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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this swinging lark really just for couples and single woman? How many single guys on here are getting regular action with woman on this site and if they are how about passing on some tips as all I get looked at and propositioned by is gay men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve been here four weeks and have met someone already. You’re doing very well. Just relax and carry on doing whatever you’ve been doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First tip, be hot as fuck with an 8 inch girthy penis.

Tip two, see tip one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First tip, be hot as fuck with an 8 inch girthy penis.

Tip two, see tip one. "

That, and also be funny like Ricky Gervais because laughter makes the panties drop harder than the base in Dub Step.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They would be if they

A. Turned up

B. Weren't in isolation

C. Actually put some effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here for 5 years on and off.

Never had any trouble getting meets.

It's really not that hard and there is no secret.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You can block single men from messaging you of you don't want to hear from them OP.

And your "Looked At Me" won't be a true reflection of who looked at you as many people look in stealth mode so you'd never know they had looked.

As for tips, just be yourself, have the right attitude, expectations and approach and couple it with a good profile and pics - it won't guarantee a thing but it will improve your experience of the site.

There are many men here who have a great time and contrary to popular belief they're not all bronzed Adonises - they are just regular guys who worked out how best to make the site work for them.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When I was a single on here I done alright and could have met more.

If your profile is intriguing and pics stand out and you are respectful, you’ll do as well as you want to.

There’s no science behind it…it’s about engaging with people and not getting hung up about meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ITS NOT THAT HARD…

Engage in the forums… be mildly witty… don’t have 50 million cock pics..’

Banter & chat and don’t do the whole I’ll dominate you until you are begging for more shit..

Just treat us in a respectful way as normal decent humans…. Simples….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will happen. Always engage with people who have more than one verification and have been on the site for sometime. Don’t be pushy. Be polite, manner cost nothing.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is this swinging lark really just for couples and single woman? How many single guys on here are getting regular action with woman on this site and if they are how about passing on some tips as all I get looked at and propositioned by is gay men on here."

Only tip I can give is be patient you have joined at a difficult period and even now not everyone is going to be rushing to meet but also remember throughout this period people have been chatting with each other awaiting for an opportunity to take matters further.

So do what many do either take part in the forums it's a great way to connect with people and even find to start the first message or even receive one or few works either way.

Keep your chin up pal could always add more pictures and strike lucky to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banter & chat and don’t do the whole I’ll dominate you until you are begging for more shit.."

That's a very specific kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Go to an organised social ...you'll meet more nice people than you would in a year sending messages on here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there "

This is great advice. Just be yourself. Always be polite and respectful and don't seem too pushy. Fab has been good to me and I've met some wonderful people on my journey. Good luck OP . You've already had one meet. That's great . Better than most on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Banter & chat and don’t do the whole I’ll dominate you until you are begging for more shit..

That's a very specific kink "

Prolific on here for us ladies… most are inadequate full of bs…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First tip, be hot as fuck with an 8 inch girthy penis.

Tip two, see tip one. "

Six would be fine ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there "

This man is a perfect example of how to be successful on fab.. listen to his advice!

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Have you been sending out enough 'how are you?' messages OP. They have a 100% success rate according to a recent survey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there

This is great advice. Just be yourself. Always be polite and respectful and don't seem too pushy. Fab has been good to me and I've met some wonderful people on my journey. Good luck OP . You've already had one meet. That's great . Better than most on here "

Thanks quality advice from yourself mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there

This man is a perfect example of how to be successful on fab.. listen to his advice!"

Aw thank you I really appreciate that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there

This is great advice. Just be yourself. Always be polite and respectful and don't seem too pushy. Fab has been good to me and I've met some wonderful people on my journey. Good luck OP . You've already had one meet. That's great . Better than most on here

Thanks quality advice from yourself mate "

Thank you . Catch up for that beer soon mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no secret just be yourself. Engage more - clubs and socials are back open make yourself known there

This is great advice. Just be yourself. Always be polite and respectful and don't seem too pushy. Fab has been good to me and I've met some wonderful people on my journey. Good luck OP . You've already had one meet. That's great . Better than most on here

Thanks quality advice from yourself mate

Thank you . Catch up for that beer soon mate "

Definitely

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Have you been sending out enough 'how are you?' messages OP. They have a 100% success rate according to a recent survey. "

I'm more likely to reply to that, if I like the look of you, than a lot of other messages I get.

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Send more dick pics! Never fails.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nob pic on your profile. Works every time. If you manage your profile from the advice you get from the forum faithful, I would invest in some new socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe re-word the "I have needs" statement? On its own with nothing to soften it it comes across a little as though you're after prostitute. We are all here to fulfil our needs one way or another and that be that a bit of attention or hole to fuck but people generally aren't too keen on any suggestion they're seen as the latter

Mr

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

hang in their buddy keep tweaking ur profile be respectful in ur messages and dont beg as it looks desperate and ugly,

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"First tip, be hot as fuck with an 8 inch girthy penis.

Tip two, see tip one. "

not true. I seen some really average looking men with lots of verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ITS NOT THAT HARD…

Engage in the forums… be mildly witty… don’t have 50 million cock pics..’

Banter & chat and don’t do the whole I’ll dominate you until you are begging for more shit..

Just treat us in a respectful way as normal decent humans…. Simples…."

I wanted to reply privately to compliment you on your reply..l could'nt because of filters so l have to do it here...l then read your profile and you just blew my mind altogether...WOW !!...seriously amazing

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I find men who have basic profiles and impersonal/garish messages get ignored. But I don't find you physically attractive, there's not much you can say to change my mind. Just need to show the best of you and the right person will find you attractive. Non pushy and desperate messages work better.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"ITS NOT THAT HARD…

Engage in the forums… be mildly witty… don’t have 50 million cock pics..’

Banter & chat and don’t do the whole I’ll dominate you until you are begging for more shit..

Just treat us in a respectful way as normal decent humans…. Simples….

I wanted to reply privately to compliment you on your reply..l could'nt because of filters so l have to do it here...l then read your profile and you just blew my mind altogether...WOW !!...seriously amazing "

see when a guy sends me that kind of message, I think they sound a little bit desperate

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Clubs

Going to them gets the ball rolling in my opinion

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