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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Believe it or not but not all guys on here want to fuck anything with a pulse. I can appreciate and completely understand that ladies get inundated with messages (and straight guys from gay/straight guys) but there are some who don't and have a common sense of decency and integrity.

Discuss your experiences and thoughts on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??!

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck most things with a pulse

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

And today's white Knight is....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! "

Will you fuck every guy that messages you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse "

Atleast you're honest mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is...."

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! "
some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've never had a problem with the messages I get on Fab.

Creating a single profile when I was already over 45, probably helped. Along with the fact that I'm not looking to meet men

I appreciate that it's probably a very different experience for younger ladies, who don't already understand what Fab is like or about filters.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots of profiles say "I'm not here to shag the whole site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy. "

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

Fine by me

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy. "

I’ll give you 12 them I’m out

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy. "

I'm with you on the ten minutes thing ... thirty seconds for oral though

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! "

I was wondering that myself or are we looking for something more meaningful like the L word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The closest thing I get to a fuck is told to fuck off

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Lots of profiles say "I'm not here to shag the whole site" "

But they probably would if they had half a chance at it

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Talking of fucking anything with a pulse

I really prefer those who i am fucking to have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??!

Will you fuck every guy that messages you?"

If i was in the right place , right time, confident they had intelligence, similar interests (bdsm), confident they were STI free, not an arse and the moon +the stars were aligned, absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The closest thing I get to a fuck is told to fuck off"

Half way there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Some would shag the crack of dawn if they were up early enough. I'd rather quality over quantity tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am"

What about a glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy.

I’ll give you 12 them I’m out"

I'll set the timer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood fucking for the sake of fucking? I mean, we don’t have to be compatible 100% but there should be at least actual mutual attraction.

I can’t have sex with guys I don’t feel attracted to and hope it’s the same for the guys I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood fucking for the sake of fucking? I mean, we don’t have to be compatible 100% but there should be at least actual mutual attraction.

I can’t have sex with guys I don’t feel attracted to and hope it’s the same for the guys I meet."

Also I’d consider myself to be quite a picky bitch as I know what I find attractive and what I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is looking for different things, I guess what's most important is finding like-minded partners. Some people are happy waiting months to find the right one FWB. Others are happy to turn up somewhere and let 20 strangers creampie them. Each to their own.

Personally I think sex is better with attraction and connection. So I tend to meet people I have a spark with and have usually massaged, cammed, or had phone calls with. I then feel more comfortable meeting and there is some sexual tension and excitement built up. I have had sex within seconds of meeting for the first time, that's ok, but generally I like to sit, chat, cuddle, kiss, maybe eat and drink for a while before shagging. I do always expect and want sex though, I am here for sex at the end of the day (well, anytime of the day lol) xx

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy.

I’ll give you 12 them I’m out

I'll set the timer "

Currently on 6 mins….

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is..."

tomorrow's forum fighter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that we aren't all here looking for the same thing. That's why it isn't compulsory to read/ reply to every message and I don't concern myself with those looking for something different. I really don't get why folk feel the need to discuss why others do things differently.

*shrugs*

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse "
Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am

What about a glory hole "
would you fuck everyone who messages you I think not you would see if you are attracted to them first. I wouldn't ride someone i dont like or im not attracted to

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough


"If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us "

Exactly this. Our community is a spectrum. I've seen women led into a party blindfold to be fucked by 5 or 6 guys within seconds of entering the room. I've known other people who like to get to know their playmates first before they're prepared to play.

I love the diversity and the differences and it's important that we accept and encourage those differences. It's what keeps things healthy and inclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am

What about a glory hole would you fuck everyone who messages you I think not you would see if you are attracted to them first. I wouldn't ride someone i dont like or im not attracted to "

But in a glory hole you don't see or chat mutters to self..

Its so serious in here

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

I am interested in women who have a lot more than a pulse but obviously it is vital that they have a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Pulse on my profile as a nice to have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us

Exactly this. Our community is a spectrum. I've seen women led into a party blindfold to be fucked by 5 or 6 guys within seconds of entering the room. I've known other people who like to get to know their playmates first before they're prepared to play.

