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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" On the odd occasion they do get fabbed I do really enjoy it | |||
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"I do appreciate it. Your pics are very creative and very good op. " Thank you. I appreciate that. I’m curious about others though, men particularly seem to like getting fabbed | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" Ambivalent. It is interesting so which photos get the fabs (or kore than other). But whether they are fabbed or not is no bug deal…. Unless it accompanies a wink or nice email. Then it has a bit more meaning I guess. You have some lovely photos OP. Keep up the good work | |||
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"Hate them and don't want any " You asked for that | |||
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"I can’t imagine anyone hating having their photos fabbed, I love the tease and we also try to be creative with our photos so hopefully that shows, the fabs just makes us take more! " Yours are lovely | |||
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"Honestly. I couldn’t be less interested in pics and vids. It’s the person inside that matters. PS send tits xxx " Again | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" fallen angel sorry but your words lol..u in hot pics day after day..and u say that..so many sexy pics I see and no fabs...haters gonna hate now because u are forumite ..love and peace | |||
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"I do appreciate it. Your pics are very creative and very good op. Thank you. I appreciate that. I’m curious about others though, men particularly seem to like getting fabbed " That's because we have fragile egos Massage them please. | |||
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"I'm ambivalent. I do put some effort into photos but I'm aware they aren't particularly attractive (they're as much warning as enticement) so while of course I like the idea that someone likes them, I don't take it that the fabber finds them attractive any more than I believe the messages that tell me I'm the hottest woman on fab. I tend to see my photos as a necessary evil and the fabs as a bit of arse-licking. Of course if I got no fabs I'd probably be horrified. Better insincere fabs than no fabs at all! " You are the hottest woman on fab x | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?fallen angel sorry but your words lol..u in hot pics day after day..and u say that..so many sexy pics I see and no fabs...haters gonna hate now because u are forumite ..love and peace" I’ve been on hot pics for a few days recently, it doesn’t mean I can’t ask the question of others. If anyone hates me for that, well they can crack on. I’m interested in others motivation. | |||
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"I'm a fab whore...if I don't get fabbed I sulk for days..ive been sulking for 3 weeks straight now..." Pfft, I had fabbed your pics last week, and now I’ve done your new ones | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?fallen angel sorry but your words lol..u in hot pics day after day..and u say that..so many sexy pics I see and no fabs...haters gonna hate now because u are forumite ..love and peace I’ve been on hot pics for a few days recently, it doesn’t mean I can’t ask the question of others. If anyone hates me for that, well they can crack on. I’m interested in others motivation." Ok | |||
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"I can’t imagine anyone hating having their photos fabbed, I love the tease and we also try to be creative with our photos so hopefully that shows, the fabs just makes us take more! Yours are lovely " thank you! So are yours! | |||
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"I'm ambivalent. I do put some effort into photos but I'm aware they aren't particularly attractive (they're as much warning as enticement) so while of course I like the idea that someone likes them, I don't take it that the fabber finds them attractive any more than I believe the messages that tell me I'm the hottest woman on fab. I tend to see my photos as a necessary evil and the fabs as a bit of arse-licking. Of course if I got no fabs I'd probably be horrified. Better insincere fabs than no fabs at all! " I like your pics, and I did already fab them a while ago | |||
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"I like that somebody's looked and made the infinitesimal effort of a button click. Nicer still if they turn into messages. Nicer again if they don't appear to be a completely repellent excuse for a human. Yeah, I'm picky " Nothing wrong with that | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x" Do you get many fabs kitty? | |||
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"I think a great picture deserves a fab.. Whether it's basic, or a lot of effort was taken. If its fab, it's fab.. " I agree. I actually enjoy looking at pics on here, and I fab quite a lot. I love seeing others creativity | |||
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"only men fab mine. i blame broke back mountain" I fabbed some of yours the other day, but looking now, it's not showing that I did. | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x" I hear you | |||
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"What’s a “fab?” " you send them a ice lolly for every picture you like | |||
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"I took a nice B&W pic today, that seemed rather popular, 4 whole fabs! " 5 now | |||
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"I took a nice B&W pic today, that seemed rather popular, 4 whole fabs! 5 now " Why thank you kindly, Miss x | |||
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"What’s a “fab?” " I've just checked sir...you have some fans sir | |||
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"Given that one of my kinks is exhibitionism I love all the fabs I get! " Exactly! But is so frowned upon here, I find it so odd | |||
