"Just a general question to all you men out there, are you fussy about who you meet? I am very fussy if I'm honest, I don't just wanna put my knob in anything. I do have standards It's a fairly common reply... "I am fussy, I have standards" But what does that really mean? Someone who looks for people with tits and their own teeth has set themselves some standards. I think fussy for some means must have a pulse.. " Tits and their own teeth genius....that's some one with high standards | |||
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"Personally I am fussy who I meet ,there needs to be an attraction and a connection for anything further ..........." Agreed! Yes I have my "type" of lady in mind and the age range too but every so often there will be a lady who would otherwise be outside of my usual type who has "something" that makes me attracted to her. | |||
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" I think fussy for some means must have a pulse.. " Quoi que.... | |||
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