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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when it comes to looking for a potential meet how far do you normally go to, I know for the right person people would travel a fair distance but I’m the search what is your go to?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We have a few saved searches of 5 and 20 miles with a few with a longer radius. But we rarely use them anymore.

We have found our tastes are a little eclectic, so have to look further afield to find people we are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a few saved searches of 5 and 20 miles with a few with a longer radius. But we rarely use them anymore.

We have found our tastes are a little eclectic, so have to look further afield to find people we are interested in."

I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’ll go where I’m invited…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance isn't a problem for me, if I have a craving for them, I will travel the distance

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far "

I would agree there, assuming you are looking for something more meaningful than the WUU2/FAF/Meet now crowd.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far

I would agree there, assuming you are looking for something more meaningful than the WUU2/FAF/Meet now crowd."

Oh yes connection, banter and chemistry can’t do the whole let’s me vibe

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

I think most single women will jump out of bed and scramble across the floor to get their heels on at 2am to drive from lands end to John o’groats if you send them a

Wanna fuck message

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I click with someone then distance really is no object...I love driving and taking road trips x

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Next door but one

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If someone is worth it, then what does distance matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half hour max

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

distance no problem if you want to meet each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London. "

If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local

Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

5 hours driving for a 2hr meet. But so so worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance isn’t a problem at all for the right person… my last was 6 hours and I loved the build up and the plans for the weekend.

I love exploring new places and having a local person that loves the area you’re meeting in is even better,

I’d definitely do it again for the right person.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London.

If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local

Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour "

Localish, takes me an hour to Spurs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London.

If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local

Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour

Localish, takes me an hour to Spurs "

I’m about 10 mins from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment because of my living situation I would go half hour max, that way I can feasibly tell my family that I'm meeting someone for a drink.

Annoyingly London isn't far from me in distance but takes forever to get to and would prefer to get public transport which leaves me feeling exposed and a bit vulnerable.

When I live on my own then I'll be able to accommodate and would be up for travelling further for a meet with the right person/people.

Unfortunately at the moment I usually get "wuu2" or some other shite which doesn't warrant a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still trying to overcome my fear of new places and driving, but getting there have done an hour would consider 2 hours have to check route and plan so maybe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Almost exclusively local

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m still trying to overcome my fear of new places and driving, but getting there have done an hour would consider 2 hours have to check route and plan so maybe "

I have done just over an hour before

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Longest I've driven has been just over 3 and a half hours each way x

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

An hour would be it for me

Too much going on in my life to be travelling far

Unless it was a hotel meet then that's different

Would make a weekend of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I click with someone then distance really is no object...I love driving and taking road trips x"

This ^^ if the connection is right then distance wouldn't be an issue. Even if it's just a one off then it's all good. I like travelling so it doesn't phase me

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Travel is no issue for me and never really has been, if it’s too far then meet in the middle, it’s all about give n take

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If I'm going to them, they'd need to be really local as I don't drive and can't be doing with long journeys.

I wouldn't want anyone really driving more than an hour or so to come and see me, unless they were really special.

I tend to stick to next county along.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am happy to travel quite some distance for the right person - it would not be on a whim though. I take time to get to know somebody but if I find that person interesting then really, the sky is the limit.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Travel is no issue for me and never really has been, if it’s too far then meet in the middle, it’s all about give n take

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

45 minutes drive.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Plenty to go at in a 5 mile radius

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Plenty to go at in a 5 mile radius "

Lucky you

Cows and sheep are my 5 mile radius companions where I live....

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It depends on how well we get along.

Its obviously easier to meet up regularly if you don't have to take a transatlantic flight to get there, but if I really wanted to meet someone and they were up for it, I'd do what was necessary.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't really search locally. Actually, I don't really search

Not particularly looking for anything at the moment.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I once traveled to a spa on public transport 2 and a half hour's.Since that day I said to myself no more than one and a half hours travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m flying down to Southampton next month to meet someone. Not something I’d normally do but I’m treating it as a mini break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have traveled 240 miles just for a meet. If the person is genuine and we both click in happy to travel anywhere in the UK

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

Would motorcycle/drive a fair distinace or suggest a halfway rendezvous for the right meet if things clicked well.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

For a social meet - 60 miles (ish).

For fun - no limit (if i know she's worth it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really productive for me to travel more than an hour. So I don't.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

30 minutes tops.

I’ve got two young kids, two dogs and a doddery mum to get home to.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Would not be a problem for me to travel anywhere, have a hobby which takes me around the uk.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I travel quite a lot, so I'm flexible and not just stuck with locals. And I prefer people who don't live on the doorstep. Half an hour is nothing for them to drive

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

If there worth it distances should not be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to travel pretty much anywhere if the connection is perfect and I could afford it.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice


"I'd be happy to travel pretty much anywhere if the connection is perfect and I could afford it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to travel quite some distance for the right person - it would not be on a whim though. I take time to get to know somebody but if I find that person interesting then really, the sky is the limit. "

if they worth it, you travel and spend time together. my experiences tell me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more than happy to travel in fact I prefer it.

Most of my connections live either in London or up North, 2+ hours away.

I have every other weekend free so enjoy travelling to places & usually make a weekend of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever met locally.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"Plenty to go at in a 5 mile radius

Lucky you

Cows and sheep are my 5 mile radius companions where I live...."

I was joking

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Usually within an hour although some people are worth making exceptions for

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

An hour's drive normally my limit,

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I'd go far for the right person. And I will be doing so soon. She's worth the travel!

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We look a bit further afield, purely because we aren’t too keen on meeting someone too close to home. Reaching for the same cucumber in Asda could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get as far as Exeter which is enough distance for a day, just over two hours travel. Longer if I can stay overnight.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

If we get along very well. I would say a maximum of two hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't rule a long distance away meet out. Especially if there was a really great connection and feeling about the person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour usually can get me to quite a few places from where I am so that will do for me.

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By *obbienormalguyMan
over a year ago

oxford

If your in close contact book a room..travel can be fun to see new areas..also if they want away game good to show them your home town.walks in the park can b fun and overnight times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to travel 2-3hrs

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Usually within an hour although some people are worth making exceptions for "

Awwww thanks.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Il swim across the sea if I have to

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Nearly all of my meet have travelled to me, ranging from three hours to an hour away, there's only one in my town I've met that I've clicked with, I'm not opposed to travelling to meet someone if the connection is there, it's just so happened they've come to me so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Il swim across the sea if I have to "

Float

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We love to travel for our meets! It’s an escape from every day life for us, we get to visit new places and the build up on the drive over is great

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Depends in the chemistry xx close is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled from Germany to the nw when I lived there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I search 20 or 30 miles but if I clicked with someone from the forums then distance is no issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can reach me by sailboat, climb a tree and swing rope to rope.

I don't care how you get here, just get here if you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Il swim across the sea if I have to "

Can't imagine you'd have to!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have travelled before and yes I am still willing to travel again for the right person. It all depends on the chemistry, connection and the want there. If all those are ticked then, I look forward to the whole journey ahead

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