I love the diversity and the differences and it's important that we accept and encourage those differences. It's what keeps things healthy and inclusive."

Respectful responses

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??!

Will you fuck every guy that messages you?

If i was in the right place , right time, confident they had intelligence, similar interests (bdsm), confident they were STI free, not an arse and the moon +the stars were aligned, absolutely "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! "

Nooooo. Sex is actually very easy to get in here , a decent friendship is more elusive. I hate sometimes when going for a social that women feel the need to hint and remind that it’s not guaranteed sex after , I’m like not even thinking about it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! some of us likr to chat first its not all wham bam thank you ma'am

What about a glory hole would you fuck everyone who messages you I think not you would see if you are attracted to them first. I wouldn't ride someone i dont like or im not attracted to

But in a glory hole you don't see or chat mutters to self..

Its so serious in here "
never did it never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good answer xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is looking for different things, I guess what's most important is finding like-minded partners. Some people are happy waiting months to find the right one FWB. Others are happy to turn up somewhere and let 20 strangers creampie them. Each to their own.

Personally I think sex is better with attraction and connection. So I tend to meet people I have a spark with and have usually massaged, cammed, or had phone calls with. I then feel more comfortable meeting and there is some sexual tension and excitement built up. I have had sex within seconds of meeting for the first time, that's ok, but generally I like to sit, chat, cuddle, kiss, maybe eat and drink for a while before shagging. I do always expect and want sex though, I am here for sex at the end of the day (well, anytime of the day lol) xx"

Love this answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??!

Nooooo. Sex is actually very easy to get in here , a decent friendship is more elusive. I hate sometimes when going for a social that women feel the need to hint and remind that it’s not guaranteed sex after , I’m like not even thinking about it ! "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us

Exactly this. Our community is a spectrum. I've seen women led into a party blindfold to be fucked by 5 or 6 guys within seconds of entering the room. I've known other people who like to get to know their playmates first before they're prepared to play.

I love the diversity and the differences and it's important that we accept and encourage those differences. It's what keeps things healthy and inclusive."

Exactly, it’s a place for everyone and everything from two singles meeting to a 50 man gang bang, vive le difference

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe I'm an anomaly but i always have just a social first and that's usually after talking for quite a while. I need to engage on a deeper and more intimate level before i would take my clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself."

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense and decency, wait guys come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity."

Do we need reminding of this then?

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough


"Maybe I'm an anomaly but i always have just a social first and that's usually after talking for quite a while. I need to engage on a deeper and more intimate level before i would take my clothes off. "

And fair play to you Hun. If that's your requirement the playmates should be glad to honour it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself. "

I don't want the 'men' I meet for 'themselves' ......

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity."

And people who play things a little more loose have no “integrity” or “common decency”?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then? "

Only by the ones that aren’t getting any yet think they should be because their number game is low

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is..."

It's not sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF?"

Whats faf?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Everyone is looking for different things, I guess what's most important is finding like-minded partners. Some people are happy waiting months to find the right one FWB. Others are happy to turn up somewhere and let 20 strangers creampie them. Each to their own.

Personally I think sex is better with attraction and connection. So I tend to meet people I have a spark with and have usually massaged, cammed, or had phone calls with. I then feel more comfortable meeting and there is some sexual tension and excitement built up. I have had sex within seconds of meeting for the first time, that's ok, but generally I like to sit, chat, cuddle, kiss, maybe eat and drink for a while before shagging. I do always expect and want sex though, I am here for sex at the end of the day (well, anytime of the day lol) xx

Love this answer "

Me too but my favourite word in it is massaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And people who play things a little more loose have no “integrity” or “common decency”?"

Apparently not. We're all sluts and whores!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Only by the ones that aren’t getting any yet think they should be because their number game is low "

I didn't realise that we were here to fuck as many people as possible?! Is that the case?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

It's not sarcasm"

So you're just being an arsehole then?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

It's not sarcasm"

It's .......... ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then? "

Some clearly do need reminding or atleast appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought fab was about getting free 420. That's what all the profiles near me are about, aswell as most of my status feed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is...."

