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"Shudder at the term but suger daddy " That makes me cringe a bit | |||
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"Shudder at the term but suger daddy That makes me cringe a bit " Yip me also but think that’s right terminology for it | |||
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"And at what age difference do you become a cougar (or male equivliant)??? 5, 10, 20 years age difference???" I have no idea..... | |||
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"Perv usually" Thats usually the standard answer... I just don't get the double standards  | |||
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"Depends on the age of both I guess...... " Say both the older person man and woman were the same age and the younger were the same too..... | |||
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"That's just a normal guy, right? "Not according to fab lore. They all want an older woman because "she knows what she wants and how to get it"  | |||
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"Isn't sugar daddy when the man gives the younger woman money and gifts n stuff or is that just in films? A regular guy who likes older women doesn't get nicknamed to sound predatory "I meant younger women | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! " A pervert usually | |||
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"That's just a normal guy, right?
Not according to fab lore. They all want an older woman because "she knows what she wants and how to get it" "Well .......... I learned a new word this week ..... maybe last week. | |||
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"Isn't sugar daddy when the man gives the younger woman money and gifts n stuff or is that just in films? A regular guy who likes older women doesn't get nicknamed to sound predatory
I meant younger women "Yes your right but it’s the only terminology I could find on it so had to run with it the terms dose make me shudder | |||
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"Depends on the age of both I guess...... Say both the older person man and woman were the same age and the younger were the same too....." Honest to God sparkle ... try as I might I cannot understand how the younger people are the same age as the older people ....... | |||
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"Shudder at the term but suger daddy " I thought sugar daddy also bank-rolled the younger lady. I think it is one of those situations where men get applauded and females called names | |||
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"Isn't sugar daddy when the man gives the younger woman money and gifts n stuff or is that just in films? A regular guy who likes older women doesn't get nicknamed to sound predatory "Not just films it's very real, I have a friend who got her new washing machine going on a Sugar Daddy site. Didn't even have to have sex | |||
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"I suppose its like the saying if a young guy sleeps around he's seen as a stud but if a young woman does it she is seen as a tart.... The mind boggles " I see it from both ways. If a guy of a girl (cause they are for sure not a woman) is into someone 10-20 years older than themselves then they have obviously had some trauma in their lives which either makes them crave mummy or daddy's attention so they go for men and women that fit the category that they fit in. That is my personal opinion anyway based on the experience I have observed. Never understood the whole 20 year old getting in a relationship with a 40 year old. Just makes me cringe really. Makes them look predatory in my opinion. Both men and women. | |||
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"According to Google it’s a “manther” (presumably ’man panther’) According to the urban dictionary it’s a “Rhino” *both being equally ridiculous " Thought everyone knew it was an armadillo | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life " Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. | |||
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"Depends on the age of both I guess...... Say both the older person man and woman were the same age and the younger were the same too..... Honest to God sparkle ... try as I might I cannot understand how the younger people are the same age as the older people ....... "Lol... older ones are say 50 Younger ones say 30 | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman." Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman." You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. | |||
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"I suppose its like the saying if a young guy sleeps around he's seen as a stud but if a young woman does it she is seen as a tart.... The mind boggles I see it from both ways. If a guy of a girl (cause they are for sure not a woman) is into someone 10-20 years older than themselves then they have obviously had some trauma in their lives which either makes them crave mummy or daddy's attention so they go for men and women that fit the category that they fit in. That is my personal opinion anyway based on the experience I have observed. Never understood the whole 20 year old getting in a relationship with a 40 year old. Just makes me cringe really. Makes them look predatory in my opinion. Both men and women. " Really ? What about a 30 year old and a 50 year old Or a 40 with a 60 or a 50 with a 70..... Do you feel the same ? | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! " Agent Coulson, as most are younger than me  | |||
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"Depends on the age of both I guess...... Say both the older person man and woman were the same age and the younger were the same too..... Honest to God sparkle ... try as I might I cannot understand how the younger people are the same age as the older people .......
