FabSwingers.com forum: Why is FAB over run with men that have c0cks out?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not odd typing it - many others have typed the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its because guys would love to see lots of rude pictures and assume the ladies want to see them as much.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Because men are visually aroused and maybe assume women are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Besides Dave and Sally from up the road are much less likely to recognise your cock than your face and drop you in it with the missus

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Can you give me a list of other ways I should live my life, manage my swinging profile and conduct myself, that are suitable for you?

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to balance out the discussion....

do men want to see private parts of females?

If not, then we really have got this whole concept, with each other, so wrong

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Sometimes it’s a battle to the bottom. Trying to sell yourself on here is no easy task and because a lot of men think with theirs….

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It because Mary loves Dick

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It because Mary loves Dick

Fanny loves Dick and Dick loves Fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the chosen online hang-out for the Cock Fanciers Association.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Because men don't have boobs. Women have a choice of what to show in order to make a good first impression. I've opted for my bum as it's a pretty good one.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I like my cock shots. Some other people do, some other people don't. I don't mind if they don't.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women put boobs, ass and sometimes vagina!

Why some men feel the need to bash another man profile.?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Women put boobs, ass and sometimes vagina!

Why some men feel the need to bash another man profile.? "

Point scoring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men that have these pics and send them to women are absolutely clueless and most likely don't come on the forums so they don't even know how ridiculous they are being

they just assume that's what the site is about and then they wonder why they can't even get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you give me a list of other ways I should live my life, manage my swinging profile and conduct myself, that are suitable for you?

Cheers

DD "

Can you forward this on to me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women put boobs, ass and sometimes vagina!

Why some men feel the need to bash another man profile.? "

So the laydeez see what enlightened men they are and the bloke ends up knee deep in clunge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The men that have these pics and send them to women are absolutely clueless and most likely don't come on the forums so they don't even know how ridiculous they are being

they just assume that's what the site is about and then they wonder why they can't even get a reply! "

Seen a few on forums, it does put me off but it’s their choices.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Can you give me a list of other ways I should live my life, manage my swinging profile and conduct myself, that are suitable for you?

Cheers

Can you forward this on to me please."

No problem will do a round Robin, just put a cock pic as your avatar to indicate whether you have had it.

Now if you don’t mind I’m off to find an over-exposed black and white, grainy face pic to use as my avatar. I hear it’s what the ladies like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over...."

Is it just cocks, or would you say the say to the woman who have the pussy and in session pictures on public display. Or have you picked up the census of fab fourm generally is don't rock out with your cock out and want to look like a good little boy for them?

#freethepussy #freethecock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over...."

Fab allows it so people do it…

You do you and let them do them.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Could it be that they are letting you know, they are a dick!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Let people do what they want and stop discouraging them. Makes it so much easier to avoid the ones you’re not interested in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just to balance out the discussion....

do men want to see private parts of females?

If not, then we really have got this whole concept, with each other, so wrong

I also decided to take the same approach, I do assume the role of devil's advocate often, usually I just don't let them know I'm doing so to balance the discussion

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

Because the weather is now hot?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Why?

Men tend to be very visual.

I assume that the owner of said cock is very proud of it, and thinks that this essentially being a sex site, will entice the ladies.

It takes a little while to get used to having interactions on the forum with disembodied genitalia

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I should add, that there's plenty of couples and ladies that have very genitalia focused photos too.

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi tendencies

You'd be happy to look

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If you don’t like it then just scroll past it’s really not that hard ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty without cock pictures - So what you do is pass those by that aren’t for you… What others choose to do is entirely up to them, just move on if you don’t like it…

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If you don’t like it then just scroll past it’s really not that hard .."

. I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a safe place for cocks. Where else you gonna get them out? Free the cock.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If someone doesn’t want to meet me because

a) I have cock pic as an avatar or

b) have cock pics in my public’s photos

Then I would say “good, excellent in fact, we are obviously far apart when it comes to this kind of thing”

I would definitely not want to meet a woman that did not enjoy the visual, exhibitionist side of this lifestyle. Nor would I want to meet a woman that felt it acceptable to demand that my profile conformed to their idea of what should be on a profile. Christ. I’ve never judged someone so flippantly or off-handedly, I respect peoples choices, without judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women put boobs, ass and sometimes vagina!

