FabSwingers.com forum: long meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Share me your Fab wisdom on the pros and cons of long meets versus short ones.

I tend to veer towards long meets - overnights, or days out and hot nights because i like to enjoy the company as much as the sex.

What about you?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Don't like doing over nights but all day play yes please

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I enjoy over night meets. I usually have a long build up so I feel I already know them then the hotel meets just are like being with friends and just a better experience that way.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

To be honest most of my meets have been long ones but at clubs. I wouldn't spend ages with one person x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't like doing over nights but all day play yes please "

oh yes i saw your post earlier about sleeping seperately. i must say i concur - if i was living with someone id need my own room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoy over night meets. I usually have a long build up so I feel I already know them then the hotel meets just are like being with friends and just a better experience that way. "

yes this is the same with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly a long meet for me , chill , few laughs and plenty of banter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest most of my meets have been long ones but at clubs. I wouldn't spend ages with one person x"

Im curious, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer overnights

I enjoy the company chatting, having a laugh, a drink or two and a few rounds

and then morning sex

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def overnight with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love long meets but prefer whole day or whole evening till late, than overnights. I find sleeping with somebody in the same bed to be a VERY intimate experience (that I share only with great friends or boyfriends/potential boyfriends)

So I usually have to feel really comfortable with the other person for that.. because there’s so much fucking pressure to be a certain way. I mean, the morning after . Urgh it gives me anxiety thinking about it…

Anyway, I’ve done it a few times with guys from fab (due to it being too late for them to go back) and overall I had an instance where I was really glad he stayed… but yeah (and I have a few id love to spend the night with) , I can count them really. Most of the time I’m glad they left, eventually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x"

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha "

We did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

We did

U lucked out! Haha sometimes new couples go on holiday together and they come back and break up right after lol haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time is the issue when you have a life and family. Meets fit in around that, not the other way. For that reason long meets don't really suit unless the planets are aligned in such a way. Mostly a few hours is plenty.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Long meets all the best. you can take your time have a chat have a laugh, spooning, food what more can you asked for

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

We did

U lucked out! Haha sometimes new couples go on holiday together and they come back and break up right after lol haha "

2 years later we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

We did

I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse could break up during the holiday , happened to me once .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

We did

I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle

So would I..... I'm fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

2 weeks? Wow

like did u go on holiday together?? Haha

We did

I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle

So would I..... I'm fun

Never in doubt...or a dull moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long meets as it takes me to long to get ready just not worth a 5 pump splat and run don’t do overnights or in less it’s in hotel

But I mean form like 5-6 at night till like 11 at night is anuff

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For me when I meet someone sex is just a part of it - just as important is spending time with that person, enjoying their company, just relaxing and chatting and doing something social all of which help build the anticipation to the moment you close the hotel room door and what follows.

So for me longer meets will always get my vote.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

It is all about the company your with, and of course like minded people to be able to put any time factor on a meet. Both wanting exactly the same then the person who said two weeks will know what I mean.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It is all about the company your with, and of course like minded people to be able to put any time factor on a meet. Both wanting exactly the same then the person who said two weeks will know what I mean."

We had exactly that. Both on the same page. I've never liked to clock watch on a meet and like others have said, its not just about the sex

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Long meets definitely - no woman ever fainted after only 15 seconds of play xx takes time to make a woman faint with ecstasy! The emotion…. Not anything else of a similar name !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had exactly that. Both on the same page. I've never liked to clock watch on a meet and like others have said, its not just about the sex

Clock watching to me means one or other want the meet over with, if everything is right the time will be endless

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

Thst sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done short and overnights.

The ones I make a real connection with I take away for a night or 3 and make the most of everything

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I must admit, I do like the morning after

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Long meets are so much better for me. I don't meet people I don't have a connection with and spending all evening, night and morning with that person makes it so special. Plus the fact that so much time can be spent having naked sexy times..... you get the best of it all.

Saying that, a few hours in someone's company can be well worth it if that's all you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I must admit, I do like the morning after

Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done short and overnights.

The ones I make a real connection with I take away for a night or 3 and make the most of everything"

I think you kinda hit it there, it has to be a certain type of connection. Where it feels like l almost knew them already so I feel totally at ease to share a bed and all that comes with that x

I’ve had amazing meets that I still see every now and then but probably wouldn’t still feel 100% comfortable with sharing a bed overnight

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'd love to have long meets, mine so far have normally been a few hours, yet to have an overnight meet which I'd love as I love sleepy morning sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."

