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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma "

I wasn't implying that you create it, I read it back after I posted and that wasn't directed at you personally, merely one of the reasons jealousy/control rears up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma "

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

I wasn't implying that you create it, I read it back after I posted and that wasn't directed at you personally, merely one of the reasons jealousy/control rears up."

Oh I didn't think it was but I do totally get where your coming from, I will get asked, so how many other women you chatting to,, am I supposed to lie because women seem shocked when I say a few, thank me for my honesty, what's that all about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

"

On here or in general? Not everyone likes to share.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work "

Could be that they're a catastrophiser. I used to do that with my dad as a child. I'd sit watching out the window waiting for him to get home from work. If he wasn't back when he said he'd be back I'd end up in tears thinking he'd had a car accident.

I ain't trying to justify accusations or whatnot, but I do kinda get it. One of my ex's was a right liar. He'd be "going to get petrol"..... at the pub. Then swear blind i was going mental and imagining things even though I could smell the fucking alcohol on him. He was a cheat too.

So, when my most recent ex said he would ring at Xyz and didn't, I wondered what he was doing, who he was talking to, why tell me a time if you can't stick to it?

Wounding. Fear and insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

On here or in general? Not everyone likes to share. "

I've never ever ever ever come across a woman that's even remotely into the idea of sharing me lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

I wasn't implying that you create it, I read it back after I posted and that wasn't directed at you personally, merely one of the reasons jealousy/control rears up.

Oh I didn't think it was but I do totally get where your coming from, I will get asked, so how many other women you chatting to,, am I supposed to lie because women seem shocked when I say a few, thank me for my honesty, what's that all about ?

"

Some want to be choice #1.

They want to feel special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

On here or in general? Not everyone likes to share.

I've never ever ever ever come across a woman that's even remotely into the idea of sharing me lol "

Okay, that's not what I asked. You said you were intrigued by women who are happy to share. I was curious about where you meant. Personally, sharing doesn't phase me but we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not the site for you then op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

I wasn't implying that you create it, I read it back after I posted and that wasn't directed at you personally, merely one of the reasons jealousy/control rears up.

Oh I didn't think it was but I do totally get where your coming from, I will get asked, so how many other women you chatting to,, am I supposed to lie because women seem shocked when I say a few, thank me for my honesty, what's that all about ?

Some want to be choice #1.

They want to feel special."

This is true. Some do want to feel special. Some could never get their heads round the idea of sharing a partner or why people are happy with being non monogamous.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

On here or in general? Not everyone likes to share.

I've never ever ever ever come across a woman that's even remotely into the idea of sharing me lol "

You need to frequent swinging clubs. There's loads of ladies enjoy sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Could be that they're a catastrophiser. I used to do that with my dad as a child. I'd sit watching out the window waiting for him to get home from work. If he wasn't back when he said he'd be back I'd end up in tears thinking he'd had a car accident.

I ain't trying to justify accusations or whatnot, but I do kinda get it. One of my ex's was a right liar. He'd be "going to get petrol"..... at the pub. Then swear blind i was going mental and imagining things even though I could smell the fucking alcohol on him. He was a cheat too.

So, when my most recent ex said he would ring at Xyz and didn't, I wondered what he was doing, who he was talking to, why tell me a time if you can't stick to it?

Wounding. Fear and insecurity. "

I'm a mechanic and in my trade I'm 1 snapped bolt away from an extra 3 hrs work, if iv said I will ring you at 1 and didn't it's likely because at 12.48 this bolt snapped, the heat was on and its on even more now, customer wants the car back so I cracked on, bolt drilled out, tapped and good to go, it's now 3.30 and I'm really sorry I said I'd call and didn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

On here or in general? Not everyone likes to share.

I've never ever ever ever come across a woman that's even remotely into the idea of sharing me lol

Okay, that's not what I asked. You said you were intrigued by women who are happy to share. I was curious about where you meant. Personally, sharing doesn't phase me but we are all different. "

OK, both, on here and in general

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends what you mean. With regards to swinging my wife says "it is just sex at the end of the night you are coming home with me and we make love"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not the site for you then op "

Why not ?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not the site for you then op

Why not ?"

