FabSwingers.com forum: If you could find out the day you will die

By *ichaelangela OP Couple
over a year ago

notts

would you ???

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Double nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a depressing question!

I like it

No I don't think I would. would you?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

No ta, unless it’s a Friday they’re always busy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. Cos if it's soon I am going to eat the cake in the fridge

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If not im going to lose a stone

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By *ichaelangela OP Couple
over a year ago

notts

"What a depressing question!

I like it

No I don't think I would. would you?"

i'm really not sure if I would or not, it was just a question that came up at work today

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Nope incase it was tomorrow. I'd like to walk my daughter down the isle and become a grandfather before I pop my clogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was (say) in 6 months time, I’d get the chance to spend my savings. Night before the date might be a bit ‘sad’ though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a depressing question!

I like it

No I don't think I would. would you?

i'm really not sure if I would or not, it was just a question that came up at work today"

I find asking this at work would influence the answer.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes- I need 30 days notice to cancel Virgin Media.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

How

Morbid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

No definitely not

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By *ichaelangela OP Couple
over a year ago

notts

one guy at work said he would want to know.

he said a month or so before the date, he would take out the biggest loan he could get and live life to the max lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x"

Like your funeral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes- I need 30 days notice to cancel Virgin Media. "

This made me piss my pants

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By *ichaelangela OP Couple
over a year ago

notts

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x"

like saying a proper goodbye to loved ones and friends.... telling some people exactly what you think of them etc. getting stuff off your chest lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

Like your funeral?"

Thats already been sorted x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

like saying a proper goodbye to loved ones and friends.... telling some people exactly what you think of them etc. getting stuff off your chest lol"

Something along those lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

Like your funeral?

Thats already been sorted x"

OOOOOOO dark side of Sparkle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

like saying a proper goodbye to loved ones and friends.... telling some people exactly what you think of them etc. getting stuff off your chest lol"

Getting d off your tits and running naked in the street

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

Like your funeral?

Thats already been sorted x

OOOOOOO dark side of Sparkle

I have a very deep dark side that only a few have ever seen.... nobody wants to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to think I wouldn't want to know but now yes. It makes it easier to plan things x

Like your funeral?

Thats already been sorted x

OOOOOOO dark side of Sparkle

I have a very deep dark side that only a few have ever seen.... nobody wants to see that

Oh I can say with confidence that the last part of that sentence isn't true

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By *ichaelangela OP Couple
over a year ago

notts

"No

How

Morbid "

Not

Meant

morbid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm from a practical pov, yes..

Making sure my cats woukd be cared for, for the rest of their life

making sure I'd put a will in place (nope, not done it yet)

Making sure I'd told people i love them and had a magical final day with them, even tho they wouldn't know it was a magical last day

Also.. Making sure i had clean pants on and matching bra

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"would you ???"

Already been their gates closed kept trying I'm barred

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No"

Straight forward answer

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Absolutely!

Id know then when to cash everything in and go blow the lot doing everything without having to save up for it

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Nope

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

No.

At first, you'd be able to make plans etc, but as the time got closer, you'd be focussed on that rather than enjoying things.

I wonder how many condemned men actually enjoyed that last hearty meal?

Gbat

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Hmmmm from a practical pov, yes..

Making sure my cats woukd be cared for, for the rest of their life

making sure I'd put a will in place (nope, not done it yet)

Making sure I'd told people i love them and had a magical final day with them, even tho they wouldn't know it was a magical last day

Also.. Making sure i had clean pants on and matching bra

You could do most of that anyway though?

Make a cat plan now.

Sort your will out today.

Tell people you love them as it might be your last chance.

Wash those pants!

(I expect the matching underwear would be the biggest daily struggle).

Gbat

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'd ask someone else to find out for me and no matter what the answer was, to tell me it was great news and I had a hundred years left.

I'd only want them to tell me when I had 24 hours to go, just long enough to tell everyone I loved them and then make some spectacularly poor choices safe in the knowledge I'd never have to deal with the consequences.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ? "

Yes and have done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ? "

Hmmm. I said Yes and I think that would depend if it is was soon or long way off, so whether it would have an imminent effect on them or not.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ?

