FabSwingers.com forum: Your mother wouldn't like it

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

So after spending Saturday with my my and her disapproving comments about my facial hair, saying it makes me look old and scruffy, what would your mum disapprove of about you.

Oh and does it make me look old and scruffy?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My mum loves everything about me ..I'm perfect in her eyes lol

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

It definitely doesn't make you look old or scruffy. It suits you and you look good

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

When I show too much cleavage

she gets the safety pins out and covers me up

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It suits you.

I'm an angel in my mums eyes (if only she knew)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think we've got time to go into what my mother wouldn't approve of

The beard looks good OP, definitely one vote to keep it from me

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My mums pretty cool, however I think she may have a few raised eyebrows if I told her some of the stuff I've done..and lots of questions

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

She's not a fan of my tattoos, piercings and red hair but she does concede she's a different generation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a mum.... She should love you however you choose to be. Its your choice.

I think her wording could have been better. She she could have just said she prefers you clean shaven. I'm sure she meant well though.

Don't forget, it's not her you're doing for.

Don't worry about what others think.

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

Mine hates that I have tattoos and would definitely raise an eyebrow at the fun I have through here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum hates the fact I've had breast enlargement. She even called me barbie instead of the name she gave me a few times in a nasty way.

Disappointing a parent can't be an adult but it is what is. And I don't regret my choice at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’d absolutely hate that I’m bisexual.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

My parents just roll their eyes or take the piss out of me...like my dad last weekend saying my stripey dress looked like a deckchair

They realised many years ago that if they disapprove of something then I'll just do it all the more.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Everything because I’m not a stay at home mum and waiting on a husband for his every need and instead went out and got myself 2 degrees, a career and can still raise my children perfectly well

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By *rettytiedupWoman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'm a mum.... She should love you however you choose to be. Its your choice.

I think her wording could have been better. She she could have just said she prefers you clean shaven. I'm sure she meant well though.

Don't forget, it's not her you're doing for.

Don't worry about what others think. "

I completely agree, my mum isnt the best with words either so when I had my daughters I vowed to let them be them. I give them advice but I'd never tell that what to do and I make sure they know that they are loved. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother disapproves everything about me. Fat, ugly, lazy, working full time rather be a stay at home mum, everything you can think of my mother thinks about me. Lol

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By *rettytiedupWoman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Your looking good and the only people you have to impress is us lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after spending Saturday with my my and her disapproving comments about my facial hair, saying it makes me look old and scruffy, what would your mum disapprove of about you.

Oh and does it make me look old and scruffy?

My mum would disapprove of my swinging lifestyle, she died in february and i don't think she knew about it, she had alzheimers for approx 10 year She seemed to disapprove of me in general !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So after spending Saturday with my my and her disapproving comments about my facial hair, saying it makes me look old and scruffy, what would your mum disapprove of about you.

Oh and does it make me look old and scruffy?

My mum would disapprove of my swinging lifestyle, she died in february and i don't think she knew about it, she had alzheimers for approx 10 year She seemed to disapprove of me in general !"

Although when my children were young she said i was bringing them up well, that altered when i left my then husband when my children were young adults !

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly mine is no longer here,

She was mostly v supportive, but hated my tongue piercing lol.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My mum was pretty hip and didn't disapprove of anything we wore or did.

We had cool parents.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most things. Luckily my dad is very cool and supportive.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It used to be that I couldn't do anything right, according to my mum.

Things have changed. She still hates my style, but our values are aligned now and it's so validating.

And she's in Australia so she can keep her hair brush to herself

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Easier to list the things my mum doesn't disapprove off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t know, raised by a single dad!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

My mum disapproves of a lot of things I do lol my hair mainly

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My mother hates me. So fuck what she thinks.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Haha both my Mum and Dad used to call me a scruff after two days of not shaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She doesn't really disapprove of anything I do. She doesn't always understand and will say that and that's fine but as long as I'm safe and happy, she's cool.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

My mum didn’t like me having short hair. Would have been her birthday today. I kinda miss her saying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum disapproves of so much about me

She’s a good Traditional Norwegian family woman.

My dads ex army and she met him and fell in love.

My dad was a great bloke but more homely than me. He died not long after I got to battalion and in NI.

When I left the army I think she’d assume I’d settle down. But no 4 month later I was a PMC

And my life’s pretty full on.

She doesn’t approve of my choices at all

And OP keep the facial hair

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"My mum disapproves of so much about me

She’s a good Traditional Norwegian family woman.

My dads ex army and she met him and fell in love.

My dad was a great bloke but more homely than me. He died not long after I got to battalion and in NI.

When I left the army I think she’d assume I’d settle down. But no 4 month later I was a PMC

And my life’s pretty full on.

She doesn’t approve of my choices at all

And OP keep the facial hair "
some prefer the term private security consultant

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Mum, may she rest in peace didn't disaprove of anything, she my not have believed or liked things i did but she'd always support me in every aspect of my life.

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