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Canes, belts, whips, hands. Which one do you like to give or receive x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine is a belt. I love a woman or a man to take their belt off and make me sore x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

We have a riding crop (thanks Tesco!) - not too hard though!

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By *nakePilotMan
over a year ago

Merseyside, Lancashire & Cheshire

I'm generous with all of them, if you crave them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might whimper a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane for me.

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By *u41Man
over a year ago

bristol

All of them love a beating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving my Master's belt is divine. Xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not a massive fan of any impact play but I love a good rough fingering, so I'll go for hand!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Prefer a hand as I bruise so easily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer a hand as I bruise so easily "

Me too x

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By *idnightTaskCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I like to receive a belt, hand, crop, whip

Midnight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to receive a belt, hand, crop, whip

Midnight x"

I'd share the punishment with you x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

All of them, depending on the mood and scenario

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Have yet to try a belt… otherwise all of the above please

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I do wonder about these threads. Canes and whips need skill to use them and whips need serious skill. Then there are different types of whips and of different sizes, from Indiana Jones style bullwhips to 3 feet dungeon usable snake whips. Compared to the number of people that have been spanked I would suspect very few people have been whipped and less have been skilfully whipped by someone with a half decent whip who knew what they were doing. Anyone who has a whip from a sex shop should be barred from this debate??. Don't get me started on canes and caneing!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"I do wonder about these threads. Canes and whips need skill to use them and whips need serious skill. Then there are different types of whips and of different sizes, from Indiana Jones style bullwhips to 3 feet dungeon usable snake whips. Compared to the number of people that have been spanked I would suspect very few people have been whipped and less have been skilfully whipped by someone with a half decent whip who knew what they were doing. Anyone who has a whip from a sex shop should be barred from this debate??. Don't get me started on canes and caneing! "

I guess it differs though from the 'professional' users (I don't know the name that would fit) and the people who just like it occasionally in their play?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I do wonder about these threads. Canes and whips need skill to use them and whips need serious skill. Then there are different types of whips and of different sizes, from Indiana Jones style bullwhips to 3 feet dungeon usable snake whips. Compared to the number of people that have been spanked I would suspect very few people have been whipped and less have been skilfully whipped by someone with a half decent whip who knew what they were doing. Anyone who has a whip from a sex shop should be barred from this debate??. Don't get me started on canes and caneing! "

We enjoy what we do together with the tools we have. That's enough for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cane for me."

Naughty boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be a leather belt across my naked bum.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Any and all, although a paddle is the worst for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite is the hand, there’s something about his hand gently sliding across the skin, and then giving me a good whack, and then so gentle again .

I am a fan of the belt though too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is the hand, there’s something about his hand gently sliding across the skin, and then giving me a good whack, and then so gentle again .

I am a fan of the belt though too "

Exactly this!

The sound The belt makes is delicious, not just on impact but also as the buckle rattles while it is slid ut through the loops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being caned by Sir but only after a hand/ paddle warm up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is the hand, there’s something about his hand gently sliding across the skin, and then giving me a good whack, and then so gentle again .

I am a fan of the belt though too

Exactly this!

The sound The belt makes is delicious, not just on impact but also as the buckle rattles while it is slid ut through the loops.

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Also, just the sound of it being pulled out through the trouser loops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer a hand as I bruise so easily "

Mmmm I bet the bruises on your white ass would look so sexy

Anyone who practice impact play would start with spanking first. To warm up that exposed ass, then give a nice rub over before she could ear the belt buckle undoing. She might wiggle her ass in anticipation, I run the belt over her legs up to the cheeks and wack the first strike…. After a few strikes I could see the dribbling kitty

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Out of those in order of preference: Cane, whip, belt then hand. The hand has the largest surface area and the quickest repetition in my experience and is the one I can tolerate the least. I love most impact play for the subspace which can be achieved, (but definitely not spanking!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is the hand, there’s something about his hand gently sliding across the skin, and then giving me a good whack, and then so gentle again .

I am a fan of the belt though too

Exactly this!

The sound The belt makes is delicious, not just on impact but also as the buckle rattles while it is slid ut through the loops.

Also, just the sound of it being pulled out through the trouser loops "

Your ass was made for the belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Senpai here, i do enjoy the flogger on Seiko, and she seems to enjoy it too...