O ffs! Enough of this white night shit. Saying it says more about you. Let people make there own mind up, trying to undermine and silence someones voice in a disregarding and manipulative way, because that is what your doing makes you look way dumber than you probably are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Some clearly do need reminding or atleast appreciate it."

Who does? How do you know they need reminding? Who are you reaching out to?

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

It's not sarcasm

So you're just being an arsehole then?"

No you're just staying the effin obvious.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think they do... Most of the time.

I've had a couple who weren't like that though.

But then there's ladies who are after a quick fuck too... They just need to find each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us "

leave people alone to do what they want.

if its within site rules it has nothing to do with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Some clearly do need reminding or atleast appreciate it.

Who does? How do you know they need reminding? Who are you reaching out to?"

No one in particular, however I have experienced responses and read people's profiles. I also thought it would be an interesting topic to discuss and it seems people are enjoying the debate for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is looking for different things, I guess what's most important is finding like-minded partners. Some people are happy waiting months to find the right one FWB. Others are happy to turn up somewhere and let 20 strangers creampie them. Each to their own.

Personally I think sex is better with attraction and connection. So I tend to meet people I have a spark with and have usually massaged, cammed, or had phone calls with. I then feel more comfortable meeting and there is some sexual tension and excitement built up. I have had sex within seconds of meeting for the first time, that's ok, but generally I like to sit, chat, cuddle, kiss, maybe eat and drink for a while before shagging. I do always expect and want sex though, I am here for sex at the end of the day (well, anytime of the day lol) xx

Love this answer "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that wasnt me a having a go sandy btw just agreeing with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been that long since I last had sex, that I will fuck within 1 minute when I get a meet.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And people who play things a little more loose have no “integrity” or “common decency”?

Apparently not. We're all sluts and whores!"

I know!!!….but think we’re only allowed polite respectful responses ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy.

I’ll give you 12 them I’m out

I'll set the timer

Currently on 6 mins…."

Have I missed the slot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think they do... Most of the time.

I've had a couple who weren't like that though.

But then there's ladies who are after a quick fuck too... They just need to find each other."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity."

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

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By *eacockDreamsMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Who cares? Men and women are wired differently. Makes it difficult, but meh.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Only by the ones that aren’t getting any yet think they should be because their number game is low

I didn't realise that we were here to fuck as many people as possible?! Is that the case? "

Honestly, you can’t say that people who meet lots have no integrity and I said “people” as you based your OP on what guys do, you seem to forget that women like dogging/gang bangs/glory holes/club meets/booty calls etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

It's not sarcasm

So you're just being an arsehole then?

No you're just staying the effin obvious. "

Why are you acting like an arsehole? I don't get it... Does it make you feel good attempting to undermine someone?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy.

I’ll give you 12 them I’m out

I'll set the timer

Currently on 6 mins….

Have I missed the slot "

The “slot” has been missed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Only by the ones that aren’t getting any yet think they should be because their number game is low

I didn't realise that we were here to fuck as many people as possible?! Is that the case?

Honestly, you can’t say that people who meet lots have no integrity and I said “people” as you based your OP on what guys do, you seem to forget that women like dogging/gang bangs/glory holes/club meets/booty calls etc. "

I was responding to the 'numbers low' comment.

I completely understand, appreciate and respect what people want and in no way am I criticising that nor have a eluded to that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"that wasnt me a having a go sandy btw just agreeing with you"

I know darling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT "

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

Do we need reminding of this then?

Only by the ones that aren’t getting any yet think they should be because their number game is low

I didn't realise that we were here to fuck as many people as possible?! Is that the case?

Honestly, you can’t say that people who meet lots have no integrity and I said “people” as you based your OP on what guys do, you seem to forget that women like dogging/gang bangs/glory holes/club meets/booty calls etc.

I was responding to the 'numbers low' comment.