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"Hate them, turned them off. They remind me that literally anyone on here is able to see and erm, appreciate, my pics (yes I know I'm on a sex site etc etc) " Fair play, to exercise that right (although sometimes I want to fab and I can’t ) | |||
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"Given that one of my kinks is exhibitionism I love all the fabs I get! " we came across your profile earlier toady... you have some great pics | |||
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"only men fab mine. i blame broke back mountain I fabbed some of yours the other day, but looking now, it's not showing that I did. " you are a top lady. this other lot meh | |||
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"I'm ambivalent. I do put some effort into photos but I'm aware they aren't particularly attractive (they're as much warning as enticement) so while of course I like the idea that someone likes them, I don't take it that the fabber finds them attractive any more than I believe the messages that tell me I'm the hottest woman on fab. I tend to see my photos as a necessary evil and the fabs as a bit of arse-licking. Of course if I got no fabs I'd probably be horrified. Better insincere fabs than no fabs at all! You are the hottest woman on fab x" I may be at the moment, this flat is so overheated I feel like a half-melted candle. | |||
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"Given that one of my kinks is exhibitionism I love all the fabs I get! Exactly! But is so frowned upon here, I find it so odd " I’m of the opinion that IDGAF if others dislike it | |||
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"A lot of the time I don't pay much attention, but if it's a picture I'm particularly happy with I'll have a check. Today is a good day for me fab wise " I’m not surprised, you sexy minx | |||
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"Given that one of my kinks is exhibitionism I love all the fabs I get! we came across your profile earlier toady... you have some great pics " Thankyou | |||
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"only men fab mine. i blame broke back mountain I fabbed some of yours the other day, but looking now, it's not showing that I did. you are a top lady. this other lot meh " I know I am | |||
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"Given that one of my kinks is exhibitionism I love all the fabs I get! Exactly! But is so frowned upon here, I find it so odd I’m of the opinion that IDGAF if others dislike it " Good for you. I’m almost there | |||
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"I quite like it yes and have a heart thump when people who may be on my hotlist fabs them. Eek " Ooooh I get that when a certain someone fabs mine! | |||
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"I love getting fabbed, probably speaks to an insecurity about my attractiveness" I don’t see why, you obviously put time and thought into your pics, so why shouldn’t you want them appreciated. | |||
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"I think a great picture deserves a fab.. Whether it's basic, or a lot of effort was taken. If its fab, it's fab.. I agree. I actually enjoy looking at pics on here, and I fab quite a lot. I love seeing others creativity " I do enjoy looking through photos and I do fab any that I like. Yours are beautiful OP. | |||
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"I quite like it yes and have a heart thump when people who may be on my hotlist fabs them. Eek " I love yours | |||
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"I think a great picture deserves a fab.. Whether it's basic, or a lot of effort was taken. If its fab, it's fab.. I agree. I actually enjoy looking at pics on here, and I fab quite a lot. I love seeing others creativity I do enjoy looking through photos and I do fab any that I like. Yours are beautiful OP." Thank you | |||
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"A lot of the time I don't pay much attention, but if it's a picture I'm particularly happy with I'll have a check. Today is a good day for me fab wise I’m not surprised, you sexy minx" One day I'll get in a picture with you and finally learn what the high spots feel like | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x Do you get many fabs kitty? " A couple | |||
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"only men fab mine. i blame broke back mountain I fabbed some of yours the other day, but looking now, it's not showing that I did. you are a top lady. this other lot meh I know I am " cheques in the post | |||
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"What’s a “fab?” you send them a ice lolly for every picture you like " Fuck that, I need the lolly’s to feed my chubby bulk! | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever!" She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. | |||
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"I'm ambivalent. I do put some effort into photos but I'm aware they aren't particularly attractive (they're as much warning as enticement) so while of course I like the idea that someone likes them, I don't take it that the fabber finds them attractive any more than I believe the messages that tell me I'm the hottest woman on fab. I tend to see my photos as a necessary evil and the fabs as a bit of arse-licking. Of course if I got no fabs I'd probably be horrified. Better insincere fabs than no fabs at all! " Your profile picture is one of my favourite on here. I've always thought that. So classy and sexy. | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever! She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. " Yup! | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever! She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. " now the clique appears lol | |||
