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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I tell you I’d have to kill you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Can’t let you in on my secret technique

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Top secret information...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Suck harder and wrap your lips over teeth, most end up with jaw ache before I cum so if I cum before that sets in then it's a good bj

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh ladies I missed the memo on this secret technique dammit

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't do it to make a man orgasm. I do it because I love doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focus on the balls to, also gripping firming from the bottom so it’s really throbbing works for me … just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha the secret arts! takes finessing and patience and lots of practice but most importantly, devotion

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Don’t presume the same technique works for everyone, the men folk don’t like that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

In all seriousness if you love it like I do it makes all the difference. It’s my favourite thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t presume the same technique works for everyone, the men folk don’t like that "

I have a clipboard and tick chart, I shall average out my results and go from there

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"In all seriousness if you love it like I do it makes all the difference. It’s my favourite thing to do x"

This it shows if you are enjoying it as much as they are

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Rhythm is key.

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

Eye contact! Dirty talk.. rapt enthusiasm, drooly, focusing on the frenulum, teasing, kissing...uuuggghh I love all of it!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've never once had any complaints so must be something right

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Don’t presume the same technique works for everyone, the men folk don’t like that

I have a clipboard and tick chart, I shall average out my results and go from there "

Now that is a very measured technique, I will do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it being done because she likes doing it then that adds to the overall experience. Other than that, don't neglect the balls and a wandering tongue never hurt anyone haha

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I don't do it to make a man orgasm. I do it because I love doing it."

You free this afternoon??

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't do it to make a man orgasm. I do it because I love doing it."
mmm ..my kind of girl

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I love giving blow jobs, it gets me incredibly turned on

Not sharing my secrets though

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By *aythreeMan
over a year ago

croydon

If anyone wants to practice I’m happy to lend a cock to help improve things

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

We don’t ask for much. Just a bit of interest will

do. An enthusiastic amateur - perfect!

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

From the point of view of a recipient, am oustandingbj should be treated as a form of art and not simply as a technique. I believe that we guys have different opinions/preferences on what is an oustanding bj. It is a art that needs time, effort and patience to be mastered and most importantly adjusted to the preferences/likes of each recipient. And one needs to put her heart on it cause it is nice to reach the destination but in the case of an outstanding bj it is the journey that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all seriousness if you love it like I do it makes all the difference. It’s my favourite thing to do x"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A finger in the ass!

Best ask for permission first

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Take your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one I ever had was fast, furious and she raked her teeth over my glans right at the moment I ejaculated. I swear it felt like I was going to cum forever because she kept sucking and I kept pumping.

I think I lost consciousness momentarily and she swallowed the lot.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"From the point of view of a recipient, am oustandingbj should be treated as a form of art and not simply as a technique. I believe that we guys have different opinions/preferences on what is an oustanding bj. It is a art that needs time, effort and patience to be mastered and most importantly adjusted to the preferences/likes of each recipient. And one needs to put her heart on it cause it is nice to reach the destination but in the case of an outstanding bj it is the journey that matters. "

It's cute that you think a woman would be giving the blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word, balls, do not neglect the balls, suck the balls and wank the shaft, do that thing where you suck the balls and pull your head away to stretch them balls out, when they’re at full extension, let them go, then go searching for them again, do that few times. Also half way into a blow job, just take the cock out and rest in on your face for a few seconds, look up, give a wink, then flick your head up and catch the cock in your mouth, then get to work again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But and I can’t emphasise this enough, there are no bad blowjobs, anytime I’m getting my cock sucked then it’s a good day, I don’t care how bad she is, the fact she’s willing to put my cock in her mouth is good enough for me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"One word, balls, do not neglect the balls, suck the balls and wank the shaft, do that thing where you suck the balls and pull your head away to stretch them balls out, when they’re at full extension, let them go, then go searching for them again, do that few times. Also half way into a blow job, just take the cock out and rest in on your face for a few seconds, look up, give a wink, then flick your head up and catch the cock in your mouth, then get to work again. "

Ah this made me think of dolphins.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It won't fit all the way in, so don't try to force it. Teeth hurt!