Lol... older ones are say 50
Younger ones say 30"Nah. Younger anyone that is 10-20 years younger than the other. That 40 year old with the 60 year old was 20 at one time | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! " I bet not many older guys can pull a young bird ….. | |||
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"I suppose its like the saying if a young guy sleeps around he's seen as a stud but if a young woman does it she is seen as a tart.... The mind boggles I see it from both ways. If a guy of a girl (cause they are for sure not a woman) is into someone 10-20 years older than themselves then they have obviously had some trauma in their lives which either makes them crave mummy or daddy's attention so they go for men and women that fit the category that they fit in. That is my personal opinion anyway based on the experience I have observed. Never understood the whole 20 year old getting in a relationship with a 40 year old. Just makes me cringe really. Makes them look predatory in my opinion. Both men and women. Really ? What about a 30 year old and a 50 year old Or a 40 with a 60 or a 50 with a 70..... Do you feel the same ?" Yes 100% because that guy or girl was 20 at one time or another | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. " You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! | |||
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"I suppose its like the saying if a young guy sleeps around he's seen as a stud but if a young woman does it she is seen as a tart.... The mind boggles I see it from both ways. If a guy of a girl (cause they are for sure not a woman) is into someone 10-20 years older than themselves then they have obviously had some trauma in their lives which either makes them crave mummy or daddy's attention so they go for men and women that fit the category that they fit in. That is my personal opinion anyway based on the experience I have observed. Never understood the whole 20 year old getting in a relationship with a 40 year old. Just makes me cringe really. Makes them look predatory in my opinion. Both men and women. Really ? What about a 30 year old and a 50 year old Or a 40 with a 60 or a 50 with a 70..... Do you feel the same ? Yes 100% because that guy or girl was 20 at one time or another" Not if they met when the youngest was 30 or 40 or 50 | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas!" Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet | |||
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"According to Google it’s a “manther” (presumably ’man panther’) According to the urban dictionary it’s a “Rhino” *both being equally ridiculous Thought everyone knew it was an armadillo" I'm using that from now on... They are armadillos | |||
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"I suppose its like the saying if a young guy sleeps around he's seen as a stud but if a young woman does it she is seen as a tart.... The mind boggles I see it from both ways. If a guy of a girl (cause they are for sure not a woman) is into someone 10-20 years older than themselves then they have obviously had some trauma in their lives which either makes them crave mummy or daddy's attention so they go for men and women that fit the category that they fit in. That is my personal opinion anyway based on the experience I have observed. Never understood the whole 20 year old getting in a relationship with a 40 year old. Just makes me cringe really. Makes them look predatory in my opinion. Both men and women. Really ? What about a 30 year old and a 50 year old Or a 40 with a 60 or a 50 with a 70..... Do you feel the same ? Yes 100% because that guy or girl was 20 at one time or another Not if they met when the youngest was 30 or 40 or 50 " You're missing the point. If there is a gap of 10-20 years no matter the age then it is all the same | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort" Well there's no problem then is there. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. " Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet " Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet " Won't lie either. Take that happy fanny and jiggly giggly tits n ass away and he wouldn't part with a penny .... What is it you don't like about the situation ..... sounds just dandy to me . Each getting what they want. | |||
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"Sparkles I must say sorry looks like my googleing has opened a can off worms so saying sorry in atvange " Lol these things never stay on topic, I love seeing everyone's responses | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. " Or make sure Tiny Tim has shoes for Christmas !!! | |||
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"If he is a good looking, sharp dressing older guy, a silver fox If he is an out of shape, run of the mill, older guy, a perve" Correct again Bussy ! | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... I recently turned down the advances of a 19 year old woman. Almost young enough to be my neice What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! I bet not many older guys can pull a young bird ….." | |||
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" I bet not many older guys can pull a young bird ….." Some just don't need the drama | |||
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"A disgusting pervert " Thanks  | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she " Do you know her ? | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. " Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Won't lie either. Take that happy fanny and jiggly giggly tits n ass away and he wouldn't part with a penny .... What is it you don't like about the situation ..... sounds just dandy to me . Each getting what they want." You'd be surprised. Because some don't even have sex with their sugar daddies. Just send them videos and pictures | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she " I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities" This post is nothing to do with people taking advantage or whatever It was a simple question meant in jest | |||