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"A lot of the time I don't pay much attention, but if it's a picture I'm particularly happy with I'll have a check. Today is a good day for me fab wise I’m not surprised, you sexy minx One day I'll get in a picture with you and finally learn what the high spots feel like " You’ve been up there too | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever!" So what? There is nothing at all wrong with appreciating appreciation. | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever! She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. now the clique appears lol " You're kidding right? | |||
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"I'm ambivalent. I do put some effort into photos but I'm aware they aren't particularly attractive (they're as much warning as enticement) so while of course I like the idea that someone likes them, I don't take it that the fabber finds them attractive any more than I believe the messages that tell me I'm the hottest woman on fab. I tend to see my photos as a necessary evil and the fabs as a bit of arse-licking. Of course if I got no fabs I'd probably be horrified. Better insincere fabs than no fabs at all! Your profile picture is one of my favourite on here. I've always thought that. So classy and sexy." That's such a lovely compliment, thank you! | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever! She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. now the clique appears lol " Is there any reason why you’re being so unkind? I’m allowed to ask the question on here, if you don’t like it, there are plenty of other threads. | |||
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"I quite like it yes and have a heart thump when people who may be on my hotlist fabs them. Eek " Oh I'm guilty of that one if I see that on the occasional times I look who has | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x Do you get many fabs kitty? A couple " I'm not sure I've seen your photos before Kitty.... have you had your profile hidden? | |||
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"I have no interest in any of my pictures being fabed. But creating beautiful pictures is what I do. I will always talk to people if they ask about creating pictures and genuinely want to learn." But you’re hidden | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x Do you get many fabs kitty? A couple I'm not sure I've seen your photos before Kitty.... have you had your profile hidden? " I have, I'm very shy. Hi, I'm kitty | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" No going to fab my ugly mug, so I guess I'm going to have to be ambivalent. | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? No going to fab my ugly mug, so I guess I'm going to have to be ambivalent. " Fabbed | |||
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"I love getting fabbed, probably speaks to an insecurity about my attractiveness" I’ve just given you one..or two | |||
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"I enjoy that my photo's may be appreciated, so yeah, do like a fab. Although 'tis a kick in the nethers when you join a fabathon and get squat! not making that mistake again! Also interests me to see which photo's get fabbed over others. Have had more on photo's that I thought were 'alright' over others that I preferred!" I find it fascinating, which ones get fabbed and which don’t. It never goes how you expect. Yours are great | |||
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"I like posting pics to reflect the different sides of me and to give an idea of the person I am." Yours are beautiful | |||
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"I like it, it shows appreciation for something I put time into x Do you get many fabs kitty? A couple I'm not sure I've seen your photos before Kitty.... have you had your profile hidden? I have, I'm very shy. Hi, I'm kitty " Hi Kitty.... don't be shy Nice boobs | |||
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"The majority of mine regularly come from men, I don't have an issue with that as it's nice to be appreciated " Ditto AC It’s nice of them to make the effort. | |||
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"I like it because it's nice for something I've put time and effort into to be acknowledged. But also, it's a nice hit of endorphins that keeps my anxiety/insecurities at bay. I'll never post something when I'm feeling shit and never to explicitly get fabs but if something's fab'd day to day then it is a good feeling. It's only human to enjoy the admiration of others in any capacity, no?" Yours are great . I think you’re probably right, and it’s ok isn’t it? | |||
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"I like being fabbed I put pics up in the hope others will enjoy them and it's nice to be appreciated " They are appreciated | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" I'd like to fab you in person | |||
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"I enjoy that my photo's may be appreciated, so yeah, do like a fab. Although 'tis a kick in the nethers when you join a fabathon and get squat! not making that mistake again! Also interests me to see which photo's get fabbed over others. Have had more on photo's that I thought were 'alright' over others that I preferred!" Last time I fab yours then | |||
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"Well I like to be fabbed! And I love to fab a good photo back - male or female. Though it's odd that the photos I'm least fond of get the most fabs! I'm a bit lazy with taking photos (tend to only do them for photo challenges) so I swap mine around a lot x" I thought I’d fabbed all yours, but I hadn’t (have now ) | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? I'd like to fab you in person " You’re back Anytime gorgeous | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? I'd like to fab you in person " Omg you are back!!!! *waves | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? I'd like to fab you in person " BELLA!!! | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever!" She doesn't need to attract more attention, she's asking a simple question | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” " Isn’t it the notification that only lasts 24 hours? The fab stays on the picture? | |||
