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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If you have to script your message don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?"

I heard pet names work, babe, kitten, biscuit tits, all the usual ones

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

FAF, always works

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?"

Heard a cockshot goes down a treat seriously have you not had a date or a girlfriend or chatted with someone at the bar or in a club Google could give you some tips I think to ask such a question everyone is different

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?"

There is no set template. Just be interested and interesting, then they might reply.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like to hear a woman blowing smoke up my ass!

One day it might actually happen.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I like to hear a woman blowing smoke up my ass!

One day it might actually happen. "

I would, but I've never smoked.

Can I blow vape up your ass, would that work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to hear a woman blowing smoke up my ass!

One day it might actually happen.

I would, but I've never smoked.

Can I blow vape up your ass, would that work?"

Im might why not give it a try

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?"

What do *I* like to hear in message?

"Hi Astbury! You're an ugly cunt, but I've seen you in action, and I want you to plough the shit out of me and all my hot friends. Don't even think about trying to talk to us though, you fucking weirdo."

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By *heloosekabooseMan
over a year ago

skelmersdale

Lol the trusty cock shot opener!! Leaves no grey area’s. shows intent!! Magic!

Unfortunately I don’t have a 3 ft tallywacker needed to pull off such a ballsy move therefore I rely on humour!

Probably doesn’t have the success rate as the 3ft cock shot though!!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Mr Davenport. There is a party at [time and location]. You will be there. Don't worry too much about the dress code; you will be spending it bound naked to a chair so my guests may amuse themselves on your penis."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do people actually like to hear in a first message?

I heard pet names work, babe, kitten, biscuit tits, all the usual ones"

Majority of women on here from single female and females in couples don't like that lot's of thread's before about pet name's.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"[Real first name]! I'd recognise you anywhere. I didn't know you were into this stuff! It's no secret you're into me, so wanna meet up and show me what you've got?"

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By *heloosekabooseMan
over a year ago

skelmersdale

“Do you like fruit? Well suck my cock, it’s a peach”

Never worked to date but once it gets traction I think it’s a winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always mention how big your cock is, even better attach a pic with a sky remote for scale, if its a couple always talk as if its a single women, guys love that

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Hello Astbury. I want to be fucked in front of a room full of strangers, but my husband can't perform under pressure. Your reputation precedes you, so would you be willing to make my fantasy happen too?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and dont forget that you can make her cum like her hubby never can

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Hi Astbury. I'm organising a gangbang for myself, and I need at least one safe pair of hands to lead proceedings and keep up the pace when the others lose momentum. Your name has come up again and again, so what are you doing on [date]?"

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By *heloosekabooseMan
over a year ago

skelmersdale

Good solid advice. Will add that on to my afore mentioned “fruit” opener

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Dear Mr Davenport,

I do hope you'll forgive the unsolicited message, but we spoke very briefly at our local club before the pandemic, and I confess you've rather been on my mind since.

Now, I fear I may not be your type – being so very much older than you, and such a stuffy professional to boot – but I have always harboured the desire to be ravished by a tall, dark, long-haired barbarian of a man.

My husband is a lovely fellow – I would not have been with him for so many decades otherwise – but he is hardly the type to break down a door and carry me away into the night.

Would you care to oblige me, the next time we're both at the club? I'm sure I could make it very much worth your while..."

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I like to hear a woman blowing smoke up my ass!

One day it might actually happen.

I would, but I've never smoked.

Can I blow vape up your ass, would that work?"

It’s metaphorical smoke.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"“Do you like fruit? Well suck my cock, it’s a peach”

Never worked to date but once it gets traction I think it’s a winner!"

How about "My cock may not be 12" but it smells like a foot"?

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By *heloosekabooseMan
over a year ago

skelmersdale

Outstanding curious. Will add to my openers alongside “Do you like flowers? Then get your tulips around my cock”

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

The full lyrics to 'Boom shake the room" by The Fresh Prince.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here's Mondays 'first message' thread.

It's becoming a daily occurance now.

OP, do yourself a favour, do a forum search for 'first message' and 'opening message' and see what advice has been given to others.

Should fill a few hours of your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a nice message from a guy who meets my criteria (as described in the bio), indicates that he's read that bio by including something in his message which isn't copied and pasted, and who isn't a weirdo.

Is it too much to ask? Lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A haiku at the very least, a sonnet if to be in with a real chance. I won't settle for anything less, no crappy limericks.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I just go for a picture of her fanny and a “?”

I’m a simple man with simple needs trying to live a simple life in a complicated world.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"A haiku at the very least, a sonnet if to be in with a real chance. I won't settle for anything less, no crappy limericks."

A first message is

Not always the easiest

To come up with - sigh

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