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"Sparkles I must say sorry looks like my googleing has opened a can off worms so saying sorry in atvange Lol these things never stay on topic, I love seeing everyone's responses "Thanks I just seen the topic and hit goggle and first thing that came up | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities" Interesting | |||
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"Depends on the ages of those in question really. At 53 and I fancy someone 10 years younger for instance, is that seen as wrong? " I'm taking say a 20 year age gap | |||
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"To keep it on topic.... Say a 20 year age gap between the older men/women and the younger men/women" I had a 5 year relationship with someone 20 years younger than me | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she Do you know her ? " Well why else would you be into someone that is your parents age? Some studies have shown (don't act me to name them cause it was years ago) that people with childhood trauma are more susceptible to being attracted to older people. Especially if they were abused by their parents | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Won't lie either. Take that happy fanny and jiggly giggly tits n ass away and he wouldn't part with a penny .... What is it you don't like about the situation ..... sounds just dandy to me . Each getting what they want. You'd be surprised. Because some don't even have sex with their sugar daddies. Just send them videos and pictures " I wouldn't be surprised. They are adults. They know the score. They pay for what they get They give what they are paid for. Incidentally , it is possible to love and like your sugar daddy or your sugar mummy for that matter. Seems a very simplistic outlook to think that each of these relationships involves one short changing the other | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love." Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities Interesting" How so? | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she Do you know her ? Well why else would you be into someone that is your parents age? Some studies have shown (don't act me to name them cause it was years ago) that people with childhood trauma are more susceptible to being attracted to older people. Especially if they were abused by their parents " Does it dawn on you at all that someone of 47 and someone of 67 have both been adults for some considerable time and that individuals age / mature at different rates ? | |||
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"Well this escalated quickly..... "I know ! Look what you gone dun woman ! | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities Interesting How so?" That you think men in age gap relationships are desperate old fools. Desperation and foolishness is not the sole preserve of old men I've found. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Won't lie either. Take that happy fanny and jiggly giggly tits n ass away and he wouldn't part with a penny .... What is it you don't like about the situation ..... sounds just dandy to me . Each getting what they want. You'd be surprised. Because some don't even have sex with their sugar daddies. Just send them videos and pictures I wouldn't be surprised. They are adults. They know the score. They pay for what they get They give what they are paid for. Incidentally , it is possible to love and like your sugar daddy or your sugar mummy for that matter. Seems a very simplistic outlook to think that each of these relationships involves one short changing the other " With sugar mummy/daddy relationships the main attraction is their credit card and the things that come with it. The luxury lifestyle is what they are in love with not the person as most sugar babies actually cheat like mad | |||
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"A disgusting pervert " That is not a nice comment. Alot of older men fall in love with younger females. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma" Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she Do you know her ? Well why else would you be into someone that is your parents age? Some studies have shown (don't act me to name them cause it was years ago) that people with childhood trauma are more susceptible to being attracted to older people. Especially if they were abused by their parents Does it dawn on you at all that someone of 47 and someone of 67 have both been adults for some considerable time and that individuals age / mature at different rates ? " So now you're saying that 47 year old is actually 67 mentally? | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the youth away and that guy won't go near that woman. Exactly my point haha. But it is pretty funny how it is young girls taking advantage of older men but not younger guys taking advantage of older women. The women actually have a brain. The men are just desperate old fools that think they're special because they have money. Makes me laugh when I see it with celebrities Interesting How so? That you think men in age gap relationships are desperate old fools. Desperation and foolishness is not the sole preserve of old men I've found." Precisely ........ ( is it okay to laugh ? ) | |||
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"SO Have we decided what an older gentleman is called who likes women say 20 years older than him???????" Sorry meant YOUNGER than him | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. I am the last thing from opiniated bias. I see things with open eyes not behind opinions. The way I see it... Let them do what they like but when they crash and burn that's on them. An age gap relationship never works long term cause when the erectile dysfunction starts to come in the you girl will run faster than anything as she has needs he can't provide. Yes there is Viagra but that takes away from the spontaneity. Why do you think so may middle aged are on here cheating?haha" When do you think ed kicks in and do you know that not every man gets it? | |||