Don't get pissed off if the reality doesn't unfold like it did in your head. Sometimes women have watched too much porn too.

You have two hands as well as a mouth. Use all of them.

No matter how amazing your technique, your mouth will never feel as good as your vagina.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"

Nay for me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"
feel free... literally

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I absolutely love to receive a blow job, but don't cum, it doesn't mean I am not enjoying what someone is doing to me, if you make me shake uncontrollably you are doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rhythm is key. "

Now you've git me confused!

I thought the key was the secret and that rhythm was a dancer! Or did they lie to us in the 90s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never neglect the balls..Take your time. Nice deep and slow. Covering every nuk and cranny ..

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By *ightmovesTV/TS
over a year ago

Ipswich

Ask him what he likes, then do it.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Surely it's not a one size fits all approach? Is it not about responding to the individual and adapting your technique accordingly?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Rhythm is key.

Now you've git me confused!

I thought the key was the secret and that rhythm was a dancer! Or did they lie to us in the 90s? "

I thought it was a dancer, screw the 90's and their lies

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"From the point of view of a recipient, am oustandingbj should be treated as a form of art and not simply as a technique. I believe that we guys have different opinions/preferences on what is an oustanding bj. It is a art that needs time, effort and patience to be mastered and most importantly adjusted to the preferences/likes of each recipient. And one needs to put her heart on it cause it is nice to reach the destination but in the case of an outstanding bj it is the journey that matters.

It's cute that you think a woman would be giving the blow job. "

I have only experiences with women givers and I intend to keep it this way But by all means, this advice can apply to any other givers

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Surely it's not a one size fits all approach? Is it not about responding to the individual and adapting your technique accordingly? "

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Ask him what he likes, then do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex said why did I not share when she sucked me but was because she was not good @ sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never neglect the balls..Take your time. Nice deep and slow. Covering every nuk and cranny .."

Good advice

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Add jam

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping


"I don't do it to make a man orgasm. I do it because I love doing it."
that's what I like to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until his toes curl, then do it some more!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Pay attention to what he is enjoying.

And enjoy it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Add jam"

Strawberry, raspberry or marmalade?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make me cum you,ve done really fucking well

4 times in 27 years or so that's it.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Add jam

Strawberry, raspberry or marmalade?"

Damson

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping


"In all seriousness if you love it like I do it makes all the difference. It’s my favourite thing to do x

Me too "
I'm happy to share mine with the pair of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One word, balls, do not neglect the balls, suck the balls and wank the shaft, do that thing where you suck the balls and pull your head away to stretch them balls out, when they’re at full extension, let them go, then go searching for them again, do that few times. Also half way into a blow job, just take the cock out and rest in on your face for a few seconds, look up, give a wink, then flick your head up and catch the cock in your mouth, then get to work again. "

I am glad you have such fond memories of the blowjob I gave to you that you use my skills as the perfect blowjob example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"

Yay from me. Finger mirroring the rhythm of your mouth. Straight pathway to heaven

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Read his reactions and adjust accordingly...or just wake him up with a blow job and he'll be too sleepy to realise if it's not very good

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping


"Rhythm is key.

Now you've git me confused!

I thought the key was the secret and that rhythm was a dancer! Or did they lie to us in the 90s? "
wow ,amazing buttocks ,I know it's off topic ,but I keep seeing that delicious derier and had to compliment you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"
100% yay

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"

Not for me but I do enjoy looking at her ass with a nice thong bent right over, every now and again I’ll pull the thong

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

I have been asked this a few times.

It's down to natural talent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do it to make a man orgasm. I do it because I love doing it."

Beautiful paradox

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No hands, messy, throat fucking.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

Just turn up.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If I tell you I’d have to kill you "

This

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Ooohhhh ive mastered the skill of giving a great blow job now

using your hand wank in different direction to the way you suck, a bit of deep throating and lots of teasing with your tongue! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Top secret information..."

