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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be better showing you.

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Keep practicing on top to increase stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't go wrong with doggy

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Lots of oral getting not giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first aid kit, bandages, an oxygen tank and a defib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoon sex

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Spooning - slow, hard and passionate

Missionary - hand Mr the reins and tell him you want it slow and deep, and you want to feel every inch sliding in (that works a treat on Mr Yummy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie back and think of England

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning, with him behind and you pushing back. Gives the impression of equal effort but he's definitely having to do the lions share. If you like a good grab of you ass and boobs, then this move is a bonus for that too L xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield

Spooning sex has to be the laziest, but pleasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy spoons !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas "

I have to commend your honesty, fair play to you.

Eagle is always great, full penetration able to be achieved, only have to have the guy keep your legs up over his arms, if he's good he can play with your clit and tits as well and of course kiss you too or whisper in your ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas "

Spooning is brilliant for lazy sex. My favourite for late night or early morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out a Dirty Dangle, very lazy with a rush of blood to your head at the opportune time.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas

Spooning is brilliant for lazy sex. My favourite for late night or early morning "

Mine too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas "

Why don't you just lie back and let me give you oral sex until you've cum a dozen times?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Lie back and think of England "

Now this...I can manage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas

Spooning is brilliant for lazy sex. My favourite for late night or early morning

Mine too "

I’d better stay the night.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We would be better showing you."

I have no doubt that would be a real treat

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Keep practicing on top to increase stamina "

I could do the ride for a minute and walk for a minute technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just watch now? X

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Lazy spooning sex, wandering hands and neck kisses…

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Spooning - slow, hard and passionate

Missionary - hand Mr the reins and tell him you want it slow and deep, and you want to feel every inch sliding in (that works a treat on Mr Yummy) "

Yes yes yes

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Maybe just watch now? X"

I couldn't possibly just watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie back and think of England

Now this...I can manage "

We've got a winner!!

Never mind prone bone, prone anabelle!

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"first aid kit, bandages, an oxygen tank and a defib. "

Never a truer word...said in jest

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Lie back and think of England

Now this...I can manage

We've got a winner!!

Never mind prone bone, prone anabelle! "

Naughty

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Lie back and think of England "

This ... I'm all about the lazy. Plus my back and hips aren't great. Might manage 5 mins on top if I've been warmed up enough. This is why massage is essential as foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe just watch now? X

I couldn't possibly just watch! "

You could hold my coat and shout encouragement....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie back and think of England

This ... I'm all about the lazy. Plus my back and hips aren't great. Might manage 5 mins on top if I've been warmed up enough. This is why massage is essential as foreplay."

I love energetic and lazy.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you want hard energetic fucking, I’m not your man, slow and languid is more my way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

que a million guys saying they can"fix" you

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Maybe just watch now? X

I couldn't possibly just watch!

You could hold my coat and shout encouragement...."

I'm not done yet! I just feel like it sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe just watch now? X

I couldn't possibly just watch!

You could hold my coat and shout encouragement....

I'm not done yet! I just feel like it sometimes "

Nor am I...keep shouting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No tips for lazy sex but if you fancy some jay-z sex instead I’d recommend Encore.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No tips for lazy sex but if you fancy some jay-z sex instead I’d recommend Encore.

"

I couldn't possibly do it twice

I do enjoy a little jay-z though!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Still want to be on top, then have them sit on the edge of the bed, you have your back to them (or side on, whilst standing and lower. Not so much strain on the old legs, their hands and mouth can join in, then put that all in front of a mirror and enjoy.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon nr cheadle


"Still want to be on top, then have them sit on the edge of the bed, you have your back to them (or side on, whilst standing and lower. Not so much strain on the old legs, their hands and mouth can join in, then put that all in front of a mirror and enjoy. "

Sounds a good one does that Spurs

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just look at my profile OP and I’ll have you cumming in no time

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Just look at my profile OP and I’ll have you cumming in no time "

Poops...I read that as running xx

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Just look at my profile OP and I’ll have you cumming in no time

Poops...I read that as running xx"

touché

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Just look at my profile OP and I’ll have you cumming in no time

Poops...I read that as running xx

touché "

Ps...I've viewed your profile more than once

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Just look at my profile OP and I’ll have you cumming in no time

Poops...I read that as running xx

touché

Ps...I've viewed your profile more than once "

I know, I’m a platinum member

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

You can ride in a lazy way. Still on top

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Still want to be on top, then have them sit on the edge of the bed, you have your back to them (or side on, whilst standing and lower. Not so much strain on the old legs, their hands and mouth can join in, then put that all in front of a mirror and enjoy. "

I'l give it a go...nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if there is a natural connection, the sex will always be better than average

Sex is way more than how well you move your hips

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

In this heat you both just need to work up a sweat then get on top, your bodies will just glide along with each other, you don’t have to get on and ride like your in a rodeo, he’s not a bucking bronco, yeehaaa

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My tip is to meet very fit men who do all the work.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"My tip is to meet very fit men who do all the work.

"

This is the best tip

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I think if there is a natural connection, the sex will always be better than average

Sex is way more than how well you move your hips"

True. My ex said I was a plank in bed; my long term buddy says I'm amazing.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Laceby

We need to write a sex fitness manual…I’m sure we burn off thousands of calories.

From behind but you push back instead.

Stand up sex, you need a partner with good thighs for this , you push down on his cock as you lean back (it’s easier than it sounds as you balance out the extra weight).