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"SO Have we decided what an older gentleman is called who likes women say 20 years older than him??????? He's just a man and she's just a woman (shrugging emoji)" That's why I love you. | |||
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"SO Have we decided what an older gentleman is called who likes women say 20 years older than him???????" Don't think there is one specific word. I've heard dilf as in how older women are often called milfs. But apart from that you fall into the rabbit hole this thread has become as people don't happen to know what certain dynamics are | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. You’re not allowed to say that. You can say “the woman in this kind of relationship is powerful and focussed and the man is a sad old girl”. You are right! Or I can say it's a man choosing to spend his money on a woman AND the woman choosing to accept the gifts..... Right on sistas! Won't lie. Take that money away and that girl wouldn't go near that guy if he was the last guy on the planet Take the good looks away. Take the buff body away….you do realise that the accumulation of wealth can prove that someone is a good person to be around, that they work hard, maybe ambitious and successful, take opportunities. Even brave. A lot of people would find those rather attractive qualities in a person….. That is maybe 1% of sugar babies maybe 5% at a push. Be realistic and look at the world with open eyes Green ones? What happened? You fall into that category of the older guy so make humour to glance over what I've said as it hurt your feelings? Haha" Erm no… but because you were making sweeping generalisations and had discerned everyone’s motives by their behaviour I thought I would do the same. | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. I am the last thing from opiniated bias. I see things with open eyes not behind opinions. The way I see it... Let them do what they like but when they crash and burn that's on them. An age gap relationship never works long term cause when the erectile dysfunction starts to come in the you girl will run faster than anything as she has needs he can't provide. Yes there is Viagra but that takes away from the spontaneity. Why do you think so may middle aged are on here cheating?haha When do you think ed kicks in and do you know that not every man gets it? " Yes I do. But that is quiet a small percentage of men from what I've seen | |||
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"Depends on the ages of those in question really. At 53 and I fancy someone 10 years younger for instance, is that seen as wrong? I'm taking say a 20 year age gap Even at a 20 year age gap for someone of my age to me it doesn’t warrant being called a pervert or similar (not saying anyone has) but I could see that eyebrows would be raised. " Thats my curiosity...a woman is seen as a cougar but a man is seen as a perv!!! | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. I am the last thing from opiniated bias. I see things with open eyes not behind opinions. The way I see it... Let them do what they like but when they crash and burn that's on them. An age gap relationship never works long term cause when the erectile dysfunction starts to come in the you girl will run faster than anything as she has needs he can't provide. Yes there is Viagra but that takes away from the spontaneity. Why do you think so may middle aged are on here cheating?haha When do you think ed kicks in and do you know that not every man gets it? Yes I do. But that is quiet a small percentage of men from what I've seen " I've read a fair bit of research recently that suggests ed is on the rise in young men due to excessive use of porn. They find it difficult to become aroused with a "normal" woman who doesn't react like a porn star | |||
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"Depends on the ages of those in question really. At 53 and I fancy someone 10 years younger for instance, is that seen as wrong? I'm taking say a 20 year age gap Even at a 20 year age gap for someone of my age to me it doesn’t warrant being called a pervert or similar (not saying anyone has) but I could see that eyebrows would be raised. Thats my curiosity...a woman is seen as a cougar but a man is seen as a perv!!! " To me it kinda goes both ways. I am not attracted to women my mum's age. At most at 26 I would go for 21. Definitely wouldn't date older than me | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. I am the last thing from opiniated bias. I see things with open eyes not behind opinions. The way I see it... Let them do what they like but when they crash and burn that's on them. An age gap relationship never works long term cause when the erectile dysfunction starts to come in the you girl will run faster than anything as she has needs he can't provide. Yes there is Viagra but that takes away from the spontaneity. Why do you think so may middle aged are on here cheating?haha When do you think ed kicks in and do you know that not every man gets it? Yes I do. But that is quiet a small percentage of men from what I've seen I've read a fair bit of research recently that suggests ed is on the rise in young men due to excessive use of porn. They find it difficult to become aroused with a "normal" woman who doesn't react like a porn star " As a younger guy that has a lot of young mates I can tell you that isn't a common thing. That is aimed at people who have porn addiction and unrealistic expectations. | |||
