FabSwingers.com forum: Finding love on Fab

By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I’ve been a member here on an off for a number of years, I joined as a solo guy, made some great friends and then partnered up with one as FWB. For nearly 4 years we had a great and very active couples profile, but as with all things close with someone, feelings developed, alas on one side, and so our partnership ended. She stayed on Fab and I left. In the non Fab world I had a relationship and it was great, but it always lacked the depth of sexual interests I developed through being a member here, the relationship ended earlier this year and I have found myself back on Fab.

I want a partner, not a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits, I think I want a bonafide real deal relationship, my time away from Fab reminded me about love and the beauty of it.

Do you think it’s possible to find love through Fab, swinging and casual encounters. I know this isn’t a dating site, and I’ve rolled my eyes so many times at those saying they are here looking for love, but I think I might be one of those people now.

I’m curious about what people think about finding love on Fab.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It does happen maybe not so often but sure can

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I met my last partner on here, fell in love, were together for just shy of 5 years, split during lockdown.

In not looking for love, but you can never say never

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find love anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting question.

Having been in relationships with others that aren’t as sexually liberated therefore have zero interest in swinging etc, I’ve decided that my only relationships going forward will be with like minded women/bi men. Therefore, a site like fab would be easier to find love

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By *r Misbehaviour OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

Love this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

I love your story

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

I love your story

Me too, and yours! xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It could happen x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Met my partner Jack here almost 6 years (in Nov)

We weren't looking for more, but it just happened.

We hide our single profiles and took some time away for us, then decided we wanted to continue in the lifestyle.

Here is as good a place as any to meet.

Good luck op

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's as possible here as anywhere else to be honest - just takes two people to be open to the idea, or mutually develop "feelings" for one another over a period of time.

None of which is any different from meeting others in other areas of your life, but comes with the added benefit of a shared interest in whatever shape that may take.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Love can happen anywhere.

My ex and I got together on here, certainly wasn't planned and we both weren't looking. It just happened out of the blue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

I love your story

Me too, and yours! xx"

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s far more frequent than anyone ever admits or wants to believe.

As much as swinging is about separating love from sex, sometimes you meet a person that just gets through and people connect. Now that there are even more singles on the site, it happens with an even greater frequency.

Emotions aren’t a dirty word, the issue is more when people aren’t honest about what they want or if they’re free to pursue a relationship.

As a side note, I know that it happens because I’ve had a couple of genuine relationships with people on here and I’m now engaged and living with another forumite

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

I love your story

Me too, such a lovely couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

I love your twos story K you’re the nicest couple I’ve spoken to and you are by far the nicest guy I’ve chatted to. I hope you both have a long and happy life together. You’re my inspiration still

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes.

We weren’t looking for anything more than FWB, then things developed fairly rapidly. It’s the best thing that’s happened to me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens on here and I know what you mean. I’m ‘vanilla’ dating atm because I’m keen for a relationship not just FWBs! And I don’t think I’ll find it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met her ladyship on here over 5 years ago now. We're very much in love and have live together for over 3 of those years. I think I can put up with her for quite a long time to come

As BP said above, we live out our fantasies together in total honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think love can happen absolutely anywhere. So of course it's possible on a website like this where we search for sexual partners.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

We live in hope

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's as likely to happen hear as anywhere else - it's just another platform for meeting people.

That said, I really don't believe that you can "look" for love, you just have to be open to the idea, put yourself in a position to meet new people, and run with it if you find that elusive chemistry and "click"

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The thing that strikes me about any of it is, you have to like them, then they have to like you, then you have to like the same kind of things, or be respectful of the differences between you, and get on with each other’s friends and families or not. That’s without being sexually compatible, or wanting kids/not wanting kids, it’s fucking exhausting!!!!!

So it it can happen “out there,” why can’t that happen on FAB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People single for a reason.

Hard to live with em

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I found my partner in a club…… never thought that would happen nor was I looking for it.

Just something clicked…….

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm in the never say never camp, I'm happy with how my life is now but there's always the chance of that one person sneaking up on you by surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

How lovely, I'm envious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it. Turned out it was a lie.

Destroyed my faith and theres a hunk of ice where my heart was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely happens. I think from a perspective of people who use this. The intrigue from (in some cases) seeing someone in the nude or doing something sexual, straight away on their profile means you've already seen their features, and at their most exposed. So the only part left are those cute little moments of getting to know them in person when you've had a meet. Especially if the meet is long and comfortable, it's like a post coital first date aha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the positivity from his thread. Have nothing more constructive to add than to wish you the best of luck OP and ongoing happiness to those who found their soulmates here too.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell dude, it's hard enough finding a shag!

It could totally happen on here, just don't look for it. The best way to find love is to be happy with yourself. If you can sit on a bench smiling that your alive and able to enjoy just being there on your own then I would say you have the best chance of finding love. BEcause it won't be to fill any holes etc. Just purely to enhance your life.

If you dig?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

That’s lovely

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I’m curious about what people think about finding love on Fab."

We did.

Started out as a meet, September 2019,

we got married in January 2021.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

That’s lovely

Still kinda stunned about ma new name

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I know of a few people who have found it on here.

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By *luvpussy40Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Thank you for all your stories, gives us single guys some hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

Congratulations!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks

Congratulations

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We met on here 6 years ago. Been married for nearly 3 xx

Neither of us were expecting it xx

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.

Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met my partner Jack here almost 6 years (in Nov)

We weren't looking for more, but it just happened.

We hide our single profiles and took some time away for us, then decided we wanted to continue in the lifestyle.

Here is as good a place as any to meet.

Good luck op "

Congratulations

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Don’t want to hijack the thread by replying to everyone but we want to thank everyone for your kind words.

I sure no-one comes onto FAB to find the one but you seek people that you feel are going to be compatible with and this could turn to more if you are both open to it.

This is an environment where you are able to be you and (should be able to) be completely honest with your partner, which a lot of relationships you can’t or don’t, so it’s a perfect platform to meet the love of your life.

You just do things slightly backwards…you find how great they are in bed then do the dating after

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