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"did you see that judo guy from the olympics???.. he's an athlete and my body isnt too dis similar to his " haha, very funny | |||
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"I think it's a ploy to make them feel better about themselves, we met a lady in a club who was a 20-22 waist and called herself Curvy " i always thought curvy was a maz munroe body? lol | |||
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"did you see that judo guy from the olympics???.. he's an athlete and my body isnt too dis similar to his " | |||
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"I think it's a ploy to make them feel better about themselves, we met a lady in a club who was a 20-22 waist and called herself Curvy " But that's her choice how she wishes to describe herself... if a person has clear body pics on their profile that you can make an informed decision if you'd like to take things further | |||
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"I think it's a ploy to make them feel better about themselves, we met a lady in a club who was a 20-22 waist and called herself Curvy " Size 20-22 can be "curvy" if its firm.... | |||
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"So what about the ppl whose training involves a lot of cardio work? They might not be beefcakes but they're still athletic aren't they?" You are correct! BUT...if I read "Athletic" thats exactly what I expect to see | |||
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" curvy mean fat lol the elegant way to call fat lol x" wrong! | |||
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"Agree'd sassy but she had one image...of her boobs and no mention that she couldn't stand for long or had severe back cramps, if she see's herself as curvy then great but many slimmer ladies have big boobs so it was all a little misleading." yeah fair play if its misleading like that. I describe my body pretty accurately i hope, but if they dont like the text there's always the pictures x Id be embarassed if i turned up misleading someone, wouldnt see the point | |||
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" curvy mean fat lol the elegant way to call fat lol x wrong!" i think for some people it is I have seen loads of women on here class themselves as curvy when they are clearly just fat, sorry but rolls arnt curves | |||
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" stop eat potatoes lol thats really helps x " helps with what? | |||
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"I think we need several more categories, such as lump, meathead that would further break down the current ones, to a finer level. An old school friend is a lump type, he's not particularly overweight, he's not unfit, but his body kind of could have come from a liposuction and been injected into some skin, sort of lump on legs. Athletic to me, and this is a dreamy inaccurate picture, represents someone who's lean, has muscle tone that shows and is physically fit. Athletic to many others is someone who has a pulse and can move somehow, even if on a motorised scooter." That made me | |||
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"Agree'd sassy but she had one image...of her boobs and no mention that she couldn't stand for long or had severe back cramps, if she see's herself as curvy then great but many slimmer ladies have big boobs so it was all a little misleading." Should we list all our ailments then? I'm a size 24, type 2 diabetic, got dodgy knees...buti fuck like there's no tomorrow | |||
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" curvy mean fat lol the elegant way to call fat lol x wrong! i think for some people it is I have seen loads of women on here class themselves as curvy when they are clearly just fat, sorry but rolls arnt curves " sadly there aren't several boxes available to tick, i've seen plenty of larger framed women with stunning curves though. Hour glass figures certainly are curvy, boobs & bum, smaller waist. I think the key is just to have up to date body shots so people can make their own minds up. There is no clear cut description of what each 'size' means. I picked fabulous purely based on the fact it was the last option available and from times when i was on a SSBBW dating site the options were 'fabulous, goddess, queen sized' its all subjective | |||
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" yes love curvy are fat lol " we'll agree to disagree id call a size 12/14 curvy providing she had tits bigger than an A cup and and ass you could grab hold of.. | |||
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"Im slim because thin wasn't an option, maybe people are confusing energetic and sporty with being athletic? I'm expecting 6 packs and ripped arms but then Wayne Rooney is an athlete and isn't muscular so maybe it's our misconception of the word? " Possibly a misconception but then it does leave it open to the profile readers version of what athletic means to them. | |||
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" yes love curvy are fat lol " its curvy are fat love yes? | |||
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"Not at all Evesham if it doesn't effect your play time but we weren't made aware we'd have to help her in and out of the car aswell as fetch her drinks whilst she nearly passed out... That's misleading. For her own health it would of been helpful to know, back to the OP do you feel your going to be treated differently if you have average instead of athletic on your profile?" Actually I kind of see your point there, if I got to the point where I needed my meets to help (unless I'm d*unk) I would make them aware | |||
