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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Such a think as a Mam bod ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep"

What would be the description?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yip. Usually the stomach area which is hard to get toned after kids. Nothing a tummy tuck wouldn’t fix

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Yep

What would be the description?

The body of a woman who has carried a child perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep

What would be the description?

The body of a woman who has carried a child perhaps? "

Don't you 2 start

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Yep

What would be the description?

The body of a woman who has carried a child perhaps?

Don't you 2 start

What? That was a good description!

I'm off out for a shag in a bit, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep

What would be the description?

The body of a woman who has carried a child perhaps?

Don't you 2 start

What? That was a good description!

I'm off out for a shag in a bit, don't worry

Like a boss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep

What would be the description?

The body of a woman who has carried a child perhaps? "

Does that have any relation to the dad bod description ? I'm just curious as I'm trying to understand why dad bods are dad bods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is. I've only ever known one woman who had her body back to normal after carrying a child.

My tits aren't like they used to be after breastfeeding. I also have a little belly now and my stomach will probably never be completely flat.

And let's not forget about the women who get stretch marks, stitches, tears, carry complications from epidurals, scars from c-sections, loose skin and much more.

I don't even know why dad bod is even a thing. It's ridiculous because it's somehow seen as a more positive and attractive thing rather than a mum bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course there is. I've only ever known one woman who had her body back to normal after carrying a child.

My tits aren't like they used to be after breastfeeding. I also have a little belly now and my stomach will probably never be completely flat.

And let's not forget about the women who get stretch marks, stitches, tears, carry complications from epidurals, scars from c-sections, loose skin and much more.

I don't even know why dad bod is even a thing. It's ridiculous because it's somehow seen as a more positive and attractive thing rather than a mum bod.

The reasons I ask is because as far as I can think into what a dad bod must actually be is a dad that sits on his arse all day whilst the mam does it all, I could be wrong now though, it could actually be a description of a fella that looks like he's carried a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum. "

You've said in the past that you would never know you had kids because your body didn't change? And so for that reason I wouldn't say you have what is often described as a mum bod. But that doesn't mean you're not a mum and less worthy than those of us who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think dad bods are so named because most dads are busy being dads and so can't spend every evening in the gym.

They stay fit by chasing their kids round the park, but they don't have time to have perfect muscles.

No idea how accurate that is, but I think that's where the expression came from?

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

I have kids and no fat on my tummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think dad bods are so named because most dads are busy being dads and so can't spend every evening in the gym.

They stay fit by chasing their kids round the park, but they don't have time to have perfect muscles.

No idea how accurate that is, but I think that's where the expression came from?"

I'm a dad and I spend all day running round, picking up clothes, emptying washing machines filling up driers, emptying bins, cleaning bedrooms, hoovering stairs

Cleaning dishes pots and pans, sorting socks and ironing uniforms, sorted out dinners on the gateway app, sorting new uniforms on 1 identity

How can a person look unfit and like they don't go the gym? I'm in no need of a gym lol

Exercise all day everyday

That's without chucking spanners about

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love a mum bod. I prefer it to a gym bod

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's bod

Please don't hate me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Mum tum is definitely in common usage. Breastfeeding 2 kids over 2 years has left the tops of my boobs empty. Add to that I had 3rd degree tears and ended up in theatre after having my kids. I'd say my body has changed forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's bod

Please don't hate me "

100% agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought Dad Bods were the ones who had a little belly on them but not a full blown beer belly and slightly less toned than a gym bod.

I'm probably wrong as well.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's body

Please don't hate me "

Maybe I have more important thing to worries do rather than just focus on my Self bod.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always thought Dad Bods were the ones who had a little belly on them but not a full blown beer belly and slightly less toned than a gym bod.

I'm probably wrong as well. "

When ever I see or hear the term dad bod all I can think about is some Rab C Nesbitt type chap sat on his lazy arse dictating telling his woman to get him a beer

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's bod

Please don't hate me "

How do you know they are lazy? Power lifters often have power guts and they are definitely not lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course there is. I've only ever known one woman who had her body back to normal after carrying a child.

My tits aren't like they used to be after breastfeeding. I also have a little belly now and my stomach will probably never be completely flat.

And let's not forget about the women who get stretch marks, stitches, tears, carry complications from epidurals, scars from c-sections, loose skin and much more.

I don't even know why dad bod is even a thing. It's ridiculous because it's somehow seen as a more positive and attractive thing rather than a mum bod.

A woman’s body after she has given the greatest gift is something to be desired and appreciated. There should be no downside considered.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Such a think as a Mam bod ?

Yes. I am a mum and own a body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's bod

Please don't hate me

How do you know they are lazy? Power lifters often have power guts and they are definitely not lazy "

How do you know there dads ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mum tum is definitely in common usage. Breastfeeding 2 kids over 2 years has left the tops of my boobs empty. Add to that I had 3rd degree tears and ended up in theatre after having my kids. I'd say my body has changed forever. "

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum. "

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Such a think as a Mam bod ?

