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"I don’t understand how you can be bored of something you don’t have to look at? If you want to see different people check out the new or different categories. " My thoughts on this also | |||
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"I don’t understand how you can be bored of something you don’t have to look at? If you want to see different people check out the new or different categories. " You’ll be surprised what you can find in categories | |||
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"I don’t understand how you can be bored of something you don’t have to look at? If you want to see different people check out the new or different categories. You’ll be surprised what you can find in categories " Oh yeah ? | |||
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"I don’t understand how you can be bored of something you don’t have to look at? If you want to see different people check out the new or different categories. You’ll be surprised what you can find in categories Oh yeah ? " You may have to be a few pages in but sometimes there are hidden gems around | |||
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"I get you, although not hating on the people who are regulars in there as they obviously are really involved in the scene and community. But I have saw so many hot profiles in the forums today! " I'm not involved in the scene or the community really. I just post a few photos each week for fun, and if they get to page 1 then that's nice, but it's not because I'm actively trying. It's a nice compliment though. | |||
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"Don’t look at hot pics anymore as it did seem to be the same people and often pics that had been posted before, thinking about it we don’t look at much on Fab these days, I think the last 18 months as turned us into lazy fab members " With figures like you 2 have...you should be on there | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. " Beat me to it. This is a site for swingers, but the WI! We’re all sexually liberated aren’t we? Maybe not | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. Beat me to it. This is a site for swingers, but the WI! We’re all sexually liberated aren’t we? Maybe not " Not the W.I. | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. " Thought we were done with this Agreed NSP. We're on a swinging site for adults. People should behave like it. If you don't like something, don't look at it. It doesn't warrant a forum post/status or bitchy private message. Just move on and live your life. The world will be a much happier place and you'll be a happier person for it too. Peace and love, simple | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. Beat me to it. This is a site for swingers, but the WI! We’re all sexually liberated aren’t we? Maybe not Not the W.I." They got asked if they were sexually liberated once, they said "We Isn't" | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. Thought we were done with this Agreed NSP. We're on a swinging site for adults. People should behave like it. If you don't like something, don't look at it. It doesn't warrant a forum post/status or bitchy private message. Just move on and live your life. The world will be a much happier place and you'll be a happier person for it too. Peace and love, simple " I agree. We’re all equal here, no one is better than anyone else because of their actions. | |||
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"I get you, although not hating on the people who are regulars in there as they obviously are really involved in the scene and community. But I have saw so many hot profiles in the forums today! I'm not involved in the scene or the community really. I just post a few photos each week for fun, and if they get to page 1 then that's nice, but it's not because I'm actively trying. It's a nice compliment though." And we greatly appreciate all the new photos lol | |||
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"OP, I get your point, nice when someone different is on page one, on the other hand I’m a big fan of some of the regulars so…. One thing I have noticed is that a profile never has more than one pic On the hotlist. Presumably the Fab Gods don’t allow that?" It always used to be - and if you think the same people appearing is bad now - it was even worse when they had more than one pic allowed. They changed it a good few years back to only allow one per person - which always makes me laugh when they release the most Fabbed pics of the year lists as the regulars all dash to put their most Fabbed pics back to public so they appear and the list changes by the minute | |||
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"Don’t like my pic don’t fab it simple as! I’ve been on the hot pics did I beg for fabs to get there no I didn’t, who actually has the time of day to let such trivial things annoy them? If it’s not your LPP, your posting LAM threads or your seeking too much attention or your fanny is out so you must be sex starved good grief! Just leave people be - we all have opinions but do we need to start slating people simply because other people appreciate there photos no we do not! End of " Amen! | |||
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"In my own personal research I have noted that top voted fab'd guy's don't have as many fab's as say a top voted female most fab'd women..... That should speak volumes. Quelle surprise on that one! Who'd have thunked that eh? (LOL)" The Irish hotpics section has a much smaller audience and when I used to look at it the women on page one had 150-200 fabs. I've had a few of my pics at no.1 with less than 20. In fact the most I've ever had in one 24 hrs period was 23. I've also been there with as few as 13. | |||
