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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've been going through my winks this morning, checking profiles and either winking back or deleting.

But I have noticed how harsh I am - text speak but hot pics and suitable description? Delete. Great description and profile but only cock shots? Delete. Great pics and profile but got the longest version of the warning message? Delete.

What puts you off when they really should fit your preferences?

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

don't get any, not even a blink, never mind a wink

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I can't wink at you

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I always have a nosy but rarely respond to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont even open winks, we have 209 so far aiming for 1000

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"We dont even open winks, we have 209 so far aiming for 1000 "

Lol

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Get a wink if i like wink back then never hear from them whats the point of the wink

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Nowt really puts me off apart from if the woman is not to my taste in the looks department it's prob like when women look at me I might not be there taste in any department lol

But I like to at least talk to people would never ignore a message cz I like the social side n flirting just as much as the sex if that makes sense

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What puts you off when they really should fit your preferences? "

50 different close up cock pics with nothing else

Cock pic over the toilet with their trousers round their ankles

bareback pics (on singles profiles) especially when it's obviously with many different people (singles and cpls profiles)

When they boast about how great they are in bed

Think I'll leave it there

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )"

how do you miss spell a "wink"? Did it say "wank"?

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )"

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol "

Here?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol "

Oh dear! nothing like putting someone on the spot! if she does'nt want to tell you why she does'nt have to,no-one has to respond to any messages

If she does tell you then you may wish you'd never asked her to in a public forum and to be hinest I think its a bit cheky of you to bring it up like that

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ut oh hold on tight

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol

God chill ya beans it was a perfectly normal question in a normal way

Some people are way too serious on this site are we not all here for fun???

Relax you'll live longer

Oh dear! nothing like putting someone on the spot! if she does'nt want to tell you why she does'nt have to,no-one has to respond to any messages

If she does tell you then you may wish you'd never asked her to in a public forum and to be hinest I think its a bit cheky of you to bring it up like that"

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol

God chill ya beans it was a perfectly normal question in a normal way

Some people are way too serious on this site are we not all here for fun???

Relax you'll live longer

Oh dear! nothing like putting someone on the spot! if she does'nt want to tell you why she does'nt have to,no-one has to respond to any messages

If she does tell you then you may wish you'd never asked her to in a public forum and to be hinest I think its a bit cheky of you to bring it up like that"

im chilled but still stand by what I said as I know what my response would be like

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol "

Your answer is in the first line of the lady's profile

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol

God chill ya beans it was a perfectly normal question in a normal way

Some people are way too serious on this site are we not all here for fun???

Relax you'll live longer

Oh dear! nothing like putting someone on the spot! if she does'nt want to tell you why she does'nt have to,no-one has to respond to any messages

If she does tell you then you may wish you'd never asked her to in a public forum and to be hinest I think its a bit cheky of you to bring it up like that

im chilled but still stand by what I said as I know what my response would be like"

Good for you n yeh that's fine n personally if it was a bad reply was she was going to say then I'm thick skinned enough to handle that to be honest I've not been on here long but from what I've seen there's a lot of people on here that take things way too seriously n life's too short for that

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By *evilish_intentionsMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

'Wether' doesn't look quite right to me mate, so it could be just that :p ...didn't read any further though

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Oh and one was perfect for me on paper but had two glaring spelling mistakes!

(I know, I'm a sad, sad bunny )

Lol actually I once sent you a message but dnt hear anything lol so can you tell me why while we're on the subject please lol

Your answer is in the first line of the lady's profile "

Lmfao touché that man

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I also say on my profile that I reply to everything - this one obviously slipped through the cracks.

You don't meet my preferences honey. Thanks for your message, but I only make (rare) exceptions to them for those I may meet in a club and be swept off my feet by or those who are close enough to persuade me that a quick coffee won't waste anyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like winks, but if they are from someone who we wouldnt meet then we dont reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been going through my winks this morning, checking profiles and either winking back or deleting.

But I have noticed how harsh I am - text speak but hot pics and suitable description? Delete. Great description and profile but only cock shots? Delete. Great pics and profile but got the longest version of the warning message? Delete.