Kinda but you barely scrape the surface with someone without commitment thst you meet for the first time even if you got to know them online first x I don’t know…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."

Nothing to do with a relationship, I am more than happy with my life as it is.

It's more to do with enjoying someone's company who you also have mindblowing sex with

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I must admit, I do like the morning after

Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun

Never mind maybe....definitely more fun

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Share me your Fab wisdom on the pros and cons of long meets versus short ones.

I tend to veer towards long meets - overnights, or days out and hot nights because i like to enjoy the company as much as the sex.

What about you?

Bingo. You’ve just described me. Lol.

Weekends away. Naughty and nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I must admit, I do like the morning after

Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun

Never mind maybe....definitely more fun"

Take me to bed or loose me forever then

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.

I must admit, I do like the morning after

Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun

Never mind maybe....definitely more fun

Take me to bed or loose me forever then

Show me the way home honey

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x"

Isn’t that a holiday? Lol.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x

Isn’t that a holiday? Lol.

It was

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I do like long meets, so overnights or weekends are great.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."

Not for me. I love an overnight, I could probably do a weekend at a push, but after that no matter how much I like the person or what a glorious time we've had I'm glad to close the door behind them and have some space until next time we meet, whenever that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I demand two night meets as they are so infrequent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done short and overnights.

The ones I make a real connection with I take away for a night or 3 and make the most of everything

I think you kinda hit it there, it has to be a certain type of connection. Where it feels like l almost knew them already so I feel totally at ease to share a bed and all that comes with that x

I’ve had amazing meets that I still see every now and then but probably wouldn’t still feel 100% comfortable with sharing a bed overnight

I've been lucky in those I've taken away. Each has been good amazing in fact. And they all say how different I am to how I appear.

I guess barriers come down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss...

Yeah im the same.

also i dont think of it as 'simulating a relationship' it is a relationship, just a casual and perhaps temporary one!!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dont mind them if the chemistry is

Right but I do love my own space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done a particularly long meet. Mostly due to my dogs (they are aggressive towards strangers) but also because I can't tolerate people in my space for too long.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"To be honest most of my meets have been long ones but at clubs. I wouldn't spend ages with one person x

Im curious, why?"
it would bore me. I don't really do intimacy or small talk. I only really do group fun with meets. So it's all just get to it and sod off after.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can do both, depends on the person

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
to be fair as a singleton i avoided anything even remotely 121 or lengthy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short meets for me

Definitely no overnights, far too intimate and boyfriendy

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ive always preferred the longer meets, short meets are exciting but leave you feeling a bit flat after.

9 out of 10 of my meets have a huge social side even if arranged for playing.

Much more relaxed, drinks, music and I usually cook something too.

I also find the ladies of fab respond more positively when an extended meet is suggested, showing its their company, not just the sex that im looking for.

Everyone's got choices on here, if short meets work for you then great, there's no right or wrong answer really, just preferences

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Honestly meeting for couple hours quick shag then leave, end up thinking was it worth it - invariably not.

So long meets drinks, meal, ... , breakfast, maybe ... works best

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like long meets / overnights but if it’s only logistically possible to have a couple of hours then that’s fine too, especially if you already know someone.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like overnight hotel meets the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Short meets for me

Definitely no overnights, far too intimate and boyfriendy

Haha exactly ! The worst is when you discover that even tho they are handsome and all, they have less personality of a shoe lol

Jokes aside, with the right person an overnight can be great x

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

For social meets, I tend to just have a couple of hours in the day... For actual meets, anywhere from 2 nights, to 2 weeks.. I have one guy that I see and our record was 17nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like dinner through to the next morning. No need to rush, get comfortable with each other, chill, socialise, and have time for several rounds of sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what makes us all wonderful people.

We like different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always preferred long meets, or at least overnight. I don’t quite know what I’ll do when/if I start meeting again

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Long meets as we do like to get know people and chill out ..bit of banter and laughter as despite the percived wisdom on here Mrs4 isn't either a therapist or un paid sex worker !!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We prefer long meets, usually 4-5 hours minimum. We have done a few over nights, with some long weekends thrown in.

For us, more time together means we don’t have to rush leading to a more fulfilling meet.

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