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"Don’t like my pic don’t fab it simple as! I’ve been on the hot pics did I beg for fabs to get there no I didn’t, who actually has the time of day to let such trivial things annoy them? If it’s not your LPP, your posting LAM threads or your seeking too much attention or your fanny is out so you must be sex starved good grief! Just leave people be - we all have opinions but do we need to start slating people simply because other people appreciate there photos no we do not! End of " I don't think I've seen any "slating" in this thread though - just people giving an opinion and stating it would be good to see fresh faces there as the OP said. The only suggestions of anything negative are coming from those defending those that are there and dismissing the valid opinions of others. In a similar vein to "Don’t like my pic don’t fab it" perhaps "don't like my opinion don't pay it any heed" could be applied, rather than making something that wasn't particularly contentious....contentious!! Quite simple really | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol " You get a gold star at the end of the year | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol You get a gold star at the end of the year " If only my ears was that wet at the back lol | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol You get a gold star at the end of the year If only my ears was that wet at the back lol " That all depends on the position you're in at the time doesn't it? | |||
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"If a women is beautiful then she will be fabbed. A lot.. I suspect jealousy plays a part and people trying to divide others with opinions which belong in the gutter. Its like a forum battle with these pic threads turning up daily. Crazy " Most threads become a battle Unless it's a what type of tree am I thread | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol " It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. " But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. " Bount to have a purpose Everything happens for a reason | |||
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"Anyone else kinda bored of seeing the same people on the top of the hot photos? Don't get me wrong, their pictures are very hot indeed but it'd be nice to see some new faces on pages 1 and 2 every now and then." Well I keep trying but not close yet! One day! () | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. " I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now" This was exactly what my point was! Well said x | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now This was exactly what my point was! Well said x" Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though " Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. | |||
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"Anyone else kinda bored of seeing the same people on the top of the hot photos? Don't get me wrong, their pictures are very hot indeed but it'd be nice to see some new faces on pages 1 and 2 every now and then." Well get fabbing the erm 'new faces' | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though." I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? " Jeez it's bad enough...without bringing football into it | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? Jeez it's bad enough...without bringing football into it " I'm not even into football as a rule lol | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? Jeez it's bad enough...without bringing football into it " I'm certain you get my point though right? | |||
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"The ones at the top are there for a reason. Every dick wants to fuck them. That's the reality " ...and some ladies like to admire them | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now This was exactly what my point was! Well said x Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. " Who's tearing anyone down on this thread though? The OP made a point about the same faces being seen on Hot Pics and it would be nice to see some fresh ones - which is a valid point and an opinion he's entitled to, he even said that the regulars there have some great pics. Subsequent comments have followed a similar line or said they don't look at Hot Pics or if you don't like them scroll past etc - none of which are tearing anyone down. As I said further up - the only negativity and contention appears to be coming from those who have *perceived* this thread as some kind of personal attack when it's been anything but. | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? Jeez it's bad enough...without bringing football into it I'm certain you get my point though right?" These kind of threads never go well! The irony is beyond belief with some replies | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? " That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics? | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now This was exactly what my point was! Well said x Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. Who's tearing anyone down on this thread though? The OP made a point about the same faces being seen on Hot Pics and it would be nice to see some fresh ones - which is a valid point and an opinion he's entitled to, he even said that the regulars there have some great pics. Subsequent comments have followed a similar line or said they don't look at Hot Pics or if you don't like