I completely understand, appreciate and respect what people want and in no way am I criticising that nor have a eluded to that. "

Then what are you eluding to with your integrity by not being a guy who is “fucking anything with a pulse”? Are you saying they are wrong because really they aren’t! They are doing exactly what they want with who they want and probably having a great time doing it

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's a difficult one when you go for a social and the sexual connection is slapping you in the face, secluded areas around your location start to become alot more apparent haha!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?"

You could have a jolly nice time

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"And today's white Knight is....

Today's failure at sarcasm is...

It's not sarcasm

So you're just being an arsehole then?

No you're just staying the effin obvious.

Why are you acting like an arsehole? I don't get it... Does it make you feel good attempting to undermine someone?"

I think women are perfectly capable of working out that some blokes are crap and some aren't without you self promoting yourself.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Not that quick but ultimately yes. I don’t think I’m here to play chess

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?

You could have a jolly nice time "

I’m not here for “nice”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be desperate but even I won't sink as low as vegetables!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?

You could have a jolly nice time

I’m not here for “nice” "

I held back there I should have said you could have a fucking fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything” "

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may be desperate but even I won't sink as low as vegetables! "

Hahahaha welcomed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me..."

Now look what's happened to his confidence !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse "

You get that wet suit to mine now you charmer

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything” "

He’s still not going anywhere near the “integrity” and “common decency” comments. So expect a ghosting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

This. "

Thank you both for understanding where I'm coming from

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?"

Very generous man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

He’s still not going anywhere near the “integrity” and “common decency” comments. So expect a ghosting"

I'll respond to you the same way. I know you're gonna attempt a lynch mob because of my choice of words, so you're right, I am gonna fucking ignore you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I may be desperate but even I won't sink as low as vegetables! "

That's most of the Tory cabinet out then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

Now look what's happened to his confidence ! "

It's difficult to maintain any confidence on here when you get mobbed

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

Now look what's happened to his confidence !

It's difficult to maintain any confidence on here when you get mobbed"

Just ignore OP. Think anyone with common sense knows that what you’ve referred to is a turn of phrase thrown around often on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm free today. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

Now look what's happened to his confidence !

It's difficult to maintain any confidence on here when you get mobbed

Just ignore OP. Think anyone with common sense knows that what you’ve referred to is a turn of phrase thrown around often on here. "

Thank you, appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like some women here, it starts with a mental connection for me. I'm not interested in just 'fucking'.

I can get that quite regularly. I want more, and with this place, there are some lovely gems that want that same thing I do. Yes, while my ultimate aim is intimacy, it certainly isn't the only thing I'm after.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"To be fair, I would give most people a bash, I mean, what’s the worse that can happen?"

This would do attitude is the exact type we should be promoting. If only more people had your mentality, the world would be a more sexually satisfied place.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?"

Just because I say something contrary to your opinion it doesn’t mean I am trying to belittle you. You have made a statement. “Anything with a pulse”, now as it pertains to this site specifically I asked a genuine question, to summarise, do you believe that some of the members of this site can be described such? That’s all, it’s not complicated really and no other reason to ask than to ascertain your character and what place your original post came from.

You made the thread ffs if you don’t like responses I’m sorrow, perhaps someone can build you an echo chamber?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like some women here, it starts with a mental connection for me. I'm not interested in just 'fucking'.

I can get that quite regularly. I want more, and with this place, there are some lovely gems that want that same thing I do. Yes, while my ultimate aim is intimacy, it certainly isn't the only thing I'm after. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys spoil it for the rest of us with a creepy line, I have messaged a lot of woman with a handful of reply’s a lot seem very defensive because of this, I prefer to send a funny comment or see if we click, and tbh as much as fellas are proud of there dicks never should be as profile pic !! Read woman’s profiles, would you go up to a woman in a bar and flash yourself to start and talk. My rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get pissed off with all the gay guys looking at me or contacting me.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself."

Couldn’t agree more

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"FAF?

Whats faf?"

It's utterly appalling that this woman ( not me ) asked what a FAF is and not ONE of the pulse seeking males in here or one of the integrity seeking females ...... and anything in between or at either extreme ....... ( i've got a meeting on Monday n Tuesday ) have cast some light on her FAF shadow.

