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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Limpets

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By *elltravelledmanMan
over a year ago

bradford

Grandad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Older women that likes younger guys is a cougar

Older guy that likes young women is a predator

Work that one out

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register "

But I bet had it been the other way around and she was the older one it probably wouldn't have raised an eyebrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register "

That's weird but hilarious

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????"

Mougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

But I bet had it been the other way around and she was the older one it probably wouldn't have raised an eyebrow "

You mean the 55 year old woman with the Justin Bieber screensaver? Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register "

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?"

very very naughty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

[Removed by poster at 18/07/21 18:48:27]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?"

Damaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????"

That man is a God!! End of thread your welcome

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

But I bet had it been the other way around and she was the older one it probably wouldn't have raised an eyebrow

She ?

Chortle ..... uhmmmmmmmm sparkle.... meet Bussy.. Bussy meet sparkle."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You outed me D.D.! I deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said before sparkles. An older woman is considered a milf or gilf depending on age. And a man is often referred to a dilf. That whole dynamic does make me cringe though won't lie

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"You outed me D.D.! I deleted."

That’s because I am a moulah

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"[Removed by poster at 18/07/21 18:48:27]"

I do apologise....my head is still in hospital mode

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately"

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it. "

Because it is outside of social norms and most people find it quiet disturbing. Especially if the person has kids their age. If my mum got with a guy my age I'd not look at her the same and me and the guy would definitely not get on at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend be looking for women my own age moment as just looking for something maybe more at moment so having look round.

but older ladies i tend get on with more as they seem like they like chat more and want to meet instead of sending snapchat bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile."

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it. "

I actually think it’s only younger men (perhaps with no money) that have a problem with older men (perhaps with some money). At least they’ve got nice rock hard cocks to play with. So perhaps it all evens out in the end? Who knows?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP "

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear "

Badger. Honey Badger!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context "

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!! "

Nah that sounds too cute. Armadillo gets my vote

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!! "

Oh yeah Badger..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm sticking with no labels.....

I've joined the anti labelism brigade and besides......... I have an agenda

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anymore for Armadillo???

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!! "

Badger is a good idea.

Honey Badgers are bloody dangerous so no to that one

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!!

Nah that sounds too cute. Armadillo gets my vote "

Wherever you are, there’s trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anymore for Armadillo???"

I want a Honey bear now

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I'm sticking with no labels.....

I've joined the anti labelism brigade and besides......... I have an agenda"

Do you have badges with your logo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!!

Nah that sounds too cute. Armadillo gets my vote

Wherever you are, there’s trouble. "

Pffft says you displaying THAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im an older chap so i have no idea what i am seen as ha ha or even looked at

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I seriously don’t think there is a name for them. ‘Cougars’ appeared as older women with much younger men is relatively new in mainstream dating but older men and younger women has been going on forever. Think of one OP

Suggestions so far have been Armadillo or Honeybear

Badger. Honey Badger!!

Nah that sounds too cute. Armadillo gets my vote

Wherever you are, there’s trouble.

Pffft says you displaying THAT "

I’m outta here, I’m off to slap a 30 year old around the face with my floppy but very expensive cock. Play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs something with silver in it for me, silver fox or silver back

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it.

Because it is outside of social norms and most people find it quiet disturbing. Especially if the person has kids their age. If my mum got with a guy my age I'd not look at her the same and me and the guy would definitely not get on at all "

So your needs are more important than your mothers happiness. I would never of guessed

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

How about Silver Badgers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it.

I actually think it’s only younger men (perhaps with no money) that have a problem with older men (perhaps with some money). At least they’ve got nice rock hard cocks to play with. So perhaps it all evens out in the end? Who knows? "

That kinda makes me chuckle too, the idea that the younger folk are always there for the money

My OH outearns me by 2.5 times and I'm not on a shit salary

If he has reasons to stay, money certainly isn't one of them

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged "

Who the granddaughter?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Papa smurf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain. "

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, Badger I like cause it has silver stripes. I actually like honey badger cause the silver fur represents the older man and the the Honey is the young honey he is with.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Older women" appreciated by younger men are "MILFs", older women who particularly seek out younger men are "Cougars".

We don't give older men who seek younger womwn a special name, because men have always had the freedom to date and fuck who they please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s only others outside of the relationship that seem to have an issue with it.

