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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I message at least 20 or 30 people a day but I get no reply is there something qonrg with me my profile and photos

Any help please bare in mind I am resgistered as blind but I can see abit

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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There are thousands of single guys like you Derek who are looking for sex.

People looking for single guys have an awful lot of choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message at least 20 or 30 people a day but I get no reply is there something qonrg with me my profile and photos

Any help please bare in mind I am resgistered as blind but I can see abit"

I think the first thing you need to do is ask yourself if there's really 20 to 30 people you come across per day that you would consider sleeping with, AND feel that you match their requirements??

It's usually glaringly obvious in first messages when the person is just messaging anyone with a heartbeat within 100 miles.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello Derek,

There is nothing wrong with you or your profile.

If I could just suggest a little change to your profile in the hope that it would help it would be this .....

Take out the line that says .... ' I am not fussy what the woman looks like , height , weight etc.... it's really NOT a good thing for women to think you are not fussy ....

Replace it with .....

I enjoy the company of women and I don't have a favourite type.

Have a great time Derek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amber I message people with in 20 miles I read the profile before I message I don't message every profile I see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will do thqt thqnkw

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick

As others have said, its very difficult for single guys here and also for the women with the amount of msgs they get.

Actively use the forums, ensure if you are messaging people you genuinely like that your msgs are specific to the person and to their profile. Don't use generic copy and paste msgs.

Good luck

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Amber I message people with in 20 miles I read the profile before I message I don't message every profile I see"

Regardless of that though I'd still suggest messaging 20 to 30 people per day suggests that sex is your main goal and not the person you're messaging and perhaps if that comes across in your messages that may be part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Amber I message people with in 20 miles I read the profile before I message I don't message every profile I see

Regardless of that though I'd still suggest messaging 20 to 30 people per day suggests that sex is your main goal and not the person you're messaging and perhaps if that comes across in your messages that may be part of the problem."

sex is not my main goal I want to make friends and have fun I don't say I message 20 it 30 people a day when I message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message at least 20 or 30 people a day but I get no reply is there something qonrg with me my profile and photos

Any help please bare in mind I am resgistered as blind but I can see abit"

Im having the same problem. Dont message quite as many but the ones i do are pretty local and i don't send out generic messages. Most the time its answers to their statuses. Since being on here ive literally had about 20 replies but they never continue to chat or want to arrange a meet(social or otherwise) ive been on Facebook dating less than a week and already had about 10 replies and arranged meets with 3 people in the coming weeks, 2 of which are just looking for fwb which is what I'm looking for. Comes to something when fb gets you laid more than a sex site haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I message at least 20 or 30 people a day but I get no reply is there something qonrg with me my profile and photos

Any help please bare in mind I am resgistered as blind but I can see abit

Could try

Im having the same problem. Dont message quite as many but the ones i do are pretty local and i don't send out generic messages. Most the time its answers to their statuses. Since being on here ive literally had about 20 replies but they never continue to chat or want to arrange a meet(social or otherwise) ive been on Facebook dating less than a week and already had about 10 replies and arranged meets with 3 people in the coming weeks, 2 of which are just looking for fwb which is what I'm looking for. Comes to something when fb gets you laid more than a sex site haha"

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