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"So what about the ppl whose training involves a lot of cardio work? They might not be beefcakes but they're still athletic aren't they?" no, i disagree,a long distance runner is slim. the term is for body shape not what sports you are into | |||
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"sadly there aren't several boxes available to tick, i've seen plenty of larger framed women with stunning curves though. Hour glass figures certainly are curvy, boobs & bum, smaller waist. " if i put a corset on i have curves too, put when i take it off everything goes to pot and my real shape comes back, so if i stick a corset on and bung a pic of that on my profile do i then have the rights to class msyelf as curvy? we can all look good on a pic | |||
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"So what about the ppl whose training involves a lot of cardio work? They might not be beefcakes but they're still athletic aren't they? no, i disagree,a long distance runner is slim. the term is for body shape not what sports you are into" Yea I get that but they are still muscle toned, just not huge... Therefore athletically shaped right? | |||
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"I suppose it comes back to the 'gorgeous with a great cock and know how to please' you may think you are, you may of been told you are but just because you do it for one person doesn't mean it stands for the next." | |||
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" i hv curves im size 12 sometimes 14 botton def in not curvy went once to shop for curvy women omg all clothes were massive lol x " well what was you expecting if it was a shop for big women, a rail full of size 8s? | |||
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"curvy is a body shape not a body weight. thats always been my interpretation of it anyway a large lady doesnt equal a curvy one " | |||
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"I think it's a ploy to make them feel better about themselves, we met a lady in a club who was a 20-22 waist and called herself Curvy " please don't make talk about what we see in club compared to what is posted here. And it is same for men and women | |||
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"So what about the ppl whose training involves a lot of cardio work? They might not be beefcakes but they're still athletic aren't they?" I do loads of cycling and am a very fit 40 year old .. have an extremely muscular back but wud definately not describe myself as athletic as my take on it is that this description is meant as a visual description rather than a medical assesment .. but i understand people have differing views | |||
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"You know, its attitudes that make people fugly through and through. ..and that's size-irrelevant, folks. " | |||
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"sadly there aren't several boxes available to tick, i've seen plenty of larger framed women with stunning curves though. Hour glass figures certainly are curvy, boobs & bum, smaller waist. if i put a corset on i have curves too, put when i take it off everything goes to pot and my real shape comes back, so if i stick a corset on and bung a pic of that on my profile do i then have the rights to class msyelf as curvy? we can all look good on a pic " I'm wearing a corset in most of my photos since most were taken at fetish events. I *really* need some new photos. I describe myself accurately on my profile - size 20, slim legs, huge boobs - but those who just look at the pictures are often mislead. I'm an odd shape though. An inverted triangle. Size 26 bust, size 18/20 waist and size 16/18 hips. I've been advised by some to remove all mention of size from my profile as it will put some people off. That seems dishonest to me. I don't want people meeting me because they think I'm something I'm not. Yes, I'm fat. Even if I want to I can't change that overnight, or even in the next couple of months. Take me as I am or don't *shrug* | |||
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"I suppose it comes back to the 'gorgeous with a great cock and know how to please' you may think you are, you may of been told you are but just because you do it for one person doesn't mean it stands for the next." Exactly horses for courses ....... Don't be so quick to judge a book by its cover ! | |||
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"You know, its attitudes that make people fugly through and through. ..and that's size-irrelevant, folks. " Well said, I agree that regardless of whether you are athletic, curvy, skinny or whatever, if you have a bad attitude it is really off-putting! | |||