Please

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm happy to sacrifice myself, for the sake of science, to let all you ladies give me a blowjob to see who is best.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fair play, my wife is fantastic at it x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Slow and sensual to start and gradually build up speed. Also if you can hum anything by Mozart whilst you perform it, well that would be bloody outstanding

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By *icm0704871269Man
over a year ago

Stockton On Tees

I Like it when she licks up and down the shaft and the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One word, balls, do not neglect the balls, suck the balls and wank the shaft, do that thing where you suck the balls and pull your head away to stretch them balls out, when they’re at full extension, let them go, then go searching for them again, do that few times. Also half way into a blow job, just take the cock out and rest in on your face for a few seconds, look up, give a wink, then flick your head up and catch the cock in your mouth, then get to work again. "

I’m definetely going to practice that…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow and sensual to start and gradually build up speed. Also if you can hum anything by Mozart whilst you perform it, well that would be bloody outstanding "

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

Edging. Some women just attempt to deepthroat and think it's a guaranteed good one. Edging, nice and slowly bit of spit and you cant go wrong.

Once had a lover surprising insert her finger where I wasnt expecting. Certainly added a different element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to cum from oral... The few times i have done, the girl has gone deep and for quite a while..

I've also been really frustrated after some edging

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

Earned adoration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

If bj masterclass becomes a think I’m will to be the test dummy in the name of science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all seriousness if you love it like I do it makes all the difference. It’s my favourite thing to do x

Me too "

I would SO love to experience your enthusiasm !

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I never had any complaints from the ones i have given to in the past, some even come back wanting more at times

Its all in my secret technique those that know u know

And always all in the eye contact

Hence my name aswell

I eill soon b back when in feeling better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just insert a blob of wasabi into the foreskin. you'll get quite the reaction.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Just insert a blob of wasabi into the foreskin. you'll get quite the reaction."

Hopefully lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think about technique, I just enjoy what I'm doing, I love it

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I don't really think about technique, I just enjoy what I'm doing, I love it

"

Same lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy is different but my 'technique' if you will consists of lips, tongue, deep throat and a twist stroke.

Haven't had any complaints yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every guy is different but my 'technique' if you will consists of lips, tongue, deep throat and a twist stroke.

Haven't had any complaints yet "

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

For the classes, do you need live subjects?

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife has a few tricks and these are just a few...

Wank and suck at the same time.

Suck up and down the shaft while playing with the balls.

Rub the knob around her lips like a lipstick while wanking the cock.

Sucking the cock as if shes eating a corn on the cob.

Going deep on the cock and taking it out of her mouth and repeat like reloading a shotgun..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google the grapefruit technique

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Following just to be nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your tongue to apply pressure to the underneath as you move back and forth. Always gets the eyes rolling back..

-C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where I'm going wrong. No technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do men feel about a cheeky fingering of the Anus whilst receiving a blowjob? Yay or nay?

(Apologies if this has already been asked)

"

Yep, all good

Keep a rhythm in general, but a few faster bursts can be nice

Remember to suck/lick the balls (gently!)

If uncircumcised, pull the foreskin back. By all means work it back and forth, but don’t suck over it as that’s pointless.

Keep plenty of tongue contact, especially around the frenulum

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

As a question back to the ladies, how do you like to know that you have been successful and we are about to blow? A shoulder squeeze, a verbal warning, a hand gripping the hair or do you like the surprise?

