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By *annybigboy OP   Man
over a year ago

todmorden

Hi, I’ve been on here a number of years yet still not met anyone, I’ve had some good chats, I’m not a fake or got a 6 pack, I’m honest, caring and passionate, I’ve got my own farm, own my own business etc, I’m not small in the trouser department and good with my tongue, but can’t seem to get any fun. due to my job and being harassed before all my face pics are for friends only. Come on ladies I will treat you better than most!

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"Hi, I’ve been on here a number of years yet still not met anyone, I’ve had some good chats, I’m not a fake or got a 6 pack, I’m honest, caring and passionate, I’ve got my own farm, own my own business etc, I’m not small in the trouser department and good with my tongue, but can’t seem to get any fun. due to my job and being harassed before all my face pics are for friends only. Come on ladies I will treat you better than most! "

Hi Dan maybe different public pics more varied not all cock pics .it's hard for single guys as there are so many on here...or take the plunge and visit a club...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely try a club. It's a good way to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now clubs are open and socials are back on get out there

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely attend some socials or clubs.

I'd also say maybe some more profile pics that aren't just of your dick x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Clubs open not guaranteed but couple of visit make couple of friends ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like profiles with varied photos, showing body, torso etc (doesn't have to be ripped, but I like to see what the guys looks like).

Hope that helps

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would say that you need to change the way you approach things if they aren’t working for you…you can do that with decent pics, a good profile and also being respectful in messages.

Decent pics being a good variety.

The guys who do all 3 do well on here.

Also sounds like your auditioning for a girlfriend

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Also sounds like your auditioning for a girlfriend "

I'll let Yassy know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Come on ladies I will treat you better than most" would be a red flag - how do you know how the ladies have been treated by most, and what have you got to base that comment on, or show that you would be able to?

Can't comment on your profile directly as you've not asked for advice, but usually when guys find they're struggling on here it comes down to one or a combination of the following five things, all of which are within your control to change, even if they don't guarantee a thing, they'll improve your experience and perception of the site.

Profile - is yours well written and appealing and makes you stand out from the crowd? Or is it just as generic as 90% of the other guys on here? Does it show some personality and tell the reader a little about you and what you're looking for and just as importantly what you think you can offer?

Pictures - do you have a range of well taken and thought out pictures that show off your body and not just your cock?

Expectations - do you have these set correctly? They need to be set at the lowest possible level and then turned down a notch when it comes to getting meets or even replies to messages.

Attitude - is it right? Do you stay positive, respectful and considerate at all times? Accept a polite no thank you or a deleted message with good grace? Do you come across as entitled to getting a meet just for joining?

Approach - have you found the one that works for you? Do you just blindly message other profiles that appeal, which is often the most frustrating way to make connections on here, or have you considered using the forums or chat rooms more, which are a great way to get to know people and them you - likewise group socials and clubs.

As I said none of those will guarantee a thing, but work on them and you never know, you'll certainly be on the right lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I’ve been on here a number of years yet still not met anyone, I’ve had some good chats, I’m not a fake or got a 6 pack, I’m honest, caring and passionate, I’ve got my own farm, own my own business etc, I’m not small in the trouser department and good with my tongue, but can’t seem to get any fun. due to my job and being harassed before all my face pics are for friends only. Come on ladies I will treat you better than most! "

It’s because you have pine furniture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Come on ladies I will treat you better than most" would be a red flag - how do you know how the ladies have been treated by most, and what have you got to base that comment on, or show that you would be able to?

Can't comment on your profile directly as you've not asked for advice, but usually when guys find they're struggling on here it comes down to one or a combination of the following five things, all of which are within your control to change, even if they don't guarantee a thing, they'll improve your experience and perception of the site.

Profile - is yours well written and appealing and makes you stand out from the crowd? Or is it just as generic as 90% of the other guys on here? Does it show some personality and tell the reader a little about you and what you're looking for and just as importantly what you think you can offer?

Pictures - do you have a range of well taken and thought out pictures that show off your body and not just your cock?

Expectations - do you have these set correctly? They need to be set at the lowest possible level and then turned down a notch when it comes to getting meets or even replies to messages.

Attitude - is it right? Do you stay positive, respectful and considerate at all times? Accept a polite no thank you or a deleted message with good grace? Do you come across as entitled to getting a meet just for joining?

Approach - have you found the one that works for you? Do you just blindly message other profiles that appeal, which is often the most frustrating way to make connections on here, or have you considered using the forums or chat rooms more, which are a great way to get to know people and them you - likewise group socials and clubs.

As I said none of those will guarantee a thing, but work on them and you never know, you'll certainly be on the right lines."

I knew this was you, as I was scrolling from the bottom up

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

I knew this was you, as I was scrolling from the bottom up "

I should copy/paste it really - would save me lot of time

From the bottom up eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s your problem. A lot really meet through the social side. Not many are into coffee meets, hotel visits, running the gambit of going to someone’s house they don’t know. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve got all dick pics, so I wouldn’t even read your message.

Saying you’ll treat me better than most, how would you know, that would make me very wary.

Saying I don’t bite is a bit , and your whingey status would put me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever met 2 women on here after being on a while which is fine for me. I enjoy it on here , cures boredom and have some good craic and some cheeky chats with people from time to time

It’s clearly male dominated so it’s going to be hard to stand out from the crowd. Some good points been made by posters above!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like everything in life, you get out what you put in, make an effort, plus dont forget alot of people havnt been meeting for nearly 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pandemic doesn't help.

But also so diverse in pictures its more appealing.

I've got body shots but not my cock out.

Gives that little bit of mystery.

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By *annybigboy OP   Man
over a year ago

todmorden

Thanks for the advise, I’ve taken it all on board and I’m going to change most of my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Come on ladies I will treat you better than most" would be a red flag - how do you know how the ladies have been treated by most, and what have you got to base that comment on, or show that you would be able to?

Can't comment on your profile directly as you've not asked for advice, but usually when guys find they're struggling on here it comes down to one or a combination of the following five things, all of which are within your control to change, even if they don't guarantee a thing, they'll improve your experience and perception of the site.

Profile - is yours well written and appealing and makes you stand out from the crowd? Or is it just as generic as 90% of the other guys on here? Does it show some personality and tell the reader a little about you and what you're looking for and just as importantly what you think you can offer?

Pictures - do you have a range of well taken and thought out pictures that show off your body and not just your cock?

Expectations - do you have these set correctly? They need to be set at the lowest possible level and then turned down a notch when it comes to getting meets or even replies to messages.

Attitude - is it right? Do you stay positive, respectful and considerate at all times? Accept a polite no thank you or a deleted message with good grace? Do you come across as entitled to getting a meet just for joining?

Approach - have you found the one that works for you? Do you just blindly message other profiles that appeal, which is often the most frustrating way to make connections on here, or have you considered using the forums or chat rooms more, which are a great way to get to know people and them you - likewise group socials and clubs.

As I said none of those will guarantee a thing, but work on them and you never know, you'll certainly be on the right lines."

Nail. Head.

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