FabSwingers.com forum: Apologising for your sexual preferences…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you?

Should you?

Is it a case of if it doesn't affect you then mind your own business…?!

What say your good selves….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am what i am.

i like what i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like who cares? Sexuality CAN be so complex it’s like difficult to keep up.

Wouldn’t even worry about it to be fair x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s nobody’s business but mine so I would never apologise for that.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

Never apologise for your preferences as long as it doesn't hurt anybody it's your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you shouldn’t.

Anything between two consenting adults is ok, and is nobody’s else’s business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual preferences are complex, it starts in the mind, it’s personal and no, no apologies needed.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"i am what i am.

and what I am, needs no excuses.

FTFY

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

PC culture throws a bit of a wrench in this stuff.

It’s ok to say you only fuck tall guys, that’s a preference

But only white guys? Now your a racist

If someone was in a wheel chair and you didn’t like that, is it ableism?

If your straight, is that sexism?

Personally I think you like what you like and that’s it. No apologies.

No one had the right to your body. It’s yours. If you don’t like something you shouldn’t be judged for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sincerely apologise for liking women in horizontal striped crop tops with perky tits. I have seen the error of my ways and will try and be a better person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you put "sorry just my preference/opinion" it usually means you're not really sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I like & enjoy, it's no one's business but mine and I make no apology

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No apologies for my sexual preference it is nobody else's business. So long as I don't push it on anybody else what does my preferences matter.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

No. Never apologize for who you are and what you like. It’s no one’s business except yours…

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm another nope here.

I like what I like. And I hope the person I like likes what I like so we can like it together. Like.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a preference for those who like me. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies"

You should be ashamed *wags finger*

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*"

If sexual preferences don't include me then I think they should be apologised for

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Be yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. As long as your preferences are between consenting adults, there’s nothing to apologise for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*"

Ok I'll try harder not too. What about just a finger then?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*

Ok I'll try harder not too. What about just a finger then?"

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"PC culture throws a bit of a wrench in this stuff.

It’s ok to say you only fuck tall guys, that’s a preference

But only white guys? Now your a racist

If someone was in a wheel chair and you didn’t like that, is it ableism?

If your straight, is that sexism?

Personally I think you like what you like and that’s it. No apologies.

No one had the right to your body. It’s yours. If you don’t like something you shouldn’t be judged for it."

Pretty much summed it up there

I think sometimes people can twist things to suit certain agendas

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No. As long as your preferences are between consenting adults, there’s nothing to apologise for

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never apologized for my sexuality

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

No no no there is no way anyone ever from any walk of life should apologise for their sexual preferences. I’m not your type, your not my type move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*

Ok I'll try harder not too. What about just a finger then?

FFS

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*

Ok I'll try harder not too. What about just a finger then?"

Only if you confess your sins after

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Why apologies you like what you like, however, doesn't mean others will no have their say, so best to keep it to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi,love having sex with both, that's it.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"PC culture throws a bit of a wrench in this stuff.

It’s ok to say you only fuck tall guys, that’s a preference

But only white guys? Now your a racist

If someone was in a wheel chair and you didn’t like that, is it ableism?

If your straight, is that sexism?

Personally I think you like what you like and that’s it. No apologies.

No one had the right to your body. It’s yours. If you don’t like something you shouldn’t be judged for it."

This.

Same for boundaries.

I've learnt to stop apologising. You never know what someone's reasons might be behind those choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t apologise for it but I do sometimes feel like being a heterosexual woman is an endangered species

Especially a heterosexual masc woman who likes to top (and no, topping isn’t just pegging)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologize to who? Sorry mum but I just can't help putting my cock in tight fannies

You should be ashamed *wags finger*

Ok I'll try harder not too. What about just a finger then?

Only if you confess your sins after

Hah I just asked my mum and she said fingering was okay so there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PC culture throws a bit of a wrench in this stuff.

It’s ok to say you only fuck tall guys, that’s a preference

But only white guys? Now your a racist

If someone was in a wheel chair and you didn’t like that, is it ableism?

If your straight, is that sexism?

Personally I think you like what you like and that’s it. No apologies.

No one had the right to your body. It’s yours. If you don’t like something you shouldn’t be judged for it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never apologise for your preferences as long as it doesn't hurt anybody it's your business "

As a Mistress I like hurting ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No apologies from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been made to feel I should apologise for not fully understanding mine at times

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Quite a few women I have spoken to on here have felt the need to apologise for their preferences at some stage in their lives.

They have been conditioned to feel that sex is wrong or something to be ashamed of and never discussed publicly.

I've no doubt many men have had similar experiences.

One of the best things about this site is how many of those people no longer have to apologise or feel guilty for their desires, kinks or preferences.

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