them scroll past etc - none of which are tearing anyone down. As I said further up - the only negativity and contention appears to be coming from those who have *perceived* this thread as some kind of personal attack when it's been anything but." It’s not just about this thread though is it. It happens all the time | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics?" But me coming on here saying the things I do is somehow different ? I really don't care if the hot photos stay or go, I stopped looking myself when I realised its like a time warp on them, nothing ever changes | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics? But me coming on here saying the things I do is somehow different ? I really don't care if the hot photos stay or go, I stopped looking myself when I realised its like a time warp on them, nothing ever changes " I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now | |||
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"Anyone else kinda bored of seeing the same people on the top of the hot photos? Don't get me wrong, their pictures are very hot indeed but it'd be nice to see some new faces on pages 1 and 2 every now and then." The people on hot photos get put on people’s hot lists. Ergo more people see their pics, so more people like them. So more people see them do more people put them on their hotlist. | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics? But me coming on here saying the things I do is somehow different ? I really don't care if the hot photos stay or go, I stopped looking myself when I realised its like a time warp on them, nothing ever changes I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now " It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics? But me coming on here saying the things I do is somehow different ? I really don't care if the hot photos stay or go, I stopped looking myself when I realised its like a time warp on them, nothing ever changes I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol " That’s unnecessarily rude. | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. But in turn kind of putting those down that's never been there and likely won't, I do get your point though Having the hotpics section isn't putting down anyone though. I'm not meaning that is a desired outcome but it's bound to hurt some people Like our England squad are allowed to cry but Karen who's never been at number 1, 2 or 3 can't? That's not what you said though. You said it is "kind of putting (them) down". Which it isn't. It might hurt some people. But given there are maybe 10? 12? spaces on page one (I don't know), I would imagine most people are aware that they're unlikely to get there, and most don't care. It's sad for the people who do care and are unlikely to get there, yes, but for that minority you think that (I'm hypothesising from what you've said here) fab should get rid of the hotpics? But me coming on here saying the things I do is somehow different ? I really don't care if the hot photos stay or go, I stopped looking myself when I realised its like a time warp on them, nothing ever changes I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol That’s unnecessarily rude." It was in no way meant to be | |||
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" I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol " Ok. I find that rather rude. My intelligence isn't actually directly linked to whether or not my opinion is the same as yours. It's no more discriminatory than any other chart based system, and quite honestly they are all around us. Be it money, fabs or something else, people are always putting theirs down on what they like and always will. | |||
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" Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. Who's tearing anyone down on this thread though? The OP made a point about the same faces being seen on Hot Pics and it would be nice to see some fresh ones - which is a valid point and an opinion he's entitled to, he even said that the regulars there have some great pics. Subsequent comments have followed a similar line or said they don't look at Hot Pics or if you don't like them scroll past etc - none of which are tearing anyone down. As I said further up - the only negativity and contention appears to be coming from those who have *perceived* this thread as some kind of personal attack when it's been anything but. It’s not just about this thread though is it. It happens all the time " But it *is* about this thread too - otherwise why has it gone the way it has? And other similar threads often follow a similar pattern with huge leaps of perception being made and people taking comments like the OPs as a personal attack when it's anything but - yes I know there are times when it might be personal but usually it's quite a generalised observation being made - yet people pile on and blow it up into something it isn't. At times the "he/she doth protest too much" adage is very apt | |||
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" Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. Who's tearing anyone down on this thread though? The OP made a point about the same faces being seen on Hot Pics and it would be nice to see some fresh ones - which is a valid point and an opinion he's entitled to, he even said that the regulars there have some great pics. Subsequent comments have followed a similar line or said they don't look at Hot Pics or if you don't like them scroll past etc - none of which are tearing anyone down. As I said further up - the only negativity and contention appears to be coming from those who have *perceived* this thread as some kind of personal attack when it's been anything but. It’s not just about this thread though is it. It happens all the time But it *is* about this thread too - otherwise why has it gone the way it has? And other similar threads often follow a similar pattern with huge leaps of perception being made and people taking comments like the OPs as a personal attack when it's anything but - yes I know there are times when it might be personal but usually it's quite a generalised observation being made - yet people pile on and blow it up into something it isn't. At times the "he/she doth protest too much" adage is very apt " | |||
