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Is bisexual a disadvantage?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. I'm wondering if being bisexual/bicurious is a turn off for ladies or couples on this site?

(I definitely prefer girls so it's maybe not worth the risk )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it's probably a turn on for quite a lot of women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm wondering if being bisexual/bicurious is a turn off for ladies or couples on this site?

(I definitely prefer girls so it's maybe not worth the risk )"

Some will be put off, some will love it.

Don’t change yourself to try to please others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You be you x x I don’t seem to understand why people would think of you as well if you were bi/bicurious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be yourself.

i no longer care what others think.

i will meet who i wish and its nothing to do with anyone else.

if they dont like it. do one.

they are the ones who point the finger but were never interested in you in the first place.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Be yourself. Don't bend just to please others...

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Be yourself. Don't bend just to please others..."

When I said bend... I didn't mean .....

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

As everyone else has said, be you. Lying is much worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be yourself. Don't bend just to please others..."

Sometimes you have to bend or you just don't reach the right spots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You guys are so nice.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Some will like it, some won't.

The thing everyone likes though is honesty so don't do what some do and lie about it saying you're straight when you're bi (or vice versa) as most will be put off by being told lies.

We won't ever appeal to everyone and thats fine, there are lots who will like you for who you are not for telling them what you think they want to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems many girls like it in porn but not for real. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks some people are just greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems many girls like it in porn but not for real. Thoughts?"

Hmm I’m kind of one of these people. I love watching bi mmf but wouldn’t take part in real life. Like gangbangs, love watching them on porn, no way would I get involved in one.

I like to leave some things to fantasy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Be you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be your self and I never see a disadvantage off being bi means the best off both worlds

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s thousands of people on this site, not all use the forums. So you’re just getting a snap shot of opinions on here.

I am here for my own desires, some match and I will engage with that person or couple. The majority however don’t.

So I’m honest about my sexuality and what I’m looking for, my advice, do the same. Saves everyone time in the long run.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm more put off with people not being themselves

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will either like or they won't. Be yourself.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I usually find bi friendly people are more keen to experiment or even show me a thing or two.

Your aim should be quality not quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it's a turn on,for others it's a turn off.

Just be honest.

Dishonesty in your sexuality is a bigger turn off.

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By *erry2017ukMan
over a year ago

Mazarron Spain

From my experiences generally find when meeting couples and the guy says hes straight once the fun starts hes all over my cock with his mrs. The reasoning when chatting later is that it scares some off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having said that you would get invited to better parties.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have always identified as bisexual on here and it's done me no harm

There's a common misconception that bisexual men are not wanted which is perpetuated by people putting "won't meet bi men" on their profiles which makes it stand out - what a lot of people miss is that the overwhelming majority of profiles don't have that and are either not bothered by it or actively seek bisexual guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it would only be a positive thing for you.

But be as you are not what you think others may want.

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

Its actually preferable for us as would love more bi encounters for Jewel (cuckold). We get quite a few message from guys saying they are bi but says straight on their profile which is usually an instant no from us. We prefer the honesty and knowing people are comfortable.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doesn't make a difference to me

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By *lexMegasMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM

Just be yourself. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and likewise I'm fussy about what I like too. That's the fantastic thing about FAB, you be you and that's all you need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard you double your chances.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I heard you double your chances. "

Or you reduce them by a quotient that I am yet to get a Handel on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a turn off for men wanting to meet couples…sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more put off with people not being themselves

R"

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast


"Hi all. I'm wondering if being bisexual/bicurious is a turn off for ladies or couples on this site?

(I definitely prefer girls so it's maybe not worth the risk )"

I've been messaged "I don't meet dirty bi-sexual guys, I don't know where you've been" by a bi-sexual female, just for looking at her profile. Hypocrisy at its best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are still so many double standards when it comes to bisexuality.

Women being bi - fantastic

Men - for many, not so much.

But really do you want to engage with people who judge you on your sexuality?

You do you (and whoever you want!)

I'm wee bit biased as Bi guys are my jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm wondering if being bisexual/bicurious is a turn off for ladies or couples on this site?

(I definitely prefer girls so it's maybe not worth the risk )

I've been messaged "I don't meet dirty bi-sexual guys, I don't know where you've been" by a bi-sexual female, just for looking at her profile. Hypocrisy at its best.