You say your the jealous type this is a swingers site there is no room for jealousy

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Could be that they're a catastrophiser. I used to do that with my dad as a child. I'd sit watching out the window waiting for him to get home from work. If he wasn't back when he said he'd be back I'd end up in tears thinking he'd had a car accident.

I ain't trying to justify accusations or whatnot, but I do kinda get it. One of my ex's was a right liar. He'd be "going to get petrol"..... at the pub. Then swear blind i was going mental and imagining things even though I could smell the fucking alcohol on him. He was a cheat too.

So, when my most recent ex said he would ring at Xyz and didn't, I wondered what he was doing, who he was talking to, why tell me a time if you can't stick to it?

Wounding. Fear and insecurity.

I'm a mechanic and in my trade I'm 1 snapped bolt away from an extra 3 hrs work, if iv said I will ring you at 1 and didn't it's likely because at 12.48 this bolt snapped, the heat was on and its on even more now, customer wants the car back so I cracked on, bolt drilled out, tapped and good to go, it's now 3.30 and I'm really sorry I said I'd call and didn't "

I understand completely, I really do. Phones die, traffic happens, shit happens, work happens, life happens. I'm often due to finish work at a certain time and it rarely happens, but even with that, my own head still starts to tick-tock.

It's not a fun place to live, that place in my head.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x"

"A female" being like your date or girlfriend, to avoid confusion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x"

No but I have always been a slut

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x

No but I have always been a slut "

Maybe make that clear to whoever you get involved with x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not the site for you then op

Why not ?

You say your the jealous type this is a swingers site there is no room for jealousy "

Eh

I said they are the jealous type lol

Seriously

There's not 1 thing I will ever ever ever be jealous over lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x

No but I have always been a slut

Maybe make that clear to whoever you get involved with x"

They was well aware of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not the site for you then op

Why not ?

You say your the jealous type this is a swingers site there is no room for jealousy

Eh

I said they are the jealous type lol

Seriously

There's not 1 thing I will ever ever ever be jealous over lol"

My bad op must have read it wrong sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not the site for you then op

Why not ?

You say your the jealous type this is a swingers site there is no room for jealousy

Eh

I said they are the jealous type lol

Seriously

There's not 1 thing I will ever ever ever be jealous over lol

My bad op must have read it wrong sorry "

That's 1 thing I'm not going to hold against you heaven as you are not alone on the forums when it comes to reading things wrong lol

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x

No but I have always been a slut

Maybe make that clear to whoever you get involved with x

They was well aware of it "

That makes it their problem then. Carry on being a slut x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You chasing other women while in the presence of a female? Because that would piss me off as well and jealousy wouldn't be the reason x

No but I have always been a slut

Maybe make that clear to whoever you get involved with x

They was well aware of it

That makes it their problem then. Carry on being a slut x"

Again, are women actually OK with a man being a slut ? Fucking lots of different women

All iv ever experienced is jealousy and control

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You wouldn't be jealous if your mate was getting action. My lovers are friends first and foremost so i am happy for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You wouldn't be jealous if your mate was getting action. My lovers are friends first and foremost so i am happy for them. "

I'm not lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

"

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Surely that's what this site is about though, be double standards if I got jealous or possessive when I'm doing the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not sex I crave

It's not attention either

Is it maybe starting to become clear what I crave ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Could be that they're a catastrophiser. I used to do that with my dad as a child. I'd sit watching out the window waiting for him to get home from work. If he wasn't back when he said he'd be back I'd end up in tears thinking he'd had a car accident.

I ain't trying to justify accusations or whatnot, but I do kinda get it. One of my ex's was a right liar. He'd be "going to get petrol"..... at the pub. Then swear blind i was going mental and imagining things even though I could smell the fucking alcohol on him. He was a cheat too.

So, when my most recent ex said he would ring at Xyz and didn't, I wondered what he was doing, who he was talking to, why tell me a time if you can't stick to it?

Wounding. Fear and insecurity. "

Giiiiirl, Literally same here!! I used to do the same as a child to my dad too, and remember also having the same thought processes when he’d be back late and all, and I did translate that to my relationships (I’m learning not too tho) and having dealt with someone who also was a liar and a cheat… I did have those feelings of paranoia, and sense of abandonment or worrying that something is happening.