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" I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol Ok. I find that rather rude. My intelligence isn't actually directly linked to whether or not my opinion is the same as yours. It's no more discriminatory than any other chart based system, and quite honestly they are all around us. Be it money, fabs or something else, people are always putting theirs down on what they like and always will." Wasn't meant to come across as rude, what I mean is the hot photos being there are not much different to me putting on the forum im the best fuck on this island, I'm apparently seeking attention with that, if that's true them my thread would infact be a marketing gimic ? | |||
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" I don't understand what you mean when you say you coming on saying the things you do is different? What's that got to do with hotpics? And what things you say? I'm a little confused now It's kind of discriminating the less hot people Whether your intelligent enough to actually agree with .especially on that I don't know, frankly don't care Stay or go, not arsed lol Ok. I find that rather rude. My intelligence isn't actually directly linked to whether or not my opinion is the same as yours. It's no more discriminatory than any other chart based system, and quite honestly they are all around us. Be it money, fabs or something else, people are always putting theirs down on what they like and always will. Wasn't meant to come across as rude, what I mean is the hot photos being there are not much different to me putting on the forum im the best fuck on this island, I'm apparently seeking attention with that, if that's true them my thread would infact be a marketing gimic ? " And that, I believe, is how many, if not most, see the threads you post along those lines. The difference is that the people at the top of hotpics aren't *usually* doing anything other than posting pictures, and other people are doing their "marketing" for them. And those who are, the people fabbing the pictures don't seem to mind. None of these things is wrong, they are just different ways of using the site for attention. Which is why the majority of people are here, whether to get the attention of one person or many. | |||
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"I perv on the mens more " I prefer the MM hot pics | |||
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"I perv on the mens more I prefer the MM hot pics " Ohhh I'm going to look.... | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. " Or, you can do both? | |||
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"I do love to see Busty Belle on there. She has such a natural beauty who doesn't flaunt all her bits which most seem to do to get on there x" Aww thank you sparkle | |||
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"I do love to see Busty Belle on there. She has such a natural beauty who doesn't flaunt all her bits which most seem to do to get on there x Aww thank you sparkle " You're welcome. Just being honest x | |||
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"Don't look at hot pics... the pics on our friend updates is far to tasty to be distracted from " You make my hotlist updates rather appealing.... | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? " Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work!" I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me " You’re very hot and very nice, I know from our chats how genuine you are. | |||
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"Don't look at hot pics... the pics on our friend updates is far to tasty to be distracted from You make my hotlist updates rather appealing.... " oooh wow now that's something we didn't know definitely need to up our game then and see if we can get NSP fluttering | |||
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"Don't look at hot pics... the pics on our friend updates is far to tasty to be distracted from You make my hotlist updates rather appealing.... oooh wow now that's something we didn't know definitely need to up our game then and see if we can get NSP fluttering " Don't up it too far.... any more flutters and I'll fly off | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me You’re very hot and very nice, I know from our chats how genuine you are. " Thank you, lovely | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me " And you're one of the loveliest people on here. So you can be page 1 of hot picks, be a swinger and not be a bitch how surprising | |||
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"Don't look at hot pics... the pics on our friend updates is far to tasty to be distracted from You make my hotlist updates rather appealing.... oooh wow now that's something we didn't know definitely need to up our game then and see if we can get NSP fluttering Don't up it too far.... any more flutters and I'll fly off " well I if you want something hard to lad on then make sure you fly this way | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me And you're one of the loveliest people on here. So you can be page 1 of hot picks, be a swinger and not be a bitch how surprising " Precisely! Well said x | |||
