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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

What is the difference between playing with someone in a club that falls outside your age range and playing one on one in a private meet.

I know one or two don't meet people outside of their age preference full stop, which is fine.

Are your age preferences set in stone or do you just use it as a benchmark and dip either side of yours, if the fancy takes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the difference between playing with someone in a club that falls outside your age range and playing one on one in a private meet.

I know one or two don't meet people outside of their age preference full stop, which is fine.

Are your age preferences set in stone or do you just use it as a benchmark and dip either side of yours, if the fancy takes you"

For me the age is a rough guide, all depends on the person and how we all click

Mrs

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Anonymity! It is the difference being invisible in the crowd but visible in public

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Anonymity! It is the difference being invisible in the crowd but visible in public "
doesn't really have any bearing on the question really

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've got quite a big age range, we can guess people's age within a few years (unless you're lucky or had an uphill paper round )

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

One is in a club and the other is a private meet.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't go to clubs so that rules that side of things out. I do like to keep within my age range just because of past experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only difference is in person you can visually assess if the individual is someone you potentially want to play with. Whilst I have parameters of age, I’ve recently discovered that they are moveable for the right people.

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"One is in a club and the other is a private meet. "
now why didn't I think of that, god I so stupid

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I think the only difference is in person you can visually assess if the individual is someone you potentially want to play with. Whilst I have parameters of age, I’ve recently discovered that they are moveable for the right people. "

This pretty much sums it up for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is in a club and the other is a private meet.

now why didn't I think of that, god I so stupid"

It's different types of meets though. Club meets are very different to being with someone 1 on 1 for a private meet.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Do you know, i can't remember what my age range is specified as but right now, been as im in a position to meet fri and sat this weekend im thinking young gun fun if possible - or is it that I just binge watched Sex/Life??

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"

What is the difference between playing with someone in a club that falls outside your age range and playing one on one in a private meet.

Anonymity! It is the difference being invisible in the crowd but visible in public doesn't really have any bearing on the question really"

The anonymity of a club means you can do things you can't be seen to do outside like play with guys outside your age range - like playing with married people.

Think it has every bearing to the question but it is just an opinion - people are welcome to agree or disagree

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"One is in a club and the other is a private meet.

now why didn't I think of that, god I so stupid

It's different types of meets though. Club meets are very different to being with someone 1 on 1 for a private meet. "
last time I was on here, I met someone in a club who actually admitted they wouldn't have looked at me twice on the site as I was outside their age range, yet played one on one with much gusto,

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"One is in a club and the other is a private meet.

now why didn't I think of that, god I so stupid

It's different types of meets though. Club meets are very different to being with someone 1 on 1 for a private meet. last time I was on here, I met someone in a club who actually admitted they wouldn't have looked at me twice on the site as I was outside their age range, yet played one on one with much gusto, "

I agree with you and I also know it sounds illogical - I have played with guys in a club that I would never have agreed to meet. Why? Because when in a club I do not focus so much on what comes after the event, does this guy have the potential to become a friend whereas when meeting somebody off Fabs I prefer to take my time, choose carefully and ensure my safety is as good as ait can be. Not such an issue in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not knowing. It would bother me if I knew, especially if they were very young. I'm guessing I wouldn't be asking in a club though!

Tabitha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One is in a club and the other is a private meet.

now why didn't I think of that, god I so stupid

It's different types of meets though. Club meets are very different to being with someone 1 on 1 for a private meet. last time I was on here, I met someone in a club who actually admitted they wouldn't have looked at me twice on the site as I was outside their age range, yet played one on one with much gusto,

I agree with you and I also know it sounds illogical - I have played with guys in a club that I would never have agreed to meet. Why? Because when in a club I do not focus so much on what comes after the event, does this guy have the potential to become a friend whereas when meeting somebody off Fabs I prefer to take my time, choose carefully and ensure my safety is as good as ait can be. Not such an issue in a club. "

Yep this

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