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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram " I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings. | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings." blimey what's wrong with a cake and some helium balloons!? Like those daft people who light those floating lanterns that set fire to grassland | |||
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"I think it's a bit ridiculous to have a party. Hopefully whichever way the result goes the child will be loved. It's not like anybody has any say in the result or is going to reject the child if the result is different. It sounds like having a party because of an interesting piece of information coming to light, and I don't organise many of those. It sounds about as sensible as having a party to reveal the colour of the car you are going to buy. " I agree. I think these parties are just an excuse to get plastered and get gifts. | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings. blimey what's wrong with a cake and some helium balloons!? Like those daft people who light those floating lanterns that set fire to grassland " That's America for you, I guess. | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings. blimey what's wrong with a cake and some helium balloons!? Like those daft people who light those floating lanterns that set fire to grassland That's America for you, I guess." The lantern thing is pretty common over here but not quite to that extent | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings." Do it for the Gram culture…. If it wasn’t for people that have the need of boasting it and showing off, surely that wouldn’t have happened.. I feel sometimes wedding are becoming the same. Bigger and better and longer … it’s great to have something you like obviously but sometimes we push towards doing things so it appears such a big thing on the net | |||
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"I think it's a bit ridiculous to have a party. Hopefully whichever way the result goes the child will be loved. It's not like anybody has any say in the result or is going to reject the child if the result is different. It sounds like having a party because of an interesting piece of information coming to light, and I don't organise many of those. It sounds about as sensible as having a party to reveal the colour of the car you are going to buy. " Sadly though some cultures do try to get rid of the child if it is female. I think some trusts now don't do gender scans for this reason. | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings. blimey what's wrong with a cake and some helium balloons!? Like those daft people who light those floating lanterns that set fire to grassland That's America for you, I guess. The lantern thing is pretty common over here but not quite to that extent" Ah right. | |||
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"Maybe they should wait a few years then ask the kid to tell us what gender it wants to be" Ah.... Maybe they should be sex reveal parties or gonad reveal parties but then we are on dodgy ground I think. | |||
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"I think it's a bit ridiculous to have a party. Hopefully whichever way the result goes the child will be loved. It's not like anybody has any say in the result or is going to reject the child if the result is different. It sounds like having a party because of an interesting piece of information coming to light, and I don't organise many of those. It sounds about as sensible as having a party to reveal the colour of the car you are going to buy. Sadly though some cultures do try to get rid of the child if it is female. I think some trusts now don't do gender scans for this reason. " It's sad that some cultures do this. | |||
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"Maybe they should wait a few years then ask the kid to tell us what gender it wants to be" Nasty comment!!!! | |||
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"I think it's a bit ridiculous to have a party. Hopefully whichever way the result goes the child will be loved. It's not like anybody has any say in the result or is going to reject the child if the result is different. It sounds like having a party because of an interesting piece of information coming to light, and I don't organise many of those. It sounds about as sensible as having a party to reveal the colour of the car you are going to buy. I agree. I think these parties are just an excuse to get plastered and get gifts." There wasn't alcohol or gifts at the one I was at. The garden was decorated beautifully and there were cake pops for the children. It was a lovely family celebration. People are too quick to complain about everything on here. | |||
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"I think it's a bit ridiculous to have a party. Hopefully whichever way the result goes the child will be loved. It's not like anybody has any say in the result or is going to reject the child if the result is different. It sounds like having a party because of an interesting piece of information coming to light, and I don't organise many of those. It sounds about as sensible as having a party to reveal the colour of the car you are going to buy. I agree. I think these parties are just an excuse to get plastered and get gifts. There wasn't alcohol or gifts at the one I was at. The garden was decorated beautifully and there were cake pops for the children. It was a lovely family celebration. People are too quick to complain about everything on here. " That's fine if the party was a nice family celebration. It's just the ones where they do it just to get likes on Instagram or Tik Tok or something like they. Those probably would have alcohol. | |||
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"I think they are getting a bit dramatic now " I agree. The parties that used explosives are too extreme and should be banned as theyve already resulted in deaths. | |||
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"The scans and scanee can make mistakes too. Retired Midwife here. Years ago I dashed out of a room with a just born baby to resuscitate it. Came back not long after with said baby but of a different gender they had been expecting." Well done on the resuscitation. But are you sure you brought the same baby back? lol | |||
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"I thought it said Gender reveal panties " Dragons Den awaits. | |||
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"I thought it said Gender reveal panties Dragons Den awaits. " Mesh ones ? Meh. | |||
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"I've noticed that in gender reveal parties is that people including the parents would laugh at the young siblings that would cry at what the gender would be. I find this kind of cruel to be honest." Those do make me laugh. I don't see the point of them tbf, I see them as a social media stunt...I wonder how popular they would be if there was no TikkyTokking, the Facebook or an Instagram? Same with cake smooshing parties for 1st Birthdays....Jesus christ Ethel! You spent how much on a cake for your kid to squish up???? Seems so wasteful when people are starving in the world. Again more willy waving | |||
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"My sister's best mate was told she was expecting a girl, kitted out the nursery in pink everything was pink. And yep you guessed it it was a boy, and she hadn't really bought gender neutral clothes etc, and a boy couldn't possibly wear pink. I mean I doubt the baby would give a flying monkeys. I had 2 very troubled pregnancies, and I didn't want any fuss until my baby was in my arms. I hope this isn't yet more pressure on women to be told how they should do pregnancy. There's already enough pressure on how to be a perfect expectant mother without adding more. " | |||