Because it is outside of social norms and most people find it quiet disturbing. Especially if the person has kids their age. If my mum got with a guy my age I'd not look at her the same and me and the guy would definitely not get on at all

So your needs are more important than your mothers happiness. I would never of guessed "

You make it sound bad but everyone has their opinions and have ideas of what is right from wrong. To me it just seems wrong and that is why it is considered highly taboo. When I see age gap relationships they get a lot of attention. Me at 26 and my ex at 21. She looked like she was 14 and the looks that we got. Some people even thought she was my niece haha

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hmmm, Badger I like cause it has silver stripes. I actually like honey badger cause the silver fur represents the older man and the the Honey is the young honey he is with."

Now that makes sense

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Some are seen as Creepy old men.

Not me, of course.

I'm just adorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter? "

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some are seen as Creepy old men.

Not me, of course.

I'm just adorable. "

Agreed CG xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, Badger I like cause it has silver stripes. I actually like honey badger cause the silver fur represents the older man and the the Honey is the young honey he is with.

Now that makes sense "

I made sense , first time for everything I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people "

All old people were young once. None of this is new information to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"[Removed by badger at 18/07/21 18:59:45]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Older women" appreciated by younger men are "MILFs", older women who particularly seek out younger men are "Cougars".

We don't give older men who seek younger womwn a special name, because men have always had the freedom to date and fuck who they please. "

Times have changed. And if they haven’t, avoid wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

All old people were young once. None of this is new information to us. "

Yes but social norms have changed in the time you've grown older.

We live in the time of onlyfans where kids are growing up to be like Nikki minaj and other strippers come 'pop stars'. We live in the time where money is seen as a shortcut to life. Where a girl dates an older guy for the money then leaves when she has enough.

Younger girls know that older guys will jump at the chance to be with her so will fully take advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of black and white viewpoints on this, unsurprisingly, as the issue most often is black and white.

There are the odd occasions though when the couple in question aren't, for instance, an ageing rockstar recapturing his mojo and a nubile golddigger, but just two people whose psyches are well matched in terms of emotional maturity and who have a relationship that works for the right reasons.

Personally as a man in his 50s I wouldn't look twice at a woman in her teens or twenties, I have daughters older than that. But I'd never dismiss a woman in her 30s even if that has the generational age gap, IF she's not a typical millennial but has values closer to my boomer ones (if we absolutely have to pigeonhole characteristics).

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people "

Or maybe she just wanted to know about her grandmothers life in the swinging scene form someone who knew her. Oh she is 27 now - or maybe her grandmother told her how incredibly good in bed I was and wanted to find out for herself

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?"

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I always think of cougars as more of a hookup/Fab scenario. I don't mind meeting sexy younger men but wouldn't want a relationship with one as we're at different life stages. In the past, men who have married younger women have been described as having trophy wives- so you could wonder why men with much younger partners are considered successful but women with much younger partners are described somewhat disparaging as cougars (people do remember they are predators too, right?)

If I had a child of any gender who was embarking on a relationship with a much older person (more than 10 years if kid was in their 20s) I'd question the motives but try to be supportive. But if someone in their 40s and was seeing someone 50+, I'd consider them both to be in a similar life stage that didn't require comment

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???"

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

All old people were young once. None of this is new information to us.

Yes but social norms have changed in the time you've grown older.

We live in the time of onlyfans where kids are growing up to be like Nikki minaj and other strippers come 'pop stars'. We live in the time where money is seen as a shortcut to life. Where a girl dates an older guy for the money then leaves when she has enough.

Younger girls know that older guys will jump at the chance to be with her so will fully take advantage. "

Things haven’t changed that much, just moved online...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

All old people were young once. None of this is new information to us.

Yes but social norms have changed in the time you've grown older.

We live in the time of onlyfans where kids are growing up to be like Nikki minaj and other strippers come 'pop stars'. We live in the time where money is seen as a shortcut to life. Where a girl dates an older guy for the money then leaves when she has enough.

Younger girls know that older guys will jump at the chance to be with her so will fully take advantage. "

This has been happening throughout the entirety of human history.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

"

I only wanted to know what people thought a man was called who liked younger women.....