Why some men feel the need to bash another man profile.? "

Was just about to say the same thing...Why use the site if your going to complain about naked pictures

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

People like to flash their personals on a sex site I imagine

and if you are going to do it, better here than Tesco’s

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

"People like to flash their personals on a sex site I imagine

and if you are going to do it, better here than Tesco’s

Other supermarkets are available....

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Because men are visually aroused and maybe assume women are too.

This.. same as when they've got pics of their dicks in other women.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

I don't like to see a profile that's all cock pics.

However, not my profile, not my business.

IMHO there's way too much telling other people how they should run their profiles.

If I don't like Profile A, I'll pass it by without a word.

Don't like ours, feel free to do the same.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"People like to flash their personals on a sex site I imagine

and if you are going to do it, better here than Tesco’s

Other supermarkets are available....

Well, it did happen in my local Sainsbury’s so …

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"People like to flash their personals on a sex site I imagine

and if you are going to do it, better here than Tesco’s

Other supermarkets are available....

Well, it did happen in my local Sainsbury’s so …

Was you bending over into the freezer again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Sir/ Madam

Why oh why must I have to endure seeing cocks and the such like on a site where people are looking for sex, if I wanted to see cocks I would very much ask to see them, I don’t wish to view them while im browsing, tucking into my cous cous. However vaginas are fine, no problem with vaginas whatsoever, but men please keep your cocks in your pants.

Yours outraged and disgruntled.

Somewhere in the Home Counties.

P.S Just to clarify once again, vaginas good, cocks bad.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"If you don’t like it then just scroll past it’s really not that hard ..

. I see what you did there "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"People like to flash their personals on a sex site I imagine

and if you are going to do it, better here than Tesco’s

Other supermarkets are available....

Well, it did happen in my local Sainsbury’s so …

Was you bending over into the freezer again?

Ssshhh don’t tell

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I would never put my cock on my profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm missing something, but why does this bother you OP?

If you're someone who doesn't engage in this behaviour, and your observations are that the majority of those you would be interested in aren't fabs of it, then surely, those that choose to show such images are actually doing you a favour - by eliminating themselves as competition and thereby improving your own prospects.

Or is it perhaps that you're bemoaning the success some of them have had here whilst you struggle yourself?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I think its because guys would love to see lots of rude pictures and assume the ladies want to see them as much. "

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Dear Sir/ Madam

Yours outraged and disgruntled.

Somewhere in the Home Counties.

P.S Just to clarify once again, vaginas good, cocks bad.

I don't want to see vaginas either while I'm browsing

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I don't like to see a profile that's all cock pics.

However, not my profile, not my business.

IMHO there's way too much telling other people how they should run their profiles.

If I don't like Profile A, I'll pass it by without a word.

Don't like ours, feel free to do the same.

Here here, surely we should tailor our profile to demonstrate who we are, what we like, I don’t want to sleep with everyone on the site, I want to sleep with people that have a similar mindset to me, the same outlook (cue “so your a cock looking for cocks” comment)

Tailoring your profile, not to how you like to express yourself but to how other people WANT you to express yourself, seems a little deceptive and smacks of “I want to sleep with the most amount of people possible, regardless of a shared sexual motivation/mentality”. Which is cool. If numbers or notches is what turns you on, then own that shit.

But I doubt you will see them put “I just want to sleep with everyone I can really, which is why I have demonstrated no individual desires or thought in my profile and left it as generally inoffensive as possible” on their profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I like cock pics.

People with cock pics can converse too

Women and couples may have boobs and fuds on show, do you think the same about them?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My profile pic currently includes my cock because the photo is glorious and my cock looks divine.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over...."

Do you moan like this aboyt women with their tits or arsed out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that when I see so much of something, I become desensitised. It’s no longer exciting or intriguing to see a dick, it’s like “yeah, another dick”. It’s a shame really but such is modern life.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over...."

Maybe the rest of the body isn't as best as their cock. Tbh I love cock so definitely want to see the goods before trying it out

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"The men that have these pics and send them to women are absolutely clueless and most likely don't come on the forums so they don't even know how ridiculous they are being they just assume that's what the site is about and then they wonder why they can't even get a reply! "

I've got shots of me in action.

I've got full body nude shots of me.

