FabSwingers.com forum: You ever split up with someone and later regretted it ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but did have an ex come on to me one night and say she regretted cheating on me and wanted me back

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, split for a reason....get your own fans

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but did have an ex come on to me one night and say she regretted cheating on me and wanted me back"

Did she have two fans as well ?

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

There was that nymphomaniac who’s dad owned a brewery, but she supported Spurs, and fuck that right!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yea i broke my heart ending things with a guy I fell for, because I wasn't ready for that again

He blocked me on everything so I can't even speak to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, split for a reason....get your own fans

Guess that's why onlyfans was made haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, split for a reason....get your own fans

I’ve got one, it’s just stopped working.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrettably yes and if she reads this , she knows who she is

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nope, split for a reason....get your own fans

I’ve got one, it’s just stopped working.

Get your tool out and fix it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans. "

Her floor was giant or the fans who loved her floor were giants?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans. "

Were they her only fans

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Once, got back together then regretted regretting it in the first place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

-They were lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but did have an ex come on to me one night and say she regretted cheating on me and wanted me back

Did she have two fans as well ? "

I do. She just wanted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I girl in Taunton, we dated while I was in my army training down there, I got posted to Germany, being a stupid male, brains in my pants, I screwed it up, regretted it for over 40 years, still think about her, tried to find her once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you should never go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but then I am normally the one on the receiving end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans.

Were they her only fans

Are you trying to promote your thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ended badly with a woman who, in its height said shit like "in ten, twenty years time, if we meet up again I'll take you off whoever you're with and you know I will".

Fact is that was in the moment shit talk. I do still think about her because honestly, best sex ever, but best sex ever does not equal best relationship ever. I mean my kids distrusted her.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever the wind takes me

I’m currently on Tinder looking for a fella with a Swimming Pool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No once I make my mind up that’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I girl in Taunton, we dated while I was in my army training down there, I got posted to Germany, being a stupid male, brains in my pants, I screwed it up, regretted it for over 40 years, still think about her, tried to find her once "
awww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, split for a reason....get your own fans

Time to join 'Only Fans'!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans.

Were they her only fans

Are you trying to promote your thread ? "

No.... You inspired me to make that thread after my hilarious and witty comment on this one

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them"

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Nope.

I do have one or maybe two exes where circumstances split us up and if they wanted to hook up again I probably would. I don't regret the split though (one of them moved to the Philippines and I'm not the type to wait around for someone who will only be on the same continent once a quarter).

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol"

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space. "

Oh.

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By *rowser79Man
over a year ago

Cork

Broke up with a girl when I was younger after a stupid argument and me being pig headed. And as I was pretty stubborn back then I refused to accept I was wrong.

She’s now married to the guy she met after me and has 3 kids with him.

Often wonder what might have been if I hadn’t been so stubborn!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.

Oh. "

And time

It’s called an astrophysical separation

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

No. I’m still on good terms with them as life’s too short but no regrets,just didn’t work out

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.

Oh.

And time

It’s called an astrophysical separation "

Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

You can split from somebody and be a bit in no-ma's land for a while, wishing to get back but knowing it would not be right.

Head and heart ruling is not always pulling you in the same direction.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.

Oh.

And time

It’s called an astrophysical separation

Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else? "

Probably quantum

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By *nakePilotMan
over a year ago

Merseyside, Lancashire & Cheshire

My only regrets were not doing it sooner !

I've learned now. Looks are one thing, psychiatric health is quite another...

Rather be "alone", than in a toxic relationship.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I haven’t.

I would sell my granny for a bit of air con though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance...... never look back.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"My only regrets were not doing it sooner !

I've learned now. Looks are one thing, psychiatric health is quite another...

Rather be "alone", than in a toxic relationship."

Absolutely this - there is nothing quite like making your own insane decisions, is there? At least you only have yourself to blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest. Putting myself first is my number one priority.

If they don't add value to your life... Why are they there?

This is what I live by. So if you're gonna mess me about you're gonna get dumped. Maybe they'll regret it but who cares about them. They fucked it not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never looked back

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My only regrets were not doing it sooner !

I've learned now. Looks are one thing, psychiatric health is quite another...

Rather be "alone", than in a toxic relationship."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them

Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol

We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.

Oh.

And time

It’s called an astrophysical separation

Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else?

Probably quantum "

Thanks for clarifying

was actually interested in this. Guess I'll go Google some shit then lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope theirs always a valid reason and I have nothing to regret besides wishing I'd done it sooner as I'm not the problem so makes it easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my hardest when in a relationship so if it didn’t work, it meant it just wasn’t meant to be and no regrets.

I don’t dislike all of my exes but I’m glad they are in the past. Couldn’t take any of them back … makes me wanna vomit at the thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes although things are heading in the right direction now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im afraid its one of life more difficult lessons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope theirs always a valid reason and I have nothing to regret besides wishing I'd done it sooner as I'm not the problem so makes it easier "

Couldn't agree with you more. My ex was 2 years too late. Really wish I would have listened to the friends I lost because of her

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Yup. Still regret it to this day, but I don't dwell on it. Just a regret that I have about my past now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets.

Never actually split up with anyone, well there was this one guy 27 years ago!!

We became best friends... Then

I married him!

Jo.Xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I regretted it at the time but definitely not now. I was young and not thinking straight. We're still tied together by the fact we have a son together - from age 16 till I croak it, we shall have to interact on some level!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throughout my life I've gone that's it and no looking back.

That changed recently and would love to have a chance to talk and sort things out properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No regrets.

Never actually split up with anyone, well there was this one guy 27 years ago!!

We became best friends... Then

I married him!

Jo.Xx

Love this

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Nope theirs always a valid reason and I have nothing to regret besides wishing I'd done it sooner as I'm not the problem so makes it easier

Couldn't agree with you more. My ex was 2 years too late. Really wish I would have listened to the friends I lost because of her "

It's sad not just about the friends but these can be replaced but the precious time can't be replaced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. One person I would have said he was my soul mate if such a thing exists. No one has ever turned my head the way he has but too much hurt had gone on and then when we tried again he broke my heart before it even started

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Oh yes. Twice.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!

Mrs TMN x"

Just play it cool, he will be back

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!

Mrs TMN x

Just play it cool, he will be back "

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!

Mrs TMN x

Just play it cool, he will be back

I'm shit at playing it cool. I just get to the point. Is it happening, or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am mistress of my own fan and long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I’ve been the one making the break, I haven’t regretted any. One or two I look back on and think I didn’t do it for sound reasons, albeit with hindsight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two. One because she was actually right. The second because she was the best sex ever. On balance the second one was more fun.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Yes briefly but life is to short for what ifs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My accountant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. An ex is an ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Victoria. There hasn’t been a single day in the past 15 years that I haven’t regretted not staying with her, and I reckon I’ll regret it every day for however many I have left.

Make decisions with your heart, not your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My accountant "

I'll be your accountant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My accountant

I'll be your accountant. "

Could have done with this 12 years ago

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We’ve both broken up with the other multiple times. Sometimes for days, sometimes for years. It still keeps happening. We always end up back together, so I guess we must regret it. I’m not sure- it just kind of happens.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Victoria. There hasn’t been a single day in the past 15 years that I haven’t regretted not staying with her, and I reckon I’ll regret it every day for however many I have left.

Make decisions with your heart, not your head."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My accountant

I'll be your accountant.

Could have done with this 12 years ago "

I would have been too young...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My accountant

I'll be your accountant.

Could have done with this 12 years ago

I would have been too young... "

I would have probably overpaid tax

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