It's not like it was a hard question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

But I bet had it been the other way around and she was the older one it probably wouldn't have raised an eyebrow "

Not sure that’s true! My son is 19 and you can bet I’d have plenty to say if he came home with someone my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

Or maybe she just wanted to know about her grandmothers life in the swinging scene form someone who knew her. Oh she is 27 now - or maybe her grandmother told her how incredibly good in bed I was and wanted to find out for herself "

Whatever keeps your ego active mate. Sure her dad will be happy haha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

I only wanted to know what people thought a man was called who liked younger women.....

It's not like it was a hard question "

I know that & you know that, but Fab didn't. Xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Cougars just want the younger guys to give them a good hard seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

I only wanted to know what people thought a man was called who liked younger women.....

It's not like it was a hard question "

You've inadvertently created one of the best threads this week :- , please keep trying to get it back on track it adds to the hilarity

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Me I would say “ lucky fuckers”

The guy that can still get erect with out the help from others

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

"

need a recount only 17 never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched. "

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you call a guy who gets a message on here who is the the granddaughter of a woman you met swinging over 35 years ago and wants to meet you?

Damaged

Who the granddaughter?

Yes. I love how older generations find it funny but it is quiet a common thing in the younger generations to see them as having daddy issues, being gold diggers or being taken advantage of. Maybe you should talk to more younger people

All old people were young once. None of this is new information to us.

Yes but social norms have changed in the time you've grown older.

We live in the time of onlyfans where kids are growing up to be like Nikki minaj and other strippers come 'pop stars'. We live in the time where money is seen as a shortcut to life. Where a girl dates an older guy for the money then leaves when she has enough.

Younger girls know that older guys will jump at the chance to be with her so will fully take advantage.

Things haven’t changed that much, just moved online... "

But are you on Snapchat and tiktok?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How about Silver Badgers?? "

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now "

Legally an 18 year old is adult but as mum to both an 18 and a 19 year old, they are in no way adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of respect to the OP (and because I've managed nearly 12 months without a stint on the naughty step), I'm gonna leave this one alone now x

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

I only wanted to know what people thought a man was called who liked younger women.....

It's not like it was a hard question

You've inadvertently created one of the best threads this week :- , please keep trying to get it back on track it adds to the hilarity "

Don't I bloody know it....

I'm just going to let my curiosity kill me in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now

Legally an 18 year old is adult but as mum to both an 18 and a 19 year old, they are in no way adults! "

Thank you. You have clearly seen how immature most younger people are from mine and your kids generation

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now "

What happened in 1995 that led to the production of a foolish generation? An escaped laboratory virus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of respect to the OP (and because I've managed nearly 12 months without a stint on the naughty step), I'm gonna leave this one alone now x"

Sound advice. I’ll listen for a change

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic"

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silver fox

Wolf

Old perv

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Can we keep it lighthearted guys as I was meant to be???

Oh. I thought this was the 17th 'men bashing' thread today.

I only wanted to know what people thought a man was called who liked younger women.....

It's not like it was a hard question

You've inadvertently created one of the best threads this week :- , please keep trying to get it back on track it adds to the hilarity

Don't I bloody know it....

I'm just going to let my curiosity kill me in future "

Agreed it is far better and entertaining than those "I'm hot and your not threads"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One women I met I thought her pussy was dead.

Had grey hairs and it's tongue was hanging out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think "

That's it girl you keep plugging away it's your thread ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now

What happened in 1995 that led to the production of a foolish generation? An escaped laboratory virus?"

Let's see....

Social media for one.

Modern pop i.e Nikki Minaj.

Onlyfans

Should I go on?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now

What happened in 1995 that led to the production of a foolish generation? An escaped laboratory virus?

Let's see....

Social media for one.

Modern pop i.e Nikki Minaj.

Onlyfans

Should I go on? "

Please don’t!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'll just repeat what I said just as the last thread closed...

I've mentioned before the age gap between me & my OH, it's 24 years (25 years between April & July)

The issue others have with age gap relationships involving older men is outstanding

On finding out the age gap, my partners Mum went to a Police Station to check if I was on the sex offenders register

As would I be it a woman or a man that was older. There are a lot of female pedophiles in the news lately

Look .... you need to STOP.

Dating people younger than yourself doesn't make you a pedophile.

I never said that. I just said I understand why she would check. You really like to jump to conclusions without seeing the context

FFS that last statement is incredibly funny ...... but only as it actually left your lips before it even entered your brain.