Soft brushing, grasing movements and tgen the sudden swish and sound and sensation of impact...

And our flogger doubles as a ribbed dildo... So even more fun to be had...

I'll let Seiko reflect on it from her pov...

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We love a riding crop used on us both

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Belt or crop

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Prefer a hand as I bruise so easily

Mmmm I bet the bruises on your white ass would look so sexy

Anyone who practice impact play would start with spanking first. To warm up that exposed ass, then give a nice rub over before she could ear the belt buckle undoing. She might wiggle her ass in anticipation, I run the belt over her legs up to the cheeks and wack the first strike…. After a few strikes I could see the dribbling kitty "

I just don't find it an attractive look to be bruised and marked x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Hammers and clubs for me if we are talking impact.

Nice deep, bone jarring thuddy impact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Table tennis bat. That bumpy rubber surface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For use on others my preference is a flogger.

For use on myself my preference is a hand as I like the impact from skin on skin contact, and the soothing rub after to absorb the sting and comfort me.

NBVN x

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

*sits in the corner…patting his knee.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

A firm hand, that anticipation before impact then the jolt as he makes contact with your bare skin, that slight sting of not knowing if you want more but as he leans over and kisses your cheeks you can’t wait for it to start again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A firm hand, that anticipation before impact then the jolt as he makes contact with your bare skin..."

"He"...

Only by a guy?

Or would you consider a female; Oranges are not the only fruit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a collection of paddles,/belts/Cat O Nine tails etc built up over the years..under our bed in various boxes that would give a heart attack to anyone snooping around.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like to give hands or cane. Nothing beats a stripey bum!

Also floggers are good.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"A firm hand, that anticipation before impact then the jolt as he makes contact with your bare skin...

"He"...

Only by a guy?

Or would you consider a female; Oranges are not the only fruit..."

Haha oh I’d definitely consider a female….I was reminiscing of my last spank whilst typing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand usually, the feeling of skin on skin then the tingle in my hand as her skin turns a beautiful shade of red.. other than that it would be a belt

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Hand, caressing and soft them smack!! The sound, the sting on you cheek then back to caressing… divine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Canes and belts are my faves, but I'll gladly take anything that'll make me yelp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha oh I’d definitely consider a female…"

Mmmm, I'd love to watch Seiko tie another lady with Shibari, and then explore her, and excite her with some impact play...

Certainly an idea we could develop...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I love a hand.... having a hand print is a massive turn on.

But a belt is damn good too....

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Don’t like belts but canes, floggers and hands both give & receive please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into massive impact play. I bruise easily and I'd rather have sensory play than "ouch, that frickin' hurt". But, I do like a playful slap on the bum with a hand. Keep your belt for your trousers.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Leather belt with buckle is my fave, there’s so much you can do with it in bondage and impact play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really do much for me, but occasionally I am in the mood for a smack as I am fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't really do much for me, but occasionally I am in the mood for a snack as I am fucked."

Pringles work for me.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm not into massive impact play. I bruise easily and I'd rather have sensory play than "ouch, that frickin' hurt". But, I do like a playful slap on the bum with a hand. Keep your belt for your trousers."

Ah see.... I love to see the marks for days after and get turned on aas I remember how they got there.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I love being caned by Sir but only after a hand/ paddle warm up "

I was just going to say the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Senpai here, i do enjoy the flogger on Seiko, and she seems to enjoy it too...

Soft brushing, grasing movements and tgen the sudden swish and sound and sensation of impact...

And our flogger doubles as a ribbed dildo... So even more fun to be had...

I'll let Seiko reflect on it from her pov... "

The flogger was a great addition to our collection of props I was quite surprised how much I enjoyed it. The multiple uses makes it so much more fun.

As much as I love the flogger I do very much enjoy the anticipation of that sting when Senpais hand makes contact with my naked skin. The toys are great fun but I think skin on skin adds to the intimacy of impact play. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been tied up.

Beaten with whips, slapped ,punched and a few other things.

I think she was just reminding me who wore the trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into massive impact play. I bruise easily and I'd rather have sensory play than "ouch, that frickin' hurt". But, I do like a playful slap on the bum with a hand. Keep your belt for your trousers.

Ah see.... I love to see the marks for days after and get turned on aas I remember how they got there. "

I used to, but not any more

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