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"I write, mainly verse" I do that too. Certainly helps de-clutter the mind x | |||
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"Personally I play guitar or go for a run or if it’s really bad drive to the middle of nowhere and walk it off 20 miles usually does the trick " I take myself to the coast. It always has a calming affect on me x | |||
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"I found out this morning in the car that I actually shout OH MY FUCKING GOOD GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! DUH! I was quite surprised at my reaction to frustration in the heat...at least I was on my own." I find a scream or two helps | |||
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"I usually have a w.... Oh. OK...well, I walk actually And sometimes I make stuff out of wood" Therapeutic to see something coming together x | |||
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"Everything from weight training, long walks in parks/ nature, partying, masturbation and sex. The thing that truly works for me out that lot the most is long walks in parks/ nature believe it or not, in case anyone else needs calming I tend to get lost in my thoughts which makes them worse when walking, but for some I guess it works x | |||
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"Personally I play guitar or go for a run or if it’s really bad drive to the middle of nowhere and walk it off 20 miles usually does the trick I take myself to the coast. It always has a calming affect on me x" Scarborough used to be my destination of choice, sit on the cliffs by the castle and just let my mind drift | |||
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"Everything from weight training, long walks in parks/ nature, partying, masturbation and sex. The thing that truly works for me out that lot the most is long walks in parks/ nature believe it or not, in case anyone else needs calming I am like that at first for sure but if the walk is long enough and remains in a natural setting you start to notice a difference x | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments has it got a cock attachment? | |||
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"Driving in the countryside is my "calm your tits" activity. I also paint, which requires so much focus that I forget my worries for a while. " I think I need to get my pencils and watercolours out again. | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments I sing | |||
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"Hit the gym take it out on my self see I can hit a new pr on sit-ups " Well done x | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names | |||
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"Hit the gym take it out on my self see I can hit a new pr on sit-ups Well done x" thanks x | |||
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"I sing at the top of my voice... Mainly "we gotta get outta this place" I kinda make up my words...just think Punk" YESSSSSSSSS!!! | |||
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"I sing at the top of my voice... Mainly "we gotta get outta this place" I kinda make up my words...just think Punk" Id end frustrating the neighbours if I sung | |||
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"I retreat to the man shed for a tinker " I bet you do | |||
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" What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you. In the old days, play rugby. These days, very heavy squats, deadlifts and bench, once or twice a week. Not much left after that. | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments Depending on what causes the frustration, Lego to calm the mind Physical exertion to calm the body | |||
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"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter I usually say there and then but I've had a lot of things thrown at me lately all in one go that I'm struggling to process hence why I got the bag out again xx | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I've came close | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments I must be wired wrong as physical exertion calms my mind x | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments You seem to be waiting a while for the wank comment. So here it is. Wank | |||
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"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter Give it two extra punches for me please I’m having a bad day | |||
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"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter I'll give it 3 and hope it helps | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments The forums never fail to disappoint | |||
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"I meditate I'm too easily distracted for meditation x | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit" | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle Time to take cover at that point then | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration Filth | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle Something like that | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration I dont know what your thinking... I'm still talking about the bag | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration The punch bag right? | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood | |||
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"I retreat to the man shed for a tinker I bet you do Although it’s currently 36’c in there so might have to find an alternative distraction | |||
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"Very little really gets to me these days. I can be angered by something one minute the next it’s forgotten. I’m pretty lucky really, I’ve learnt how not to sweat the little stuff. Quiet time settles the mind Anger is not frustration...they are w separate things. | |||
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"They ball up inside me in a knot in my stomach. " Thats not good x | |||
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"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration Erm......... | |||
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"Used to hit the drum kit or guitar dam I miss them. Miss going the beach to found that so peaceful. " I'm noisy enough without a drum kit...but good idea x | |||
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"I found out this morning in the car that I actually shout OH MY FUCKING GOOD GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! DUH! I was quite surprised at my reaction to frustration in the heat...at least I was on my own." This. Surprisingly therapeutic. Problem is, most people are too close to someone else who might get alarmed. Solution is to shout into a cushion | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn | |||
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"I usually have a w.... Oh. OK...well, I walk actually And sometimes I make stuff out of wood" He walks, wanks or whittles. | |||
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"I usually have a w.... Oh. OK...well, I walk actually And sometimes I make stuff out of wood He walks, wanks or whittles. A man of many talents | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I may look like an | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I dunno I think I’d quite like being on the wrong side of you | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle Is it a dark and wicked side though | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle It would certainly be a wild ride | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I make the | |||
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"Either take the dog out or go to the beach and just watch the sea and listen to the waves " The sea definitely calms me but doesn't help to release the frustration if that makes sense. | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle I like living dangerously | |||
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"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing " You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour | |||
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"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle It’s ok I’ve a decent crash test rating | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag " I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good. | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good." There goes the naked wrestling then | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good. There goes the naked wrestling then Not if its gentle | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good. There goes the naked wrestling then I'll try my best | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good." You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good. You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas" I didnt but I do now, thanks. Though mine would need to be a midget as I'm only little. | |||
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"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good. You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas I didnt but I do now, thanks. Though mine would need to be a midget as I'm only little." They are adjustable so kids can use them as well. Think they around 200-300 | |||
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"I go into my own special room....... and sew" Which I have that talent, I love to see things take shape and together x | |||
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"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour Gosh! Just by saying it you look already sexy! I could teach you if you don’t mind me holding your hand and your waist | |||
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"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour I'll try anything once | |||
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"Go for a walk or get in the exercise bike depending on the weather" I think I need the physical stimulation.. | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments Wank | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments I knee you would | |||
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"First choice is the guitar for me nothing as relaxing as a good strum " My train of thought got derailed at a good strum | |||
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"First choice is the guitar for me nothing as relaxing as a good strum My train of thought got derailed at a good strum You can twang my string any time | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments But I was thinking of you whilst doing it!!! | |||
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"Boxing is definitely the best." It has certainly helped | |||
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"I go outside, I go anywhere really. Sometimes I'll hop in my car n blast some music out and other times I'll just go n sit on my fave bench on the prom. Xx" I like to do that once I've got the frustration out of my system | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook I'm totally not musical | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook But together we make sweet music | |||
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"Just stick some tunes on....the power of music...." I do that afterwards to chill | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook I could always help you to strum out a tune | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook Always willing to learn | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook I have a strange style mind always play either naked or in just underwear | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook Well clothes would get in the way so that's good thinking | |||
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"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook I'll grab the guitar you pick out your underwear | |||
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"I go into my own special room....... and sew Which I have that talent, I love to see things take shape and together x" It's so much fun. Not really talented, I can just follow a pattern | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments Punch bags are great but you should get someone to hold pads and go through various routines with ya! I only do it once a week these days but its phenomenal. | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments I wonder which friend would volunteer.... | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments Ok, I'll take one for the team!!! | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments The bath is my go to place for chilling out. | |||
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"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped. What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.... I'll await the "wank" comments I'll happily put you through your paces | |||
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