Ok... I do see your point but it is a serious red flag at the end of the say. If you had a daughter that was say 18 and she was getting with a 30 year old. What would your reaction be? Groomer, pedo or genuine love?

An 18 year old is an adult not a child. In many cases the level of maturity may be well matched.

Have you seen most 18 to 25 year olds these days? Haha I know I have and they're idiots. Yes I'm not perfect but I'm a damn sight better than a hell of a lot from 1995 onwards.

I've noticed that the older generations compare us younger people to how they were at that age. It is so different now

What happened in 1995 that led to the production of a foolish generation? An escaped laboratory virus?

Let's see....

Social media for one.

Modern pop i.e Nikki Minaj.

Onlyfans

Should I go on? "

What would you call him.

..????

One word will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone wants to know what the modern world is like from a younger perspective I'd suggest listening an artist called Tom MacDonald. He gets a lot of hate because he slams the modern world and doesn't filter it like the rest of the world does. He speaks the truth and doesn't leave anything out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so! "

Thank you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The silver wolf with the red roses

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx"

I answered your question ages ago haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you "

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

My work here is done xx"

Agreed - Silver Badgers it is.

(Close the thread).

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx"

Thought you were brave to do a part two…

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx"

What about old bald guys - not a grey or silver hair or for that matter hair, anywhere?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

Thought you were brave to do a part two…"

I wanted to see if something posted could actually stay on topic...

Typical fab the answer is no

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

What about old bald guys - not a grey or silver hair or for that matter hair, anywhere?"

Bald badgers.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

What about old bald guys - not a grey or silver hair or for that matter hair, anywhere?"

Thats too much of a mouthful...

And I very rarely say that lol x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains. "

It has a serious effect on the modern generations because they grow up having it slammed in their faces that if they aren't millionaires by 25 they're failures in life. That if they don't have a rolex, nice cars and big houses then they aren't living their best life.

The birth of social media makes young girls shame their bodies because they don't look like models that have been air brushed or had tens of thousands in plastic surgery.

I have noticed that the older generations that have taken to social media a lot have shown signs of insecurity.

The dawn of social media has caused a lot of depression and insecurity in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

Thought you were brave to do a part two…

I wanted to see if something posted could actually stay on topic...

Typical fab the answer is no "

As the Great Homer Simpson said " you tried and failed, so the lesson is..never try"

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Oh look fuck it.

You call him Decadent_Devon. That’s what you call him

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

What about old bald guys - not a grey or silver hair or for that matter hair, anywhere?

Thats too much of a mouthful...

And I very rarely say that lol x"

Not the first time a woman has said that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed. "

This is quiet an opinionated piece as you have basically just said that they are your preference haha

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

What about old bald guys - not a grey or silver hair or for that matter hair, anywhere?

Thats too much of a mouthful...

And I very rarely say that lol x

Not the first time a woman has said that to me "

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed. "

It's a lighthearted thread...or it should have been!!!!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Since this has decended into carnage as usual....

The answer is Silver Badgers.

Mt work here is done xx

Thought you were brave to do a part two…

I wanted to see if something posted could actually stay on topic...

Typical fab the answer is no

As the Great Homer Simpson said " you tried and failed, so the lesson is..never try" "

God loves a trier

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed.

It's a lighthearted thread...or it should have been!!!!! "

Yeah you lost that in the first thread OP. These things happen.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Willy wombats ...if anyone else remembers him

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think "

I thought this was a woman thing...... right .....

A man isssssssssssss zzzzzzzzz aaaaaaaa

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed.

It's a lighthearted thread...or it should have been!!!!!

Yeah you lost that in the first thread OP. These things happen. "

And it's people who answer with detail that's not needed is what changes it from fun to something else..

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think

I thought this was a woman thing...... right .....

A man isssssssssssss zzzzzzzzz aaaaaaaa"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

manther

What does manther mean? A manther is the male version of a cougar, or a middle-aged woman who has the hots for younger men. Manthers are older men who pursue partners significantly younger than them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silver badger is cringey as fuck to be blunt.

Age only becomes a thing if the two choose to make it one (obvs legal age etc). People use cougar (which is equally dire) as a way of suggesting a woman is sexually aggressive, going for her prey and against social norms. Older men aren't going against social norms (which more often than not are bollocks in terms of relationships etc) because it's expected they will be attracted to young, attractive, fertile women like myself. Ergo, no silver badger needed.