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"sadly there aren't several boxes available to tick, i've seen plenty of larger framed women with stunning curves though. Hour glass figures certainly are curvy, boobs & bum, smaller waist. if i put a corset on i have curves too, put when i take it off everything goes to pot and my real shape comes back, so if i stick a corset on and bung a pic of that on my profile do i then have the rights to class msyelf as curvy? we can all look good on a pic I'm wearing a corset in most of my photos since most were taken at fetish events. I *really* need some new photos. I describe myself accurately on my profile - size 20, slim legs, huge boobs - but those who just look at the pictures are often mislead. I'm an odd shape though. An inverted triangle. Size 26 bust, size 18/20 waist and size 16/18 hips. I've been advised by some to remove all mention of size from my profile as it will put some people off. That seems dishonest to me. I don't want people meeting me because they think I'm something I'm not. Yes, I'm fat. Even if I want to I can't change that overnight, or even in the next couple of months. Take me as I am or don't *shrug*" LOL I always describe myself as an upside down triangle as well | |||
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"S is a large build but he's also a professional Cagefighter with 3 heavyweight title belts, he trains 6 times a week and I'm sure as shit he could do more than some of these so-called athletic guys! " I had a budgie once that was one hell of a cage fighter..... | |||
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" curvy mean fat lol the elegant way to call fat lol x wrong!" yes wrong curvy is a little meat on the bones .. I am size 14 big tits and peachy round bum hips. I am curvey , lol | |||
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"So what about the ppl whose training involves a lot of cardio work? They might not be beefcakes but they're still athletic aren't they?" Atheletic doesn't mean built like a racing snake either its a term used mainly for someone with good muscle that is lean.. | |||
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"sadly there aren't several boxes available to tick, i've seen plenty of larger framed women with stunning curves though. Hour glass figures certainly are curvy, boobs & bum, smaller waist. if i put a corset on i have curves too, put when i take it off everything goes to pot and my real shape comes back, so if i stick a corset on and bung a pic of that on my profile do i then have the rights to class msyelf as curvy? we can all look good on a pic I'm wearing a corset in most of my photos since most were taken at fetish events. I *really* need some new photos. I describe myself accurately on my profile - size 20, slim legs, huge boobs - but those who just look at the pictures are often mislead. I'm an odd shape though. An inverted triangle. Size 26 bust, size 18/20 waist and size 16/18 hips. I've been advised by some to remove all mention of size from my profile as it will put some people off. That seems dishonest to me. I don't want people meeting me because they think I'm something I'm not. Yes, I'm fat. Even if I want to I can't change that overnight, or even in the next couple of months. Take me as I am or don't *shrug*" I have put my size on now as many were confused as I can dress to look smaller than I am.....good camera angles etc... I'm me...if u like the look of my pics and the sound of my profile..I hit the button that gets u going...what's it matter how big my clothes are??? | |||
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"Athletic means well defined muscles - could be a small, medium or larger build in my opinion. " A lot of guys have one well defined muscle though | |||
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"I think we need several more categories, such as lump, meathead that would further break down the current ones, to a finer level. An old school friend is a lump type, he's not particularly overweight, he's not unfit, but his body kind of could have come from a liposuction and been injected into some skin, sort of lump on legs. Athletic to me, and this is a dreamy inaccurate picture, represents someone who's lean, has muscle tone that shows and is physically fit. Athletic to many others is someone who has a pulse and can move somehow, even if on a motorised scooter." That has got to be the BEST post I've seen on here!!! EVER!!! | |||
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"S is a large build but he's also a professional Cagefighter with 3 heavyweight title belts, he trains 6 times a week and I'm sure as shit he could do more than some of these so-called athletic guys! " Yep I'd agree with that! | |||
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"I describe myself as curvy on my profile. But I also, happily I might add, have described myself as a fat munter on the forums. And it's true. To some people. To others I am their dream woman and intensely desirable. I am completely happy with who I am and if I'm not to someones taste then that's fine. But I won't be slagging off those who are slimmer or bigger than me, cos that's when we go from debate into troll. Many of the larger women on here have been told that they are disgusting for a very long time. Then they enter a world where people do not hide what they are attracted to and those women go from disgusting to desired. It's very easy for this to go to the head. Bear in mind that their only way to describe themselves was by the offensive terms they heard previously. So how do they describe themselves now? By the complementary terms they hear now. This is why so many are listed as curvy, in their heads they are still obese or dumper truck or elephant but they are gradually learning to accept beautiful and voluptuous and curvaceous. Yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but so is ugliness. The only time it's rantworthy is when they won't take no for an answer! And this fat munter gets enough yeses from fit, toned, muscular young guy candy to not stress the nos. " | |||
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