You on your back, guy side on, with your legs draped over his body/legs, so from above you are in an X position….both of you can move together instead of just one…

We of course may be better showing you

C is multi orgasmic and when she cums she clenches her stomach, so she’s doing crunches constantly and getting abs through sex

K

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We need to write a sex fitness manual…I’m sure we burn off thousands of calories.

From behind but you push back instead.

Stand up sex, you need a partner with good thighs for this , you push down on his cock as you lean back (it’s easier than it sounds as you balance out the extra weight).

You on your back, guy side on, with your legs draped over his body/legs, so from above you are in an X position….both of you can move together instead of just one…

We of course may be better showing you

C is multi orgasmic and when she cums she clenches her stomach, so she’s doing crunches constantly and getting abs through sex

K"

I really enjoy it from behind...pushing back.. with slow deep strokes my favourite

I've done the standing up, with varying success.

The other I'm not familiar with...I'm trying to picture it

I may need some help to master that one

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Forking. The best Sunday morning lazy sex.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My best tip.....

Find someone you really connect with. Someone you can laugh with who makes your insides melt and your toes curl.

You won't even notice how unfit you are when you're with them.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas

Spooning is brilliant for lazy sex. My favourite for late night or early morning

Mine too

I’d better stay the night. "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Wear a hat

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"My best tip.....

Find someone you really connect with. Someone you can laugh with who makes your insides melt and your toes curl.

You won't even notice how unfit you are when you're with them."

This definitely works for me x

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Wear a hat

"

Top tip

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Wear a hat

Top tip "

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Wear a hat

Top tip

"

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Meet for a coffee and reminisce, I would have you humming in minutes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My tip is to meet very fit men who do all the work.

"

I’m not as fit as I have been but I’m still fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear sunscreen.

Now I want to listen to that song

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Meet for a coffee and reminisce, I would have you humming in minutes, "

You hum it and I'll name that tune in 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas "

You should let me show you in person. Practice makes perfect after all

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By *andman61Man
over a year ago

hereford

Lie back and think of England ???

No don’t do that it will end in failure!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay well hydrated. Helps keep cramp at bay.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Stay well hydrated. Helps keep cramp at bay. "

^^ he knows

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"My tip is to meet very fit men who do all the work.

"

This is the idea...

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Sexy spoons ! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie back and think of England "

As long as it doesn't get to a penalty shoot out

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As someone said the other week, adopt the sack of spuds position, prerecord some oops and arrrs, the odd oh fuck, a few yes,yes,yes, fake an orgasm,check out if the ceiling needs repainting, job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a fucking machine?? You wouldn't even need to put your makeup on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield


"What about a fucking machine?? You wouldn't even need to put your makeup on "

I could put a bag over her head.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Lie back and think of England

As long as it doesn't get to a penalty shoot out "

Careful he doesn't foul you in the box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a fucking machine?? You wouldn't even need to put your makeup on "

Hey, I like to see a woman wearing make up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie back and think of England

As long as it doesn't get to a penalty shoot out

Careful he doesn't foul you in the box"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai

Squat on his cock 10 sets of 20 morning and night, hold for 5 up and down, you can hold his hand until you get your balance. Your legs will wobble at first but you will be fit as a fiddle in a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the tip? You don’t want it all the way in? I’ll do it if you feel lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squat on his cock 10 sets of 20 morning and night, hold for 5 up and down, you can hold his hand until you get your balance. Your legs will wobble at first but you will be fit as a fiddle in a month "

Ananelle cross him off your list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about. "

That's actually a really good idea

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Lie back and think of England

As long as it doesn't get to a penalty shoot out

Careful he doesn't foul you in the box"

red card!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"My tip is to meet very fit men who do all the work.

I’m not as fit as I have been but I’m still fit. "

As long as you do all the work, it doesn't matter

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about. "

Genius!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'll know it when I find it.


"Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about. "

Perfect shout, I'll use this in a couple of decades.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield


"Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about. "

.

'She's got no strings to hold her down,

to make her smile,

to make her frown......'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay on your front, legs apart, and let him hit it from behind at whatever speed you fancy. No idea if it has a real name but I’ve always called it the lazy bitch. A pillow underneath to change angles up is always good as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say you’re a submissive and get everyone else to move you about.

Perfect shout, I'll use this in a couple of decades."

Bloody cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm not as young as I used to be

And, it has come to my notice at in inopportune time, that I'm really unfit

So you wonderful people what sex tips do you have for 'lazy sex?

What positions do you recommend.

I'm afraid my days of riding you like its rodeo are gone..

Who am I kidding... I weren't that great at it in the first place.

So...c'mon hit me up with your ideas "

Hats off too your for wearing your heart on your sleeve and putting this out there..

I can promise you. That all the hangups and anxiety that you have surrounding this lazy sex situation are unjust and in your own head. Whatever man u are planning to meet will have exact same concerns. "Am I going to perform" "will I come too quickly" "will I be enough for her" ect ect.

Stop over thinking it get on all fours with ur ass in air and let him do the work as u enjoy. Remember 99% of the time he will ejaculate. The pressure is on him to make u cum. Not other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lie back and think of England "

Ooh Shropshire is lovely.

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By *anityProjectMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Lie down like a sack of spuds. The female special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spoon sex "
. Ugh. No. Worst position ever, it literally does nothing for me! Doggy all the way baby

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