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Sorry, not just ladies, anyone giving a BJ.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Ha ha, in the end the spunk is the measure. Lots of it, great job. Not much, hmm, OK job. None, poor job. Softie, failure.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Tongue….it’s not all about the sucking motion, use the flat of the tongue over the shaft, gentle flicks over the head

Rhythm…it’s not a race to make him explode, take your time, start slow, building pace then easing off again, tease him - take breaks and stroke him, kiss his inner thighs, don’t neglect the balls

Eye contact…don’t forget to look up at him, eye contact is a powerful tool, and keeps that feeling of connection, added bonus of seeing each other enjoying it

Speaking of enjoyment, make sure you are relaxed don’t pressure yourself to be like a porn star, if he can hear/see your enjoyment it’s likely to arouse him more

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a question back to the ladies, how do you like to know that you have been successful and we are about to blow? A shoulder squeeze, a verbal warning, a hand gripping the hair or do you like the surprise? "

Hand gripping the hair, picking up the speed a little.. you feel the body tense up and the cock go a little stiffer. When this happens, I know it's coming

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Tongue….it’s not all about the sucking motion, use the flat of the tongue over the shaft, gentle flicks over the head

Rhythm…it’s not a race to make him explode, take your time, start slow, building pace then easing off again, tease him - take breaks and stroke him, kiss his inner thighs, don’t neglect the balls

Eye contact…don’t forget to look up at him, eye contact is a powerful tool, and keeps that feeling of connection, added bonus of seeing each other enjoying it

Speaking of enjoyment, make sure you are relaxed don’t pressure yourself to be like a porn star, if he can hear/see your enjoyment it’s likely to arouse him more

Xx

"

Sounds fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

Sit on his face and say 'your turn'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue….it’s not all about the sucking motion, use the flat of the tongue over the shaft, gentle flicks over the head

Rhythm…it’s not a race to make him explode, take your time, start slow, building pace then easing off again, tease him - take breaks and stroke him, kiss his inner thighs, don’t neglect the balls

Eye contact…don’t forget to look up at him, eye contact is a powerful tool, and keeps that feeling of connection, added bonus of seeing each other enjoying it

Speaking of enjoyment, make sure you are relaxed don’t pressure yourself to be like a porn star, if he can hear/see your enjoyment it’s likely to arouse him more

Xx

"

I need to find somewhere to sit down and allow things to return to the way they should be after reading that

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

Don’t complain it’s taking too long

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I find men are all different so one technique doesn't work with all. I give them cos I enjoy giving them so just enjoy what your doing and if he's enjoying it you'll know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue….it’s not all about the sucking motion, use the flat of the tongue over the shaft, gentle flicks over the head

Rhythm…it’s not a race to make him explode, take your time, start slow, building pace then easing off again, tease him - take breaks and stroke him, kiss his inner thighs, don’t neglect the balls

Eye contact…don’t forget to look up at him, eye contact is a powerful tool, and keeps that feeling of connection, added bonus of seeing each other enjoying it

Speaking of enjoyment, make sure you are relaxed don’t pressure yourself to be like a porn star, if he can hear/see your enjoyment it’s likely to arouse him more

Xx

"

Agreed nothing turns me on more than a woman enjoying herself so if you show you're enjoying something that's enjoyable for me but only 2 women have made me cum with their mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer it takes for me to cum the better the bj. Love that feeling of being really hard and being licked and sucked for ages.

I’m available for practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like ball play, it'll be down to preference. But for me (B), hell yes, why not two?

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By *ereforthefun1Couple
over a year ago

derby

I don’t allow Mr to cum love to have my tits pushed against his balls while I play with the head in my mouth

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, the following reassures that I’m doing a good job.

A surprised “Woah! Fuck!” exclamation when I get started.

Toes curling, thigh muscles flexing, hips squirming.

“Stop! Stop! Stop!… slow down.” Midway through.

“Wait! I don’t want to come yet… oh shit, too late”

And I have had a few “Gay guys ARE better!” at the end. I mean, there’s no way to know that for sure, other than a Zoolander style suck-off. But it does put a smile on my face.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I think you'd thrash the ladies in a Zoolander suck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One tip is to keep your lips loose so that they softly wrap around. Tight lips, or no lips isn’t nice for anyone. Go slow and suck it like you’re sucking a Calypso ice lolly - soft lips, full lips, try not to drip any radioactive orange ice lolly food colouring on your white linen pants.