What puts you off when they really should fit your preferences? "

Quite a few things really, but the two main killers for me are :

- asking what i'm into, what would we do if we met, or what am i looking for (as an opening message)

- the style of verification they write. if they are too candid or sexual, I find it a massive turn off

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I also say on my profile that I reply to everything - this one obviously slipped through the cracks.

You don't meet my preferences honey. Thanks for your message, but I only make (rare) exceptions to them for those I may meet in a club and be swept off my feet by or those who are close enough to persuade me that a quick coffee won't waste anyone's time."

That's perfectly fine thank you hope you have lots of fun on here anyway n stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had this problem with contact mags ie. pre internet era,i bought one once looked in it and threw it straight in the bin,next to no pics or if there was it could of been of a gorilla, hardly any info and the chances were they sold themselves too it was that seedy. This site is too good for ing out people you don't click with and will never see hence people get dissapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just our personal preferences.

S gets put off by poor spelling.

I really don't like the aggressive ones. Lots of capital letters, we don't do this, we don't do that, we will block you for this ect ect.

Lots of cock shots.

Fanny's coverd in jizz.

I'm sure we're missing out on some nice people but we seem to have done fine so far.

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Quick question: how can the same person wink at me twice in one day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been going through my winks this morning, checking profiles and either winking back or deleting.

But I have noticed how harsh I am - text speak but hot pics and suitable description? Delete. Great description and profile but only cock shots? Delete. Great pics and profile but got the longest version of the warning message? Delete.

What puts you off when they really should fit your preferences? "

what puts me off is simple - when you know the person has NOT read your profile proparly and yet still asks the silly questions lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If you only get a tiny wink is that classed as a winkle ?

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If you only get a tiny wink is that classed as a winkle ?"

Now he tells me!

No wonder Colin is so much more successful

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Time to wink a certain person and see how she react

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


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If you only get a tiny wink is that classed as a winkle ?

Now he tells me!

No wonder Colin is so much more successful "

From one so particular in their language skills , I find it shocking that you didn't pick up on the subtle difference between get and got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"

If you only get a tiny wink is that classed as a winkle ?

Now he tells me!

From one so particular in their language skills , I find it shocking that you didn't pick up on the subtle difference between get and got "

It's get and have honey...

And since I'm generally on the receiving end of winks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question: how can the same person wink at me twice in one day? "
they have two eyes !

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

If you only get a tiny wink is that classed as a winkle ?

Now he tells me!

From one so particular in their language skills , I find it shocking that you didn't pick up on the subtle difference between get and got

It's get and have honey...

And since I'm generally on the receiving end of winks..."

Grrr I told you, you would give me a complex

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You do make it deliciously easy!

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Time to wink a certain person and see how she react"

How was it for you?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Quick question: how can the same person wink at me twice in one day? "

I thought they could do that only if you had already deleted the first wink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I wink myself lol

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Quick question: how can the same person wink at me twice in one day?

I thought they could do that only if you had already deleted the first wink...."

I did. But if I try to wink I sometimes get a message saying that I have already winked at them less than a month ago and it won't let me.

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By *ipgloss..Woman
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"We dont even open winks, we have 209 so far aiming for 1000 "

I'll take your 209 and raise you 322!

I just had something in my eye

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Quick question: how can the same person wink at me twice in one day?

I thought they could do that only if you had already deleted the first wink....

I did. But if I try to wink I sometimes get a message saying that I have already winked at them less than a month ago and it won't let me. "

Yeah, probably just means that person hasnt deleted a previous wink you've sent

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It was like wink all over you but it get you nowhere...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Winks, friend invites, looked at me...... I don't really bother checking any of them.

The type of people I prefer to meet send messages.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Winks, friend invites, looked at me...... I don't really bother checking any of them.

The type of people I prefer to meet send messages."

What sort though? Are they whimsical, changable, fickle or even capricious ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont even open winks, we have 209 so far aiming for 1000 "

210, just sent one to aid you on your journey to 1000

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

dont check them or friends requests, just mass delete, only time i check friends requests is if im expecting one. Mass delete button is great

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"dont check them or friends requests, just mass delete, only time i check friends requests is if im expecting one. Mass delete button is great"

How do you know that you are expecting one????

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