Yes. I am a mum and own a body."

It's fantastic too

something for us mortals to aspire to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul."

A sexy body

to be enjoyed and celebrated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's body

Please don't hate me

Maybe I have more important thing to worries do rather than just focus on my Self bod.

I'm sure you have

Nice breasts

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"As far as im concerned a dad bod is really a lazy arse man's bod

Please don't hate me

How do you know they are lazy? Power lifters often have power guts and they are definitely not lazy

How do you know there dads ?"

How do we know anyone with a dad bod is a dad? Do they have a neon sign above them?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul."

Hate the term mum or dad anything to describe a body type. It is lazy.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul.

A sexy body

to be enjoyed and celebrated "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is "

Scars are the evidence of what you have been through… scars were cool when we were kids because they told a story as do those scars that come later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I have a mum bod, bit of a tummy overhang, c section scar, a few stretch marks here and there and boobs aren't as perky as they once were but I'm pretty happy with it

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul.

Hate the term mum or dad anything to describe a body type. It is lazy. "

It really is.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is

Scars are the evidence of what you have been through… scars were cool when we were kids because they told a story as do those scars that come later on "

Lol true not that I go showing it to many. It's more that tearing from your vagina to your anus isn't the best story ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yip. Usually the stomach area which is hard to get toned after kids. Nothing a tummy tuck wouldn’t fix

Do men get tummy tucks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those dad bods are doing OK with the ladies. Who doesn't appreciate a nice body but if the mind is shallow and the person ignorant than I lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum. "

4 kids really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say I have a mum bod, bit of a tummy overhang, c section scar, a few stretch marks here and there and boobs aren't as perky as they once were but I'm pretty happy with it "

Looks great feom where I’m sitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud of my Mum bod, my stretch marks and the wobbly bits because my body carried the most precious things in my life.

I was lucky to conceive so at all so yep for that I am proud. When I think about my body or my weight I remember that actually I'm not that bad for a soon to be 47 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say I have a mum bod, bit of a tummy overhang, c section scar, a few stretch marks here and there and boobs aren't as perky as they once were but I'm pretty happy with it

Looks great feom where I’m sitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is

Scars are the evidence of what you have been through… scars were cool when we were kids because they told a story as do those scars that come later on

Lol true not that I go showing it to many. It's more that tearing from your vagina to your anus isn't the best story ever

Oooo tell me more…. On a scale of 1-10 how painful? I guess location means only the lucky 1s get to see the scar …

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Yes there is and I have one and I make sure I warn people before hand.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is

Scars are the evidence of what you have been through… scars were cool when we were kids because they told a story as do those scars that come later on

Lol true not that I go showing it to many. It's more that tearing from your vagina to your anus isn't the best story ever

Oooo tell me more…. On a scale of 1-10 how painful? I guess location means only the lucky 1s get to see the scar …

Let's just say when my eldest got born his shoulders got stuck. I'll let you imagine the pain of emergency pulling said child out. Most wouldn't notice it but I know where it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there is and I have one and I make sure I warn people before hand. "

Looks amazing

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over a year ago

But a change that is for the greatergood … a stunning body

Except for the scars I don't mind to be honest. It is what it is

Scars are the evidence of what you have been through… scars were cool when we were kids because they told a story as do those scars that come later on

Lol true not that I go showing it to many. It's more that tearing from your vagina to your anus isn't the best story ever

Oooo tell me more…. On a scale of 1-10 how painful? I guess location means only the lucky 1s get to see the scar …

Let's just say when my eldest got born his shoulders got stuck. I'll let you imagine the pain of emergency pulling said child out. Most wouldn't notice it but I know where it is lol "

Well I tip my cap… to you and all those out there that carry scars and the varying beautiful bodies whether they big, small, bumps lumps and petite each should be appreciated and if they’re not your type then so be it we aren’t all everybody’s cup of tea. Just be kind to all :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my mum bod

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum. "

What's yours? Incredible!

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Yup a tummy that needs a tuck ie mine and tiger stripes from having my beautiful baby. Tits that need a lift and an ass that needs some loving haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What I'm taking from it is that I don't look like a dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter. If she's cool to be with I don't care about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested in the definition of a mum bod.

Most would say its where a woman has stretch marks and a tummy or just a tummy after having kids.

But I've had 4 kids. So what's mine then? Does mine count? It's still a body and I'm still a mum.

On the flip side of this.... I have a tummy and stretch marks but no kids. And people saying I have a "mum bod" hurts me to my soul."

I can understand that.

I wouldn't have minded having something to show the fact I have kids. Some people think that's weird. I lost my already small boobs though I changed the fact.

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