FabSwingers.com forum: How approachable are you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will chat to anybody and quite often do a lot in line of work and also when on holiday are the same

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Very approachable, but I don't suffer fools gladly

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will chat to anybody and quite often do a lot in line of work and also when on holiday are the same

It's nice to be nice. I'll chat to anyone any time.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I will chat to anybody and quite often do a lot in line of work and also when on holiday are the same

Always welcome anyone to come say hi. Maybe not when I’m with my kids though haha

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

I'll talk to anyone really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on fab experience not very.

I seem to scare people away

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll talk to most people if they approach me but I'm not one to start a random conversation with a stranger. I have done but it depends on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chattings always good in my eyes. So I'd say quite approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too approachable sometimes

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm the lunatic who starts a conversation with everyone up the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if your whiping your cock out while saying hello then not really

But if your just saying hello and stuff then very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love shooting the breeze and just chatting shit to random people.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm a little more reserved. I'm friendly and will generally speak to anyone such as striking up a conversation at the bus stop or in a queue for something. However, quite often, men have approached me in the supermarket or somewhere and what started out friendly on their part, very quickly turned creepy.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Very. I seem to have resting friendly face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m pretty approachable, I’ll happily talk to anyone.

Though I have what’s commonly known as resting bitch face so people seem to think I’m annoyed/angry and leave me alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, although my profile is and needs to be direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have a rather distant demeanour. Once someone engages with me, they find me friendly and chatty, usually.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Probably too approachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very approachable, in fact I’ve made it my mission in my work life to make IT departments more approachable. As an IT manager I recognise the toxic elitism that goes on and I want that to change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always told I have a kind face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm approachable, but I don't always want to talk either. As an introvert, I need my alone time occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very approachable. Can talk the hind legs off a donkey too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very approachable especially the ones that tell you there life stories are always the best

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

My dislike of small talk means I usually avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look like a Rottweiler but I’m really just a chilled out Fox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I’m not remotely approachable in person. I hear that often

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Depends on my mood - in extrovert mood extremely approachable.

When I am on an introvert day, I want to be left alone and not engage in dribble

- think it might actually show!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

20 years in bars and my face naturally sits in the ‘don’t come close’ position. Sadly that seems invisible to the proper weirdos who see it as some sort of challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say very considering how many people approach and start a conversation with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but I'm an anti social moo so I just avoid people in general, it helps along with resting bitch face.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Just green arrow the person you will soon find out how approachable they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m approachable and polite, friendly and chatty, but I’m guarded to a degree, work makes slightly guarded x

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I’d like to think I’m approachable. Put it to the test! Reach out if you need a chat or just a hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very. I’m extremely shy and struggle with chit chat, small talk.

I’ll speak if I’m spoken to and I’ll help someone if I can (getting beans off a top shelf or something) but I have been told I appear stand offish.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Dunno,it's such a long time since strangers have been allowed within two metres of me that I've forgotten.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

As a guy, not very approachable to be honest unless we have some common interest.

In girl mode a lot more approachable, if I think your motives are sound and not being overtly sexual or treating me a bit creepily.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I admit I can be frosty if approached by a stranger.

If it's an arranged meeting, totally opposite.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very, I’m nice but extremely shy with new people!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Very x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

Very....unless I don't like you, and then I'm frostier than a penguin in a snowstorm!

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think I have an approachable nature in general so random chats naturally happen. Some of the best chats are spur of the moment with random strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think very...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am extremely unapproachable. Have awful resting bitch face.

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

I'm very approachable and polite.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

In the real world, very. I'll talk to anyone and everyone

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time

Not approachable at all. (grrrrrrr)

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

In real life, I'll chat to anyone. I can be best friends with someone after a 20 minute train ride!

On here, still pretty chatty but only to "nice" people.

("nice" can't be easily defined. Depends how I feel) x

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We decided, on holiday, a swingers holiday, to say hello to the first couple or single guy who was sitting at the bar when we first walked in.

Just a simple, hello how are you.

Guess what happened.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In real life, I'll chat to anyone. I can be best friends with someone after a 20 minute train ride!

On here, still pretty chatty but only to "nice" people.

("nice" can't be easily defined. Depends how I feel) x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very. I’m extremely shy and struggle with chit chat, small talk.

I’ll speak if I’m spoken to and I’ll help someone if I can (getting beans off a top shelf or something) but I have been told I appear stand offish.

I don't like small talk either. There's only so much I take about talking about the weather & keeping a conversation at that (low) level going. I understand why small talk exists; it's generally to indicate that you are a normal person & don't present a danger to a new person that doesn't know you properly yet.

To overcome this, I tend to say hello to people's dogs and pet them if the owner gives me permission. That shows them that I'm not a complete psychopath.

-I also just love dogs.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Very, I'll talk to anyone

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Very approachable - happy to chat with anyone about any thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very, I'll talk to anyone "

Apparently so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very chatty and can talk to almost anyone.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm very approachable, and will happily chat to people if spoken to.

Working in hospitality for so many years you have to be, no matter what.shit you are personally dealing with.

You wear so many different hats behind a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m often called ‘aloof’ which I think is a French word for ‘very approachable’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and company, I’d like to think I was approachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite my internal protestations I am actually quite lovely to approach and talk too. I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very approcable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opinions are divided. I think I'm reasonably approachable, but it seems I'm in the minority based on how rarely I get approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the situation and company, I’d like to think I was approachable

You’re very chatty I think you are

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Smiling at everyone tends to make you approachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smiling at everyone tends to make you approachable

I think I look either slightly deranged or horribly fake when I make myself smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, although sometimes im a man of very few words

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Depends who you ask x

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

"Very, I'll talk to anyone

Apparently so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very, I'll talk to anyone "

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'll talk to anyone (mostly). I love random conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many have tried and many have failed at starting random conversations with me.

Especially annoying are those that try one on in shopping queues and out walking the dogs.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

I'm the most approachable person I know.

I'll happily chat to most people.

There's 2 things i really don't like - intolerance and the dutch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the most approachable person I know.

I'll happily chat to most people.

There's 2 things i really don't like - intolerance and the dutch.

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random why not the Dutch

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting

Anyone is more than welcome to come up to me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"I'm the most approachable person I know.

I'll happily chat to most people.

There's 2 things i really don't like - intolerance and the dutch.

random why not the Dutch

It's line from a film ('Naked Gun' i think).

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m approachable, unless it’s down a dark alley at night

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"I’m approachable, unless it’s down a dark alley at night

May i be your chaperone next time you want to walk down a dark alley?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I’m approachable, unless it’s down a dark alley at night

May i be your chaperone next time you want to walk down a dark alley?

You are a gentleman

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"I’m approachable, unless it’s down a dark alley at night

May i be your chaperone next time you want to walk down a dark alley?

You are a gentleman

And you, my dear lady, are most welcome. (Tips hate towards the lady).

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"I'll talk to anyone (mostly). I love random conversations. "

Ahh, perhaps I should add that I would talk to anyone if I didn't have my filters set up to my armpits on here....

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're extremely approachable. Our unusual outfits may put some people off, but to others they're a sign of how friendly & welcoming we are.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

"We're extremely approachable. Our unusual outfits may put some people off, but to others they're a sign of how friendly & welcoming we are. "

Got to love a bit of dressing up.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Overly approachable, tend to talk too much, and to overshare

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Probably not that approachable lol I don't think.

People seem to be scared to talk to me, must be the vibe I give off

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