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"OTT.. Seems like it has become one of those things you have to do. Like give a 1 year old child the best party ever with the biggest cake. So they can boast it on Instagram I remember reading that the lady that started it regrets doing it as so many people have tried to do big elaborate gender reveal parties that have ended in disaster. Remember when one guy used explosives for a reveal party that resulted in a huge wildfire that caused millions of dollars in damage? Well recently, a couple are now facing 20 years in prison as the wildfire caused by explosives at their gender reveal party last year tragically killed a firefighter, injured 13 people and destroyed 5 homes and 15 other builings. Do it for the Gram culture…. If it wasn’t for people that have the need of boasting it and showing off, surely that wouldn’t have happened.. I feel sometimes wedding are becoming the same. Bigger and better and longer … it’s great to have something you like obviously but sometimes we push towards doing things so it appears such a big thing on the net " I feel the same way about show weddings as I do about gender reveal parties. Reduces everything to a soap opera. | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are." I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X | |||
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"What does everyone think of these parties where expecting parents celebrate the baby's gender? If I had a partner who was expecting, I wouldn't have one to be honest. I would rather wait until the baby is born and celebrate then." It's another thing we got from American, it people choice it doesn't harm anyone, so I let them get on with it. Whether I go to or invited to or have one with a partner, who knows. | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are. I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X" Actually, no. There is a vast difference between sex and gender. Sexual characteristics we are born with, gender can be chosen. | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are. I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X Actually, no. There is a vast difference between sex and gender. Sexual characteristics we are born with, gender can be chosen." No not chosen x | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are. I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X Actually, no. There is a vast difference between sex and gender. Sexual characteristics we are born with, gender can be chosen. No not chosen x" Yes, chosen. Please have a read about the subject, anyone in your family may want to identify as a different gender to their biological sex and Fab is full of people just like that. | |||
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"Seems another adopted American thing, we didn't have one, I don't see the point. Mrs " The woman who did one of the first and whose post went viral has regretted the craze and is encouraging people not to do it. | |||
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"Seems another adopted American thing, we didn't have one, I don't see the point. Mrs The woman who did one of the first and whose post went viral has regretted the craze and is encouraging people not to do it." I agree due to the amount of disasters that have been caused by the extremes some parents went to. | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are. I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X Actually, no. There is a vast difference between sex and gender. Sexual characteristics we are born with, gender can be chosen." She said generally they are. Yes, generally they are. There are exceptions. | |||
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"You don't really know the gender until they are old enough to figure it out for themselves. Then if they trust you they will tell you. If they don't trust you they may well keep it hidden from you, and you'll never know who they truly are. I think generally they are the gender they are born as tbh! X Actually, no. There is a vast difference between sex and gender. Sexual characteristics we are born with, gender can be chosen. No not chosen x Yes, chosen. Please have a read about the subject, anyone in your family may want to identify as a different gender to their biological sex and Fab is full of people just like that. " Yes but not choose? One of my daughters is transgender but not through choice x | |||
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"A friend at worked streamed his live via facebook, the look on his face when he knew it wasn't a boy was priceless, and for that very reason I'm all for them. " Not nice for his daughter to see when she grows up and watches the video | |||
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"Each to their own, it's a bit of an American gimmick in my eyes." Agree with this x | |||
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"Yes but not choose? One of my daughters is transgender but not through choice x" Forced transgender? | |||
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"What does everyone think of these parties where expecting parents celebrate the baby's gender? If I had a partner who was expecting, I wouldn't have one to be honest. I would rather wait until the baby is born and celebrate then." Oh! Is that what a Gender Reveal party is? No wonder I got chucked out for turning up naked! | |||
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"What does everyone think of these parties where expecting parents celebrate the baby's gender? If I had a partner who was expecting, I wouldn't have one to be honest. I would rather wait until the baby is born and celebrate then. Oh! Is that what a Gender Reveal party is? No wonder I got chucked out for turning up naked!" | |||
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"Yes but not choose? One of my daughters is transgender but not through choice x Forced transgender? No!!! She was born into wrong gender body!! Doh!! Face palm!!" Honestly I despair of this place sometimes, some of the things I read. | |||
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"Yes but not choose? One of my daughters is transgender but not through choice x Forced transgender?" People don't choose to change their gender it's basically who they are from birth! No choice! No one would choose this I'm sure! X | |||
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"Bloody hell, you lot are (literally) fun at parties " . Any excuse for a party me. I’d have had one if they were a thing back in the olden days! | |||
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"Bloody hell, you lot are (literally) fun at parties " Just call me the fun sponge | |||
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"Bloody hell, you lot are (literally) fun at parties Just call me the fun sponge " If that's a euphemism, I'm booking a train ticket x | |||
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"Bloody hell, you lot are (literally) fun at parties . Any excuse for a party me. I’d have had one if they were a thing back in the olden days! " Same, they weren’t really popular when I had mine either. Shame! I love a good party and particularly when I’m about to have a baby and won’t be having any social events for at least the next 12 months! | |||
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