In my private pics I've got erection pictures.

Some women want to see them, some men want to see them.

I get replies.

I join in on the forums. (It's a great place to meet people!).

I also get that it wouldn't suit you but that's okay, there are more than enough horses for plenty of courses here.

Gbat

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pure and simply because they can.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What colour do virtue signals flash?

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because it's their profile and they can put whatever they want on it just like everyone on here is free to put up whatever pics of themselves that they want to .I don't see the need to knock others because of pics they choose and just because it's not what you like or want does not mean it's not what appeals to others on here. Plenty of people on here like dick pics .

It's easy enough to ignore the profiles that don't appeal to you. And threads demeaning others in order to try and boost your own rarely work in your favour from what I've seen. It certainly makes me roll my eyes at the other guys a crap and I'm different routine on here. But hey that's just me it night work for others.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

My cock is my single greatest attribute. Better than my face, better than the rest of my body, and definitely better than my personality.

If I hadn't learned that a lot of women hate dick photos, I'd probably have posted pictures of it too.

So yeah, I don't do this myself, but I completely understand why someone else would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because men don't have boobs. Women have a choice of what to show in order to make a good first impression. I've opted for my bum as it's a pretty good one."
it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever achieves what they set out for on these forums it's like it's very own devine comedy.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"No one ever achieves what they set out for on these forums it's like it's very own devine comedy."

It is beautiful though is it not, it’s threads like these that send me on one of my “doesn’t like cock pics” blocking frenzies

. Oooh the power!!

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Put simply, it’s their profile and they can do and show what they like with it.

I get my cock out on mine as it’s part of me, for better or worse.

Some people like cock shots, some don’t so I presume the ones that don’t will just scroll on by. You come to realise you cannot please everyone in here so I think it’s best to just be yourself and if that means you like getting your cock out go for it, if you don’t…we’ll then don't.

The forums are only a small part of fab so I imagine they’re are plenty of of non forum members who don’t mind seeing another’s member, member so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Why oh why’ sounds like an opening to a Points of View letter.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"‘Why oh why’ sounds like an opening to a Points of View letter. "

I considered writing to Points of View last week, on a matter of microbiological inaccuracy

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"I like cock pics.

People with cock pics can converse too

Women and couples may have boobs and fuds on show, do you think the same about them?"

I hope you've got your filters up.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

So they can see the goods before deciding if they want to ride it .

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

Herts

Just to play Devil’s Advocate:

This is a site predominately centred around sex and the participation of sex. Yes Men are generally visually stimulated and believe it or not some women on here do like visual stimulus too. I’m prepared to get slated for this but there’s a rank hypocrisy as some of the same women who will put zero effort into their profile but a short list of what they don’t want yet will have pictures of their private parts?

This ‘pile-on’ on Men by men is a little weird. I agree in the criticism of creeps & those guys who are abusive but these guys are not bothering anyone. You can filter what photos you want to see, don’t like looking at cocks, don’t look. I can understand that women don’t like a profile pic of a cock and balls but betting a single guy on here is a shit-show and the market is skewed out of your favour so guys get a bit desperate…fair dinkum.

But recently seeing guys pile-on other guys is a bit weak in my eyes. If a guy is doing something abusive report him. Just got his cock out…leave be, scroll on. You never read the women going after each other for what they have (maybe because they are the ‘power brokers’ in this market) but guys doing it seems a bit weird as if you’re trying to say you’rea ‘nice guy’ and not a creep.

What do I know?

Discourse is great and these forums are the best place to have it. But if you’re not here to be around consenting adults who choose to participate in and socialise around the participation acquisition or voyeurism of sex then may I suggest Discord great sure full of people chatting about a whole range of different subjects.

Let the Willy wavers wave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ever achieves what they set out for on these forums it's like it's very own devine comedy.

It is beautiful though is it not, it’s threads like these that send me on one of my “doesn’t like cock pics” blocking frenzies

. Oooh the power!! "

Don't let it consume you young padawan, stay always weary and do not stray far from the light.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"No one ever achieves what they set out for on these forums it's like it's very own devine comedy.

It is beautiful though is it not, it’s threads like these that send me on one of my “doesn’t like cock pics” blocking frenzies

. Oooh the power!!

Don't let it consume you young padawan, stay always weary and do not stray far from the light."