I'm a bit more alarmed that she's been her as long as she has and hasn't been offered one........ where's Mystique when you need him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get pissed off with all the gay guys looking at me or contacting me."

Suit you sir

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

Now look what's happened to his confidence !

It's difficult to maintain any confidence on here when you get mobbed"

Mobbed all I’m trying to point out is that people use the site how they see fit, I pass no judgement on who people meet and neither should you OP

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

He’s still not going anywhere near the “integrity” and “common decency” comments. So expect a ghosting

I'll respond to you the same way. I know you're gonna attempt a lynch mob because of my choice of words, so you're right, I am gonna fucking ignore you."

They are your words! And they were a very poor choice considering it’s a swingers community website!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If guys “want to fuck anything with a pulse” that’s their business, this is a place where all/most scenarios are covered, we all do what’s best for us "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?

Just because I say something contrary to your opinion it doesn’t mean I am trying to belittle you. You have made a statement. “Anything with a pulse”, now as it pertains to this site specifically I asked a genuine question, to summarise, do you believe that some of the members of this site can be described such? That’s all, it’s not complicated really and no other reason to ask than to ascertain your character and what place your original post came from.

You made the thread ffs if you don’t like responses I’m sorrow, perhaps someone can build you an echo chamber? "

Then yes, I do think some of the members on here can be described as such.

Do you think some of the members on here would 'fuck anything with a pulse'?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I get pissed off with all the gay guys looking at me or contacting me."

Si ... you are just too nice to be looked at xx lovely man.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?

Just because I say something contrary to your opinion it doesn’t mean I am trying to belittle you. You have made a statement. “Anything with a pulse”, now as it pertains to this site specifically I asked a genuine question, to summarise, do you believe that some of the members of this site can be described such? That’s all, it’s not complicated really and no other reason to ask than to ascertain your character and what place your original post came from.

You made the thread ffs if you don’t like responses I’m sorrow, perhaps someone can build you an echo chamber?

Then yes, I do think some of the members on here can be described as such.

Do you think some of the members on here would 'fuck anything with a pulse'?"

Thank you. I shall now disengage from your thread. It’s not for me. Be well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only issue in the thread so far is the white knight comment. I see it banded about far too often.

My comment about thread visits are generic whilst at the same time looking at his and yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get pissed off with all the gay guys looking at me or contacting me."

Filters!

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

He’s still not going anywhere near the “integrity” and “common decency” comments. So expect a ghosting

I'll respond to you the same way. I know you're gonna attempt a lynch mob because of my choice of words, so you're right, I am gonna fucking ignore you.

They are your words! And they were a very poor choice considering it’s a swingers community website!!

"

Why does everything have to descend to personal insults and arguments, we are all entitled to an opinion and the right to freely express them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us guys just like the forums and are not after fucking everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It's utterly appalling that this woman ( not me ) asked what a FAF is and not ONE of the pulse seeking males in here or one of the integrity seeking females ...... and anything in between or at either extreme ....... ( i've got a meeting on Monday n Tuesday ) have cast some light on her FAF shadow.

I'm a bit more alarmed that she's been her as long as she has and hasn't been offered one........ where's Mystique when you need him ?"

Its me... I'm still learning the acronyms

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It's utterly appalling that this woman ( not me ) asked what a FAF is and not ONE of the pulse seeking males in here or one of the integrity seeking females ...... and anything in between or at either extreme ....... ( i've got a meeting on Monday n Tuesday ) have cast some light on her FAF shadow.

I'm a bit more alarmed that she's been her as long as she has and hasn't been offered one........ where's Mystique when you need him ?"

Probably FAFing around Widnes or putting the bins out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is...."

Correct

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm free today. Just saying "

Will you fuck anything ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse "

I’ve got a bag of lentils you can borrow ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It's utterly appalling that this woman ( not me ) asked what a FAF is and not ONE of the pulse seeking males in here or one of the integrity seeking females ...... and anything in between or at either extreme ....... ( i've got a meeting on Monday n Tuesday ) have cast some light on her FAF shadow.

I'm a bit more alarmed that she's been her as long as she has and hasn't been offered one........ where's Mystique when you need him ?"