It's a lighthearted thread...or it should have been!!!!!

Yeah you lost that in the first thread OP. These things happen.

And it's people who answer with detail that's not needed is what changes it from fun to something else.. "

It's the internet. Did you really think that a contraversial thread like this wasn't going to turn into a huge debate between generations?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains.

It has a serious effect on the modern generations because they grow up having it slammed in their faces that if they aren't millionaires by 25 they're failures in life. That if they don't have a rolex, nice cars and big houses then they aren't living their best life.

The birth of social media makes young girls shame their bodies because they don't look like models that have been air brushed or had tens of thousands in plastic surgery.

I have noticed that the older generations that have taken to social media a lot have shown signs of insecurity.

The dawn of social media has caused a lot of depression and insecurity in the world. "

Rubbish. I have a very grounded beautiful size 14 24 year old who isn’t a millionaire and couldn’t give a toss about airbrushing and super models or plastic surgery.

With regards to the question, no idea but I hate any of those kind of labels, if anyone called me a cougar they’d be leaving swiftly at the next exit.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I had a meet with a sexy older woman she was 68 and I was 38 , I still dream about it now

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"manther

What does manther mean? A manther is the male version of a cougar, or a middle-aged woman who has the hots for younger men. Manthers are older men who pursue partners significantly younger than them."

It sounds an ugly word....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"manther

What does manther mean? A manther is the male version of a cougar, or a middle-aged woman who has the hots for younger men. Manthers are older men who pursue partners significantly younger than them."

Won't lie that makes them sound like sex pests haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains.

It has a serious effect on the modern generations because they grow up having it slammed in their faces that if they aren't millionaires by 25 they're failures in life. That if they don't have a rolex, nice cars and big houses then they aren't living their best life.

The birth of social media makes young girls shame their bodies because they don't look like models that have been air brushed or had tens of thousands in plastic surgery.

I have noticed that the older generations that have taken to social media a lot have shown signs of insecurity.

The dawn of social media has caused a lot of depression and insecurity in the world.

Rubbish. I have a very grounded beautiful size 14 24 year old who isn’t a millionaire and couldn’t give a toss about airbrushing and super models or plastic surgery.

With regards to the question, no idea but I hate any of those kind of labels, if anyone called me a cougar they’d be leaving swiftly at the next exit. "

Where did I say 100% of younger people?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think

I thought this was a woman thing...... right .....

A man isssssssssssss zzzzzzzzz aaaaaaaa

"

Hyena ..... Silver Hyena

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How about Silver Badgers??

Surely it's Silver Beaver!

Im having that for my next nic

Beaver more suited to the female of the species I think

I thought this was a woman thing...... right .....

A man isssssssssssss zzzzzzzzz aaaaaaaa

Hyena ..... Silver Hyena "

Liking that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today... "

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No........ Silver Bonobo ........

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha"

why do you keep going ha ha then ?

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville


"The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????"

Cougar shaggers. Plain and simple

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"No........ Silver Bonobo ........

"

This

I

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains.

It has a serious effect on the modern generations because they grow up having it slammed in their faces that if they aren't millionaires by 25 they're failures in life. That if they don't have a rolex, nice cars and big houses then they aren't living their best life.

The birth of social media makes young girls shame their bodies because they don't look like models that have been air brushed or had tens of thousands in plastic surgery.

I have noticed that the older generations that have taken to social media a lot have shown signs of insecurity.

The dawn of social media has caused a lot of depression and insecurity in the world.

Rubbish. I have a very grounded beautiful size 14 24 year old who isn’t a millionaire and couldn’t give a toss about airbrushing and super models or plastic surgery.

With regards to the question, no idea but I hate any of those kind of labels, if anyone called me a cougar they’d be leaving swiftly at the next exit.

Where did I say 100% of younger people? "

You didn’t. You said “modern generations” and young girls”. I disagree. Very much disagree!!

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A Boar

Or maybe in case of this thread…a bore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha"

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret"

I think I’m more of a naked mole-rat to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth bearing in mind that this generation have lived their entire lives on social media! And are the first generation to do so!

Thank you

My son mentions this often and how this triggered a serious bout of depression he had last year (that resulted in 2 suicide attempts). He’s doing better now but I do worry about the effect social media has on developing young brains.