Super strange tho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people on here who like to be shared but don’t like their partner being shared. There are people who both share, there are many variations of what people are comfortable with, from groups to 1-1 interactions and the types of interaction, which all matter in a sexual encounter, but one common theme I’ve noticed with couples is respect with their honesty. There is a difference between leading someone on and wanting something else, or not taking the other persons preferences into consideration just focusing on your own, that’s basically narcissism to me

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By *asters_kittenCouple
over a year ago

Luton

This is something I have been totally OK with.

Reason being is even if you are in a relationship with someone it doesn't make every other man and woman ugly. U can still look and admire and as long as I know ur intentions and its not sneakily done, then go fill ya boots.

But it is not for every woman. Some women want their man to themselves, there is nothing wrong with that either.

Can't give advice on any women even tho I am one, we are complicated creatures and even we can't figure us out. Hehe.

That friend with benefits is out there somewhere wanting something simular to u. The fun and cople type relationship but no strings and no hang ups in what each other gets up alone or in each others company.

But even in that type of friendship there should be a lot of trust and communication. X x

Good luck hun.

Kitten xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is something I have been totally OK with.

Reason being is even if you are in a relationship with someone it doesn't make every other man and woman ugly. U can still look and admire and as long as I know ur intentions and its not sneakily done, then go fill ya boots.

But it is not for every woman. Some women want their man to themselves, there is nothing wrong with that either.

Can't give advice on any women even tho I am one, we are complicated creatures and even we can't figure us out. Hehe.

That friend with benefits is out there somewhere wanting something simular to u. The fun and cople type relationship but no strings and no hang ups in what each other gets up alone or in each others company.

But even in that type of friendship there should be a lot of trust and communication. X x

Good luck hun.

Kitten xx"

Where are these women though ?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Everybody is different. Some men and woman don't want to share their partner and if the other half is happy then so be it, where it become a problem is a situation we experienced a few years ago.

We were at a large social chatting to a couple. During our conversation the female responded to a question with "I am allowed to play but HE is NOT" jabbing her finger aggressively at her husband. We assumed it was some sort of cuckold situation but later at the bar I asked him if he was happy with the situation as he looked depressed. He admitted he was not but then said "what can I do?" I didn't want to get involved at this point but just said communication is an important part of any relationship. It came as no surprise to learn a while later that they had split up.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

"

I get a bit jealous depends on situation if female is a giggle and see its just purely sexual and we tease him together im find when he with a straight and its more sensual i get a bit jealous but I don't make An issue

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Also, there's sharing and there's being sidelined frequently for someone new.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You need to start going after women with a bit of substance to them, rather than just the hotties. Noone is more insecure than women who are targeted for her looks alone.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some people are just naturally jealous people I think or there are reasons behind it to make them feel insecure. Neither of us are so we’ve never had any issues like that. Even outside of swinging.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am very intrigued by women that's OK with there fella or there fuck buddy being totally OK with him fucking other women, why have I always had the jealous controlling types ?

I get a bit jealous depends on situation if female is a giggle and see its just purely sexual and we tease him together im find when he with a straight and its more sensual i get a bit jealous but I don't make An issue "

You've just gained some respect from me

Honest women are like rocking horse sh*t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved sharing the love of my life with my best friend and watching him fuck her. It was amazing

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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It can also depend on the type of sharing. I'm perfectly happy with physical sharing, it's just an enjoyable physical act, like going to play golf with their mate. But I'm not okay with emotional sharing. Honesty and communication are important in my opinion, keeping that communication going throughout the relationship, and adjusting boundaries as necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on dynamic. Done the couples thing with one guy and felt no jealousy, it worked because of the dynamic of that relationship. Been in other relationships where I have felt jealous....always try and assess it though, I know it is my problem to deal with so I try and kerb it

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot "

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I loved sharing the love of my life with my best friend and watching him fuck her. It was amazing "

I've never experienced it but I recon I'd be totally OK watching a friend fuck the love of my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x"

I wasn't allowed to fix women's cars, kept on timers

Constantly checked up on

It was jealousy and control

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x

I wasn't allowed to fix women's cars, kept on timers

Constantly checked up on

It was jealousy and control "

You're talking about one individual? Sorry, i had the impression it's hapoening with every single woman you met.