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"SO Have we decided what an older gentleman is called who likes women say 20 years older than him??????? My friend was married to a man 25 years older than her, I won't tell you his real name but let's say it was Fred. When she was 45 he left her for a 22 year old. Yeah he was tired of the wrinkles and wanted what he had when he met her. Pretty common No. He wanted to spend his last year's travelling and experiencing new things. His wife didn't want to but the younger woman did Course she did. She just wanted the money haha. They probably had sex maybe once a month haha" Well you'd know | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! " I definitely saw it coming as people would for sure bring dynamics into the equation. I'm surprised people didn't bring BDSM relationships into it. The ddlg kind of relationship | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? " Toyboy makes me cringe too | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! I definitely saw it coming as people would for sure bring dynamics into the equation. I'm surprised people didn't bring BDSM relationships into it. The ddlg kind of relationship" Too be fair you haven't helped. What you've been talking about really went off topic | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! " Hence the reason I sed sorry I seen whare it was heading me and my big google mouth I once agein need to say sorry wasn’t my intention to open it Just didn’t know and googled older guys who date younger woman and that was the first term that came up | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? Toyboy makes me cringe too "Oh I don’t want one and don’t use the term but was just wondering... | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? Toyboy makes me cringe too "Me too. Why can't it just be people getting together for mutual benefit? | |||
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"SO Have we decided what an older gentleman is called who likes women say 20 years older than him??????? My friend was married to a man 25 years older than her, I won't tell you his real name but let's say it was Fred. When she was 45 he left her for a 22 year old. Yeah he was tired of the wrinkles and wanted what he had when he met her. Pretty common No. He wanted to spend his last year's travelling and experiencing new things. His wife didn't want to but the younger woman did Course she did. She just wanted the money haha. They probably had sex maybe once a month haha Well you'd know" Yeah I would as I have talked to a lot of women 18-30 that have told me as much. Some have said they would be discusted as they're their dad's age. Some have said they would take the money because he's offering and others have said they'd just play house till he dies and take the payout | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? " I'd say 10 years plus | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! I definitely saw it coming as people would for sure bring dynamics into the equation. I'm surprised people didn't bring BDSM relationships into it. The ddlg kind of relationship Too be fair you haven't helped. What you've been talking about really went off topic" I just explained what the dynamics that have been mentioned were really. Wasn't my fault peoples opinions got hurt | |||
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"Why even label it with a name, just go with the flow no matter the age. If the attraction and connection is there that’s all the matters (obviously some people label things as a kink, either way make your boundaries known and go with the flow) " Labels shouldn't exist but they do sadly | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? I'd say 10 years plus " Thank you | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! I definitely saw it coming as people would for sure bring dynamics into the equation. I'm surprised people didn't bring BDSM relationships into it. The ddlg kind of relationship Too be fair you haven't helped. What you've been talking about really went off topic I just explained what the dynamics that have been mentioned were really. Wasn't my fault peoples opinions got hurt " The question was nothing to do with "dynamics" | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? " this lady here is a perfect example of why a 30 year old would be interested in an older woman have you seen that body if everyone was being truthful there are a lot of older women the younger men wouldn't say no to and same goes for the other way round age is but a number not everyone looks there age | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? this lady here is a perfect example of why a 30 year old would be interested in an older woman have you seen that body if everyone was being truthful there are a lot of older women the younger men wouldn't say no to and same goes for the other way round age is but a number not everyone looks there age "For some though age is more than just a number. I know I couldn't have sex with someone who was 20 years younger than me. | |||
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"Having thought about your question OP I think Honey Badger covers all bases " So Honey Badger or Armadillo ...ohhh decisions decisions | |||
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"Depends on the ages of those in question really. At 53 and I fancy someone 10 years younger for instance, is that seen as wrong? I'm taking say a 20 year age gap Even at a 20 year age gap for someone of my age to me it doesn’t warrant being called a pervert or similar (not saying anyone has) but I could see that eyebrows would be raised. Thats my curiosity...a woman is seen as a cougar but a man is seenas a perv!!! " Wel if two adults over the age of 30 can’t have an attraction and a bit of fun without being called names then the world is more fucked up than I thought. | |||
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"This had turned into a massive can of worms....who knew!!!! I definitely saw it coming as people would for sure bring dynamics into the equation. I'm surprised people didn't bring BDSM relationships into it. The ddlg kind of relationship Too be fair you haven't helped. What you've been talking about really went off topic I just explained what the dynamics that have been mentioned were really. Wasn't my fault peoples opinions got hurt The question was nothing to do with "dynamics" " Yes I know. But they got brought into it. I answered your question just joined in the debate about the dynamics. Quiet a contraversial (I'm an engineering don't spell check me haha) topic you chose | |||