Only try to deep throat average girth cocks. Know your limits. Any guy with a hefty shaft won’t appreciate you trying to do your best porn impression and shredding up his cock head on your back molars.

Actually suck a little bit. Create a bit of a vacuum in your mouth.

Use your hands to put a bit of pressure on the base of his cock. Especially at the sides where the Corpus Cavernosum are (the soft tissue that gets hard when erect). Putting pressure there pushes a bit more blood in the tissue and increases the ejaculate pressure, which, in turn, increases sensitivity at the head. Don’t ask me how it does this, it just does.

Slide your fingers up and down the shaft, in the same rhythm as your sucking rhythm. The sliding bit feels nice, and, again, increases pressure on the Corpus Cavernosum. And if you really want to shine them on, with an almost tickle amount of pressure, use an “OK” sign with your fingers to lightly rub the cock head (especially the bottom bit, over the frenulum (banjo string), on the up-stroke of your action.

Yes, I have thought about this a lot. Yes, I had to pass exams on the matter so that I could receive my official gay card and welcome pack through the post. Yes, I got an A*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'd thrash the ladies in a Zoolander suck off"

*Flicks hair and giggles*

Well, I don’t like to blow my own , but…. wait! … pun not intended!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I hope he loves it, I'm almost always doing it because I love it.

His reactions, the feeling of him in my mouth and my hands, when I take him deeper to feel him against the back of my throat and then sliding my mouth all the way back to the tip before tasting how much he wants me... Turns me on so so much. Even more so if he's loud

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

This thread has reminded me I need to add ‘Knee trembling bj’ to my sex bucket list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread has reminded me I need to add ‘Knee trembling bj’ to my sex bucket list "

Surely you've had one of those

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many wonderful ideas now I am nowhere near a cock to try them out. Keep it coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many wonderful ideas now I am nowhere near a cock to try them out. Keep it coming "

But once you are that guy is going to get his mind blown away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find men are all different so one technique doesn't work with all. I give them cos I enjoy giving them so just enjoy what your doing and if he's enjoying it you'll know "

That's the way to be

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"This thread has reminded me I need to add ‘Knee trembling bj’ to my sex bucket list

Surely you've had one of those "

I genuinely haven't.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget the perenium…. Stroking it while sucking, never met a man yet that doesn’t shiver when you touch it lightly

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "

You just need to keep practicing Alder, I’m willing to selflessly offer my cock to practice on.

You’re welcome!

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

I like my cock held firmly.

Squeezed stroked dipped sucked and licked

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I always think if he has cum then it must have been 'ok'. What tips do you all have to take it from satisfactory to outstanding. "
Cumming and orgasms are very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t gag lol xxx

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Erm feel free to line up and attempt to make me climax orally, it's a very rare occurrence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lips are sealed

I will say this.. enjoying it has half the battle. If you have someone who is happy for you to try different techniques thats a big help.. just try different things, licking, sucking, kissing, nibbling, gentle pulling.. until you find a rhythm that you enjoy and build on it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"My lips are sealed

I will say this.. enjoying it has half the battle. If you have someone who is happy for you to try different techniques thats a big help.. just try different things, licking, sucking, kissing, nibbling, gentle pulling.. until you find a rhythm that you enjoy and build on it "

If you lips are sealed there are other options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and don't forget to include a little bit of edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum from a BJ so I’m keeping an eye on this thread. Lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

This thread is giving me a major craving

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Don't stop mid cum..

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Just have fun with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is giving me a major craving "

Me too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"This thread is giving me a major craving

Me too "

You 2 need a trip to Peterborough.

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington

I would consider a blow job beyond amazing if I could actually cum from one. Sadly I haven't been able to once, but don't get me wrong though as I do love em.

Oh well, I suppose that makes me a great practice dummy if anyone ever wants to brush up on their techniques.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

There’s too many posts for me to read it all, so apologies if this is duplicitous.