That's just plain obsessive. I'd stay clear if you're not in a serious relationship with this person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x

I wasn't allowed to fix women's cars, kept on timers

Constantly checked up on

It was jealousy and control

You're talking about one individual? Sorry, i had the impression it's hapoening with every single woman you met.

That's just plain obsessive. I'd stay clear if you're not in a serious relationship with this person. "

I'm talking about them all, not just 1

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x

I wasn't allowed to fix women's cars, kept on timers

Constantly checked up on

It was jealousy and control

You're talking about one individual? Sorry, i had the impression it's hapoening with every single woman you met.

That's just plain obsessive. I'd stay clear if you're not in a serious relationship with this person.

I'm talking about them all, not just 1 "

Must be something about you then, that make the women folk go mad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno, maybe you're drawn to the wounded types which is why it's happening every time?

Maybe you're making them feel as though they have something/someone to lose perhaps? I ain't there so can't see the relationship in action (not in a sexual sense I might add)

Or it could be that they're just trying to plan their own activities and are trying to work out your plans so they know what free time they have, and you're viewing their questioning as control?

Thinking maybe your right with drawn to the wounded type but that's not been what drew me to them

Was the fact they was hot

Could it also be that them being jealous is more in your head than anything else and you really just want to let everyone here know you're a slut?

I'm absolutely fine with you being a slut btw, whatever makes you happy x

I wasn't allowed to fix women's cars, kept on timers

Constantly checked up on

It was jealousy and control

You're talking about one individual? Sorry, i had the impression it's hapoening with every single woman you met.

That's just plain obsessive. I'd stay clear if you're not in a serious relationship with this person.

I'm talking about them all, not just 1

Must be something about you then, that make the women folk go mad "

I'm an unforgettable person, qualities that are as rare as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work "

Got a bit of this going on at work currently

New lad started

Turns out he only lives a few streets away from another colleague

He doesn't drive so has to get 2 buses to work and 2 buses home

Girl I work with said she as she only lived round the corner, she'd give him a lift when they were on the same shift

Did it twice, then it stopped

His GF isn't happy with him getting lifts off women

The office is 80% female, so let's hope she never pops her head in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Got a bit of this going on at work currently

New lad started

Turns out he only lives a few streets away from another colleague

He doesn't drive so has to get 2 buses to work and 2 buses home

Girl I work with said she as she only lived round the corner, she'd give him a lift when they were on the same shift

Did it twice, then it stopped

His GF isn't happy with him getting lifts off women

The office is 80% female, so let's hope she never pops her head in "

Sounds like my kind of office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Got a bit of this going on at work currently

New lad started

Turns out he only lives a few streets away from another colleague

He doesn't drive so has to get 2 buses to work and 2 buses home

Girl I work with said she as she only lived round the corner, she'd give him a lift when they were on the same shift

Did it twice, then it stopped

His GF isn't happy with him getting lifts off women

The office is 80% female, so let's hope she never pops her head in

Sounds like my kind of office "

4 blokes

16 women

Of the 16, 14 are in the 25-35 age bracket

Sounds good in theory

In reality it's like trying to work whilst a flock of seagulls fight over a chip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a bit of an abusive kinda person who actually creates jealousy within their partner by behaving in ways or saying things that plant the jealousy seeds is one scenario.

The main reason for jealousy or what could on the surface appear to be jealousy and control, is basic fear and insecurity. Some of which you can help, some of which you cannot. Some really will be a byproduct of past experiences/trauma

Alls I've ever done is be me, go to work and come home, there's no way I was lucky to be able to as much as speak to other women

Timed how long it took to me to get home from work

Got a bit of this going on at work currently

New lad started

Turns out he only lives a few streets away from another colleague

He doesn't drive so has to get 2 buses to work and 2 buses home

Girl I work with said she as she only lived round the corner, she'd give him a lift when they were on the same shift

Did it twice, then it stopped

His GF isn't happy with him getting lifts off women

The office is 80% female, so let's hope she never pops her head in

Sounds like my kind of office

4 blokes

16 women

Of the 16, 14 are in the 25-35 age bracket

Sounds good in theory

In reality it's like trying to work whilst a flock of seagulls fight over a chip "

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