FabSwingers.com forum: What’s the key X factor for finding attraction?

By *orestToy OP Man
over a year ago

new forest

So what’s your top 3 X factors when it comes to FAB attraction?? For me it’s not as simply as ‘classical’ physical attributes such as 1) slim 2) blonde & 3) big tits? Rather good looks & great personality attributes such as 1) courtesy, 2) humility & 3) confidence seam to factor more heavily in recent times. But what do others think?

Personally I find I’m attracted to all sorts over the years, but by ticking these personality boxes it does mean most likely interest in a profile beyond the likelihood if it just ticks the physical boxes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

money - with me it's always money. Oh .... and generosity..... stupidity......foolishness and a poor memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Funny 2. Pretty eyes 3. Curved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good chat

Sense of humour

Big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Good heart

2.Good puns

3.Good nips

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Good sense of humour

Good chat

Tallish

I don't have a particular type, I find attraction grows once I've got to know someone a bit, so someone can be physically hot, but if we can't have a good old chat/laugh then I wouldn't stay interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about an 'X-factor' is that is something that you just can't put your finger on. It is beyond definition.

Someone could fail to meet any criteria that you set and yet thete will be something about them that makes them completely irresistable to you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t have a type. I do like confident chatty men though. And they usually have an aura about them that says they could fuck you into the mattress nay bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do what i did, trying out a certain pheromone in a shopping centre. Not smart.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

There’s absolutely no physical link between those I’ve found attractive. It’s just their presence in person that makes that happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing about an 'X-factor' is that is something that you just can't put your finger on. It is beyond definition.

Someone could fail to meet any criteria that you set and yet thete will be something about them that makes them completely irresistable to you"

Yep totally this for me..think Mr has more of a type

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Smiles are super important

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"money - with me it's always money. Oh .... and generosity..... stupidity......foolishness and a poor memory"

Message me

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Mutual attraction

Nice face (eyes and smile)

Sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sense of humour

Nice eyes

Nice smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good sense of humour

Nice eyes

Nice smile

Exactly what I look for x

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

The thought that everyone is different, so a different approach to see the answer. A reply can point you in the right direction. To the lady that said “No thank you” and kindly put a x on the end. Has given me faith in continuing

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

One who doesn't mind going home covered in dog hairs.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Is he different to the rest

Does he make my brain work

Does he make me laugh

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Loads of money

Nice house

Dicky ticker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By saying things that even when written, you can get the tone of and it makes you laugh. Having a face I like with dancing eyes and smile. Being a bit of a perve, in the good adventurous spirit of the word.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

At first,

Someone with a nice smile and Twinkling eyes will catch my attention but its not until I'm with them in person that everything else falls into place.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Beyond basic physical attraction, it's actually quite difficult to articulate.

That "thing" I feel, that connection, the ggggrrrr the knicker melter is partly on an animalistic level so is a feeling, a sense and an instinct of sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do what i did, trying out a certain pheromone in a shopping centre. Not smart."

Did lots of pussy follow you home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beyond basic physical attraction, it's actually quite difficult to articulate.

That "thing" I feel, that connection, the ggggrrrr the knicker melter is partly on an animalistic level so is a feeling, a sense and an instinct of sorts."

This absolutely

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By *orset.JMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

"One who doesn't mind going home covered in dog hairs."

What if you meet is covered in a few dog hairs?

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By *orestToy OP Man
over a year ago

new forest

Seams as many variables as there are people then - don’t get the dog hair comments but whatever floats your boat. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One who doesn't mind going home covered in dog hairs."

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Submissive the rest can be worked on..lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me it is intelligence, confidence, genuine warmth and humanity as well as a sense of humour .... everything else is further down the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Engaging, funny and a beautiful smile

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

The X factor for me is exactly that.... the special thing that you can't put your finger on that makes me melt inside.

It could be something they say, or the look in their eye when they look at me. How they smell, the feeling when they touch me. Or so many more things.

Definable physical attributes tend to be their smile, their thighs and their arms though. And non physical would be that they make me smile, laugh and they want me.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Sence of humour

Flirty

Fun to be with.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"One who doesn't mind going home covered in dog hairs."

Are you a werewolf? Asking for a friend!

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