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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people think of verifications, if someone has 300 is it a turn on or off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have gathered those over many years,also they could be club hosts so not necessarily all sexual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They could have gathered those over many years,also they could be club hosts so not necessarily all sexual."

Oh ok makes sense I suppose I was just curious as I’ve only posted a few as didn’t want to look like I’ve played with loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jammy sod or bloody knackered.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

They could be from big forum socials……

J x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not kit the amount that put me off, rather the content of some.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"They could have gathered those over many years,also they could be club hosts so not necessarily all sexual.

Oh ok makes sense I suppose I was just curious as I’ve only posted a few as didn’t want to look like I’ve played with loads "

Lucky you have a few to post.

I got my first social one about a week ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The quantity isn’t a issue as a lot could be socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay any attention to them so wouldn't make a difference to me. I think Veri's cause more problems than they are worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all… could have been swinging years or socials…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't pay any attention to them so wouldn't make a difference to me. I think Veri's cause more problems than they are worth. "

Sooooooo true!!!

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

For me, it’s the frequency. One lady I know of in here at point was posting at least one veri a day for at least six weeks, each from different guys. I have no interest in going there!

On the other hand, it’s a shame they disappear when the verifier leaves the site! I have around 15 or so, but most are from two people, who have left then returned with new profiles…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, it’s the frequency. One lady I know of in here at point was posting at least one veri a day for at least six weeks, each from different guys. I have no interest in going there!

On the other hand, it’s a shame they disappear when the verifier leaves the site! I have around 15 or so, but most are from two people, who have left then returned with new profiles…"

Why does it matter if she had a new one every day though? Doesn't mean she's had sex with them all and if she has, why is that a problem?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't understand the idea that someone can have "too many verifications".

To me it shows they're definitely who they say they are and are probably quite a social person. In my book that's a good thing.

Equally no verifications doesn't mean that they're fake or won't turn up.

I prefer to make my own decisions about people, verifications are s small part of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People read too much into them, they can easily create a toxic atmosphere. It's a shame really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, it’s the frequency. One lady I know of in here at point was posting at least one veri a day for at least six weeks, each from different guys. I have no interest in going there!

On the other hand, it’s a shame they disappear when the verifier leaves the site! I have around 15 or so, but most are from two people, who have left then returned with new profiles…"

Yeah I also don’t mind the number but rather the frequency

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend to get a cluster , because I leave then come back so I get them to re verify, I find them all a bit Sammy , great guy , great cock , knows how to please , don’t let this one go blah blah , I like the ones right to the point , he is what he says he is sort of thing . I dunno I’m torn between them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People read too much into them, they can easily create a toxic atmosphere. It's a shame really. "

Do they , how so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So looking through most of the comments, can I ask why they have caused problems. Mine haven’t so again I’m just curious

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By *ookie an creamCouple
over a year ago

Fife


"It's not kit the amount that put me off, rather the content of some. "

This for us, you can tell alot from peoples verifications by who they have met.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They're usually from clubs if they're in the hundreds and long time members.

Mine are all quite clear that they're just socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be honest loads is a turn off but saying that it depends on the context some get loads from friends in clubs etc it’s when you read to much detail it sort of switched my mind off but that’s just me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"So looking through most of the comments, can I ask why they have caused problems. Mine haven’t so again I’m just curious "

Might be different from a woman's point of view looking at mens? Or how men have written about the ladies that they've been with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose with that many there’s a positive point there. So why not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone ever written or read a bad verification

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"For me, it’s the frequency. One lady I know of in here at point was posting at least one veri a day for at least six weeks, each from different guys. I have no interest in going there!

On the other hand, it’s a shame they disappear when the verifier leaves the site! I have around 15 or so, but most are from two people, who have left then returned with new profiles…"

No one's making you go there... And what's it got to do with you how many men she meets, plays, has sex with?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I curated mine for a while until i thought sod it if they want to judge me on them, they can bugger off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I curated mine for a while until i thought sod it if they want to judge me on them, they can bugger off. "

Good attitude x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. They aren't the type of person that I want to meet.

I find it weird when people say 'oh but most of my veris are from socials', like they are ashamed. If it's such a horror for them, why show the veri summary.

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