Don’t forget the shaft. It’s not all about the head and scrotum. Try licking and sucking on the side of the shaft too.

You don’t have to swallow, but what ever you do, don’t stop at the critical moment.

That’s my input, anyway!

Gbat.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

In my experience a bj is better if she does not use her hand. Mouth and tongue only. Plenty of licking all over. Deep throat is a bonus but not essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many wonderful ideas now I am nowhere near a cock to try them out. Keep it coming "

You're never more than 50m from a cock. Or is that a rat, I can never remember?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is giving me a major craving "

I never made Major, will you settle for a Captain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as I hope he loves it, I'm almost always doing it because I love it.

His reactions, the feeling of him in my mouth and my hands, when I take him deeper to feel him against the back of my throat and then sliding my mouth all the way back to the tip before tasting how much he wants me... Turns me on so so much. Even more so if he's loud "

The giver enjoying what they are doing is the best thing

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool "

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though "

Did that this morning . They just need a short break, then go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d settle for satisfactory at this moment tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd have to be pretty terrible at blow jobs to not make me cum. I'm yet to meet anyone that can't make me cum!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though

Did that this morning . They just need a short break, then go again "

Lucky, LUCKY man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though

Did that this morning . They just need a short break, then go again

Lucky, LUCKY man! "

Lucky me, that’s my protein intake sorted for the day

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

The most outstanding BJ a woman can give is convincing a guy it would be outstanding if she did but not actually doing it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though

Did that this morning . They just need a short break, then go again

Lucky, LUCKY man!

Lucky me, that’s my protein intake sorted for the day "

Thinking back now, the last time a woman allowed me to cum in her mouth would be 8 years ago…….

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though "

C often just gives me oral without reciprocation - she’s enjoy it just as much as I do and has often cum whilst I’m in her mouth with my not touching her.

I think knowing they are enjoying rather than enduring it is the key to a great blowjob…and just a variety of different options like lying down, being astride her face, her head hanging off the bed, cumming down her throat, in her mouth, on her tongue.

I’m like a kid in a sweet shop

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male of course) have only cum once from a blow job, many many moons ago, and that's because she wanked me vigorously whilst sucking me off.

Many women claim to be experts at giving oral but I've found that, for me, these claims are false, and let's be honest, it's a very rare man who will tell a woman she was crap. The exception to this would be if she was a regular, but you wouldn't tell her she was poor, you'd just guide her and tell her how you like it.

Now Jane was good from the start. She has amazing tongue action that can be used on my knob or nipples, but, she has developed this technique that is soooooo good and I just smile when I see the reaction of another chap she is with because I know he's never experienced anything like it.

I often tell her, and mean it, that's she's the best I've ever had, and that conclusion is from a very large sample pool

I’ve yet to meet a woman who was happy to just give a guy a bj to completion. I think they think that once you have cum, that’s playtime over, and they want penetration more than anything?

Well done you, for finding Jane though

C often just gives me oral without reciprocation - she’s enjoy it just as much as I do and has often cum whilst I’m in her mouth with my not touching her.

I think knowing they are enjoying rather than enduring it is the key to a great blowjob…and just a variety of different options like lying down, being astride her face, her head hanging off the bed, cumming down her throat, in her mouth, on her tongue.

I’m like a kid in a sweet shop

K"

Agreed, and it’s the pure act of giving someone else that pleasure, it’s awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reaching orgasm isn’t a prerequisite for me to class it as a good blowjob. I struggle to cum from oral (and no that’s not a challenge to the ladies) for me it’s a visual thing as much as physical. Watching a woman who is clearly enjoying herself is a major turn on. But I’m one of those strange blokes who doesn’t like a woman gagging etc. Don’t forget the balls (licking is better than sucking) and a cheeky (lubricated) finger is always welcome.

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By *entGent75Man
over a year ago

Dartford


"Don’t presume the same technique works for everyone, the men folk don’t like that "

Finally! , lol

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