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"Starting to get me down now, keep getting fabled all the time " Was it a captivating story though? | |||
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"Well I like to be fabbed! And I love to fab a good photo back - male or female. Though it's odd that the photos I'm least fond of get the most fabs! I'm a bit lazy with taking photos (tend to only do them for photo challenges) so I swap mine around a lot x I thought I’d fabbed all yours, but I hadn’t (have now )" Oh you sweetheart! Thank you. I was getting a bit low on fabs | |||
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"I like it because it's nice for something I've put time and effort into to be acknowledged. But also, it's a nice hit of endorphins that keeps my anxiety/insecurities at bay. I'll never post something when I'm feeling shit and never to explicitly get fabs but if something's fab'd day to day then it is a good feeling. It's only human to enjoy the admiration of others in any capacity, no? Yours are great . I think you’re probably right, and it’s ok isn’t it?" Thank you It's more than ok. It's ok if you love it. It's ok if you hate it. It's ok if you're Wonko and don't want it We're all human and all different. That's what makes us 'us'. Everyone's got their own make up of likes and dislikes and as long as you're not hurting anyone then there's no need for others to concern themselves with yours x | |||
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"Sad as it is I find it a challenge - fat bird trying to hit hot pics " I think you've already completed that challenge | |||
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"Sad as it is I find it a challenge - fat bird trying to hit hot pics " That's how I feel about it... | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….?" I love creating with my pictures. For be it’s abouts showing fragments or aspects of who I am or things I like perhaps. Glimpses of personality. My photography is the only creative part of me as for fans they rarely reflect my favourite ones, but I do pics for me not others. I do however appreciate when I get a nice message complimenting a photo, I get more questions about my photographer than most things I take that as the biggest compliment! It is nice to be appreciated in different ways | |||
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"And this post creates more attention to op aka more fabs..clever! She likes the fabs and people like her pictures. Sounds like a win win all round to me. now the clique appears lol " I certainly wouldn’t say I’m part of any clique but I agree with these posts. I’m not sure what the issue is here. I’ve seen so many threads started with a positive intent be it for the collective or an individuals benefit but I’ve seen so many threads also hijacked by some sort of unnecessary negativity. Personally I enjoy posting pics and seeing the fabs. I take them as a compliment and yes I do enjoy the attention. Is that a bad thing ? | |||
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"Well I wouldn't say I'm ambivalent because I don't love and hate having my photos fabbed. It's nice when it happens but I don't chase them. I'd much rather someone commented on my waffling or gave me compliments on the beautiful prose of my profile. We all enjoy different things to different degrees don't we. If you're an exhibitionist/or use it to boost your mood/self confidence crack on. It's not really hurting anyone, own that shit. P.S Is this a LAM thread? (Couldn't resist)" I genuinely want to understand why, on a site like this, where exhibitionism (is that a word ) is such a big thing, why it’s considered a bad thing to like being fabbed. It confuzzles me | |||
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"Sad as it is I find it a challenge - fat bird trying to hit hot pics " you dont do to badly. nice try | |||
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"Sad as it is I find it a challenge - fat bird trying to hit hot pics That's how I feel about it..." I fab your pics most every day…only so much one guy can do | |||
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"I like it because it's nice for something I've put time and effort into to be acknowledged. But also, it's a nice hit of endorphins that keeps my anxiety/insecurities at bay. I'll never post something when I'm feeling shit and never to explicitly get fabs but if something's fab'd day to day then it is a good feeling. It's only human to enjoy the admiration of others in any capacity, no? Yours are great . I think you’re probably right, and it’s ok isn’t it? Thank you It's more than ok. It's ok if you love it. It's ok if you hate it. It's ok if you're Wonko and don't want it We're all human and all different. That's what makes us 'us'. Everyone's got their own make up of likes and dislikes and as long as you're not hurting anyone then there's no need for others to concern themselves with yours x" | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? I love creating with my pictures. For be it’s abouts showing fragments or aspects of who I am or things I like perhaps. Glimpses of personality. My photography is the only creative part of me as for fans they rarely reflect my favourite ones, but I do pics for me not others. I do however appreciate when I get a nice message complimenting a photo, I get more questions about my photographer than most things I take that as the biggest compliment! It is nice to be appreciated in different ways" I love yours | |||