It has a serious effect on the modern generations because they grow up having it slammed in their faces that if they aren't millionaires by 25 they're failures in life. That if they don't have a rolex, nice cars and big houses then they aren't living their best life.

The birth of social media makes young girls shame their bodies because they don't look like models that have been air brushed or had tens of thousands in plastic surgery.

I have noticed that the older generations that have taken to social media a lot have shown signs of insecurity.

The dawn of social media has caused a lot of depression and insecurity in the world.

Rubbish. I have a very grounded beautiful size 14 24 year old who isn’t a millionaire and couldn’t give a toss about airbrushing and super models or plastic surgery.

With regards to the question, no idea but I hate any of those kind of labels, if anyone called me a cougar they’d be leaving swiftly at the next exit.

Where did I say 100% of younger people?

You didn’t. You said “modern generations” and young girls”. I disagree. Very much disagree!!

"

Look on the internet and type in social media and insecurities. Your eyes will soon open. Suicides are linked to this too

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret"

Too many choices now...my brain is even more fried

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret

I think I’m more of a naked mole-rat to be fair. "

Awwwwwwww....... what are those baldy cats called ? Crested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Or are those the baldy dogs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret

Too many choices now...my brain is even more fried "

Silver ferret gets my vote

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums "

It always amuses me how a simple thing can escalate into something total different.... I do despair sometimes. Everyone should probably just stick to the my mate fancies you kinda thing!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Or are those the baldy dogs?"

Just because I am ahem “shaven headed” it does mean I know the name of every bald animal on the planet! That’s baldist that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter. "

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Right. I am off for a bath .....

My 'partner' of the past 12 years is here at half eight .....

I'm 66 and a half..... He's 50 and a half......

Somewhere along the lines i'm a traumatised pedophile according to comments on this thread........

Ah well such is life

What's he tho .... oh yeah ... a very handsome and generous man Wise too

Tootles.....

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums

It always amuses me how a simple thing can escalate into something total different.... I do despair sometimes. Everyone should probably just stick to the my mate fancies you kinda thing! "

Says the person who started no 2

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums "

It's the only reason why I use the forums

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums "

Is it that good. I’m gonna have to read this whole thread now! It better be worth it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Oh my f'n good God.....

I've made my mind up .......

He's a Silver Ferret

Too many choices now...my brain is even more fried

Silver ferret gets my vote "

Cheeky minky

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects. "

Get some life under your belt sweet cheeks and don't imagine for one second that engineering student beats the very many qualifications held by people on here who are't out to win something ......

You were fun from my perspective but for all the wrong reasons.

Engineer yourself a happy evening x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects. "

As an engineer I will give you one piece of advice. (If you don’t want it, bin it). If you don’t already know how to, learn to draw. Learn to communicate the most complex equation in the simplest possible form. It will stand you in good stead, in many aspects of your future.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. Try not to piss in the wind. I've gone.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe I should pick a more controversial subject, the responses might be more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I know this one, cradle snatchers why fix what isn’t broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t read the whole thread but it’s such a double standard…

Older men have dated much younger women for many generations before us and not been labelled.

Even now nobody bats an eyelid at a 50yr old guy dating a 25yr old woman… he gets high fives and good on you mate comments or no acknowledgement at all as it’s accepted.

A 50yr old woman dates a 25yr old and we are immediately labelled as cougars and a lot of the young guys are questioned as to why on earth they would fancy an old bird..

It goes back to misogyny & money… it’s status successful men can have whoever they want.. but rarely are women given the same status!

It’s all old fashioned bullshit & preconceived ideas & prejudices!

I’m older, look ok for my age enjoy the company of a good looking younger man and have no desire for a man of my age who more often than not had let himself go!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects.

Get some life under your belt sweet cheeks and don't imagine for one second that engineering student beats the very many qualifications held by people on here who are't out to win something ......

You were fun from my perspective but for all the wrong reasons.

Engineer yourself a happy evening x "

And you just come across as a strongly opinionated old fashioned thinking person that doesn't respect today's younger generation. Your comment says as much. The amount of disrespect aimed at me as a younger person. I feel like you should do some research into people 40-50 years younger than yourself.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????"

Dirty old men.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Maybe I should pick a more controversial subject, the responses might be more fun "

Go for it

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe I should pick a more controversial subject, the responses might be more fun

Go for it "

Oh now what could it be?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The first one filled up really quickly

Let's see if this one stays on topic....