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"Don't look at hot pics... the pics on our friend updates is far to tasty to be distracted from You make my hotlist updates rather appealing.... oooh wow now that's something we didn't know definitely need to up our game then and see if we can get NSP fluttering Don't up it too far.... any more flutters and I'll fly off well I if you want something hard to lad on then make sure you fly this way " hell yes! | |||
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"Anyone else kinda bored of seeing the same people on the top of the hot photos? Don't get me wrong, their pictures are very hot indeed but it'd be nice to see some new faces on pages 1 and 2 every now and then." I never look at the hot pics,it bares no interest to me to look at it or be up there. I don't need the validation. I love the fabs I do have on my pics because they are all given by someone who has appreciated my photos for the sake of them rather than have gained them by begging, fishing and counter fabbing Give me 100 'genuine' fabs over 1,000 'fake' ones | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me And you're one of the loveliest people on here. So you can be page 1 of hot picks, be a swinger and not be a bitch how surprising " Thank you, gorgeous | |||
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"It amuses me these conversations. Literally no one actually interested in meeting and swinging gives a flying fuck. I really don't get why it's such an issue for some. Hilariously funny guys. Thank you. Or, you can do both? Oh yeah but my god those people are hard work! I don’t see why really. I post photos and meet people. It works fine for me And you're one of the loveliest people on here. So you can be page 1 of hot picks, be a swinger and not be a bitch how surprising Precisely! Well said x" | |||
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" Too easy sometimes. I'm not saying people who post pics don't meet. Just those that are overly concerned about being in hot pics must be bloody hard work...to keep up that level of devotion in amongst the millions of messages they get. Hard work. " You just ignore them and hope they go away | |||
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"I won't deny noticing the same, can I ask what the purpose of it even is though ? Like what does it achieve and what is the desired outcome from having it ? I'm really trying to word this question in a way I don't get a mob bombarding me lol It doesn't achieve any particular thing. But I imagine it's a really good boost for those people who get there. Especially for those who have been put down a lot in the past. I'll say this to you. I know plenty of you hate my guts, that's cool I know I can be a difficult horrible cunt. But I'm seeing hate directed to a few women here , don't make out you don't see it, if I can you can. Regardless of what we think of each other let's just try and get on please. These threads are popping up daily and for what? To bring others down because they are attractive? Come on now This was exactly what my point was! Well said x Mine too. It’s sad that this is coming up so much. We should be celebrating each other, not tearing each other down. Who's tearing anyone down on this thread though? The OP made a point about the same faces being seen on Hot Pics and it would be nice to see some fresh ones - which is a valid point and an opinion he's entitled to, he even said that the regulars there have some great pics. Subsequent comments have followed a similar line or said they don't look at Hot Pics or if you don't like them scroll past etc - none of which are tearing anyone down. As I said further up - the only negativity and contention appears to be coming from those who have *perceived* this thread as some kind of personal attack when it's been anything but." Very true. | |||
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" Too easy sometimes. I'm not saying people who post pics don't meet. Just those that are overly concerned about being in hot pics must be bloody hard work...to keep up that level of devotion in amongst the millions of messages they get. Hard work. You just ignore them and hope they go away " The hot pics?? | |||
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"I do add categories to our pics, but I wonder how much of fab does this, there never seems to be a huge number of updates. I like looking at the categories, we like tattoos and piercings so it's nice to be able to filter what you like to look at. We also like to see meet play pics so the MF group 4+ category is *ahem* monitored Tabitha x" Thanks to you we are now also keeping a close eye on that category | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes." I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. | |||