I could make some guesses..

Fuck any female

Fuck and finger

Fishing and fruit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some of us guys just like the forums and are not after fucking everything "

Atleast you're honest

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?

Just because I say something contrary to your opinion it doesn’t mean I am trying to belittle you. You have made a statement. “Anything with a pulse”, now as it pertains to this site specifically I asked a genuine question, to summarise, do you believe that some of the members of this site can be described such? That’s all, it’s not complicated really and no other reason to ask than to ascertain your character and what place your original post came from.

You made the thread ffs if you don’t like responses I’m sorrow, perhaps someone can build you an echo chamber?

Then yes, I do think some of the members on here can be described as such.

Do you think some of the members on here would 'fuck anything with a pulse'?"

You think it’s ok to describe people as “anything” ?

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm free today. Just saying

Will you fuck anything ?"

Nah, only females

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"I get pissed off with all the gay guys looking at me or contacting me."

I get the same, almost total TV/gays but although I’m 100% straight it doesn’t bother me. I’m sure all the stunning female profiles I look at must think “Why is that 51 year old man looking at me”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse

I’ve got a bag of lentils you can borrow ? "

Soak them first for him

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fuck most things with a pulse

I’ve got a bag of lentils you can borrow ?

Soak them first for him "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're right OP.

Not every guy wants to fuck anyone with a pulse.

But there are enough of the guys that don't care at all what a woman looks like or who she is as long as she will take their cock that it makes women very very wary.

And it stops us believing the ones who actually want us for ourself.

I completely understand. I think I just wanted to open up the conversation to remind folks that some guys still have integrity.

And its good to be reminded that spring follows winter

Looking at the threads a poster posts in can tell you a LOT

I'm attempting to determine whether that's a dig or a compliment toward me...

Now look what's happened to his confidence !

It's difficult to maintain any confidence on here when you get mobbed

Mobbed all I’m trying to point out is that people use the site how they see fit, I pass no judgement on who people meet and neither should you OP

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And at no point have I directly passed judgement on anyone, only stated a point.

As you'll see from the post it was related to how guys are perceived (especially from the people I've chatted to and alot of profiles I've read).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I seriously (no seriously) dislike people that describe other people as “anything”. So now I will call you out OP and ask you to describe, in detail, your definition of an “anything”

Is that for the purpose that more people on here will fall into the lynch mob you intend building to belittle me?

Just because I say something contrary to your opinion it doesn’t mean I am trying to belittle you. You have made a statement. “Anything with a pulse”, now as it pertains to this site specifically I asked a genuine question, to summarise, do you believe that some of the members of this site can be described such? That’s all, it’s not complicated really and no other reason to ask than to ascertain your character and what place your original post came from.

You made the thread ffs if you don’t like responses I’m sorrow, perhaps someone can build you an echo chamber?

Then yes, I do think some of the members on here can be described as such.

Do you think some of the members on here would 'fuck anything with a pulse'?

You think it’s ok to describe people as “anything” ?

Wow! "

Ok, here's a good question.

Are there people on here who aren't respectful toward others?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Shall we make this the 143 comment thread and then it's over.

Another 32 ner ners take up too much bandwidth.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

145 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe it or not but not all guys on here want to fuck anything with a pulse. I can appreciate and completely understand that ladies get inundated with messages (and straight guys from gay/straight guys) but there are some who don't and have a common sense of decency and integrity.

Discuss your experiences and thoughts on the matter."

Ive read this a few times and still has an air of snobbery about it ....

Visit clubs, it'll take the edge off that 'way of thinking'

Who'd have thought sex was a major big deal by who people shag and by how many ...

This place never changes!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This feels like an evening thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it 10 mins at least. Im not easy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it could be in the evening type chat, not a set you up for the day chat, it's sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This feels like an evening thread "

Agreed, and a Monday one at that

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay "

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This feels like an evening thread

Agreed, and a Monday one at that "

Maybe a tuesday or wednesday, monday is a slow ease in

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^"

I didn’t read, I’ll go check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^

I didn’t read, I’ll go check "

I'll sabe you some time, what does faf stand for? I've had 3 guesses

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^

I didn’t read, I’ll go check

I'll sabe you some time, what does faf stand for? I've had 3 guesses "

Fancy a fuck?