"

Exactly!! This drives me nuts!! Grr

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Be yourself OP, you'll have more fun that way for sure. Xx

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Maybe and just maybe.. it's a controlling man dictating her preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight people aren’t as much fun.

Sorry straight people

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi."

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Why hide a part of you to please some, just be you and then you’ll connect with the right people.

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t. "

Agreed think that is very manly and hot hehe but think there is that thought that it is not masculine to be be with another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t.

Agreed think that is very manly and hot hehe but think there is that thought that it is not masculine to be be with another man."

I’ve seen loads of guys fuck each other. It’s very manly.

Mmmm. Clit twitching now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard it doubles your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard it doubles your chances. "

Some say it’s just greedy

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t.

Agreed think that is very manly and hot hehe but think there is that thought that it is not masculine to be be with another man.

I’ve seen loads of guys fuck each other. It’s very manly.

Mmmm. Clit twitching now "

Mmm Wish I was one of them. Would put on a good show for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard it doubles your chances.

Some say it’s just greedy "

Keeps your options open, that’s what I heard anyway.

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t.

Agreed think that is very manly and hot hehe but think there is that thought that it is not masculine to be be with another man."

An interesting concept

The whole idea of masculinity... what is masculine? I prefer to be a gentleman.

Who's manlier? Someone that throws pints over their mates for a laugh and goes looking for a scrap? Or those proud to talk about who they are, stand-up to bullies, run towards danger to help others, and sometimes likes to look at and think about dick.

I know where I am in that short example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody love it

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t. "

*applauded*

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Just be honest, be yourself. There is no point in lying

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda


"Think there is maybe a thought that a guy is less manly if he says he is Bi.

I reckon I am masculine but would identify as Bi.

That kinda defies logic: a man who’s man enough to pin another man down and fuck his ass sounds way manlier than one who can’t.

Agreed think that is very manly and hot hehe but think there is that thought that it is not masculine to be be with another man.

An interesting concept

The whole idea of masculinity... what is masculine? I prefer to be a gentleman.

Who's manlier? Someone that throws pints over their mates for a laugh and goes looking for a scrap? Or those proud to talk about who they are, stand-up to bullies, run towards danger to help others, and sometimes likes to look at and think about dick.

I know where I am in that short example. "

Yes indeed the first group you speak about are just dicks in general who think being a man is being a bully.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's not an advantage go be bi...you are treated with suspicion by some

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast


"It's not an advantage go be bi...you are treated with suspicion by some "

I think some men in couples are worried us bi chaps are going to try and play "hide the pickle" without an invitation.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Being honest has to be key but I do appreciate the frustration OP ...

My profile states bi-curious which is honest, but my preference would always be for a woman/ couple and would struggle with kissing another man but that's just me. I'm open minded and as long as everyone enjoys, why should it be an issue?

What i find frustrating is the profiles that state won't meet bi etc. I won't judge on that, it's a preference and each to their own but, to be judged and or stereotyped on it. I feel its a little sad... I'm certainly not going to jump on your man, or be more eager to play with him than a lady and nor does it make a bi man dirty.

My preference would always be as stated and the bi thing is just a bonus, not a necessity... so is judgement really fair? And shouldn't we all be judged as individuals, not by a box or classification.

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast


"To be judged and or stereotyped on it. I feel its a little sad...

Shouldn't we all be judged as individuals, not by a box or classification. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d say being bisexual is a huge advantage on here.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I find it’s a massive advantage if you like fanny and cock.

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Some will love it some will not so you may not get to meet some straight couples? I have BI on my profile as thats what i am and id rather be honest with people. I have played also straight with couples and everyone was happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I'm wondering if being bisexual/bicurious is a turn off for ladies or couples on this site?

(I definitely prefer girls so it's maybe not worth the risk )

Some will be put off, some will love it.

Don’t change yourself to try to please others "

Couldn't agree more.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Good thing about fab you can be who you are , if friends n family knew how p and myself are bisexual think alot would be shocked or disown on here.we are who we are and yess I still prefer men and p still prefers women. Nice we can be ourselves on here.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

Not for us as long as you keep your hands to yourself

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Its not the bisexual part it's the safe sex part, which goes for any man on here. I've seen way to many bareback anal sex mm mf videos on here and that's what puts me off a profile

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I’ve met a few bi couples and urs awesome

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I prefer females but I do love to have a cock now and again. I dont fancy men, just enjoy sucking a cock now and then.

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