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"I think if anyone has a problem in any way, be it boredom, dislike or anything else, with the hotpics section, they should just not use it or scroll past whatever pictures they don't like. Everyone should be free to flaunt whatever part of their bodies they choose without fear of ridicule, derision or back biting. " | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes. I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. " Maybe « slated » is a big word, but what I saw is that most of the comments were not exactly a warm welcome for a newcomer following the advice given, opening a thread where he simply expressed his opinion and not at any point targeted at anybody. Many people lurk at first before jumping in and learn the ropes in the process. There are many unwritten Dos and Donts to get accepted like in any social group. My point is that if that thread is anything to go by it won’t incite many to follow the advice given on how to get involved. | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes. I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. Maybe « slated » is a big word, but what I saw is that most of the comments were not exactly a warm welcome for a newcomer following the advice given, opening a thread where he simply expressed his opinion and not at any point targeted at anybody. Many people lurk at first before jumping in and learn the ropes in the process. There are many unwritten Dos and Donts to get accepted like in any social group. My point is that if that thread is anything to go by it won’t incite many to follow the advice given on how to get involved. " I agree with this, not just on this thread but other threads where newcomers are mocked and belittled for what they post and before anyone jumps, I'm not saying anyone has done that in this thread but everyone should be able to express an opinion without being jumped on | |||
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"Gotta say, I agree with OP in that it is often the same women on page 1 each time, myself included. It's not really the fault of those women, they just post photos and get fabbed and develop a bit of a following, so they stick. If you want that to change, they could change the system. Maybe so each person can only be on page 1 once each week or something, I don't know. But it won't change unless the system changes, so maybe petition admin? " You’re right, it’s part of the mechanics of ‘hot pics’: you get once in there, people notice you, hotlist you hence are more likely to fab your next pic. It’s a virtuous circle for people who hit the top of the list and many actually deserve it. I personally don’t think that should change but maybe a new category like « hot newcomer » listing pics which have the most fab among people who have never been on page 1, 2 or 3… could help introduce some diversity. | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes. I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. Maybe « slated » is a big word, but what I saw is that most of the comments were not exactly a warm welcome for a newcomer following the advice given, opening a thread where he simply expressed his opinion and not at any point targeted at anybody. Many people lurk at first before jumping in and learn the ropes in the process. There are many unwritten Dos and Donts to get accepted like in any social group. My point is that if that thread is anything to go by it won’t incite many to follow the advice given on how to get involved. " I agree nobody should jump on anyone newbie or not. But I also think as a forum there are always diverse opinions and we should be able to express them. We can't always agree with people but we can always be polite. | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes. I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. Maybe « slated » is a big word, but what I saw is that most of the comments were not exactly a warm welcome for a newcomer following the advice given, opening a thread where he simply expressed his opinion and not at any point targeted at anybody. Many people lurk at first before jumping in and learn the ropes in the process. There are many unwritten Dos and Donts to get accepted like in any social group. My point is that if that thread is anything to go by it won’t incite many to follow the advice given on how to get involved. I agree nobody should jump on anyone newbie or not. But I also think as a forum there are always diverse opinions and we should be able to express them. We can't always agree with people but we can always be polite. " Agreed, and not descend with the pack mentality either | |||
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"Going on a tangent but I can’t help but notice how a few days ago somebody was asking if the forums were inclusive enough most of the responses were along the line of: get stuck in, comment, open your own threads and in time people will get to know you. Today someone who appears to be a new comer (I could have missed him, but I personally haven’t seen many contribution from the OP) is being slated for expressing an opinion which no targeted at anyone. The forums work in mysterious ways sometimes. I don't personally see people slating the OP personally. I don't personally agree with but I stated my point politely, and explained why I thought those who are on top of hot pics are. Maybe « slated » is a big word, but what I saw is that most of the comments were not exactly a warm welcome for a newcomer following the advice given, opening a thread where he simply expressed his opinion and not at any point targeted at anybody. Many people lurk at first before jumping in and learn the ropes in the process. There are many unwritten Dos and Donts to get accepted like in any social group. My point is that if that thread is anything to go by it won’t incite many to follow the advice given on how to get involved. I agree nobody should jump on anyone newbie or not. But I also think as a forum there are always diverse opinions and we should be able to express them. We can't always agree with people but we can always be polite. Agreed, and not descend with the clique mentality either " FIFY | |||
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