You called me “young”. You ain’t getting blocked

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Just to play Devil’s Advocate:

What do I know?

Let the Willy wavers wave."

I'm not going to slate you but your comment about never seeing women going after other women for what they have shows a great deal of naivety on your part.

This happens every single day on here as well as IRL.

Women are more than capable of cocking a leg against a lamp post but are also much more subtle in how they attack other women.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have only a couple set to public so those that want to see it can and those that don't want to see it just shouldn't look

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Works both ways, personally I'm more offended by an inside out vagina on zoom 200%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you coming back OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it either OP...sending unsolicited Dick-Pics with a `hey` or `hi`.... It baffles me

True, cos so many have stated no dick pics in a 1st msg, to me it's classless sending very close up dick pics with absolutely nothing else showing....wait till a convo has developed at least .... No need whatsoever to shove your Dick in our faces unsolicitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"‘Why oh why’ sounds like an opening to a Points of View letter. "

Or a little like a Kate Bush number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is the only thing I got going for me (even that is average at best).

No one is forced to look at the pictures on my profile or yours ??

I do however agree that sending a picture of your cock in the first message or any message without it being asked for or discussed first is a little weird but again it won't affect you ?

It's a site for adults and if someone wants to get their cock out or their tits or whatever its completely up to them..

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Just to play Devil’s Advocate:

What do I know?

Let the Willy wavers wave.

I'm not going to slate you but your comment about never seeing women going after other women for what they have shows a great deal of naivety on your part.

This happens every single day on here as well as IRL.

Women are more than capable of cocking a leg against a lamp post but are also much more subtle in how they attack other women. "

I’m very aware but you never see overt attacks by women on other women that specifically aim to court some collective ‘point scoring’ from the opposite sex

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

Very broad statement to assume all men are the same ???

I know the world doesn't revolve around my cock.. the only thing around my cock is normally my hand.

In the year 2021 you'd think an adult site full of adults would be able to have a discussion/debate with out labeling every single male under one bracket it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

Bit harsh to be fair. Maybe you’re meeting the wrong men.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I did say "generally". And I was referring to the cock out men in here, not ALL men.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I personally don't like cock pics. Not many women on here have seen mine.

I rarely even put them in my friends pics.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

I happen to know you are not the spokesperson for all women, many, many women like to see a cock pic on a profile, you don’t. That’s fine but try not to shame people who do, eh?

I don’t think the world revolves around my cock. But it is a big part of my activities in this lifestyle, hence it’s on display.

I don’t act in a way that “please me” unless I am buying something for myself. I act in a way that pleases “us” when I am taking part in a lifestyle activity.

There are many types of photos that do nothing for me, I don’t feel the need to shame the people that show them. That’s their choice, to attract people of a similar mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty simple if you don't like it then simply ignore. Live and let be. Everybody here has a different perspective on what they like. I personally love a well dressed lady in lingerie but I will happily look at a nice pair of fits with no objection...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

Most of the men I know are not like that at all both on here and in my life outside of fab.

Even after all this time on fab I still find it so ironic that women make these sweeping statements and seem so unhappy with the men on here yet they are still here. And if a man was to make a comment like this he would get absolutely ripped to shreds.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Because may be there cock is better than there face

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock.

Most of the men I know are not like that at all both on here and in my life outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your problem that when your perving at the new pictures as you claim its not of stuff you want to see ? Would you be making this thread if it was just full of pussy pictures ? I highly doubt it.

Maybe I should change my profile picture and make a thread on a subject that I feel single ladies and couples want to hear in hope of some attention

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a "you do you and I'll do me" approach to fab. Seems to be a lot of Karen's and Ken's to bothered about what others are doing lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though."

What?! Put your nekkid pics back up and tell whoever it is to go get stuffed! Your profile is your own - put what you like on it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Mr Reality, you have nothing to be ashamed of, my friend.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though."

Wow. Some people really are shits on here!

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Because some like them

The world doesn’t revolve around you and we try to accommodate a variety of folks on this site.

Don’t like them, don’t look, scroll past.

I don’t like seafood, but I’m not going to think less of a restaurant for having it on the menus.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Well put. Many people have self esteem issues and many people overcome that in a thousand ways. I literally hate my skinny frame, but it’s what I’ve got. So I post it and cringe when I do, I offset that cringe by posting pics of my cock, something I am happy with the way it looks.