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"Why even label it with a name, just go with the flow no matter the age. If the attraction and connection is there that’s all the matters (obviously some people label things as a kink, either way make your boundaries known and go with the flow) Labels shouldn't exist but they do sadly " Yes they certainly do | |||
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For some though age is more than just a number. I know I couldn't have sex with someone who was 20 years younger than me."That's the interesting thing because when I was say 40 neither could I, but now I probably could have sex with a 44 year old. Obviously they'd need to want to have sex with me too | |||
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"Having thought about your question OP I think Honey Badger covers all bases So Honey Badger or Armadillo ...ohhh decisions decisions " Ones hard on the outside soft in the middle and the other is the opposite of this. Remember you are deciding for the world! Choose wisely | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? this lady here is a perfect example of why a 30 year old would be interested in an older woman have you seen that body if everyone was being truthful there are a lot of older women the younger men wouldn't say no to and same goes for the other way round age is but a number not everyone looks there age
For some though age is more than just a number. I know I couldn't have sex with someone who was 20 years younger than me."Ta Pru. I couldn’t go younger than 12. It just seems wrong... to me. Couldn’t give a damn what others do as long as they’re all consenting adults | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? this lady here is a perfect example of why a 30 year old would be interested in an older woman have you seen that body if everyone was being truthful there are a lot of older women the younger men wouldn't say no to and same goes for the other way round age is but a number not everyone looks there age
For some though age is more than just a number. I know I couldn't have sex with someone who was 20 years younger than me."I stick to people around my own age but there are still many that prefer older or younger and if you took everyone's age out of there profile then there are many that would pass for a lot younger thats all I was trying to say | |||
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"So how many years younger does a guy have to be to be called a ‘toyboy’? I would have thought 15? this lady here is a perfect example of why a 30 year old would be interested in an older woman have you seen that body if everyone was being truthful there are a lot of older women the younger men wouldn't say no to and same goes for the other way round age is but a number not everyone looks there age "Well.. if I saw her out in public I would think that she was a lot younger so would assume she wasn't as old as she actually is. But it's still something I wouldn't approach as a relationship dynamic | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! " A pervert usually! | |||
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"Having thought about your question OP I think Honey Badger covers all bases So Honey Badger or Armadillo ...ohhh decisions decisions Ones hard on the outside soft in the middle and the other is the opposite of this. Remember you are deciding for the world! Choose wisely " This is what you call major pressure | |||
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"Also a sugar daddy is something completely different. That is basically a girl choosing to escort herself for a free life Or basically a man choosing to spend his money on a woman. Same difference really. That girl is still choosing to essentially be an escort Well there's no problem then is there. Never said there was. But calling it a relationship is a lie cause when the money dries up so does she I think you are confusing 'relationship' and penniless 'love' ...... Like as if two poor people stay together they must TRULY be in love. Well yes but as I have just posted that younger person has probably had some kind of child hood trauma Yes you did. You did say that ..... probably is some kind of massive word and so is the assumption that eveyone in a relationship that doesn't conform to your age gap norm is traumatised. I am the last thing from opiniated bias. I see things with open eyes not behind opinions. The way I see it... Let them do what they like but when they crash and burn that's on them. An age gap relationship never works long term cause when the erectile dysfunction starts to come in the you girl will run faster than anything as she has needs he can't provide. Yes there is Viagra but that takes away from the spontaneity. Why do you think so may middle aged are on here cheating?haha" “Oh to be young again with so much knowledge on the future exploits of others. erectile dysfunction can happen for other reasons than age your profile is so contradictory to your statements here. with “My age is completely open because in this scenario I don't care about age as it is not about sex” of course it is not that’s why nearly yes nearly everyone joined the site for sex so the fact is Sex with whoever the the other person chooses is nothing to do with anyone else providing they are consenting adults. I have had sex with a lot younger and very older females with no regrets. This is about fun why spoil | |||
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"Who likes younger guys is sometimes referred to as a cougar.... What's an older guy called if he likes younger women??? Just curious! " If he's successful.... Rich. | |||
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