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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people appreciate a wink as a show of interest (if within age range) or would you rather a message with a photo to be sent over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've gathere in around 8 years of using fab, winks are generally ignored.

You're always better off sending a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are lazy. If someone winks me my immediate thought is they are too busy fabwise to message. Therefore if I respond with a targeted message having taken the time to read their profile. Chances are it will get lost in their busy inbox and go unread. Maybe I'm over thinking it?

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Change the i to an a and you will get a better response from many

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

To be honest, I'd rather a wink than a lazy "How's you" or "Hey" message - those infuriate me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't look at them unless someone tells me they've winked at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I'd rather a wink than a lazy "How's you" or "Hey" message - those infuriate me. "

True. Such tedious messages only confirm it's unlikely your profile has even been read. Saves time though, you can block then early.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"To be honest, I'd rather a wink than a lazy "How's you" or "Hey" message - those infuriate me.

True. Such tedious messages only confirm it's unlikely your profile has even been read. Saves time though, you can block then early. "

Indeed. It's less effort to ignore a wink than manage my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a wink, I can usually tell by the profile if I'm likely to be interested or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a wink, I can usually tell by the profile if I'm likely to be interested or not "

You'll be interested. Oh damn, I forgot to send the wink!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always appreciate one as it shows interest and that you like what you see

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