So the age gap is say 20 years younger

The question is......

Women are seen as cougars

What are menn are seen as....?????

Dirty old men. "

Thanks for keeping it simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums

It always amuses me how a simple thing can escalate into something total different.... I do despair sometimes. Everyone should probably just stick to the my mate fancies you kinda thing! "

If i am honest i just cant be bothered any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects.

As an engineer I will give you one piece of advice. (If you don’t want it, bin it). If you don’t already know how to, learn to draw. Learn to communicate the most complex equation in the simplest possible form. It will stand you in good stead, in many aspects of your future. "

I know that a good engineer is great at communication. We communicate across multiple languages with maths as that is a universal language.

The issue is that people from older generations believe that the world hasn't changed as much as they expect from when they were younger. The internet wasn't even invented for most. Most had to go to college to learn how to use a computer. Now primary school kids are fluent in coding

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This went well

Which is probably why apart from PP's morning thread i no longer use the forums

It always amuses me how a simple thing can escalate into something total different.... I do despair sometimes. Everyone should probably just stick to the my mate fancies you kinda thing!

If i am honest i just cant be bothered any more "

I dont blame you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fuck am I reading? How are people arguing over this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t read the whole thread but it’s such a double standard…

Older men have dated much younger women for many generations before us and not been labelled.

Even now nobody bats an eyelid at a 50yr old guy dating a 25yr old woman… he gets high fives and good on you mate comments or no acknowledgement at all as it’s accepted.

A 50yr old woman dates a 25yr old and we are immediately labelled as cougars and a lot of the young guys are questioned as to why on earth they would fancy an old bird..

It goes back to misogyny & money… it’s status successful men can have whoever they want.. but rarely are women given the same status!

It’s all old fashioned bullshit & preconceived ideas & prejudices!

I’m older, look ok for my age enjoy the company of a good looking younger man and have no desire for a man of my age who more often than not had let himself go!."

That is where you're quiet wrong. Both genders get looked down on for different reason and a lot of younger people lose friends over it. Sometimes family. Same with older people.

It may have been like that a few years ago but more and more men are being looked down for it.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Doesn't anyone get the concept of "lighthearted" think maybe some have had too much sun today...

Lightheartedness doesn't exist on the internet haha

Mr Fun. You need to chill. Don’t assume that those older than you have no experience of younger people or social media. Many of us have just learnt not to be so opinionated. Enjoy the fora for what it is. Lighthearted banter.

I never meant to sound that way. I look at stuff from a very rational prospective from facts that I have found out over time. I may be young but I have a plethora of knowledge. I feel like some older people rely on their experience too much so it blinds their rationality. Note how I said some.

As an engineering student I feel like it allows me to see things with an open mind as I like to get as much detail as possible in subjects.

As an engineer I will give you one piece of advice. (If you don’t want it, bin it). If you don’t already know how to, learn to draw. Learn to communicate the most complex equation in the simplest possible form. It will stand you in good stead, in many aspects of your future.

I know that a good engineer is great at communication. We communicate across multiple languages with maths as that is a universal language.

The issue is that people from older generations believe that the world hasn't changed as much as they expect from when they were younger. The internet wasn't even invented for most. Most had to go to college to learn how to use a computer. Now primary school kids are fluent in coding "

The world has changed people have not. Stop being so derogatory about people’s relationships based on a social construct that suits a narrative you are happy with.

“Thinking is difficult, that’s why people judge” Carl Jung

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What the fuck am I reading? How are people arguing over this? "

I've been wondering that since the 1st thread

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I haven’t read the whole thread but it’s such a double standard…

Older men have dated much younger women for many generations before us and not been labelled.

Even now nobody bats an eyelid at a 50yr old guy dating a 25yr old woman… he gets high fives and good on you mate comments or no acknowledgement at all as it’s accepted.

A 50yr old woman dates a 25yr old and we are immediately labelled as cougars and a lot of the young guys are questioned as to why on earth they would fancy an old bird..

It goes back to misogyny & money… it’s status successful men can have whoever they want.. but rarely are women given the same status!

It’s all old fashioned bullshit & preconceived ideas & prejudices!

I’m older, look ok for my age enjoy the company of a good looking younger man and have no desire for a man of my age who more often than not had let himself go!."

Give that woman a gold star!

Spot on hun.

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