Yes and have done."

Can understand that and done similar, in a different situation, sometimes it is just easier. Hugs xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ?

Hmmm. I said Yes and I think that would depend if it is was soon or long way off, so whether it would have an imminent effect on them or not. "

It’s a definite grey area, dependant on various things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, adding worry wouldnt improve my life... when its done its done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ?

Hmmm. I said Yes and I think that would depend if it is was soon or long way off, so whether it would have an imminent effect on them or not.

It’s a definite grey area, dependant on various things. "

If it was soon I'd want to say for practical purposes, if it was long time (say when I was 80 or 90) I'd think it unnecessary as that would be expected anyway. Most tricky would be say ten years time - that would be a big burden to put on your loved ones and makes me think perhaps I'd rather not know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not scared of death. If anything I embrace it.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

No, live for today because you never know if your social meet will turn up next week

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No not at all, I think you’d end up dreading it approaching, rather than grasping life by the balls and living it.

Those that say yes, would you be able to keep it to yourself, ie not tell family and friends ?

Hmmm. I said Yes and I think that would depend if it is was soon or long way off, so whether it would have an imminent effect on them or not.

It’s a definite grey area, dependant on various things.

Practicalities I’d sort myself I think. As you say it’s the burden you’d put on them, I’d rather my last days/weeks with those I’m close to be happy and creating memories for them rather than them being about individuals dreading the approaching time. Sometimes a small little lie is better than honesty, in my opinion.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Technically it's not a lie if you don't tell them. I'd rather they remain blissfully unaware and treat me the same as I know that would change if they knew x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Technically it's not a lie if you don't tell them. I'd rather they remain blissfully unaware and treat me the same as I know that would change if they knew x"

Totally agree with all of this x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No because either i would throw caution to the wind because its so far away. Or i throw caution to the wind because its so near.

Though it would make pension planning dead easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Technically it's not a lie if you don't tell them. I'd rather they remain blissfully unaware and treat me the same as I know that would change if they knew x

Totally agree with all of this x "

Yes and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmmm from a practical pov, yes..

Making sure my cats woukd be cared for, for the rest of their life

making sure I'd put a will in place (nope, not done it yet)

Making sure I'd told people i love them and had a magical final day with them, even tho they wouldn't know it was a magical last day

Also.. Making sure i had clean pants on and matching bra

You could do most of that anyway though?

Make a cat plan now.

Sort your will out today.

Tell people you love them as it might be your last chance.

Wash those pants!

(I expect the matching underwear would be the biggest daily struggle).

Gbat"

Yeah but i have can't be-arsed-itis so I'll never get around to being organised in thay way.. Plus.. Telling peeps i love them, they will think I've only got days to live haha

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"would you ???"

Yes I want to know and also how. Got so much to do in life so need to know how much time I have left here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, I have things still to do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born on the same date as William Shakespeare. He died on his birthday. So will I.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

In my book we should all retire at 50 have 15 good years and then take a one way trip to Dignitas on your 65th birthday.

That way we would all know !

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"In my book we should all retire at 50 have 15 good years and then take a one way trip to Dignitas on your 65th birthday.

That way we would all know !

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"In my book we should all retire at 50 have 15 good years and then take a one way trip to Dignitas on your 65th birthday.

That way we would all know !

Good lord no!

My gran is 95 and still fit and healthy and enjoying life.

I want that and not to know when or how I will die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"In my book we should all retire at 50 have 15 good years and then take a one way trip to Dignitas on your 65th birthday.

That way we would all know !

Think of all of the benefits, no nursing homes, no free childcare for the grandkids and end it whilst having at least a bit of life left in you.

Plus no OAP economy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooo thank you!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes! Something to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp, absolutely

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Having a lot less days left than most people on here I really do not want to know when that fateful day will be.

My 5 year old grandaughter has said she wants me to live for ever

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

"No, I want it to be a total surprise!!!"

I was asked that by a clairvoyant at a party once....

I told her the above^^^^.

I said I didn't doubt her abilities/talents - but no thanks. She didn't push it & laughed her arse off!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I want to put provisions in for my children as I lost both my parents young

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