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"Well I wouldn't say I'm ambivalent because I don't love and hate having my photos fabbed. It's nice when it happens but I don't chase them. I'd much rather someone commented on my waffling or gave me compliments on the beautiful prose of my profile. We all enjoy different things to different degrees don't we. If you're an exhibitionist/or use it to boost your mood/self confidence crack on. It's not really hurting anyone, own that shit. P.S Is this a LAM thread? (Couldn't resist) I genuinely want to understand why, on a site like this, where exhibitionism (is that a word ) is such a big thing, why it’s considered a bad thing to like being fabbed. It confuzzles me " I think its more the ones who sort of begged to be fabbed I.e they put on the pic..."fab if you want to fuck me" type of thing. But each to their own | |||
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"Well I wouldn't say I'm ambivalent because I don't love and hate having my photos fabbed. It's nice when it happens but I don't chase them. I'd much rather someone commented on my waffling or gave me compliments on the beautiful prose of my profile. We all enjoy different things to different degrees don't we. If you're an exhibitionist/or use it to boost your mood/self confidence crack on. It's not really hurting anyone, own that shit. P.S Is this a LAM thread? (Couldn't resist) I genuinely want to understand why, on a site like this, where exhibitionism (is that a word ) is such a big thing, why it’s considered a bad thing to like being fabbed. It confuzzles me " because its a game to some. they have no intention of meeting just teasing and playing up to the crowd. | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” Isn’t it the notification that only lasts 24 hours? The fab stays on the picture? " Well I never! I didn’t realise that. Wow - one of my pics has 9 fabs! #shamelessplug | |||
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"Well I wouldn't say I'm ambivalent because I don't love and hate having my photos fabbed. It's nice when it happens but I don't chase them. I'd much rather someone commented on my waffling or gave me compliments on the beautiful prose of my profile. We all enjoy different things to different degrees don't we. If you're an exhibitionist/or use it to boost your mood/self confidence crack on. It's not really hurting anyone, own that shit. P.S Is this a LAM thread? (Couldn't resist) I genuinely want to understand why, on a site like this, where exhibitionism (is that a word ) is such a big thing, why it’s considered a bad thing to like being fabbed. It confuzzles me because its a game to some. they have no intention of meeting just teasing and playing up to the crowd. " I’m sure that’s true for some. I’m certainly not able to meet atm (but for reasons), but even so, surely they are entitled to use the site as they wish? | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” Isn’t it the notification that only lasts 24 hours? The fab stays on the picture? Well I never! I didn’t realise that. Wow - one of my pics has 9 fabs! #shamelessplug " Ha! I’m not giving you the tenth! | |||
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" I genuinely want to understand why, on a site like this, where exhibitionism (is that a word ) is such a big thing, why it’s considered a bad thing to like being fabbed. It confuzzles me because its a game to some. they have no intention of meeting just teasing and playing up to the crowd. " Yep that's one reason people don't like it. Another because people get a bit bored of reading the courting of fabs in threads where it's poorly disguised and it's clear that they just want to be fabbed and don't care about the posts. Sometimes they just don't like the person and it's an easy thing to pick on - none of us like everyone on here. It might even be they don't like that particular type of attention seeking because whatever reason. Or maybe they are just jealous (because that's the easy answer ) | |||
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"It turns out that I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, so yes I like having my photos Fabbed. Though I don't check for fabs on a regular basis or upload many photos." That one of you lying on the floor, legs up, in B&W is just gorgeous | |||
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"I know it’s generally considered poor form on here, but I’m not particularly creative, but I enjoy creating nice pictures and I put thought into them, so I do like being fabbed and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Do you like it, hate it, are ambivalent….? No going to fab my ugly mug, so I guess I'm going to have to be ambivalent. Fabbed " X | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” " Fabs last forever. Its only if you want to get on the top of the hot pics leaderboard that the 24hour thing counts. | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” Fabs last forever. Its only if you want to get on the top of the hot pics leaderboard that the 24hour thing counts. " Until the fabber chooses to remove the fab | |||
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"FABs are lovely, but they only last 24 hours. And for a guy they usually only follow after an “I’m in” comment on a FAB-me forum thread. So what’s the currency and value really? Nice to get though ! Better still if it’s followed by a Message saying “wow what an profile, do let’s Go for dinner!” Fabs last forever. Its only if you want to get on the top of the hot pics leaderboard that the 24hour thing counts. Until the fabber chooses to remove the fab " Oh and that.... Or they leave. Guess nothing lasts forever, huh | |||
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"It turns out that I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, so yes I like having my photos Fabbed. Though I don't check for fabs on a regular basis or upload many photos. That one of you lying on the floor, legs up, in B&W is just gorgeous " Thanks Hubby is quite a good photographer. You have some great photos too. | |||
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"Sad as it is I find it a challenge - fat bird trying to hit hot pics That's how I feel about it... I fab your pics most every day…only so much one guy can do " you do indeed. Thank you | |||
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