If they banned cock pics as avatars or in my public gallery I would leave, because I would be extremely self conscious about my bodies fallings and just be left with “skinny guy” pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf they apologised when they realised they'd upset me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though."

No you shouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though.

Wow. Some people really are shits on here!"

Yep I am a real shit

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

If they banned cock pics as avatars or in my public gallery I would leave, because I would be extremely self conscious about my bodies fallings and just be left with “skinny guy” pics.

Believe it or not, some of us really dig "skinny" guys. Check out the guy I married and can't keep my hands off...

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Mr Reality, you have nothing to be ashamed of, my friend."

Certainly not.

Your posts are always well thought out & never negative.

You seem an all round top chap! X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though.

Wow. Some people really are shits on here!

Yep I am a real shit"

Are you? I wouldn’t say so from what I’ve seen of you.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I never had a cock pic on my profile because there's more to me than that one appendage.

Then I decided that while the above is true the fact is I do actually have a cock and as long as I'm not slapping viewers in the face with it why shouldn't I have a pic or two of it?

I don't send it to anyone and if people are offended by me having one they haven't said and they must be easily offended. In fact any cock related feedback has been all positive.

I've spent the greatest part of my life being ashamed of my body and having no self esteem so no-one on here is taking that away from me now that I have found it.

Good for you. Show what you like, stuff them

I was told recently that my naked pics made someone feel awkward. That really upset me so now I have no pics barr one on show....shouldn't have to though."

Jeez! Your pics are lovely & classy. Just like you

Sorry that someone said that to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my cock pic it makes people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over...."

Because since they were born, their dick is their best friend.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

I think the word "some" could have been used a few times there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg.

A swingers sex site with men with their cocks out! Hold the press.

Sick of this sanctimonious attitude.

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By *ightmovesTV/TS
over a year ago

Ipswich

Many men type with their cocks , so its handy to photograph it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I've been with blokey type thing a significant amount of time now and I love the fact he has never sent me a photo of his cock.

I love it, worship it and adore it but love that he doesn't feel the need to send me pic of it all the time.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think it's something to do with gravity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I am an odd one typing this ?????

I am prepared to get slated ??

Why oh why is FAB overrun without men with their clocks out ?

It seems every pic is them with their di cks when you browse the new public photos section.

I have heard many message couples and woman with pictures of their di cks and make no effort to converse.

Seriously?

Is it too much to say hi and converse with a few normal pics before sending your cock ?

Rant over....

Because since they were born, their dick is their best friend."

You are right tbh! It’s a physical thing since we have to hold it to piss, we learn from an early age that shaking it or pull the skin up and down it kind of pleasurable

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Tbf they apologised when they realised they'd upset me."

That's not the point. They shouldn't have said it. If they are awkward about nudity, why the hell did they sign up to a sex site?

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"‘Why oh why’

Or a little like a Kate Bush number"

UNBELIEVABLE!

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

I like it OP. Each to thier own I suppose.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Men (generally) think and act in a way that pleases them. They don't think about what women want or what we will find attractive.

They like seeing explicit images so they show explicit images. They think the world revolves around their cock so they show their cock."

This would be very true if your view represented all women’s views. Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.. not even in private photos, if they want to know they can come find out.. air of mystery and all that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send pictures of my cock unless asked. It’s not something that adds anything to the profile. Annoyingly a pic of my dick got fabbed. I think us guys include dick pics because they look cool. Bu t I’m rebooting my pics in a few months, may get rid of the dick pics. Something no one ever asked for in forums, who’s got the best dick pic. But I do agree us guys are visual creatures and think everyone else is too.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Can you give me a list of other ways I should live my life, manage my swinging profile and conduct myself, that are suitable for you?

Cheers

Can you forward this on to me please.

No problem will do a round Robin, just put a cock pic as your avatar to indicate whether you have had it.

Now if you don’t mind I’m off to find an over-exposed black and white, grainy face pic to use as my avatar. I hear it’s what the ladies like. "

Prefer a decent face pic to a cock

Pic any day. Seen one seen them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you give me a list of other ways I should live my life, manage my swinging profile and conduct myself, that are suitable for you?

Cheers

DD "

Touchy

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