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"It's a swinging site ... Aren't we here to fuck??! "

FAB is a community and resource site first and foremost.

Meeting others is a small section of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^

I didn’t read, I’ll go check

I'll sabe you some time, what does faf stand for? I've had 3 guesses

Fancy a fuck? "

Tut of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never understood fucking for the sake of fucking? I mean, we don’t have to be compatible 100% but there should be at least actual mutual attraction.

I can’t have sex with guys I don’t feel attracted to and hope it’s the same for the guys I meet."

I appreciate this response, thank you, I'm glad you understood where I was coming from.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"FAF?

Whats faf?"

It means ‘fist a fanny’ and I’m VERY available

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By *lack_alembicMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Everyone is looking for different things, I guess what's most important is finding like-minded partners. Some people are happy waiting months to find the right one FWB. Others are happy to turn up somewhere and let 20 strangers creampie them. Each to their own.

Personally I think sex is better with attraction and connection. So I tend to meet people I have a spark with and have usually massaged, cammed, or had phone calls with. I then feel more comfortable meeting and there is some sexual tension and excitement built up. I have had sex within seconds of meeting for the first time, that's ok, but generally I like to sit, chat, cuddle, kiss, maybe eat and drink for a while before shagging. I do always expect and want sex though, I am here for sex at the end of the day (well, anytime of the day lol) xx"

Like this. I think there are no hard or fast rules to this. Each person is responsible for doing what fulfills and works for them.

We are all different in so many ways so will always have different outcomes and expectations. If we were all the same life would be incredibly boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And today's white Knight is...."

Interesting you would deem this as white knight behaviour. In what way would you say so?

There are plenty of women who are here for just the purpose this site was intended and they certainly aren’t interested in chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It means ‘fist a fanny’ and I’m VERY available "

really?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It means ‘fist a fanny’ and I’m VERY available

really? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It means ‘fist a fanny’ and I’m VERY available

really? "

I mean the acronym not your availability

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay "

There he is!

Tell Ladybird what a FAF is :-0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's each to their own; you do you, I'll do me, and if that means I do you then we do, you know. If it doesn't then we don't do.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

There he is!

Tell Ladybird what a FAF is :-0 "

I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us guys just like the forums and are not after fucking everything

Atleast you're honest"

Well my face effects the fucking bit lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"FAF?

Whats faf?

It means ‘fist a fanny’ and I’m VERY available

really?

I mean the acronym not your availability "

It’s a yes to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

There he is!

Tell Ladybird what a FAF is :-0 "

Frantic Arse Fart

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

There he is!

Tell Ladybird what a FAF is :-0

I just did "

Oh ...... thanks....... I think.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Believe it or not but not all guys on here want to fuck anything with a pulse. I can appreciate and completely understand that ladies get inundated with messages (and straight guys from gay/straight guys) but there are some who don't and have a common sense of decency and integrity.

Discuss your experiences and thoughts on the matter.

Ive read this a few times and still has an air of snobbery about it ....

Visit clubs, it'll take the edge off that 'way of thinking'

Who'd have thought sex was a major big deal by who people shag and by how many ...

This place never changes!"

Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a problem with the messages I get on Fab.

Creating a single profile when I was already over 45, probably helped. Along with the fact that I'm not looking to meet men

I appreciate that it's probably a very different experience for younger ladies, who don't already understand what Fab is like or about filters."

Have you blocked men from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll fuck any hole but not them manholes cause that’s ghay

Granny was looking for you up there ^^^

I didn’t read, I’ll go check

I'll sabe you some time, what does faf stand for? I've had 3 guesses

Fancy a fuck? "

Naughty granny! And i only noticed the question mark after. You minx you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Should've stopped at 143......

Still no anythings were hurt in the making of this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to this as having that slight connection or into similar things will always make the meetings and events be smooth and efficient and more enjoyable in the long run me personally not a man to shag about but enjoy my meets when I get some

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